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Harm Reduction Notes for the COVID-19 Pandemic

How to deal with moms cat?

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- Sun, 15 Dec 2019 15:01:21 EST UZC9gHak No.532810
File: 1576440081730.jpg -(35046B / 34.22KB, 385x385) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. How to deal with moms cat?
My mom has this moron dip shit cat. It does nothing. Fucking nothing. Except piss me off. Every fucking day it pukes and shits all over everything it can. Every corner of the house smells like cat piss because this moron runs around pissing on everything.

Fucking literally EVERY day it fucking shits all over the floor. Literally 2 inches from the litter box or just random spots.

I’m not saying tell me how to kill it but....
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Hugh Nuvingnetch - Mon, 16 Dec 2019 20:09:04 EST NpvZxK2o No.532839 Reply

My parents cat did that too. I started pissing in the same corners and he finally stopped. When they can smell a bigger animal they dont try to compete. You dont gotta piss a lot, just a quick wee. Or if your shy to pee in your own house the cat deserves dominance.

As for the puking, brush kitty every couple of days. It will increase your alliance, put them in a subordinate state, and keep them from getting sick of their own fur. Spit on the comb to get saliva pheromones on it too, that will help with the pissing.

You gotta think like a cat to train a cat


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- Thu, 12 Dec 2019 18:02:01 EST gyFW2X+x No.532773
File: 1576191721166.jpg -(17360B / 16.95KB, 229x185) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Cymbalta?
My doctor prescribed me Cymbalta almost a week ago and I've been dealing with a ton of nasty side effects. Anyone used Cymbalta before? Anyone know how long if these side effects disappear over time? I'm sleeping like 10-12 hrs a day because of this shit.

Pic unrelated
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Cyril Dringerlad - Tue, 17 Dec 2019 00:21:03 EST bc5d3qUZ No.532846 Reply

>worry about your own people first, anon
I agree. I'm going to start by worrying about how much time I spend talking to race realists on the internet
Ernest Bittingfoot - Tue, 17 Dec 2019 00:53:54 EST eGS6zz6/ No.532847 Reply
What the fuck are y'all doing? OP wanted to know about Cymbalta! What the fuck is wrong with y'all?
Ernest Blatherworth - Tue, 17 Dec 2019 07:57:19 EST kFYnmYAh No.532850 Reply
Wow, this thread degenerated into a bicker fest about politics and race. And that's EVERY FUCKING THREAD as long as you let these assholes keep posting.

Family trouble 2

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- Sun, 15 Dec 2019 14:53:31 EST mnYJEFyx No.532809
File: 1576439611540.jpg -(539334B / 526.69KB, 1080x1702) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Family trouble 2
So i posted this shit a number of months back. <<<

my mom was acting really wierd and mean and was aggressive and paranoid, i didnt know what the fuck was going on only she used to be depressed and was on anti depresants (SSRI's)

Since then its been a whole fucking saga
ill keep it short but it could fill a fucking novel

>inpatient mental ward in a foreign country
>held in a police holding cell and restrained
>warrant to stay away from home
>basically 3-4 months of hell for everyone in my close family

now i know much more and it is obvious that this was a severe manic episode
it included paranoia and blame towards close family relative, especially my father

now shes back home, much calmer - this was slow to change
weve stopped trying to talk to her about getting help because it was obviously not helping
infact we stopped talking about the whole thing....
she doesnt bring it up
so we dont
but now its fucking depressing in the house
she is escaping into her phone - she used to do this while depressed
obviously coming off the mania, but still not quite there - still very hateful towards my father sometimes and just not really 'there' it seems
although conversations are much better and she is nice when shes not buried in the phone

i dont know what to do, how to approach it
she needs to be able to get help but first she must admit theres a problem
very "anti - medication" in general so i dont see how anyone can convince her to start treating it,
this was her first manic episode ever (of this severity at least)
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Doris Sindlefack - Mon, 16 Dec 2019 15:36:50 EST mnYJEFyx No.532833 Reply

>Isn't it mentally taxing living with someone who is experiencing acute paranoid psychosis?

