#qq on IRC

Mintzs !GD3wBpep0Y - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 12:14:49 EST d5kHsYag No.518069

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Hi folks,

If you're looking to talk to someone immediately about any problems you have in your life and have nobody close to you, come and speak to us!

Join us on IRC on #qq. Most of us have different time zones but if you stay there, one of us will be there.

Don't be afraid to speak up.

Phineas Soblingford - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 15:51:04 EST bwJOb6Ln No.518073 Reply

>>518069

who is us? which IRC server? how do I know you won't gently nudge me over the edge like that nurse who used to enter the suicide pacts and then her skype always "failed" at the last minute so she would just watch the other person die and then move on to the next person?

>>	Thomas Hobblekore - Mon, 14 Aug 2017 08:11:39 EST iATmjcFJ No.518079 Reply >>518073 username of the said nurse?

Mintzs !GD3wBpep0Y - Mon, 14 Aug 2017 08:29:02 EST d5kHsYag No.518080 Reply

>>518073

Haha, what the fuck! No, no nurses here.

irc.420chan.org #qq
Us = Anyone in the channel, there's about 10 of us who normally reside there for anyone coming in with problems. Three of them are people who have come in with problems before and have stayed.

>>	Hugh Smallgold - Mon, 14 Aug 2017 10:14:03 EST bwJOb6Ln No.518081 Reply >>518080 http://www.independent.ie/world-news/europe/internet-nurse-is-notorious-suicide-voyeur-26642530.html OK it was a male nurse pretending to be a female nurse, you can see how I would misremember that

>>	James Bunspear - Mon, 14 Aug 2017 20:14:37 EST JjCIWimW No.518088 Reply >>518069 anyone recommend an IRC client?

>>	Simon Gocklehick - Tue, 15 Aug 2017 08:50:57 EST RWMYdvNQ No.518091 Reply >>518088 http://webirc.420chan.org/

>>	Jack Pickfuck - Thu, 17 Aug 2017 14:04:08 EST bvxd4h2s No.518125 Reply >>518088 I already have installed XChat but I've never used it and I don't know if it's good.

>>	Angus Cezzlechare - Thu, 17 Aug 2017 17:28:46 EST /brn2RiX No.518132 Reply man now i gotta look at a fuckin banana whenever i visit this board

>>	Eugene Pickfoot - Fri, 18 Aug 2017 07:48:37 EST dIFWQvnm No.518141 Reply 1503056917865.gif -(113978B / 111.31KB, 200x200) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>518069 remove banana

>>	Ebenezer Bardforth - Mon, 21 Aug 2017 14:58:58 EST bJ2LE8mc No.518239 Reply 1503341938214.jpg -(12392B / 12.10KB, 180x203) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>518132 It makes me think of snorks from STALKER. And I hate snorks. *mintz ruins something once more.*

>>	Samuel Memblecocke - Fri, 25 Aug 2017 06:48:33 EST 1505Uoxr No.518336 Reply >>518132 I bet you this fucking banana saved some lives just reminds me of the druids off star wars

>>	Cornelius Cabberspear - Fri, 25 Aug 2017 09:42:16 EST nvypr5d8 No.518337 Reply Is this shit pinned or something? It's always at the top every time I visit qq.

>>	William Bubbersodge - Fri, 25 Aug 2017 13:41:55 EST UjNuOR6B No.518340 Reply >>518337 yeah if u look at the header at far right u see a little paperclip

>>	Eugene Dabblestone - Sat, 26 Aug 2017 16:38:48 EST ikpnFLjC No.518359 Reply 1503779928525.jpg -(18196B / 17.77KB, 358x294) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>518340 Oh I didn't notice.

>>	Walter Dongerworth - Sat, 26 Aug 2017 21:35:19 EST eH7FoqZP No.518365 Reply >>518363 Did you try what >>518091 suggested? It uses your web browser. If it helps, I'm using Chrome.

>>	Phineas Drerringlut - Tue, 29 Aug 2017 23:18:52 EST S4bGwxLS No.518450 Reply >>518091 Just follow this link, set your nickname (or leave it as Reuben, it doesn't matter) and then when you are connected type "/j #qq"

>>	John Surrywet - Wed, 30 Aug 2017 01:07:13 EST pmugxqoG No.518452 Reply ..

>>	Sidney Sendlehood - Fri, 15 Sep 2017 15:23:55 EST gI2h8Ggi No.518810 Reply >>518452 hello my friend

David Shakeshit - Fri, 15 Sep 2017 16:43:36 EST xWV2176R No.518811 Reply

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I have two friends that genuinely like me, yet I hang out with this one asshat that always rips me of. Do I even deserve happiness?
Having a borderline personality disorder is so much fun.

Fanny Blackspear - Wed, 20 Sep 2017 03:03:43 EST Ix5ljcqH No.518872 Reply

>>518811
Must suck. Maybe act the way you would if you loved yourself.

I care for a lady with borderline and schizophrenia and yeah the borderline stuff is tricky, keeping us on our toes avoiding any slight trigger. But then the delusions kick in and it's just a tragedy really.

Hedda Honeyhall - Wed, 20 Sep 2017 03:28:20 EST JI9kO00V No.518873 Reply

>>518811
It's been taking sheer willpower to get over mine. I really struggle with the false/true abandonment perception. Makes me push people away that probably had no intention of abandoning me. Takes A LOT of concious effort for me to talk myself out of those thoughts, and not breaking all my shit at the slightest bit of frustration.

But I'm getting a lot better. It doesn't suck that I have BPD. It sucks that BPD will never get a chance to shine through me again. Sucks for BPD that is.

Don't need to pump yourself full of meds either, just a strong will, and a desire to change. It's not going to happen magically. Make the concious effort to do what you know is right for yourself.

>>	Hedda Honeyhall - Wed, 20 Sep 2017 03:30:03 EST JI9kO00V No.518875 Reply >>518873 And if it helps or matters, I suffer from cluster B traits.

>>	Oliver Bunspear - Mon, 25 Sep 2017 08:52:06 EST EaBcbC0O No.518984 Reply >>518069 But I thought IRC was an aggressive shithole of pretension and pride?

>>	Cedric Femblefedging - Sun, 01 Oct 2017 00:43:57 EST NgmtMeLq No.519126 Reply 1506833037844.jpg -(199955B / 195.27KB, 1407x987) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I have some weird bumps on my legs that I'm concerned about, can I post pics and get your guys' advice? BWH

Gnarly McGoblin - Sun, 01 Oct 2017 13:12:22 EST XNoolq1Y No.519133 Reply

I kina accidentally purposefully stabbed myself one inch deep in my arm today with dirty scissors.
Now I got high and regret doing it. Lef-loathing whoops.
I've come to the conclusion that every human being can be a natural disaster on its own.
>>519126
Don't post infected wounds or leprosy-ebola-tier pictures. Cysts are okay.

>>	Charles Damblecocke - Mon, 02 Oct 2017 13:34:17 EST WV91K+Uu No.519158 Reply >>519126 /med/ is slow but this is totally a /med/ issue.

>>	James Sivingsadging - Mon, 09 Oct 2017 00:13:45 EST i632blqC No.519257 Reply >>519126 go to a physician

>>	Fucking Winderman - Wed, 11 Oct 2017 04:55:22 EST IFilL+Bm No.519306 Reply It hurts to live. How am I so sensitive? Am I enthusiastic or what? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=atyvdC15HFA

>>	Fucking Winderman - Wed, 11 Oct 2017 05:00:35 EST IFilL+Bm No.519307 Reply >>519306 I AM FUCKINNG WINDERMAN AND NO ONE CAN STOP ME!

>>	killshot - Sat, 14 Oct 2017 23:08:38 EST a/UwdCqG No.519410 Reply don't forget to put it down on the new world order

>>	killshot - Sat, 14 Oct 2017 23:10:03 EST a/UwdCqG No.519411 Reply https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g9XZQttjc-g

>>	killshot - Sat, 14 Oct 2017 23:12:18 EST a/UwdCqG No.519413 Reply 1508037138877.png -(178845B / 174.65KB, 450x289) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. until the coming of JAH!

