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420chan is Getting Overhauled - Changelog/Bug Report/Request Thread (Updated July 26)

Girlfriend made out with her best friend

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- Sun, 28 Apr 2019 19:45:10 EST Qoe2oia4 No.529052
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My girl (monogamous relationship) last night had a make out session with her female best friend, she apparently didn't think that making out with someone was crossing a line... At this point I'm wondering what she hasn't told me. I had a frank conversation with her telling her that I'm really unhappy with the whole situation and am about to break up with her- she was in tears apologizing but part of me thinks that she still feels the make out session wasn't really wrong and that she was justified in doing it as part of connecting with people. That's what I gathered from her apology.

She's also about to go on a 2 month trip with another group of people, leaving in a week. At this point I don't trust her and have pretty much decided I am going to break it off with her for good before she leaves, especially considering the trip and timing of this. The best friend has a boyfriend that apparently is cool with this stuff- I understand but it's not for me. At this point it seems that she has decided unilaterally that she can do whatever she wants short of penetrative sex in the name of making connections and experiences with others, despite agreeing to be monogamous many months ago. This seems like a load of crap to me, pretending not to understand what it means to be exclusive with a partner.

Is there anybody that thinks I should not break it off with her? We have been dating a little over a year now so because of the time I invested I'm taking a day to think about it and ask some random internet strangers...

Also before you suggest it the best friend is not attractive at all so threesome is off the table!
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Caroline Smallham - Wed, 05 Jun 2019 01:54:53 EST Tuxc9GLs No.529739 Reply
>>529052

Thanks for the input everyone. I should have stuck to my guns and just broken up permanently. The night before her trip she went skinny dipping with a 2 guys and a girl that I have met once and she barely knows, now she is gone and I don't trust her at all. Being a fucking idiot I still gave her a ride to the airport and my car broke down so I've been essentially homeless for the past week because of this bullshit driving to another city so she could save a couple hundred bucks for her plane ticket.

She is in a Western european country and apparently can't figure out how to use a phone over there so we only communicate through a facebook message once a day. Essentially, I'm a fucking moron that looked through so many red flags and advice on this thread that told me to do it yet I still gave her more chances that showed she's just a people user that didn't give a fuck about anything.

For the people that commended me for having standards, I didn't, and I should have. Because now I'm an idiot with a "girlfriend" in Europe that I have spent all my savings on repairing my car after driving her to an airport in another city and she won't even talk to me on the phone while I'm couchsurfing and spending what little I have left on a hotel rooms when I can't find a place to stay.

Behavioral Sink

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- Tue, 04 Jun 2019 16:40:06 EST TKorYOiK No.529736
File: 1559680806070.jpg -(50305B / 49.13KB, 400x600) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Behavioral Sink
Yeah so I left town and it was exactly what I needed. I hate life a lot less and I feel less uptight. I was hating on my country on the future and I realized that I don't hate my country I just hate the city I live in. I left before but it's been awhile since I've taken a trip.

I'm experiencing the real behavioral sink problem down here in LaLaland:
>The ethologist John B. Calhoun coined the term "behavioral sink" to describe the collapse in behavior which resulted from overcrowding.

anxiety and tism

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- Mon, 03 Jun 2019 23:27:24 EST G1XpjQqa No.529716
File: 1559618844107.jpg -(108357B / 105.82KB, 519x620) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. anxiety and tism
Everyday is a struggle

a struggle of being concerned over whether or not people in my immediate vicinity think I'm weird. a deep self loathing that I am too beta to approach women. a sense of dread of how the fuck I am ever going to get a job, even if I do get a degree. constant angst over all the bad posts I've made on social media and how they're going to come back to haunt me (for example, when I was 12 I had an edgy stormfront phase and uploaded cringe shit to youtube but forgot the password and email to said you tube account).

Although I have anxiety and 'tism issues, I don't like blaming shit on those "disabilities" because honestly I could be doing better... Or not I dunno.