cant even begin to describe how much this is damaging yes

im an adult
but some of my siblings are living at home and this makes it much worse, worried for them too

>talk more about what daily life is like with her?
well at the hight of the mania it was like a rollercoaster -
every day a new mission
running around moving furniture she bought with money we dont have to 'start her own buissness'
swearing like a drunk sailor and aggitated when your not keeping up with her speed of changing ideas and thoughts
the whole bigger family - aunts, uncles (who i love very much) are suddenly assholes whom she never liked and never liked her
basically an exact description of manic symptoms but extreme and lasted for months

she would scream at me to overtake other cars because she couldnt stand sitting in traffic, when it was dangerous or just impossible

3-4 hours of sleep a night
she would clean and organize long after everyone was in bed (i was living at home at that time cause i came back from travel)
>all this time it is us who are crazy and need help

endless... again i could write a book...

but that was the vibe
i was very anxious that whole time (might have anxiety issues)
and my father barely stood on his feet
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Just will not stop

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- Sat, 14 Dec 2019 06:47:23 EST XHgC+rDf No.532795
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I broke up with my partner of 5 years about 3 months ago. Since then, I've been sent a huge pile of mail--cards, letters, packages, all treating the breakup as something I'll likely get over, using diminutives, and extremely affectionate. Multiple phone calls and messages, lots of messages on other media as well. Most recently was a drunken text daring me in a jovial tone to stay out of contact and stating that I'd be waited out. I set up blocks on pretty much everything I could and have not sent anything back.

Is this stalking? It's depressing me that every time I go to get the mail (something I actually enjoy) I have another one of these envelopes waiting.
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Hannah Chuvinglene - Sat, 14 Dec 2019 08:03:03 EST 1SSFeKJF No.532799 Reply
Whatever it is it's over the line of acceptable. This shit should make it clear how little respect they have for you or your decision and boundaries. You should at least feel very comfortable in your decision to leave them.

>this whole thing makes me feel like I have no control over my own mental or physical space
That's the goal of your ex. Break you down, make you feel powerless and surrender and come back.

You cannot control how your ex behaves but our mental space is your own. Eventually they will get bored or find someone else and you'll be free. Keep blocking mail and numbers. It takes them more effort to work around it. Make sure any friends understand what is happening. If they aren't completely on board with you then at least for the short term cut them out too because they'll help your ex get in touch even if unintentionally. If you know what the envelopes are maybe have a bonfire or something with them. They'll burn in moments so you could use them to encourage anything of else left by your ex that you want to burn. It's childish but at least it might be fun.
Alice Breddlepidge - Sat, 14 Dec 2019 14:23:14 EST VMzmKgcf No.532800 Reply
dude that's weird. this person is unhealthy. you need to get him or her to stop. he or she is feeding off of your attention. it's like symbiosis except sick and weird.
Phoebe Gezzleham - Sun, 15 Dec 2019 06:46:32 EST 1ub4L/0W No.532806 Reply
Yes the constant contact is a manipulative attempt to stay in your life and it seems to be working. Don't let it.

Physically Abusive Relationship of my friend

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- Sat, 05 Oct 2019 23:16:59 EST Y81HE+lD No.531987
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my boy is a scumbag, what do?
> cheats on girlfriend
> girlfriend throws fit
> tells her be quiet because She is being toxic
> says thanks for ruining another good night
> constant sounds of her literally choking on her words because he’s grabbing her throat
> sounds of them hitting each other
> her saying Ow and crying
I mean, pretty sure I should kick his ass? He’s giving me a place to crash tonite but this is the second time they have done this.

She has valid emotional responses and when she frightens him he claims it’s her being a crazy toxic bitch, despite her only being mad that he cheats and treats her like shit. He’d tell her “sssshh” while she cries and try silencing any of her outburst, or blame her for even coming around him when she already knows he’s a shithead.

I had parents in an abusive relationship so like, this is kind of tough for me.
But I cannot just sit in another room ignoring this when she is clearly being abused mentally and physically.
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I've tried to kill myself 4 times in a year and I don't when it's going to happen again.