>>	Jack Fangold - Wed, 18 Oct 2017 00:28:53 EST Gl/wq+Sz No.519486 Reply 1508300933946.jpg -(115011B / 112.32KB, 540x810) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. what a wonderful idea and sticky

Barnaby Dartway - Tue, 31 Oct 2017 16:29:20 EST 5/+dXwEn No.519750 Reply

Well, I'm a 24 years old Armenian guy who's living in a country wich is a full of shit and corruption, with no future, with no hope, with a jobs where companies are taking people and making them to work for free about 1-2 months and then saying that they don't need a new employee(so let's just say a country with no jobs), and even if you're working, you're getting.
Here you must work 10-12 hours just to get 4-5$ per day.

>>	Esther Fuckingson - Wed, 01 Nov 2017 21:57:53 EST zoMNIEw8 No.519766 Reply >>519750 Shit mang you gotta dip outta there. Come to US and make $20 an hour. Spend it all on things you don't need and be just as miserable but with more grandiose steps in between

>>	Polly Bromblekit - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 06:52:00 EST 2YnyrWIY No.519774 Reply >>519766 I would if I could, my uncle and grandmother are living in US about more then 27-years, they're sending me a visa but your fucking emassy aren't letting me to go there.

>>	Reuben Packlefure - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 08:28:47 EST T3h0qR5w No.519777 Reply >>519774 I'm sorry. I hope you end up making it here. We would love to have you! I wish you the best

>>	Gnarly McGoblin - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 11:16:35 EST EGdPFm/E No.519779 Reply Can you fall in love with a couple, or is it impossible due to social standards? I drink too much.

>>	Polly Bromblekit - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 15:23:32 EST 5iKbT0pV No.519782 Reply >>519777 Thank's a lot!

Sophie Duckstone - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 19:20:27 EST 5yYYR0y+ No.519787 Reply

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>>519779

>social standards

nigga what

poly relationships are shit 9 times out of 10 because at least one person won't be able to handle it. it has nothing to do with social standards ya goof, romantic entanglements with more than one person are messy and prone to disaster and should be avoided at all costs because human beings are overwhelmingly not meant for that.

Albert Chinnernatch - Sat, 04 Nov 2017 08:06:36 EST 2F6ZF59I No.519814 Reply

My life has been pureshit for a long ass fucking time. I dont think ive been content in my entire life. My throat hurts after fucking a japanese prostitute and putting her cum in my mouth, im relapsing into my addiction and now i cant get this fucking juice bottle open. Fucking hell. Worst of all theres an asshole doing gardening late at night and its almost certainly a hallucination. Fuck.

Charlotte Clonnerstitch - Fri, 10 Nov 2017 21:43:03 EST sM5nvTHu No.519937 Reply

>>519787

>this

Niel strauss wrote a whole big bit about poly relationships in his book The Truth. Basically someone is going to vie for the attention of someone and the other person will be left out and then that will cause drama and the person who is the focus of the attention with try to balance it out by giving the other people attention which upsets the original person who wanted attention which makes the person give them a little more attention which upsets the other people and so on so forth until it all collapses and everyone goes home.

He said the only way it can actually theoritcally work out is if all members of the relationship are fully committed to poly relationships. but he noted what normally happens is you have two people currently in a mono relationship who branch out to have sex with other members who are basically just being used for sex, there is no real relationship because they tend to stick together no matter what where the other people are always left on the outside of the actual relationship but are lulled into the false sense of a relationship by ticking the boxes of "dates" and so on.

Its a great book you should read it.

Sophie Pockworth - Sat, 11 Nov 2017 15:32:13 EST KbKvqV7e No.519946 Reply

>>519937
There's quite a few stable arrangements that can work but I have to admit I've only seen relationships where everyone had a primary partner work out. Whether it's actually just open with one couple or it's a complex arrangement, every poly arrangment I've seen or even read about has involved several stable couples coming together. Not everyone has to be poly though. You could have two couples with a partner who is very demanding and one who doesn't mind a bit more free time. Next thing you know you've got 2 guys getting more shed time while their girlfriends go fuck.

I've seen several poly arrangements fail and the reason is always the same shit that'd kill a normal relationship however there has been much more variability in the fallout.

All that said I couldn't be fucked with poly relationships because that shit always gets fucking complicated and navigating one relationship is both plenty for me and more than I am usually able to get. Also what I said doesn't directly contradict anything you said because it does require everyone be fully committed not just to poly relationships but that particular one. And yes a lot of the time it's often just an open mono relationship trying to pretend it's more. And aside from the pretension, as long as you're honest with everyone involved that is actually fine.

Cedric Pickbanks - Sun, 12 Nov 2017 01:29:12 EST ZMDYtLUz No.519959 Reply

>>519946

>every poly arrangment I've seen or even read about has involved several stable couples coming together. Not everyone has to be poly though

The problem with these is that they're basically just threesome groups.

I despise poly'amorous' relationships because there's no actual love involved. You want a third for fucking. If you tell me you want a third for anything else you're a lying shit. You want a third because muh variety. Fine. Be honest about it. Don't bullshit people along with this idea that love is cheap, because it's not. It never is.

Jenny Clashhood - Sun, 12 Nov 2017 07:04:41 EST KbKvqV7e No.519963 Reply

>>519959
They weren't threesome groups.

There were definitely primary and secondary couples but there was never a threesome. And there was definitely emotional involvement and/or love. I knew I still know one, this was one of the messier breakups these people so you're not going to persuade me you know them better. I don't want to go into the personal details of my friend's personal life but the breakup made it clear he lost more than just a warm hole or even a friend with benefits when he lost his second partner. But she was his second partner.

They weren't going with cheap free love though. These were people who put a lot of effort and thought into making it work, and ironically fell into normal relationship pitfalls. Maybe these arrangements are really rare (the exceptions that prove the rule or whatever) but I know what I saw.

>>	Cedric Pickbanks - Sun, 12 Nov 2017 16:35:04 EST ZMDYtLUz No.519967 Reply >>519963 Plenty of people say they see it, none ever step forward for perusal. I've seen many more times people hurt by the mad desire for a third over helped.

otherkevin - Mon, 20 Nov 2017 04:38:18 EST OpyraFTY No.520175 Reply

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the vast majority of people that come through never establish themselves.
i think that anyone with the time to engage with the community on its own terms will find that they can drum up an insightful conversation.
i think that it's unfair to expect strangers to engage with your shit basically on the premise that you want them to.
gotta make it worth their while, one way or another.

tldr; this isn't a therapist's office. lower your expectations.

>>	Ebenezer Sunnerbeck - Thu, 23 Nov 2017 04:03:00 EST ZMDYtLUz No.520224 Reply >>520175 Doesn't mean your advice can't be retarded, and it is, often.

>>	Phyllis Dartville - Fri, 24 Nov 2017 15:55:31 EST JE9PIiPq No.520247 Reply There's no one there

>>	Albert Sirrysudging - Sat, 25 Nov 2017 10:34:39 EST OpyraFTY No.520256 Reply >>520224 clear case of retardation. see: semicolon

>>	Hamilton Fasslewell - Thu, 30 Nov 2017 02:06:43 EST /Be4u+Fy No.520388 Reply Fucking sick of this banana cunt's face eveyrytime

>>	Jack Muttingfield - Thu, 30 Nov 2017 23:40:55 EST esuyK5FE No.520402 Reply unsticky this thread no one is going to be saved from suicide by a qq IRC and the banana is far too tiresome

>>	James Soblingway - Sun, 03 Dec 2017 11:10:42 EST 5mr627pH No.520454 Reply 1512317442217.jpg -(114357B / 111.68KB, 1097x1097) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. the banana is my friend

>>	d !ipeno1eqFw - Sun, 17 Dec 2017 13:42:55 EST pFLtCPbC No.520704 Reply >>518073

>>	AECH !EfVwyVp5SE - Sun, 17 Dec 2017 13:45:01 EST pFLtCPbC No.520705 Reply >>518069 thanks

Phyllis Fibberwane - Fri, 22 Dec 2017 05:37:11 EST B9o+UJ3t No.520773 Reply

>>518073
I'm on the server sometimes, and I know for a fact that the only people who even have /qq/ on their auto join are decent people. They wouldn't bother with it to troll as it's dead most of the time. It's basically just there in case someone wants to talk and there are people around. But we're not there all the time.

You have a decent chance of catching me on there any night ~10pm-1am Central.

>>	Frederick Tillingfoot - Sat, 30 Dec 2017 13:04:02 EST Oc0QiVvJ No.520971 Reply >>520454 It has no idea that you even exist.