>inb4 have you tried SSRIs

yeah and they're fucking useless. I wish I had some goddamn benzos but my psych won't give me any. He has no problem giving me adderall but asking for even a weak benzo like valium is apparently asking for too fucking much
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Eliza Suvingbad - Tue, 04 Jun 2019 08:22:39 EST hiKxQg3e No.529718 Reply
smoke weed drop lucy and go to a rave
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Barnaby Grandhood - Tue, 04 Jun 2019 12:10:40 EST 2dpbGRKS No.529722 Reply
grow up
no one cares about you that much
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Shit Drickleditch - Tue, 04 Jun 2019 14:32:17 EST Nocxtt2B No.529735 Reply
don't know what to say OP but i feel ya and i hope you feel better soon

there is always therapy / counselling but a lot of therapist haven't got a clue about enthusiasm and they pathologise harmless enthusiastic traits. like you go in for anxiety and they are like "hey look me in the eye" ...like that's helpful?
so you got to find someone that actually understands that there is nothing wrong with the vast majority of enthusiastic traits, even if there was something wrong, there'd be no way to change it, but for crying out loud there is nothing wrong with using different vocal pitch or looking at someone's hands when you talk to them... they act like i could cure cancer but it would mean nothing because hey, i won't look them in the eye... sorry i made this all about me

I wanna hurt myself

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- Tue, 04 Jun 2019 12:20:34 EST +O5E8/Os No.529724
File: 1559665234823.jpg -(81423B / 79.51KB, 720x537) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I wanna hurt myself
Seriously very soon

Im going to fucking stab myself just to focus the pain and create some sense in my world because we clearly have none whatsoever.

I have felt urges to not just cut myself but completely slice my limbs open, if not fucking stab myself and burn myself etc.


I have felt so tense lately, so intense and angry, and everyone around me can see it.

I just started two new jobs, one is a shitshow due to the management’s complete ignorance of their own computer system/training programs not loading correctly and BOTH jobs paycards are not working. I just want to open a single bank account at a local credit union to avoid monthly fees and have both jobs direct deposit my pays into that one card so I can be done with this kind of idiocy.


I already was teetering on the edge as is, but now I just wanna fucking hurt myself and spare the world around me any more discomfort I cause


even the mentally ill drunks at the shelter consider me as the fuckin crazy guy.


What the fuck, man? what the fuck.
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Nigel Pellyham - Tue, 04 Jun 2019 13:01:07 EST +O5E8/Os No.529730 Reply
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>>529728
people keep directing me that way but man

why in fuck-all reality would I wanna serve a country and people whom I fucking despise and hate / have made me feel outcast and judged beforehand?

like I honestly expect enough respect in my return from service to suddenly not hate everyone and just suddenly dispose of all my misanthropic feelings? Seriously? no.


Idc if its a license to kill or whatever, I seriously dont wanna defend a country or people who I actually hate and want eradicated fam. Not for me I think.

what else do I do, numb this with drugs? pretend love and a relationship is the cure?
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Shit Drallerman - Tue, 04 Jun 2019 13:07:32 EST uZExeyVJ No.529731 Reply
>>529730
Hows the national guard any different from working for a corporation/business? they both make you serve and fuck you over for personal gain but at least being a nasty girl you get free college and VA and basically get to just lounge around and shit, if you want combat experience well.... they can't really help you there cause they barely deploy them anymore, as for drugs you could probably get away with it depending on how funded/incompetent the guard are in your particular state.

Found out I have herpes, don’t wanna live anymore

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- Sun, 02 Jun 2019 01:18:20 EST yvFk+9o8 No.529683
File: 1559452700750.jpg -(81066B / 79.17KB, 500x500) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Found out I have herpes, don’t wanna live anymore
I’m 18 and noticed I have herpes on my face a week ago. I might have had it since I was a kid. If you don’t know, cold sores are herpes. If you ever had one you’re always potentially contagious. Meds help, but you’ll never have a 0% chance of being contagious, albeit it is low without outbreaks. If you go down on a girl you can potentially give her herpes down there. Like 60% of people in the US have cold sore herpes. Most never have symptoms and don’t know they have it. Standard std tests don’t include herpes. Herpes is practically harmless medically, but has so much stigma that it’s basically a disability.

I feel fucked. I will disclose it to all future partners and I feel like I’m just fucked for life. I’ll never be able to engage in casual sex at all and don’t see meaning in improving myself, expressing individuality, etc. I feel like a toy laying in a drawer waiting for someone to find it and pick it up. A toy that can dress up in whatever, be fit, attractive, anything, but it won’t matter. I can’t get drunk and fuck a random girl at a party now. But I am ok with that if I can find someone who’ll love me. It’s a fucked feeling. I feel broken.