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- Mon, 15 Jul 2019 17:39:46 EST wg/43xhN No.530435
File: 1563226786813.jpg -(9739B / 9.51KB, 217x320) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I've tried to kill myself 4 times in a year and I don't when it's going to happen again.
I keep trying to kill myself when I'm drunk by taking huge doses of benzos or trying to hang myself but being too drunk to do it. When I'm sober I think about suicide sometimes but never want to act on it. I've tried to quit drinking and I cut down from 30 UK units a day (a bottle of vodka) to a drink every couple of weeks or so. But every time I drink something really bad happens. Generally I sleep well and eat well and have a goal and future so I don't know what's going on. I've had a very rough time of it during my adolescent years however, problems with family, heroin use, violence, and I think all of it is starting to take it's toll.

I know the obvious solution is to just never drink but i'ts not quite that simple as I'm sure a lot of you know. I just want to know what the hell is going on in my psyche to make me try and top myself every time I lose inhibition and gain the confidence to do it when I'm drunk. The hospital wont help any more they've had enough of me and they are completely fucking useless. I have been taking valium for 4 years and I am dependent on it, but don't get high on them, I mentioned this and the dumb bitch told me addiction and dependency are exactly the same thing and it only takes 4 hours for valium to leave the system with little withdrawal. I called her up on this and she just stormed off like a child leaving me to just discharge myself. I cannot believe people so uninformed can be classed as experts, just because they've been peddling the same shit to drug addicts for 20 years probably with a very minimal recovery rate.

I'm thinking that the combination of diazepam and alcohol is what's really enabling these suicide attempts, being dependent on diazepam for four years has really took it's toll I think. I'm hoping to start a proper taper plan with supervised liquid doses soon, fingers crossed I don't try and end it all again and actually succeed. I don't think a valium overdose is going to do it since last time I took about 500mg with an insane amount of vodka and just had a low blood pressure all night.
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Beatrice Peshson - Wed, 04 Dec 2019 08:29:43 EST mHw0X0gH No.532639 Reply
Ultimately we are all toast as human beings. The truth about the human condition is that everything falls apart. There is nothing that you are doing, buying, or studying that will last. This means that anything that is not maintained, refreshed, or renovated will eventually succumb to time, including your thoughts, beliefs, and attitudes. You can not prevent this. Your only escape is to learn to identify those things that serve you and maintain them, and stop maintaining things that don't serve you. Therapy can identify those things.
Samuel Bellermid - Fri, 13 Dec 2019 11:04:09 EST tm2lsBr3 No.532786 Reply
The booze is likely making any problems you already have worse. I went through a period of getting piss drunk multiple times a week and I've tried offing during said periods of drunkenness. I wasn't even suicidal at the time when i wasn't drunk but alcohol seemed to trigger that shit. I'm fine now though and don't drink anymore. Booze is a disgusting dirty drug and you'd be better off finding a substitute that doesn't trigger these tendencies or better yet go sober. I seriously do not understand how booze is the only legal drug besides ciggerets in my country (UK) it's absolutely absurd. The best thing would be to quit drugs and seek professional help.