>>	Eliza Tootspear - Mon, 01 Jan 2018 17:57:50 EST h/1sxUpj No.521054 Reply >>518073 "She" also turned out to be a 40something year old man. nb

>>	Alice Sibberville - Mon, 01 Jan 2018 18:07:04 EST 8Ct4z7es No.521057 Reply >>520971 lol

>>	Reuben Pickford - Tue, 02 Jan 2018 23:07:24 EST B4kGJF8k No.521112 Reply >>518069 mind me if i ask how to join the IRC? never use it before

>>	Reuben Pickford - Tue, 02 Jan 2018 23:09:44 EST B4kGJF8k No.521113 Reply >>518069 https://420chan.org/irc/ (didn't help at all) i must be retarded i guess

>>	Rebecca Porrystone - Wed, 03 Jan 2018 09:00:49 EST USUZpST+ No.521124 Reply >>521113 Do you know how to use google?

>>	Hamilton Blungershaw - Wed, 03 Jan 2018 15:08:27 EST TaHn706/ No.521134 Reply >>521124 boogle

>>	Esther Lightfield - Sat, 06 Jan 2018 08:43:19 EST kAEKpfyQ No.521220 Reply >>521113 A link to the board IRC is at the top right corner of the page.

>>	Caroline Greenstock - Fri, 19 Jan 2018 07:54:19 EST aizVVceY No.521630 Reply >>521220 funt

>>	Reuben Chuffingdale - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 10:03:10 EST siIHIzFP No.521719 Reply are you a new mod mintz

>>	Mintzs !GD3wBpep0Y - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 09:22:28 EST d5kHsYag No.521944 Reply >>521719 Yeah amigo, sorta new.

Isabella Sangermit - Sat, 10 Feb 2018 21:13:55 EST kB1LgM62 No.522091 Reply

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>>521944

I, for one, welcome our new overlord Mintzs. May you herald a new age of modding, less akin to a steaming heap, and more alike a golden Hiffwe statue. Praise be!

>>	Ernest Fuckingfuck - Sun, 11 Feb 2018 19:35:06 EST 7IGW3+Ip No.522133 Reply >>522091 why doesnt he start by banning the neonazi on /n/ that i reported 6 times

>>	Ernest Snoddale - Tue, 13 Feb 2018 12:10:29 EST Q3TQO9f4 No.522185 Reply >>522133 Because Spunky was the only mod that bothered with /n/ and now he's fallen from grace because of frogposters on proxies constantly bitching about him on /420/

>>	Clara Drallercocke - Tue, 13 Feb 2018 16:06:10 EST WEiGJLMT No.522197 Reply >>522185 you mean because spardot has been drinking the alt right koolaid

Isabella Saffingville - Tue, 13 Feb 2018 18:31:56 EST ilcXZXCD No.522201 Reply

>>522185

if you think the criticisms of spunky are coming from frogposters you are talking out of your ass. kirt and spardot have both acknowledged he has been overmodding. he ruined a /lit/ thread by mistake. genuine 420channers had their pitchforks out for him for a little while. they even made that hilarious gem where all the retarded-style mods were comforting brainless spunky

Ian Bemmleridge - Tue, 13 Feb 2018 21:25:16 EST Q3TQO9f4 No.522204 Reply

>>522201

That /lit/ thing was because of how nuking works (all your posts everywhere gets deleted), and I'll take Spunky's over-modding over too little modding any day. Remember the 2016 election? If Spunky wasn't around, /n/, /b/ and /pol/ would have been overrun with 15 year-old frogposting cunts and everyone else who weren't retarded or underage would've jumped ship.

The only thing separating this site from 4chodes is that this chan is actually moderated. People who get banned will always bitch and moan about it, however.

>>	Martha Dinnerbury - Wed, 14 Feb 2018 04:20:19 EST ilcXZXCD No.522215 Reply >>522204 all im saying is criticizing spunky, does not mean someone is a frog

>>	Simon Fanworth - Thu, 15 Feb 2018 09:43:42 EST jmwR2CRr No.522260 Reply >>522204 Can spunky please be unleashed upon /b/? Also I felt like killing myself but I feel better now. #bipolarlife. Wonder how long it will last haha

>>	Mintzs !GD3wBpep0Y - Thu, 01 Mar 2018 13:40:51 EST d5kHsYag No.522602 Reply I'll keep trying my best for the site to keep it clean. Please keep reporting if people are being shitheads. Also, don't forget to drop in and see us on IRC if you're ever lonely and want to talk.

Eliza Seffingman - Wed, 14 Mar 2018 08:25:48 EST AzHAtHBn No.522800 Reply

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>>522602

Bless you, mintzs. You give me a faint sliver of hope that we may yet return to our formorous gloriosity... Ah. Well. Have at, and be well!

>>	Edwin Sicklefoot - Tue, 20 Mar 2018 13:25:11 EST Po6uY38Z No.522924 Reply >>522204 youre that guy in /420/, god you fucking people

>>	Polly Benningnodge - Tue, 20 Mar 2018 18:58:05 EST Q3TQO9f4 No.522945 Reply >>522924 Yes, and I am here to persecute you. Better watch out, for I have entered certain suggestive words into the report field so you'll probably be banned any second now.

>>	Alice Sundlebanks - Wed, 21 Mar 2018 14:41:57 EST Po6uY38Z No.522960 Reply >>522945 >persecute more like obsess when you could user-ignore

>>	Frederick Cluddleshit - Thu, 22 Mar 2018 15:11:32 EST mhfl7mmC No.522984 Reply chet - ban nechet - ne ban

>>	Frederick Cluddleshit - Thu, 22 Mar 2018 15:13:15 EST mhfl7mmC No.522985 Reply >>522984 рoaврды

>>	Wesley Brookworth - Mon, 16 Apr 2018 10:09:50 EST Q2NCY030 No.523482 Reply >>518069 nice, could you send me some money? I'm dry and your talk won't help me but money will. I'm glad you're here for me

>>	Ebenezer Snodman - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 06:26:12 EST qrma4kyX No.523507 Reply >>523482 i dont have money but i can send u my love?

>>	Angus Gundledale - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 20:53:18 EST vATdGl2v No.523525 Reply >>523250 I believe you've nb'd a stickied post my dude

>>	Cedric Blibberway - Tue, 24 Apr 2018 17:38:22 EST Gsj6KPRg No.523599 Reply I am in a relationship but i miss my ex. We have similar minds. We both still have feelings for each other. He tries to contact me. Do u believe that you can be friends with someone you still have feengs for?l

Sidney Greenhood - Wed, 25 Apr 2018 06:17:58 EST 4q0D8s60 No.523609 Reply

>>523599
No, especially if you're in a monogamous relationship with someone else.
Gotta wait for those feelings to die before you can be friends; and that's what it is: death. You must learn to grieve those feelings and accept that they are fading.
Unless somehow you end up being with him again. In that case, good on ya

Reuben Burringwill - Fri, 27 Apr 2018 13:25:17 EST QvcxQVsf No.523668 Reply

>>523599
Yes it absolutely is.

The way I think of it, unless you were literally only in it for the sex, relationships are predicated on complimentary personalities. Why would you cut someone who complimented your personality out of your life forever just because you don't get to be naked and sweaty with them anymore?

Augustus Brunningfoot - Fri, 27 Apr 2018 14:05:19 EST glZ6cPk8 No.523669 Reply

>>523668
Because the reason you bonded before was your complementing personalities, and a straight consequence of that was having sex, which isnt about getting naked and sweaty, is about connecting with the person that compliments your personality.
so if you're in a relationship and happy its a fucking joke to be friends with your ex still, if youre not happy just get out of the relationship and get together again.

>>	Wesley Cundlestidging - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 11:37:45 EST QvcxQVsf No.523710 Reply >>523669 Do you have friends that you don't have sex with?

Hamilton Buzzwell - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 12:00:24 EST FhIorvpc No.523711 Reply

>>523710
Yes. none of them are girls. why would you not have sex with someone who you are attracted to both physically and emotionally? it's basic human instinct. there's no girl/guy friendship unless one of them is ugly as fuck.

Wesley Cundlestidging - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 13:22:58 EST QvcxQVsf No.523712 Reply

>>523711
Cause a thing called self control exists, and it's useful if you want to navigate the world.

Wouldn't it be useful even in just the sense that you don't get led around by your dick by people who have far more experience playing sexuality as an advantage than you will ever have?