It won’t matter even if I become practically superhuman like a Norwegian dude that swims in frozen lakes. It would only be my outer shell anyway, it won’t matter to girls if they can’t fuck me. So I’m stuck waiting for someone to find me like people find DXM. Like somebody to find me and think damn im amazing and worth the risk of lifelong herpes. I don’t fucking see it. And until then I’m just a shell, but when it does happen I’ll matter to that person I guess. It’s a bizarre thought, but that’s the only way I can cope now. I cried all day and thought about suicide a lot. I can’t imagine a good life for myself, most people with that condition online are much older, so I can’t relate.

I feel like my sexuality is gone, like I was castrated. I can’t imagine I’ll ever feel innocent during sex again. Like all I want is a soulmate now. Some girl who would hold me and tell me I am alright. Who’d let me fuck her without feeling like she’s touching a diseased bum. Who’d be all playful and shit and make me feel like I deserve love. Right now I feel cut off from everything that I like. Driving past places they look like they’re from my past life. Listening to music makes me think of people who don’t have herpes. Aaaa it all fucking hurts. I feel vulnerable.

How the fuck do I go on and find someone to love who won’t mind my herpes? Anyone else have herpes and stories on dealing with it?
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Lydia Buzzdale - Sun, 02 Jun 2019 13:20:14 EST Del7dYn8 No.529699 Reply
>>529683

Ive got the dick herpes if that makes you feel better. I was real upset when I found out too, but then Im asymtopmaic so who cares.

In normal STD screenimgs they don't test for herpes cause no one gives a shit. Half the planet has it and it won't kill you, it's just sores.

Honestly if you feel bad, the christians win. Good luck.
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Fanny Derryham - Sun, 02 Jun 2019 14:50:22 EST Oswvh+nG No.529700 Reply
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>>529683
Treat yourself with Rick Simpson Oil and it may be of help towards getting rid of your ailments.

CLEAN UP TIME

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- Mon, 03 Jun 2019 20:28:18 EST 0DOizHVp No.529712
File: 1559608098790.png -(2604424B / 2.48MB, 1416x2000) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. CLEAN UP TIME
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fgTDJNL6PzA&list=RDfgTDJNL6PzA&start_radio=1&t=52

ALLRIGHT YOU DEPRESSED FAG PUT THIS UP RIGHT LOUD AND CLEAN YOUR HOUSE

YOU WANT YOUR SIGN HERE IT IS

I'M CLEANING

YOU TOO.

GET ANGRY

GET CLEAN

CLEAN ERRYTHANG.

START WITH THE BATHROOM!
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pl0x - Mon, 03 Jun 2019 20:33:32 EST 0DOizHVp No.529713 Reply
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>>529712

SHITS NOT GONNA GET ANY BETTER UNTIL YOU LOOK TO YOURSELF FOR VALIDATION.

NO AMOUNT OF THERAPISTS OR PILLS IS GOING TO HELP YOU HELP YOURSELF OUT OF THIS!

YOU GOTTA START FROM WHERE IT BEGINS AND ENDS, THE SHITTER, START CLEANING YOUR LIFE UP FROM HERE.

I BELIEVE IN YOU AS MUCH AS YOU BELIEVE IN ME AND I KNOW YOU CAN DO IT BECAUSE I AM!
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pl0x - Mon, 03 Jun 2019 20:39:07 EST 0DOizHVp No.529714 Reply
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>>529713

WHAT'RE'YE'WAITIN'FER?

GET THAT SPONGE AND RAG

LIFE'S WHAT YOU MAKE IT AND WE'RE MAKING IT BIG.


CHOOSE TO CLEAN UP YOUR HOUSE,
FEEL THE EXERCISE,
THE DRY HANDS FROM THE CHEMICALS,
THE SATISFACTION THAT YOU'VE DONE SOMETHING,
ANYTHING

AND THAT SOME RANDOM FUCK FROM CANADA KNEW YOU COULD DO IT AND HE DID IT TOO.