Just wanted to let it out

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- Thu, 12 Dec 2019 17:08:11 EST rfPdwVQK No.532771
File: 1576188491770.jpg -(32205B / 31.45KB, 400x400) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Just wanted to let it out
Ok guys so this is my life.
 At junior high i was your average nerd, few friends but friends al least and with average performance in school.
 At the end of junior high i was becoming angry with life and started to shut myself from my friends.
 When I finish junior I was just expecting to star high school but that never happen, to he only close high school that my parent could have paid suddenly shut down so I become home schooled, oh boy! great mistake.
 I suddenly have much time in my hands so started working and planning a business plan, but on the other hand I started to think more and more.
 Reality hit me hard in the face, somehow a started to become more and more depressed until I totally sink myself in anger and sadness.
 Couldn’t work or study any more just wanted to be alone in my room, became a full-time hermit, lost all contact with old friends, lost all hobbies and interests, didn’t have friends on the internet like much hermits do.
 Time passed by and somehow my family become rich, bigger house and bigger cars, my brother and sister acquired the illusion of being part of the high society but I was still myself a little depressed faggot money didn’t really change me or make me any happier.
 More time passed by, I don’t understand how I wasted so much time, I was getting older and never finish high school my parent were getting angrier and angrier but their business was booming so they leave alone in some way, It was becoming harder to comunicate with me I lose much of my social skills.
 The successful business of my parents cought the attention of criminal groups where I live so they wanted a share of the bounty, an they took everything from them money, house, cars everything if we didn’t cooperate our life was in the table, panic panic everywhere, I felt useless and impotent I couldn’t stop the disaster, even if I was just a hermit I just wanted my family to be safe at that time.
 We all survived at the end as we didn’t have any more to rob they let us leave ( we got lucky i guess) and we did, my family took a high trauma after they not only took our belongings they also took our inner peace, everyone become angry and depressed but in my case i didn’t change much it didn’t affect greatly I continue as little depressed faggot.
 Life continue and we were in huge trouble barely have enough to survive all intent to improve were futile bad things keep happening, in that time for the sake of my survival I forced myself (or was foreced) to work, without high school I only got shitty jobs, so this is my life now, I manage to take some emotional control over myself and become a robot like person just trying to function, deep down I was still a little depressed faggot.
 In someway my parents and family between the chaos were able to found a new business, a new hope to everybody expect for me so I ended up working for them and become a hard worker because of the repent from my previous laziness in life I guess, still the same in other ways lonly as fuck just wanting to get over with everything and shut myself in my room.
 Time flies and the business isn’t prospering because lack of motivation and the incapability of get organized too much ego wars and I am stuck in the middle trying to be as invisible as possible but at least get some recognizion for my hard work.
 Now I am 24 and i don’t feel young any more, I lived my recent years as a cold stone emotionaless and without aim, I manage to learn how to ignore my own life and keep myself busy, still without any hobbies or interest and as expected any friends or any kind of relationship not irl or internet.
 In this recent days I started to feel again i don’t know why, I feel full of regret and very lonely, I can see myself having the social skills of an awkward teenage and little education, this has suddenly escalated and i becomening more and more emotional and suddenly realized the boring my life has been, I really really want to change myself as a person for the better, i have build myself as a robot and i just want to feel like a human again.
I know this is not a cool or sad story but I just needed to take out of my chest.
Thanks for reading.
Archie Soffinghidging - Fri, 13 Dec 2019 01:18:06 EST ywX6lE4k No.532777 Reply
It's like a normal teenage sob story and then suddenly

>The successful business of my parents cought the attention of criminal groups where I live so they wanted a share of the bounty, an they took everything from them money, house, cars everything if we didn’t cooperate our life was in the table, panic panic everywhere, I felt useless and impotent I couldn’t stop the disaster, even if I was just a hermit I just wanted my family to be safe at that time.

The level of fucked suddenly goes from like 2.5 all the way to 11.
Look I'm not a trauma counselor or anything, I don't know what to say to someone who has been through that. I know that people who have been hurt sometimes get used to being hurt, which is called the reenactment cycle. What that means is that they come to think that being hurt is normal. Usually you need to break the reenactment cycle.
That would mean, in your case, trying to re-set your life on the path it was on before things went horribly wrong. Try to get whatever your country has like a GED and work on developing some skill you can use to eventually get a better job. And of course that's what you're trying to do, which is good. But it's going to be very hard to do that without social support which you say you don't have.

What I'm trying to say is: please, get help. It doesn't have to be a doctor, or a therapist, or a single person, or even in real life. Find somebody to talk to who you can be honest with.
And remember that this is not normal. Dropping out of high school because of gang violence is not normal. This is not something that was supposed to happen to you. This is not how your life should be. Don't accept it, ever.