Wesley Cundlestidging - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 13:28:20 EST QvcxQVsf No.523713 Reply

And I'm not talking like volcel bullshit, I mean just the capacity to not fuck a girl you get along with just cause you get along with them, and at least be vaguely okay with that.

I get it might be hard, but to say it's impossible just means you've never bothered to try.

Thomas Cusslefoot - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 14:23:51 EST ZeRHOq54 No.523718 Reply

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>>523711

>it's basic human instinct. there's no girl/guy friendship unless one of them is ugly as fuck.

That's bullshit and you know it, the only people who think this way are insecure men. I've never met a woman or a happy man who thinks like you do. Everything in life is not about sex, we're more than just animals. Sex is just one of many ways to form an emotional bond with someone. If you can't tell the difference between idle lust and genuine love you'll be doomed to a life of the former.

Hugh Brusslewill - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 15:55:49 EST OHp7Bid0 No.523720 Reply

>>523718

>That's bullshit and you know it

I think what he meant to say was that there's no girl/guy friendship where both are attractive without one wanting to have sex with the other (even if, realistically speaking, it's not going to happen).

I have never been "just friends" with a girl I find attractive, because I would always be trying to have sex with her and if it didn't work I would ditch the friendship because the blue balls I'd get would be too painful. The only situation in which I could be "friends" with an attractive girl is if she was one of the following:

a) the girlfriend of a friend or relative, in which case it's more of circumstantial friendship and I'd probably not be attracted to her anyway due to her relationship with a friend/relative
b) a lesbian, in which case I'd do my best to get a threesome going or convince her to ride the disco stick at least once in her carpet munching life

That's it. Anyone who tells you any different is either wrong, gay or a total beta stallion.

Nell Sucklecocke - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 21:22:42 EST 2P3gvdxW No.523723 Reply

>I want to have sex with someone. Therefore we can't be friends.

It's not the sex part that's the problem though guys. You know it's the feelings. Despite pretending to be penis enthralled grunts, it's true that men are precious little wildflowers that bloom at the remotest emotional intimacy that they don't get from other blokes. Thats what you men are afraid of when you say you cant be friends with women. Falling in love too soon to any girl that lets you be yourself for 5 minutes around her.

We don't have to have sex with everybody we want to. We don't fall in love with everyone we have sex with. We don't even have to like someone to have sex with them. It's all bullshit to protect your fragile little emotions bros. Take it from a guy preaching the same shit 10 years ago.

>>	Jack Clayworth - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 22:39:18 EST C+6NY20y No.523724 Reply >>523720 now take all of this knowledge and imagine your job is mostly females in yoga pants and you want to bang almost every coworker and you will begin to know my suffering

Emma Docklelock - Sun, 29 Apr 2018 00:16:12 EST QvcxQVsf No.523728 Reply

>>523720
How is it "alpha" to not be able to handle the mildest sexual tension without pain and misery? The only thing not having a handle on your sex drive makes you is far more likely to become a rapist.

I mean, replace sex with drugs here:
"I have never been 'just friends' with a girl who can get me drugs, because I would always be trying to get drugs off her, and if I couldn't get them I would ditch the friendship because the withdrawals would be too painful."
Does that make you "alpha" or a manipulative fucking addict?

Hannah Clattingbanks - Sun, 29 Apr 2018 12:47:22 EST HyExONGu No.523739 Reply

>>523723
Yeah but it's also possible to just be friends with a woman without falling in love.

It's probably easier if you're shit at women and have a lot of practice at not getting hungup on them than if you're used to getting what you want most of the time.

Wesley Sudgedale - Sun, 29 Apr 2018 23:58:29 EST omtoMFde No.523751 Reply

>>523739
No shit.

Lol to the second thing though. I dont think anybody ever really gets what they want but if you're having regular satisfying sex, it's a hell of a lot easier to disregard an opposite gender friend's attractiveness.

It's the pimps that mow down people in the street after all.

Nicholas Lightbury - Mon, 30 Apr 2018 08:08:13 EST glZ6cPk8 No.523754 Reply

>>523718
?
What you're saying is kinda irrelevant especially the last sentence
what i was trying to say is that, to me, it's impossible to be friends with someone that i find attractive sexually. and im not a fucking enthusiastic virgin beta, i have a long term gf and have had my share of girls in my life. i dont even get too upset about "rejection" or try too hard or at all. It's just the fact.
I can't be "friends" and "I want to fuck you" at the same time with someone. To me that's contradicting. I also don't like pointless flirting. girls who have many guy "friends" actually don't, they just tease and flirt with them all the time, endlessly, keeping the guys hopes up. that's "friendship" between attractive guys and girls in my experience.

Nicholas Lightbury - Mon, 30 Apr 2018 08:12:38 EST glZ6cPk8 No.523755 Reply

>>523712
but what the fuck is the point being friends with someone, hanging out, just to control my will to fuck her??? I can hang out with guys and that way i dont have to worry about controlling my boner.
its not like I fuck every single girl i talk to, or i think i will, i just dont make friends with the attractive ones, cause why? just to "control" my desire to fuck her all the time? what is the point when you don't have to do that with guys?
if you have to constantly control your feelings around someone you can never be honest friends. If you always think "damn this bitch is fine, i want that ass" in the back of your head you can never be completely honest with that bitch.
It's not about being able to control it, of course i dont go up to every single female aquintance of mine trying to fuck them.

Rebecca Farringsuck - Mon, 30 Apr 2018 10:55:17 EST QvcxQVsf No.523756 Reply

>>523755

>that way i dont have to worry about controlling my boner
>of course i dont go up to every single female aquintance of mine trying to fuck them

So what you're actually worried about isn't fucking them, but getting a boner in public? Presumably if you were gay, you would have been completely unable to form friendships with guys?

Nicholas Lightbury - Mon, 30 Apr 2018 11:13:20 EST glZ6cPk8 No.523757 Reply

>>523756
Omg man. The word "boner" wasnt supposed to be taken literally there.
I'm just saying don't you find it kinda dishonest if you have to "control" your sexual urges all the time around your friend? because if she's a hot girl that's all you can do. So how can you really be friends when she talks about her bf and all you can think about is boi i'd tap dat ass. how does that work? because if you tell her about your desires the friendship is gonna be ruined, if you don't then you're holding your feelings back in front of your friend. That's not a honest friendship to me, more like a game to see who fucks who first, or who rejects who first.

Nicholas Lightbury - Mon, 30 Apr 2018 11:19:18 EST glZ6cPk8 No.523758 Reply

>>523757
And thats why i say it only works if one party is ugly as fuck so there's no sexual tension. if there is it can never be an honest friendship because one or both parties will always hide their real reactions and feelings. thats not a fucking friendship
sorry for double post

Basil Gumblespear - Mon, 30 Apr 2018 22:29:01 EST QvcxQVsf No.523777 Reply

>>523757

>So how can you really be friends when she talks about her bf and all you can think about is boi i'd tap dat ass.

So if one of your guy friends got a hot girlfriend you felt like fucking, you'd have to stop being friends with them You wouldn't be able to be "honest" about fucking his girlfriend, so the only option available to you is to never talk to him, right?

>>	Fuck Dennerforth - Tue, 01 May 2018 01:23:25 EST JbZ9OEV8 No.523781 Reply >>523757 How often do you have sex? Don't you get enough to at least ignore your lust for a few hours?

Jarvis Dartbanks - Tue, 01 May 2018 11:49:04 EST glZ6cPk8 No.523783 Reply

>>523781
All the time.
you just dont want to understand the point. its not about having difficulties controlling my desire to fuck them or i feel like its overwhelming or i always think about it, its the fact that they exist and always will exist, because im a heterosexual male and she's a good loking woman. And sexual desire to me has no place in a friendship

>>	Jarvis Fingerwell - Tue, 01 May 2018 18:07:49 EST Wbtk0bF7 No.523791 Reply >>523783 Not even fuck buddies?

Jack Harringchudge - Tue, 01 May 2018 18:18:33 EST eusxCiqt No.523792 Reply

>>523783
So feelings are feelings. You cannot control your feelings only how you act on them. I think it's stupid as fuck to be held responsible for feelings. Actions and intentions are different from feelings. If your feelings control you and you have absolutely no control over them then get therapy. You do not have to engage with every feeling you have, they are like ideas. Sometimes you have good ideas that steer you in the right direction and you should seek to encourage such thoughts, while if you have dumb ideas you should learn to acknowledge them briefly then just let them be. If they often occur then change your patterns of behavior and thought so that they become rarer.