THE MEANING OF LIFE IS TO FIND YOUR OWN MEANING AND MAKE YOUR OWN CHOICES.
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Pendleton Pendragon - Mon, 03 Jun 2019 20:46:48 EST 4ErcuLUT No.529715 Reply
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>>529712

Yeah you're right, cleaning up my area would probably do good for my mental state

Thanks for the kickin' chunes plox

Imma start on the kitchen

I need help, but I'm a fucking urban hermit

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- Fri, 31 May 2019 17:43:29 EST 4VrAyNJw No.529669
File: 1559339009974.jpg -(86488B / 84.46KB, 951x633) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I need help, but I'm a fucking urban hermit
I know I need help, I'm not stupid. I'm self-isolating, avoiding. Suffering from panic attacks since more than a decade, constant background anxiety as well, depression, chronic pain (muscle inflammation, deformed ribs, pinched nerve in neck), and now recently a more severe form of alcoholism.

Been drinking regularly on and off since 2014. Got drunk for the first time at 24. Immediately realized that this was the shit I'd either get addicted to, or die to. No other option. It removed the physical pain, the anxiety, everything. It numbed me to complete bliss.

A year later I smoked weed for the first time. It made me think different. This was huge, because I'd been stuck in a specific mode of thought for all my life. Suddenly, thought was different. I felt like I was a child again. Looking at a tree was meaningful in itself. Basically, the journey became the destination, in every sense of that metaphor.

Eventually however, that lead to confusion. The mind wanted to merge rationality with irrationality (or rather, intuition), but the conflict was too intense. Trusting the body to live by itself? No. I must protect it by thinking.

I think that I am a thinker, that thinks the body to move, eat, breathe, so that I can keep thinking, to find a truth, an ultimate answer somehow. But am I not a thinking breather? I think, in order to breathe; breathing itself is the purpose. I am not here to breathe and fuel the brain with oxygen in order to think myself toward enlightenment; I am here to think myself into just this in-breath of air, this exhalation, this single beating of the heart. There is no further purpose. This is it.

Death? A nonsense. No subjective Death at all. It's not real. Surely not!

I am here now, aware kind of, be noticed though that throughout this typing the alcohol has become more and more noticeable; If I am to ccurrently judge my situation I would assume that I am in the middle-begginning of a blackout. When I typed the 420chan URL into the field of browser, I was much ( A LOT!) more sober... effect comes quickly. Quite the adventure. Where am I now?

Want help, but also not. Can't trust anybody. People are fucking stupid. Source? I am fucking stupid, I am a people, so why shouhld I assume other people are not also fucking stupid? I want help, but do I want help from fucking studpi epopel? No. But I want help nontheless, although I believe there is no help to be had. I am alonei nthis. Gotta fight it.

Tomorrow sobriiety will enter this realm and I will be with it, and the anxiety it brings, longing for this _(I'm in it now, it's amazing, but .. you know, am also tired cause it makes me... tired? nonsense wtf) soWhat ese... ...

disregard above text; just know following OK: Death, our concepto of death, it's, we culturally made it into a problem. In reality, all pain and usffering, nightmares, stress, intense psychosis whatever, it's not a problem, cause death resolves it all. DEATH IS DIVINE - LIFE IS ALSO DIVINE - the pain, the faults, the suffering, all of it, THIS IS IT! I AM HERE, NOW, and to morrow I will fear, I will think WHAT IF THIS IS THE END, OH BOY I DON*T WANNA DIE..... but right now, this moment, if I die in 1 minute I'm fine, no worries, no problem, so need for solution!

So. The idea that death is a problem is a relative perspective. It's possible for death to be accepted, just as sleep is accepted when you are super tired. Right.

And the same goes for the total collaps aan annihlilation of sociey civlizatio asn s awhole.. (you know what this sentence supposed to say, mis-spelling is not itnentilnaion but no. too mcuh effort too correct)

ok.