Complicated cakefart shitty situation

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- Sat, 07 Dec 2019 06:39:36 EST S749L0eI No.532677
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So I got a crush on a co-worker girl that I had developed some kind of feelings in towards her, so we knew each other for about 6-7 months, we were very friendly to each other and were always chatting/talking about any interesting shit.
After a long time I started to realise that I like her, so I decided to do something and get her, so I had invited her to a date, she declined the offer in a respectfull way.
After a day later she started to act like a cold bitch, no eye contact, absolute coldness and emptiness..... Like we didn't ever knew each other.
So, what to do, move on? Or there still might be a chance?
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Augustus Dartford - Mon, 09 Dec 2019 23:43:45 EST T+17NiZt No.532712 Reply
Do both of you still work together? That's awkward. Your job is kind of on the line now. She's gracefully giving you an opportunity to pretend none of it ever happened (for the purpose of staying employed, at least). But if you invade her space again after she's already made it clear that she thinks you're a creep, she could bring it up with management and get your ass canned for harassment.

Respect her wish to cease all communication, and honestly if that's too much for you to handle, look for another job.
Martha Blillermock - Wed, 11 Dec 2019 00:49:53 EST jnas4L6T No.532725 Reply

this pretty much. i am sorry for your disappointment OP but you must consider how uncomfortable all of this may have made her feel. don't shit where you eat. i have dated coworkers before and it always ended poorly in one way or another
Shitting Pockdale - Thu, 12 Dec 2019 13:10:58 EST u0JXal/M No.532767 Reply
>Kind of sucks when they didn't have to lose a friend but OP is more concerned by "Still might be a chance" rather than "Have I lost a friend"

I'm a serious person and I was thinking about everything very carefully, so everything is fine now, I told her that I feel sorry for uncomfortable situation and that I really respect her and wish her all the best. She smiled and told me that I'm a good guy and I will find a good girlfriend in the future.

>She's gracefully giving you an opportunity to pretend none of it ever happened
Nah, I'm not that creep or a stalker, I did liked her as a good person and still do, so I had already moved on.

The things ended pretty good for both of us, we were pretty honest in front of each other, I wouldn't lie that I felt a bit broken, but I managed to control myself and my emotions, and everything had returned to it's place.
I've been just honest and respectful, and at last I brought back the smile on her face(not a fake smile, but a real one).

fuck you

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- Thu, 12 Dec 2019 06:30:28 EST TUQC22QU No.532755
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wemon should be mass murdering themselves in protest to misogyny.
Charlotte Dugglestock - Thu, 12 Dec 2019 12:21:25 EST 2I/58APW No.532763 Reply
Fuck off assholes, every fucking board is not a four-channeler board. Stay on /b/ so we can report you to Patreon easier.

Mentally Ill

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- Wed, 11 Dec 2019 14:58:23 EST 3JPFXqQ2 No.532735
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Im poor and come from a poor family but I am almost 30 and I am pretty sure I am mentally ill. Not in a dangerous way but in a way that brain is actually sick. I don't know what it is though. I know that I am severely depressed all the time but I learn to cope with that. I also have erratic behavior and massive bursts of anxiety out of nowhere. I can't deal with real life and not very good at being consistent with anything. I feel very emotional and easily hurt. Everything is a weight on my back. I started eating better three weeks ago and I am trying to get better sleep. Im back on welfare and it really sucks. I just wish I could be a normal part of society. This depression just never goes away it feels. I used to cry all the time but now I just feel numb and empty.

I often lash out sometimes when I feel like I am cornered emotionally as well. I honestly dont even know what this thread is for. I guess I am just venting because it feels hopeless all the time.
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Barnaby Cellykidging - Thu, 12 Dec 2019 02:18:05 EST mqpN1yO5 No.532753 Reply
You've been sold on the idea that your brain is broken. It isn't really, though. Have more faith in yourself. Your exaggerations are further evidence that you've duped yourself into adopting self destructive beliefs and practices.

Right now I might say that you're a lost soul. That's probably not completely your fault.. I know that's not saying much. You seem to be missing a lot.. you are "without".

The advice I want to give you I'm scared to because it's never well received and it usually ends up being an uncomfortable waste of my time. I'm human too.

