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save gf/let her go by Barnaby Gondlesot - Sun, 14 Jan 2018 04:43:47 EST ID:N+I75Jtq No.521465 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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didnt know where else to post this but im freaking out. my gf left... not me particularly but she left to go back to her old smack and crack habits.

shes been there with me through some of the hardest shit ive ever had to deal with. i wanna do something for her now before something bad happens whether shit ends today or not. we get our /benz/ scripts today. which means i can be there for her now since im addicted primarly to /hooch/. or i can do a better job than i did recently (being drunk out of my mind every fuckibg day n not giving a fuck about shit etc)

k wut do... im broke. shes somewhere in mtl but wont tell me where cause she doesnt want me to see her like that even tho dont care n i love her.

this goes out to the people here who know addiction. should i give it my all n try n save her from herself or is her whole dont wanna be found thing an excuse to get high and i should leave her alone even if that means losing the only person that means ANYTHING to me in this world
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Barnaby Gondlesot - Sun, 14 Jan 2018 04:55:39 EST ID:N+I75Jtq No.521466 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521465

id apprrciate a quick response since no ones on irc and ive had 3 panic attacks since she left
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Lillian Blackstock - Sun, 14 Jan 2018 05:43:06 EST ID:h/1sxUpj No.521468 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521465
Dude, you know the answer. You will always regret this if you do nothing. If you do try to find her it may still go south, but at least you will have taken action and won't have to live with the question. You even said this is the only person that means anything to you. This isn't a question.
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Graham Cisslesun - Sun, 14 Jan 2018 06:39:06 EST ID:9cRQ1bGM No.521470 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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you two are enabling each other in a codependent downward spiral and you should break that shit off and fix your own problems before trying to get a gf imo
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James Bennerhall - Sun, 14 Jan 2018 06:44:23 EST ID:I3Iy9lXv No.521471 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521465

Do what you can to help her. Let her know you are there and waiting if she needs support.

This is fresh, you can fight for her, but if it goes on too long you have to accept that she's gone and move on, but you don't have to do that yet.
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Barnaby Gondlesot - Sun, 14 Jan 2018 07:16:38 EST ID:N+I75Jtq No.521475 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521465
thanks everyone... she isnt answering my texts anymore... fucking hate this shit
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Graham Cisslesun - Sun, 14 Jan 2018 07:58:34 EST ID:9cRQ1bGM No.521477 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>521475
I honestly hope you have the self-respect to not take her back after whatever shenanigans she thought were cool enough to torch your fucking trust over
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Sophie Goodhall - Sun, 14 Jan 2018 08:22:25 EST ID:TUgPV7Lr No.521478 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521475
Just remember, you can't help someone that doesn't want it OP. Otherwise you could get dragged down too.
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Barnaby Gondlesot - Sun, 14 Jan 2018 08:38:03 EST ID:N+I75Jtq No.521481 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521478
well aware. thanks though
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Barnaby Gondlesot - Sun, 14 Jan 2018 08:48:15 EST ID:N+I75Jtq No.521482 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521477
doubt it... seriously kinda done
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Sophie Goodhall - Sun, 14 Jan 2018 12:27:44 EST ID:TUgPV7Lr No.521488 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521481
Yeah, fuck me I guess huh?
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Sophie Mellerford - Sun, 14 Jan 2018 23:46:45 EST ID:eLRQSL1/ No.521494 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>i love this girl
>should I try helping her

you stupid op if you really have strong feelings then do it, it's better to regret expressing love than to regret not having expressed enough.
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Fuck Cisslechine - Mon, 15 Jan 2018 00:07:07 EST ID:eov5GVhP No.521496 Ignore Report Quick Reply
People always talk about girls wanting bad boys so they can change them. But it goes both ways. I had to confront this about myself a few years ago I'd also go after dumb broke ass girls. I wish I could tell you you'll get over but I already see me falling back into my bullshit.
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Hamilton Wirringway - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 02:43:37 EST ID:N+I75Jtq No.521657 Ignore Report Quick Reply
fast forward a few days... shes batshit and not in the bitches be crazy way either. she is fucking nuts. well so am i but i mean i caught her talking shit again.. my self esteems low enough. i dont have to hear about my idiocy all day. shit hurts specially when it comes from someone you love. this is the last straw tho cause last night she fought me litteral punches in my face for 3-4 ounces in a 40. i was like wtf cunt youre nuts. she goes you wanna see nuts?! destroys the bathroom door (only place left to hide mind you) and proceeds to come at me with my butterfly knife. so yeah dodged i took it from her and poured what was left of the 40 in the toilet just to be a cunt and possibly get her to realise she was gonna kill me for 4 ounces of whiskey.

shit didnt help. lol she came at me with anything and everything. knives a baseball bat whatever. i proceed to gtfo and watch as she destroys my guitar, tv, xbox etc... was like fuck it

stimmed outside shit suucked. dont know anyone in this town. next morning shes passsed out naked in the living room. mind you when she was trying to end my life over a bit of hooch she was naked too.

whatever she wakes up all hi honey... derp derp. yeah hi. wait whats wrong? you tried to kill me last night dude. no i would never. oh yes you would. shows cell video of her saying the craziest shit ever and me with my back against the bathroom door just before she broke it down.

omg im so sorry

swear i dont remember nothing. i remember how my love for you suddenly disintegrated last night though.

full retard mode now... but i love you then calls me whatever insult she can think of. she went like weird mood swing mode til i was like look you broke all my shit i just want you out. please..

tldr its over shes gone. glad im still alive even tho i loved her
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James Smalllock - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 04:36:38 EST ID:CPjK4N4f No.521662 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521657
So, you waiting around for her to finish the job?

RIP OP. Couldn't be fucked to do the right thing in death. Killed by his girlfriend for a blast airhorn gas.
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Hamilton Wirringway - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 07:49:14 EST ID:N+I75Jtq No.521666 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521662

nah i kicked her out. didnt think i left that part out. now the inevitable sadness of losing someone you share awesome memories begins. i fucking hate you, life. really...
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Hamilton Wirringway - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 07:52:47 EST ID:N+I75Jtq No.521667 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521666

bump cause i dont wanna end this thread with 666.
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James Smalllock - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 18:09:00 EST ID:CPjK4N4f No.521672 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521666
You had good times but hers is a downward trajectory. You've jumped off that ride so maybe it's time to look at getting your shit together. Women should be the icing, as some other guy said, the topping on your sundae. Make a good sundae so it doesn't need topping. People aren't going to pour actual melted chocolate and fresh crumbled fudge on shit ice cream either. You're young, you can bounce. It'll be hard work but no one ever asked "what if I made my life great for nothing?".
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Hamilton Wirringway - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 18:49:27 EST ID:N+I75Jtq No.521674 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521672

thank you. helped put me in a better mindset. fuck her manipulative ass. goes to show aswell that there arent only beaten women these days... i like to greatly exagerrate my shit but shed hit the shit outta me and out of fear of being labeled a wife beating fuckup i never retaliated.


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