thank you for reading be safe at peace etc, =)

all in all TL;DR: ignore this and listent o some fucking music friend. I advice he following; https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4pOKiL_gFGY
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George Dorringchone - Sun, 02 Jun 2019 11:06:21 EST 2dpbGRKS No.529694 Reply
lol i love how you slowly broke down into full drunken rant
you know what you need to do. stop the drugs, eat healthy, exercise, socialize
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Doris Shakeway - Mon, 03 Jun 2019 17:01:12 EST JCATCBbz No.529709 Reply
>>529694
This. The straight and narrow so to speak is always the best option for making lucid decisions, especially when they're big issues you need to face. Give the problem your full arsenal of examination with a sober conscience, at least for a bit. That way, you can have pride that you are in fact capable and really did give it your best efforts. Then you can come back to getting drunk and probably realistically enjoy it a lot more with less anxiety of procrastination. Great wiggles
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Doris Shakeway - Mon, 03 Jun 2019 17:05:16 EST JCATCBbz No.529710 Reply
>>529709
Incidentally I'm shamefully addicted to DXM. I'm making a hard effort to cut down. I've resolved to restrict myself to once a month at the most frequent. I write my thoughts down, sober and high to extract willpower. I've known this was a problem for years but I never tried hard enough to stop. I always end up saying it'll be fun and it doesn't really matter but I know those are both lies. You're in good company OP and I believe in you. Keep your head up.

Halp

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- Fri, 17 May 2019 19:50:52 EST PrMXN3cx No.529428
File: 1558137052171.png -(814496B / 795.41KB, 720x1280) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Halp
I have this thing where i feel like i have 2 personalities at the same time and while the other personality is talking im kinda asleep and just i don't literally hear it.

My mom knows about this but doesn't adress it. The times i've been alone on the street he fuarrrked up and kinda told everyone about it and a lot of people know how to make him say and do stuff without my permission. (Which is happening but they did this thing and now he just doesn't tell her.
I feel like my mom just thinks it's me but i told her to not talk about it but it really wasn't me that told her that so she kinda knows but at the same time she doesn't. The one who has abused this it's my cousin since i was a kid but not talking about it makes it worse and i have to tell her talking with double sense.
Something really bad has happened because of this abuse but i can't tell her because of that and it's frustating. Now there people with cars going around abusing this soykaf for me to not say what are they doing with this. Even i don't even know what the poor cocksuckers want from this.
What can i do? I haven't got treatment because of this.
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Need to go to humans again

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- Tue, 14 May 2019 23:31:15 EST IXv7xCjg No.529371
File: 12.jpg -(80085B / 78.21KB, 666x69) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Need to go to humans again
Please tell me when I'm returning to human civilization?

I live in Burbank, CA and everybody around me is a robot except for myself. I often get frightened and terrorized on a casual level.

When am I going to see a nice Doctor lady and recover my skinny body and be happy?
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Martin Simmlenack - Thu, 30 May 2019 08:11:00 EST USUZpST+ No.529651 Reply
>>529646
no, none of us random strangers on the internet can help you. sorry friend.
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Basil Gankinham - Thu, 30 May 2019 09:11:34 EST hiKxQg3e No.529652 Reply
>>529646
Anon, Burbank isn't so bad. You just need to take a bus with Ray Charles to Long Beach now and then, I think, or just move there. Go find some latinos having a barbecue in a park and have some fun. I actually had this really cool Asian buddy who worked in IT and smoked weed who was from there. Ignore the fuckheads. I lived round Disneyland for a long time, yes, you have to essentially party indoors and hide from the gestapo, but you can make it.

Get you some cheap ass meat from a ranchero carniceria at a Mexican supermarket and hork it down every day.

Does it ever get better

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- Fri, 31 May 2019 11:41:11 EST Eriz6IpE No.529661
File: 1559317271853.jpg -(45328B / 44.27KB, 500x371) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Does it ever get better
I dont know what to do anymore guys, it seems like life just keeps getting worse. First my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer and now my childhood dog has started refusing to eat and is losing alarming amounts of weight and it seems like he doesnt have much more time to live. Im trying to find a place of my own to live as well since being kicked out of my gfs house but have gotten nothing but disappointment as every place i lve gone to look at has fucked me over and rented out to other tenants before being able to fill out applications. My job is grueling and dangerous as sometimes i work in 140 degree attics and have to crawl through disgusting claustraphobic spider filled crawl spaces, all for barely above fast food money. I just feel like life is an endless string of shit and i want out. Any advice is appreciated thanks for letting me vent.
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Basil Brerringback - Fri, 31 May 2019 23:53:18 EST Eriz6IpE No.529674 Reply
>>529672
I do hvac install/service and solar installs so its not quite as volatile as new construction but ive heard it definately slowed down when the economy crashed in 08. im trying to get out of it before i fuck up my joints too much and crawl through too much rat poison though, hence trying to work for the state.
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Sidney Claycocke - Sat, 01 Jun 2019 10:02:12 EST Nocxtt2B No.529679 Reply
>>529661
normally i'd say that the idea of life as progressing upwards all the time is a myth and it will always have ups and downs and there will always be happy moments and painful losses, but yours has been crap for quite a while so yes, it will get better, absolutely. you have had a string of bad luck, it won't keep going, every now and then somone somewhere in the world throws a coin 50 times and it lands heads 50 times in a row. that's you, that's just what happened.
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Basil Febberfoot - Sun, 02 Jun 2019 07:39:39 EST +s+a5IEh No.529691 Reply
>>529679
Realistic though realistic enough that you can see OP's situation almost definitely will improve.