If you try to get on a meditation program it probably wont work. I think you could easily get bored of it and dismiss it and stop doing it. I want to say that if you could easily make a long term commitment to something that required discipline, most of your problems wouldn't exist. Maybe I'm wrong, or maybe you've lost a lot of your willpower.. which, with the snap of your fingers you could summon back, if you only knew. I think a person has to have a type of spirituality in order for meditation to work for them. I think it's necessary, or at least it helps, to have something to keep tapping into and that you can build on. You don't need to follow a religion or believe in a god but you need a sort of connection to something you respect. Self respect I think is the minimum requirement. Without any sense of spirituality, what are you doing this for? What is your world view and how does the meditation then fit into it? It seems to me like in your shoes it's not going to be completely healthy. You need to draw energy from something and it can't be "I have problems. everything is terrible. Now I'm going to sit here and meditate and it's going to get better."
Meditation usually involves breathing exercises, postures that affect energy flow throughout the body, vibrational chants, often times closed eyes..

Meditation is going to be less effective for those that aren't spiritual. It's a spiritual practice..

I'm not going to go through this and revise it. It took me some time and a little bit of effort to create this post. I don't want to keep improving it. I think you're going to find your way honestly and hopefully you gained something from this thread. While this could have been articulated better - I think you're smart enough to take away from it what I intended to communicate anyway. It's not a crime to make inferences, though plenty of people act like it is by being impulsive with their speech and actions. Some people are in the habit of looking for opportunities to tell other people that they are wrong. Whatever, every man's gotta find his own way.

I have faith in you. Maybe that can mean something to you.
Esther Grimshit - Thu, 12 Dec 2019 06:39:56 EST TUQC22QU No.532758 Reply
viruses. brain damage. it feels nice does it? that's natural, surely. crying is the best.

I’m a big fat baby yo wahhh

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- Sun, 08 Dec 2019 18:16:21 EST fdfJY4tg No.532694
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Quick, what are the magic words to tell yourself when you think trying to date these women out here is a waste of time and money?

Been in love once, for some years but it didn’t turn out so well after we moved to a city where we didn’t know anyone (after we lived with her dad and his fam for a bit which was actually a grand ole time). Now I’m stuck with this big car loan from when I co-signed to get her a car because her credit wasn’t good enough and she had too much debt to really keep up with the payments. Every day I drive a car that I didn’t have to own in the first place and it obviously reminds me of her. Of how she slowly turned into an emotionally abusive partner who would shit on my dumb ass for no reason and complain for hours seemingly to stave off the boredom. How she cheated early on in the relationship with someone we both worked with, and how I put on the hockey mask and lived in hell for a couple months instead of calling it a day. Took a while but I trusted her with my heart and gave her all my time. She did the same

Things have normalized since moving back to my hometown. Tried dating a couple of times but that sick betrayal feeling hit my body when I was in a relationship when the girls didn’t even DO anything to warrant that kind of physical reaction. It was just oh, dude friend from church is coming over. Girls night out. Can’t reach her through the phone for like 3 or 4 hours, all these things just triggered me feeling like shit. It’s weird because I’m pretty chill about most everything else. Maybe passing through more time will help. Regardless it’s hard to find a girl with a 10/10 personality, having known many I can’t shake recognizing what it’s really like.

The dating game seems so rigged against me that I decided to leave in the spring. I’ve got a lot to offer as a partner and chicks dig the tall funny good looking guy but every time I’ve chased a girl it’s just left me feeling low in the end. Finding genuine compatibility takes time, gwala, effort and repeated tries - - none of which I’m willing to throw myself into anymore. Work too much. Seen so many people, some close to me acting and speaking without conscience, giving their partner hell, being unfaithful, taking advantage of their partner financially, etc. This isn’t gender specific either. Maybe the game just brings out the worst in people.

Prolly just gonna fly somewhere where sex work is legal when I feel like yet another dehydrated ass white dude, but ehh. That’s just a bandaid, and I need something more substantial to get my hopes back up and spit out the red pill. Money, hobbies, friends, family. These things fill the void but kissing is so much fun.

>in a world where you only “click” with so precious few, what’s your motivation for pursuing non-casual relationships?
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Nathaniel Bollywan - Wed, 11 Dec 2019 08:46:55 EST UuASd/Tk No.532729 Reply
> the only girl I had exchanged I love yous with could lie to me so thoroughly and repeatedly

UGH it really sucks. I've just been trying really hard to not see it as a reflection on me, that I'm not a cheater, that I thoroughly liked who I was and was proud of the role model I was attempting be, and that I still want to value the ability to trust that there are definitely other people out there that are like that too and will want to meet me.