I think you're making excuses and this isn't the real reason. Or you're just being a drama queen.

Wesley Clirringhood - Tue, 01 May 2018 23:21:31 EST QvcxQVsf No.523804 Reply

>>523783

>its not about having difficulties controlling my desire to fuck them or i feel like its overwhelming or i always think about it

Then what IS your problem?

It seems like you've simply defined friendship as having no sexual thoughts whatsoever, and therefor you couldn't possibly be friends with girls, despite the fact that sounds like it would be simple for you. The inconsequential nature of these thoughts is apparently irrelevant.

Are you really discounting half the population from friendship based on absolutely nothing but this vague principle that doesn't make any sense?

Simon Dragglesadging - Wed, 02 May 2018 05:15:15 EST glZ6cPk8 No.523813 Reply

>>523804
to me it makes sense, i dont want to secretely/seldom want to fuck my friends... feelsbadman.jpg i'm completely fine with guy friends, girls aren't as fun most of the time anyway. I'm yet to see an IRL scenario where there's real honest friendship between a guy and a girl and the girl isn't just leading the guy on

>>	Simon Fanville - Thu, 03 May 2018 08:46:46 EST lf45wIaf No.523831 Reply >>523813 Just don't go wrassling with your best bro then

>>	Charlotte Dindlefield - Thu, 03 May 2018 08:50:14 EST glZ6cPk8 No.523832 Reply >>523831 that would be bredy gay

>>	Eliza Brimmleforth - Thu, 03 May 2018 19:05:29 EST GdUFLhMN No.523839 Reply >>523813 Get married friends. I'm feeling suicidal as all get out and hate myself.

>>	Eliza Brimmleforth - Thu, 03 May 2018 19:06:49 EST GdUFLhMN No.523840 Reply >>523839 and I can't log into irc. NB.

>>	Esther Packleforth - Sat, 05 May 2018 13:22:29 EST hjdKGFK5 No.523869 Reply i hate everything today

Caroline Givingson - Sun, 06 May 2018 18:51:53 EST KoTr0pX/ No.523890 Reply

R.I.P. Syn, I understand that he was a good guy and all, but isn't it the time to remove that fucking "Fuck Cancer" post from below the page?
Even Yojimbo didn't got a such a long honor when he died, nobody just gived a single fuck about him to honor his memory!

>>	Martha Gattingbury - Mon, 07 May 2018 03:02:07 EST yUhAjzvV No.523914 Reply >>523890 Yojimbo didn't die

>>	Hannah Cligglegold - Mon, 07 May 2018 10:53:06 EST hjdKGFK5 No.523922 Reply >>523890 the banner stays for at least a year, fuck you!

>>	Phyllis Ceppernadging - Wed, 09 May 2018 07:24:47 EST USUZpST+ No.523984 Reply >>523890 Just use block element.

>>	Betsy Chullernet - Sat, 12 May 2018 18:22:21 EST im6khaI6 No.524056 Reply No seriously. Does /asp/ mean anti social personality? How and where the fuck do I get help without people recognizing my car?

>>	Charlotte Herringspear - Sun, 13 May 2018 02:16:15 EST QvcxQVsf No.524058 Reply >>524056 Pretty sure the abbreviation is ASPD. Asp usually just refers to aspies.

>>	Phineas Tillingwater - Mon, 14 May 2018 03:26:40 EST m19TYEQf No.524070 Reply >>524056 >Where the fuck do I get get help without people recognising my car? Do you live in a small town or is it paranoia you need help with?

>>	Betsy Drarrywock - Sun, 03 Jun 2018 20:57:22 EST g/HREnuZ No.524588 Reply My whole ISP has been G-lined, how the fuck am I supposed to connect Virgin Media is like the biggest ISP in the UK

>>	Sophie Fuckingfoot - Tue, 05 Jun 2018 07:35:58 EST QsbKOlZ5 No.524628 Reply >>524588 Welcome to 420chan. I'm glad at least I can post here, there was a time when my entire broad geographical location was banned from the site.

>>	Edwin Fenningwater - Tue, 05 Jun 2018 08:00:27 EST USUZpST+ No.524629 Reply >>524588 No it hasn't. t. same ISP

>>	Nell Granddock - Tue, 05 Jun 2018 12:24:47 EST dsn+wF/X No.524636 Reply >>524628 Probably during the russian botnet attack? That was a case of (I would hope regretfully though I imagine it was actually a pretty indifferent action) throwing some baby out to prevent the drowning in bathwater.

>>	Barnaby Clebbernedging - Wed, 27 Jun 2018 03:03:48 EST 6x4kH2lA No.525122 Reply I fucking hate this banana

>>	Mr. Mister - Thu, 28 Jun 2018 00:19:20 EST fs4ZXM2G No.525138 Reply >>525122 This might be the best post i've seen on this board

>>	Rebecca Gonnergold - Thu, 28 Jun 2018 02:45:17 EST UlAQsiZR No.525142 Reply 1530168317354.webm [mp4] -(1929145B / 1.84MB, 360x360) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>525122

>>	Edwin Clayham - Thu, 28 Jun 2018 15:44:30 EST cBYQH4Mo No.525155 Reply >>525122 i do too

>>	' God !!vVWR8L52 - Fri, 29 Jun 2018 14:56:03 EST B/1t3ZFg No.525173 Reply 1530298563883.jpg -(521063B / 508.85KB, 1280x1280) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>525138 Yep, it's ruining the board for everybody.

>>	Frederick Cuddlestone - Mon, 02 Jul 2018 09:26:01 EST B/1t3ZFg No.525219 Reply 1530537961226.jpg -(57553B / 56.20KB, 600x600) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>525173 just kiddin' I love bananas especially after a long day of fasting.

Ebenezer Wimmerwater - Mon, 02 Jul 2018 21:33:26 EST 4TDtN/UQ No.525239 Reply

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I've become an absolute disgusting piece of shit. Although I have the capacity to get better, my mentality still holds me back, emotional distress, guilt, substance abuse, etc. By disgusting, I don't just mean mentally, I also mean physically. I have lice all over my body, not sure if it is some kind of parasite, I think it's in my stomach as well, and all this is due to being sexually active off meth, getting involved with meth hoes. Im embarrassed to go to a doctor or even go out, and I have no money to get better. I know I'm being a little bitch but literally, I took everything for granted, I'm going to be 22 next month. Has anyone gone through something like this? There is more to this story but those details will come off really methed up, lol, get it? MEDICORE UNDER-ACHIEVING HUMOUR

Simon Bluvingham - Mon, 02 Jul 2018 22:00:40 EST ehhnNOgT No.525240 Reply

>>525239
Go to the store and buy some lice medication like nix. If you can't afford it, maybe try going to a free clinic or some sort of charity. Gotta get deloused as step one before you do anything. I've heard pumpkin seeds and pumpkin seed extract are good for parasites in the stomach but maybe that's just for tapeworms.

>>	Edwin Chillerworth - Tue, 03 Jul 2018 10:45:12 EST USUZpST+ No.525249 Reply >>525239 >lice >some kind of parasite >in my stomach as well I mean you may have lice but more likely you have Morgellons by which I mean you have meth-induced delusional parasitosis.

>>	Jarvis Fungerpat - Tue, 03 Jul 2018 12:43:57 EST ka63e54W No.525252 Reply >>525239 I bet you eat mountains of ass I do too.

>>	Molly Famblehood - Tue, 03 Jul 2018 14:24:55 EST cBYQH4Mo No.525256 Reply >>525239 u prob got scabies n crabs n shit dude see a doc and burn all your linens

>>	Nell Brishsterk - Tue, 03 Jul 2018 17:03:06 EST B/1t3ZFg No.525263 Reply >>518141 WISDOM

>>	Sophie Grimford - Mon, 09 Jul 2018 10:36:23 EST F9Vg456V No.525407 Reply >>518080

>>	Jack Cendlenut - Fri, 10 Aug 2018 22:18:22 EST s/I3figu No.526059 Reply 1533953902398.jpg -(139158B / 135.90KB, 960x619) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>525256 UM HELLO YOU'RE NOT BEING HELPFUL

>>	Hugh Gubblepuck - Mon, 13 Aug 2018 23:40:31 EST LiDoGP54 No.526110 Reply social anxiety sucks ass

>>	Lillian Gaddlegold - Wed, 15 Aug 2018 20:30:25 EST SHhda2fi No.526141 Reply >>526110 I used to have bad social anxiety. Now I just don't care about forming relationships with other people. It's exhausting and a waste of time and money. I'd rather be learning things or making money.