It don't always progress upwards but at the same time, if you're in a shit situation and put in the right work it almost always improves overall over time. There will be ups and downs. Of course some people can flip a coin and land heads 50 times in a row but at that point there's still half a chance it'll be tails next time. And if there isn't perhaps the coin should be changed. Someone will never ever get that tails but they won't know until they stop tossing the coin.

I prefer to look at it this way though: Do the best you can to wring what you can out of life. There's no way you can justify not making the best attempt you can at life. And actual best not, stupid misdirected effort but an attempt using the best of your knowledge and ability to make the most out of it. Of course you need to work out what you want and how to get it and be prepared to change your mind but it's just hard to justify not fighting.

Insomnia?

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- Sun, 26 May 2019 02:19:01 EST hiKxQg3e No.529556
File: 1558851541957.jpg -(89275B / 87.18KB, 700x933) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Insomnia?
So, lately, I have been working late in an entertainment-related vocation. The big issue is, I often find myself drinking coffee and energy drinks and chain smoking to keep up, among with regular stims. I can knock myself out usually with dryl but it hangs over to the next day so I tend to avoid it.

I can drop the hard stims easy. But the caffeine and nicotine are hard. Can /qq/ provide any tips on sleep hygiene for carnies?
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Reuben Giffingdale - Sat, 01 Jun 2019 08:05:14 EST dIFWQvnm No.529678 Reply
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>>529628
oh wow, it sure is extra summer in here.
like global warming happened and this site was just a warm, moist beach towel waiting to be fucked. but this was no ordinary fuck. this is the fuck of an age.

rip 420chan

I'm getting bullied at work

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- Fri, 10 May 2019 18:26:21 EST Z2Vs3t8e No.529303
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As the description says. I am being bullied at work. It's a pretty much non stop thing from a certain employee. If he doesn't completely ignore me he is trying to find some way to insult me.
A little back story. I work construction. My Dad is my foreman. I understand in this type of environment people banter. Especially to the bosses son. People talk shit. It's mostly friendly. Hell I even do it. We all laugh. This one particular person takes it too far though, and is straight up venomous with it. I've tried standing up for myself. He just knocked my hard hat off my head. I've tried talking to management, and they have talked to him about it, and he will ignore me for a day, or two, but then it's right back to his same old shit.
I'm at the point where I'm completely fed up with it. I want to sneak up behind him when he is not paying attention, and drive my hammer into his temple, or push him off a 40ft roof when he isn't paying attention, and isn't tied off.
I've tried to get him fired. It doesn't work. He's been with the company for over 10 years, and I've only been there about a year, and a half. I want to just ignore it, but I can't anymore. I'm at the point where I literally want to murder this man.

Is there anyway I can talk to this dude man to man, and maybe try to get him to ease up a bit? How would you guys go about this situation?
I realize this is something I'm going to need outside help with, because I've been dealing with it for a very long time now, and I'm literally starting to think about hurting some one. Which I don't want to do.
Any advice would help. I will try to answer questions.
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Archie Bunstock - Sat, 01 Jun 2019 02:01:50 EST 0DOizHVp No.529675 Reply
>>529303

just pull him aside when your boss and be like, "look bud I didn't want to rip you a new ass but you gotta cut back on it, there's the ribbing but this is just a bit too far man, look I don't think you mean to be a dick but you're going at it with jabs and I'd appreciate it if we can have a healthy and safe work environment."
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Archie Bunstock - Sat, 01 Jun 2019 02:04:23 EST 0DOizHVp No.529676 Reply
>>529675

being the bigger man often requires being the smarter man, and if his dunce rock-filled head doesn't figure it out, just shrug it off, once his peers see he's being a dickmeat to the new guy, they'll shun him.

it's like how women work but a hell of a lot more insecure.