Ugh it really does hurt though and this is a very new and recent thing that I've gone through.
Nathaniel Bollywan - Wed, 11 Dec 2019 08:59:28 EST UuASd/Tk No.532730 Reply
Oh and the person who cheated on me has a history of being cheated on and then having affairs of her own. I am trying to be VERY mindful of the fact that some people (like her for instance) get hurt or abused by others and then wind up becoming the thing that hurt them. I do NOT want to become like that, and I see that people have the choice in whether or not to accept that "vampire bite" as it were.
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- Thu, 05 Dec 2019 21:12:38 EST Y/IBjRot No.532657
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>get bad oneitis for 9/10, she rejects me after me pining after her for months
>Hear she has a boyfriend and that hes black, im a white dude and blacks are way more popular with the ladies around here
>Dread on it for the past week
>Finally see what the dude looks like today

Its some ugly fat white nerd with an afro that looks like a straight up chump. Seriously I'm actually way better looking than this guy.

I'm so confused onto how I should feel about this. Really? I don't know if i'm ashamed or just disgusted. I was literally picturing a big jacked up black guy that was tatted up w/ grills and shit.
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Phineas Binningwater - Fri, 06 Dec 2019 18:28:05 EST 1SSFeKJF No.532672 Reply
Most people don't just have a strict hierarchy but a set of standards or needs or priorities. A lot of people men and women want "attractive enough" then it's just about being a decent person and if they're really decent that attraction bar isn't super high. Because so many guys are idiots the bar is actually quite low for being decent. I mean aside from her being a "9/10" we know nothing about this, does she have anything in common with you? Is she like the others? People have types too.

In addition to the attitude of "she has to be good enough for me too" you should consider that if you're not trash that you're fine. However make sure you're not actually trash. There's a lot of alarming beliefs implied in the OP that point to "yes OP might be trash". People can improve though and I don't just mean lift weights or whatever.
Martha Blillermock - Wed, 11 Dec 2019 00:52:28 EST jnas4L6T No.532726 Reply
have you ever considered that people might get into a relationship because they actually like each other's personality, and that even if you were a 10/10 adonis she would have said no, because she is a loyal person? don't project your jaded cynicism onto everyone else

Hey, die hard furmentist here.

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- Tue, 10 Dec 2019 04:21:02 EST 7tPrtxgs No.532715
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So I'm in my 42nd year as a die hard uber feminist, and I'm starting to wonder why. Not like I'm doubting my feminist beliefs. I'm so feminist, I only masturbate to sbbw's who are masturbating to homosexual intercourse. Anyways, vote trump. Happy 2014! Mrery Kerkmus!
Cedric Cozzlewater - Tue, 10 Dec 2019 09:12:26 EST Gb0+uHdz No.532720 Reply
this is what passes as trolling or banting now?

My aunt's dog

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- Sat, 30 Nov 2019 03:59:06 EST kDY2hYtD No.532574
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I'm thinking about killing my aunts dog. She left him here at my house last minute, for a silly and made-up sounding reason. She's and old dog, and it wouldn't look too suspicious if she just didn't wake up. She's already pissed and shit everywhere, which makes me wonder what the fuck my aunt feeds her. I believe I'd be doing this dog a favour. My saggy stomach aunt couldn't figure out how to eat like a vegetarian none the less feed her fucking dog right. I'm gonna do it, any suggestions
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Walka Focker Flambe - Tue, 10 Dec 2019 05:23:09 EST 7tPrtxgs No.532717 Reply
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I'm grinding my teeth aboot this guiz. Something needs to be done about it. I say we find out where he lives and murder him.
verm - Tue, 10 Dec 2019 06:30:19 EST fX6Yh9Du No.532718 Reply
if you do, please get the dog euthanised by a vet. it's not the dog's fault that your aunt is incompetent
Jack Clibberfoot - Tue, 10 Dec 2019 06:54:31 EST vCPwibdy No.532719 Reply
Shoo, four-channelers. Nobody has to die, no dogs have to die, there's no reason to commit any violence.

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