>>	' God !!Bwteoy2D - Thu, 16 Aug 2018 02:34:19 EST B/1t3ZFg No.526143 Reply >>526141 Like 90 percent of most peoples energy is supposed to be grounded by other people which means we are mostly born to serve other homo sapiens.

>>	Alice Sedgebot - Thu, 16 Aug 2018 11:48:35 EST ka63e54W No.526156 Reply >>526143 Holy fuck thats disgusting you little liar

>>	Hamilton Blythestone - Thu, 16 Aug 2018 14:17:17 EST Om/gGBzM No.526163 Reply >>526156 'God used to be Awe god and he posted stupid drivel then. Usually I don't like to speak up about people who are genuinely trying to help but if people actually take him seriously he becomes dangerous.

>>	Alice Sedgebot - Thu, 16 Aug 2018 18:33:56 EST ka63e54W No.526172 Reply >>526163 I suppose it was harsh. I am sorry, that was wrong for me to do.

>>	Alice Sedgebot - Thu, 16 Aug 2018 18:33:56 EST ka63e54W No.526173 Reply >>526163 I suppose it was harsh. I am sorry, that was wrong for me to do.

>>	Fanny Cebbertog - Mon, 20 Aug 2018 18:12:19 EST dwxJXzd4 No.526273 Reply how do i join one of thse stupid fucking servers i donwloaded the mirc thing and can't connect to anything, i'm always just in a chat room alone and pretty much always want to kill myself

>>	Jenny Cidgehall - Wed, 22 Aug 2018 21:25:52 EST cBYQH4Mo No.526298 Reply >>526273 IRC is like 140 years old. if you cant figure it out then you are the dumb one.

>>	Phoebe Turveywell - Thu, 23 Aug 2018 10:16:48 EST dwxJXzd4 No.526306 Reply >>526298 i got it to work but then my free trial ended, guess i;ll kill myself, llel

>>	Isabella Blobbledad - Thu, 23 Aug 2018 18:55:23 EST USUZpST+ No.526316 Reply >>526306 Use something that isn't on a free trial basis then. Try hexchat

Nicholas Hommerstock - Sat, 25 Aug 2018 17:01:23 EST cBYQH4Mo No.526347 Reply

>>526306

heres a little secret: when it says your trial is expired and it doesnt let you click the continue button, wait about 20 seconds... then the button becomes active. ive used a free trial of mirc for about 8 years.

Edward Buzzstock - Sun, 26 Aug 2018 17:27:05 EST dwxJXzd4 No.526359 Reply

>>526347
that's the thing though, i did that too, but after awhile that stopped working

instead of being a grey "continue" button that you could eventually press, it was replaced with a grey "exit" button, that would close the program when pressed

>>	Oliver Pickville - Sun, 26 Aug 2018 19:30:16 EST USUZpST+ No.526361 Reply >>526359 so use a different client fucking hell

>>	Nathaniel Turveyville - Mon, 27 Aug 2018 21:32:04 EST CzsIkqaR No.526377 Reply >>526361 which one nibba it took me like two hours to fucking figure out the first one

>>	Fanny Cipperchack - Tue, 28 Aug 2018 06:06:07 EST USUZpST+ No.526382 Reply >>526377 fuck off

>>	Fanny Clinderfuck - Tue, 28 Aug 2018 11:24:02 EST dwxJXzd4 No.526384 Reply >>526382 No, you fuck off great conversation friend, you shouldn't literally go kill yourself

Jarvis Sungerlot - Tue, 28 Aug 2018 18:28:19 EST 1bXgNl08 No.526406 Reply

I had to give a presentation about web development and cloud shit today and I nearly had a panic attack. My voice was kind of anxious-sounding and my heart rate was higher and I was shaking and shit. Overall it was ok, I'm leading a group project and teaching people how to code, but I'm an anxious mess and my anxiety is ruining my life. I'm also skipping my night class because they have us do calculus problems in groups and I just can't deal with other people right now. My anxiety has been so bad I've even been avoiding my roommates and I get anxious about contacting clients.

I'm falling apart.

Ernest Dripperstock - Tue, 28 Aug 2018 19:39:08 EST lXjUaJuo No.526412 Reply

>>526406
Speaking from my own experience of anxiety you should try to stop avoiding things and people as it's just gonna make you feel worse about yourself in the long run which will just make you more anxious and ever more prone to avoidance. Personally I've found anxiety to be something like quicksand; the more you struggle to not be anxious the further you'll sink into it.

>>	' God !!Bwteoy2D - Thu, 30 Aug 2018 15:12:37 EST 1t+J+EG9 No.526449 Reply >>526406 As the other guy said ^^^ it's a paradoxical thing. I'd suggest pretending or actually believing that the anxiety is actually something natural and the way that things are supposed to be, see what happens.

>>	Phoebe Blythewater - Thu, 30 Aug 2018 21:17:09 EST 6sPQ+nk1 No.526454 Reply >>526449 Ignore this asshole.

' God !!vVWR8L52 - Fri, 31 Aug 2018 00:51:06 EST 1t+J+EG9 No.526457 Reply

>>526454
This asshole has experienced going from extreme social anxiety to being more at ease in social situations than majority normal of folks. Not only have i had it to a more extreme extent than most people who think they had it, but I am also an extremely rare case where I was able to completely turn it around and use to my advantage.

I mean take it with a grain of salt just consider the possibility that the advice is coming from a more grounded place than you are likely to get at least on this forum.

Samuel Bardwater - Fri, 31 Aug 2018 07:04:39 EST USUZpST+ No.526460 Reply

>>526457

>I mean take it with a grain of salt just consider the possibility that the advice is coming from a more grounded place than you are likely to get at least on this forum.

yeah sane people love to brag about how sane they are

>>	' God !!Bwteoy2D - Fri, 31 Aug 2018 07:32:42 EST 1t+J+EG9 No.526461 Reply 1535715162540.jpg -(1826036B / 1.74MB, 2118x3000) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>526460 Said out of compassion and accuracy of assessment.

' God !!Bwteoy2D - Fri, 31 Aug 2018 07:39:07 EST 1t+J+EG9 No.526462 Reply

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>>526460
I mean many people here might be giving advice on how to travel the east africa, but if someone has already done it to a large extent it makes sense to say: hey guys your opinion may be better than mine, but here I am someone who has already done what you are talking about and here's my insight into it. I said it, so that closer attention would payed to the message.

Point is: I've walked the walk, feel free to learn.

Also feel free to ask questions about the message or try it out and report to me with the results, cause only trying it has the potential to change anything vs contemplating and thinking about it.

>>	Emma Drirryridge - Sun, 02 Sep 2018 17:14:47 EST WWZfJCYo No.526499 Reply >>526462 pretentious tripfag is pretentious. who knew? nb

>>	Emma Drirryridge - Sun, 02 Sep 2018 19:05:46 EST WWZfJCYo No.526501 Reply >>526500 seriously pretentious

>>	Esther Pemmermark - Mon, 03 Sep 2018 11:13:03 EST USUZpST+ No.526512 Reply >>526510 no you really are

>>	Eugene Bollygold - Mon, 03 Sep 2018 20:03:50 EST ux+4Rp+2 No.526529 Reply >>526514 What's wrong with that cat?

>>	Isabella Blasslebury - Wed, 05 Sep 2018 14:50:31 EST bK0aJXA7 No.526567 Reply >>526529 It's probably dehydrated

>>	Graham Blorrychet - Thu, 06 Sep 2018 22:02:21 EST rQyG9XI5 No.526582 Reply >delete facebook >nobody attempts to contact me through other means (twitter, texting, calling, email, skype, mail, in-person, etc) welp, guess they weren't my real friends after all

>>	William Murdfuck - Fri, 07 Sep 2018 09:47:59 EST USUZpST+ No.526585 Reply >>526582 >deletes facebook >doesn't attempt to contact anyone through other means welp, guess you weren't their real friend after all

Frederick Saggletedge - Fri, 07 Sep 2018 11:09:11 EST i/X49HfF No.526586 Reply

>>526585
I used to, but then I moved a few hundred miles away, so my irl friends turned into internet friends, but it's not the same as online-only friends who you never met in person before. It also gets tiring always being the person to reach out to other people first.