Best cities to run to?

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- Tue, 28 May 2019 17:16:41 EST ecrYFDK0 No.529621
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I got like at least a half dozen felonies, cops got my dealer stash, out on bail with lawyers saying bout some years in prison.

Best city to run to? This shit went down at the oregon cali border so I gotta leave here, start fresh.

I got a few bands, I think about finding migrant farm work or cooking more dmt living life underground on the run.

My first thought is Denver cause it's the hype lately, also thought about Arizona and new Mexico, maybe Florida cause they behind in the Weed game.

But for real, I need more advice. I've been a rainbow family dirty kid hitch hiker for fun but now it's turning into some survival shit. I've been learning different busking instruments, got me a water filter and backpack solar panel, and eating like a maniac to put on weight.

Does anyone else have experience doing this? I worry about shit like what happens if I need a hospital, but I try to be proactive about my health.

I've considered Mexico or Belize, but I know if I got arrested in one of them third world jails I'd be fucked. Maybe it's worth it tho, what with their lower cost of living. I know some Spanish.
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Wesley Bigglewell - Fri, 31 May 2019 01:03:36 EST Lyto4SAa No.529657 Reply
>>529635
they arent going to extradite over some stupid charge it has to be super serious for them to extradite across the country
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Ebenezer Bishbury - Fri, 31 May 2019 09:46:57 EST JCATCBbz No.529660 Reply
>>529657
Except you're wrong. They don't have to extradite him, all they have to do is communicate information and wham bam it's like he's still living where the offense occurred. Bail jumping is serious enough for that. Drug dealing and twelve felonies is serious enough for that. They don't appreciate assholes like OP. They tend to take it as a personal slight.
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Martha Tillingville - Fri, 31 May 2019 17:05:02 EST sVY0CjDe No.529668 Reply
>>529657
>6+ felonies for drug dealing.
>Fleeing on bail.
>Almost certainly priors.

Oh yeah, they'll spend the 4 pennies worth of gov't money to go after him.

moving

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- Wed, 29 May 2019 00:44:46 EST Y/IBjRot No.529636
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>27 y/o male
>have lived between 2 suburban communities in the midwest for all but 1 year
>Recently moved to the biggest city in the state (Milwaukee)
>Have been living on my own since I was about 19
>Haven't really done much with my life except be a drunk asshole
>Have never known much about life outside this area

My cousin keeps telling me to move to chicago and work for this mega corporation down there doing manual labor with him. He claims its very easy and I will start at $25 and be making bank by the time I retire. He claimed a guy he knew recently retired after 30 years in his mid 50's and is getting 6k a month pension.

I currently work in landscaping for $15 an hour. It has its moments, but i generally make jack shit and half of the coworkers either don't work or are scummy rednecks.

I'm highly considering gearing my life towards doing this by early next year. I'd commute every day and then move when the lease is up. Its only about 3 hours away from where I grew up but I know only 1 person in the area besides an uncle that I rarely talk to outside of family events a few times a year. My entire life i've only known this area and know almost nothing about chicago, I've been their maybe 15 times when I was younger and would go to shows or parties. I'd basically be leaving my entire life behind, my friends, my family, my brothers, my entire social circle.

It seems appealing because I want to become a new person with no reputation.

I need a fresh start. Has anybody here ever done anything like this, the cities or areas you moved between do not matter. and do you have any pointers?
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Scourge of the West - Fri, 31 May 2019 07:26:24 EST hUCy7yd4 No.529659 Reply
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Quit being a pussy. Your cousin is doing you a solid by helping you get out of manual labor and into a cushy desk job making over 30% more. Commute at first. It will make you appreciate the place you get in the city even more.

Opportunities like this should be taken immediately. Your cousin could get fired or rage quit any day. Take the job now. Quit being a pussy and use ths opportunity.

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