William Murdfuck - Fri, 07 Sep 2018 11:45:25 EST USUZpST+ No.526588 Reply

>>526586

>It also gets tiring always being the person to reach out to other people

they probably feel the same way. you've introduced an extra hoop for them to jump through in order to speak to you, you shouldn't be surprised if they don't so much.
that said, yeah in a lot of cases if they always suck at responding then find some people who don't. Or just get used to only being in touch with friends from time to time. People used to live like that. You think our grandparent's generation got upset if they didn't get to speak to their entire social circle every day? Or just had a different idea of what a friend is?

>>	Jack Murdforth - Fri, 14 Sep 2018 17:52:20 EST Pwq0Fy/H No.526678 Reply >>518069 Going to chill on IRC for awhile if anyone needs an ear.

>>	Jack Murdforth - Fri, 14 Sep 2018 18:06:26 EST Pwq0Fy/H No.526679 Reply >>526678 Yea never mind. Don't know what I did but try to converse on #420chan and without any warning i get banned? <Spardot> GET THE FUCK OUT YOU MOTHERFUCKING RETARD. Great community

>>	Nigel Hemblestock - Fri, 14 Sep 2018 22:37:20 EST cBYQH4Mo No.526680 Reply >>526679 Hahahah cry more

>>	Shitting Clecklecocke - Sun, 16 Sep 2018 10:34:30 EST ux+4Rp+2 No.526693 Reply >>526679 Sounds like our admins

>>	Edward Duckfuck - Mon, 17 Sep 2018 06:22:13 EST oEmJazXS No.526699 Reply >>526679 Please be patient, She has enthusiasm.

>>	Albert Drubberpun - Fri, 21 Sep 2018 04:40:21 EST KF3yGmDF No.526747 Reply >>526679 you gotta fight for your right back in, i had to do a dance and send it to them it worked tho

>>	Phyllis Sozzlestod - Sun, 23 Sep 2018 21:04:54 EST dVp8iHEG No.526777 Reply >>526747 Nah he should just evade and post pictures of his scrotum in retaliation

>>	Beatrice Hengermire - Mon, 15 Oct 2018 23:30:30 EST fMWa6u7G No.527196 Reply >>527056 Fuck. Thanks for the good idea, I should've used that to get unbanned before. Oh well, next time.

>>	Fucking Dronnerditch - Sat, 17 Nov 2018 23:16:45 EST WJ5AAiiD No.527765 Reply >>518069 4chin is kill. Where should I migrate to?

Charlotte Gottinglock - Sun, 18 Nov 2018 08:06:54 EST wVwbY1G3 No.527767 Reply

>>527765
Earnest suggestion here. If you don't want to play it this way then my only answer is "any one except this"

>Look at a bunch of communities
>lurk the promising ones and get a feel
>find the one or more which you like as is and don't need to be "more 4crap like"
>lurk and understand them
>join them fully

Or if none satisfy, found your own or find a bunch of like minded people who will. Don't try and find the next best thing and turn it into 4crap. If you're not there, then it obviously wasn't perfect so why try to bring that somewhere else?

>>	George Duckridge - Sun, 18 Nov 2018 18:08:40 EST USUZpST+ No.527773 Reply >>527772 She didn't say you were. You're clearly angry and retarded.

Fuck the Fat Ass Drunk Driver - Wed, 28 Nov 2018 17:18:19 EST AmQEdZgV No.527924 Reply

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So I'm driving down the street when this fat ass drunk driver almost hits me he then proceeds to roll down his window and yell at my children I hope the fat ass has a heart attack.

>>	Fuck Honeyforth - Wed, 05 Dec 2018 12:31:23 EST Pwq0Fy/H No.528004 Reply >>527924 love how admins delete everything everything else but this love enthusiasmdot

>>	Frederick Wonkinstock - Wed, 12 Dec 2018 23:15:00 EST 35DhZFiY No.528121 Reply do tinder dates every really work out?

Martha Buzzdale - Thu, 13 Dec 2018 10:02:00 EST /XvieVYl No.528131 Reply

>>528121
ive been together with my tinder date for 3 years. wife material, although at the time she was a hoe, but since we're together she's stopped her hoe ways, and seems happy to me.
thing is, everyone is a thot there, but some thots are just normal women with daddy issues.

Edwin Forrydun - Sun, 24 Feb 2019 03:43:21 EST 3r2gcFW3 No.528191 Reply

>>528131
you cant turn a hoe into a housewife though. those hoe tendencies will resurface the second she loses any sense of security in ur relationship.

im not even trying to troll though, people dont change they just act. just sleep with one eye open is all I'm saying.

>>	Phyllis Doblingwill - Sun, 24 Feb 2019 06:04:52 EST USUZpST+ No.528193 Reply >>528191 what about a hoeswife

Basil Fuffingforth - Sun, 24 Feb 2019 08:30:58 EST ffVpGLbu No.528196 Reply

>>528191
People can't be sorted neatly into two camps. If a "housewife" can actually be a "hoe" then can not a "hoe" be simply a "housewife" who is out their element and going through a rough patch. I mean some women might be utter hoes but what about the ones who are just being a bit of a hoe? What if they're actually in a rough patch and things are fucked up but actually the moment they're not in a toxic relationship and have a scrap of mental health (or maybe even just the experience they just got) they realise they aren't about that life and don't go back.

I do not entirely share your view on this and have just adopted it so I can use terms and a frame of reference you seem to be comfortable with

I'm actually a believer that we do learn lessons. While the core us is solid some of the basic assumptions we make many of our decisions based on can change quite significantly.

Lillian Drirringfield - Sun, 24 Feb 2019 22:09:26 EST lwA017Av No.528205 Reply

>>528191
That's like saying that once you're a neet virgin, you can never be in a fulfilling relationship or stop being an utter loser. Bullshit in other words. People grow and change. It's easier for you to live in with your cynical world view because it protects you from putting yourself out there.

Frederick Bundock - Mon, 25 Feb 2019 16:45:12 EST kK8ephfW No.528207 Reply

>>528205
a woman who's slutted around a lot will always know that's an option and may at any point find that preferable to being your housewife, and if you were ever a NEET virgin the odds that you won't always be practically hopeless with women are pretty small even if in the future you do make enough money to get laid somehow

Henry Blushway - Mon, 25 Feb 2019 16:56:34 EST XlaE7k5x No.528208 Reply

>>528207
Why are people talking about having a housewife anyway? Fuck that, she can work.

Any woman or man can go fuck someone else. It is possible for anyone.

A woman who has been there done that might care less about giving up sex with randoms than your hyperthetical chaste sexmaid. Probably. The chaste ones are still horny. I mean you know that you little pest.

Also its pretty funny how you think you need to have money to get laid because plenty of us are deadbeats that still do alright.

Albert Coblingway - Wed, 27 Feb 2019 12:04:45 EST USUZpST+ No.528237 Reply

>>528207

>a woman who's slutted around a lot will always know that's an option

Everyone knows that's an option. Not having done something doesn't mean you don't know that you could. What stupid logic. Someone who's "slutted around a lot" will know that it's harder now they're older, will not be curious what it's like to try since they know, and will know it's unfulfilling which is presumably why they stopped doing it.
Or not because people are people and everyone does things differently but it's dumb to make a sweeping generalization like that.
Fuck you and your pimp mindset anyway.

Ebenezer Cricklehare - Mon, 18 Mar 2019 02:29:34 EST Lny7/LNo No.528427 Reply

>>528415
Well hey, since we're venting about nerds: I try to give some personal advice to new LARPers. Whiny harpy interrupts me and starts ranting about how that's totally not how SHE roleplays and how there's more than one type of LARP yadayadayada.

Bitch I'm trying to help people enjoy their first time in an outdoors hobby, fuck off with your vampire storytelling bullshit. Nerds, man. Fucking nerds.

Lillian Hullerson - Mon, 18 Mar 2019 05:39:19 EST 6LKG4JTv No.528430 Reply

>>528429
Nope, ‘Vampire the Msaquerade’ which is basically dramatic vampire politics with a dash of pretense.

When I called her out on it she just did that whole passive aggressive thing people love to do, tells me enough about that community as a whole.

>>	Hedda Sidgekedge - Mon, 18 Mar 2019 07:04:57 EST ffVpGLbu No.528432 Reply >>528430 There's a larp thread on /tg/ and by larp it's a mix of >people talking about armour and fighting styles >people wondering about larp >people who have actually larped: only horror stories and warnings nb tho

>>	Lillian Hullerson - Mon, 18 Mar 2019 10:47:55 EST 6LKG4JTv No.528433 Reply >>528432 Hahaha I think one or two of those horror stories are mine. I really had to vent.

>>	Simon Sittingshit - Mon, 18 Mar 2019 14:42:02 EST CZVvW8PV No.528435 Reply >>528433 im gonna have to check that out.

>>	Wesley Clizzlespear - Fri, 22 Mar 2019 00:47:58 EST R8hIgJfh No.528456 Reply >>528432 Kill yourself faggot

>>	Walter Honeyfuck - Fri, 22 Mar 2019 02:18:58 EST Lny7/LNo No.528457 Reply >>528456 What bug crawled up your ass?

>>	Awe' !!Bwteoy2D - Sat, 30 Mar 2019 15:23:44 EST 5Bls3hzp No.528571 Reply 1553973824167.jpg -(12442B / 12.15KB, 437x578) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>528457 It's just a scarab.

>>	Awe' !!Bwteoy2D - Sat, 30 Mar 2019 15:25:36 EST 5Bls3hzp No.528572 Reply 1553973936906.jpg -(159146B / 155.42KB, 800x800) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>528571 Crawled right up to the heart and just decided to sit there.

Eliza Hurringhall - Thu, 04 Apr 2019 10:20:55 EST JCATCBbz No.528636 Reply

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I just want to precede this by saying hang tough, you're not alone in feeling miserable.

You guys know how when you make a plan, you foresee the pitfalls? Like, if I'm trying to build a bookshelf I'm fully aware and endorsing the possibility that I could hammer a thumb. Well I just found out I smashed the fucking shit out of my ONLY proverbial thumb. I'm unemployed and donate plasma regularly for supplemental income. Well I've been donating plasma successfully for a few months and got complacent I suppose. They tell you to eat a meal within three hours prior to donating. That's a rule I have been successfully wiggling around, until this morning. Last time I was doing a donation they told me right before they stuck me that they're gonna take samples of my blood for testing. That would not have been a problem had I eaten well prior to that donation, but I was depleted. So they surprise me with a very IRREGULAR TEST at the last second. I didn't tell them what I thought of that, though I definitely should have. Fast forward to this morning, they don't even screen me but make me take a $30 Lyft back and forth just so they can tell me that they need ANOTHER FUCKING APPOINTMENT so I can give a blood sample for overt testing. So after a week from whenever I give the sample (maybe today), they'll presumedly let me keep donating. My very thin financial plan was fucking crumpled by this chicanery. Now my phone bill "promise to pay" agreement will certainly not be paid, as a result I'm continuing to fucking ruin my mother's credit score. I wish I had had enough money to file an assumption of liability for $452 a year or so ago, I guess now I'll settle for wanting to end it all.

Ugh dudes and dudettes. I'm in a scary fucking place right now. I can deal and that's life but I'm so fuckin' mad! I haven't been legitimately angry like this in a tremendous time. I guess it makes me mad because I'm helpless now. At least I had a plan and it was going swimmingly but making these marginal sums of money was the only tool I had left. Now the rhythm is fucked and I hate anyone with a face. Much love though, I'm suffering too.

>>	Hamilton Gandlesedge - Sat, 06 Apr 2019 10:38:56 EST 8JMT0wmI No.528665 Reply >>528636 >having to literally sell your lifeblood to survive I feel for you man.

Clara Semmerman - Wed, 10 Apr 2019 05:35:00 EST RLwJnyZd No.528708 Reply

>>518069
I think I just got diagnosed with Bipolar II. Man, that shit sucks, I really hoped that by just getting my self-esteem in order, went to theraphy and fixed up my life, I'd just be.. I don't know, eternally normal and happy-like.

My therapist still has to go through the last tests I did, so who knows, but she (and my previous psychiatrist) seemed pretty certain that it be like that. It really makes sense for me too I guess, it really does explain a lot, but I just felt like living a normal life is gonna be impossible now, and that I just have to accept deep pits of depression.

I guess I should be glad that I'm getting somewhere at least, and that it could be worse. I could be schizo or blind, I could be drowning or being mistakenly ousted as a pedo in the national press.

Just how it is, I guess.

Nell Chibblewater - Wed, 10 Apr 2019 12:29:48 EST Lny7/LNo No.528714 Reply

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>>528708
Oh god, all too familiar a pain to me. I've been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, and just revealing that is pretty much a death sentence for any social interaction. Hell, I'm pretty sure someone who's experienced with BPD people will read this and immediately think I'm an unforgivable asshole. And I guess I am? I'm trying not to be. Sometimes.

But like you said, at least I'm not a politician with a scandal or y'know...dead.

Hedda Crunderdat - Thu, 11 Apr 2019 15:31:51 EST UZ9BzlLq No.528728 Reply

>>528714
Don't tell anyone.

Get therapy because CBT can help you control it so that you're imperfect in your own way like everyone else rather than prone to well... I've experienced plenty of it. I think most of them were ones who did everything they could to numb the bad feels except actually confront they had an issue. Many lives were ruined but it wasn't really the BPD it was just them being shitheels about their problems.

Most of us have some sort of problems and we keep it under wraps pretty well, if you can do the same you'll rarely fuck up and the fuck ups will minor and you'll be quicker to fix them and control your life. All these things are also variable. Become someone who is trying not to be all the time, but just sometimes slips a bit.

Or don't. But then you deserve the scorn.

Hannah Sellernurk - Thu, 11 Apr 2019 15:50:38 EST aKLE6eU1 No.528730 Reply

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>>528728
Eeeh, yes and no.

Saying don't tell anyone implies a certain level of shame or fear, which isn't good. Same time though you need to be aware of the fact that people have these preconceptions and not bandy that information around. Like unless you've been dating someone for a couple weeks and its becoming a long term thing, people just don't need to know. If you're taking some kind of medical leave because you're in a real bad place, you don't need to tell your boss its because of BPD. If you act like an asshole to somebody you can apologize without saying you have BPD. Sadly mental illness is still wicked misunderstood and people will have some bad kneejerk reactions.

My man, remember where you are. Not to even mention the fact that you're on /qq/, this joint is replete with junkies of one stripe or another, most of us know what its like to have something affect you so strongly that it changes how you behave. There's a difference between being a cunt and acting like one. As long as you're trying to be the best version of you that you can be you'll never be "an unforgivable asshole", you'll just be behaving like one.

Priscilla Brommerdock - Thu, 18 Apr 2019 15:09:36 EST Lny7/LNo No.528862 Reply

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>>528728
>>528730

>Even the replies are like a coin flip

Ha ha, fuuuuck. No wonder I was magically attracted to cannabis, everyone seems to agree I'm less of a cunt when I'm high. Might be the whole 'not freaking out about the burden of mere existence' I had when I was younger (and sober).

Edward Danderstedge - Fri, 19 Apr 2019 04:44:09 EST UZ9BzlLq No.528877 Reply

>>528862
I feel I should say I agree with Hannah while standing by my post, what they say adds nuance my post lacked. I've seen the worst of humanity and it had borderline. However honestly anyone who has a personal issue that results in them hurting others regularly and indulges it rather than seeking treatment when they know better is a bad person. That's not a unique borderline thing.

A lot of people say medicating borderline doesn't work. It didn't work for the people I know though they probably felt better about themselves. They also avoided direct diagnosis because they gamed the system, answered their questionnaires in a way they knew matched the diagnosis they wanted for the drugs they wanted (there is definitely a subset of psych graduates who study that subject to better understand their problems, it's actually a really bad idea because they study human nature and can't process the truth in a healthy balanced way). Everyone has flaws a lot of us had trouble with existence as teenagers, do you run or do you fight it? And no, not everyone gets it right straight away. What you do going forward is always what counts most.

Wesley Bludgecocke - Sat, 20 Apr 2019 19:42:46 EST iaUvY3Io No.528905 Reply

>>528862
Yeah, I agree with Edward insofar as telling people is generally something you want to avoid, I just wanted to make sure you weren't internalizing that as there being something 'wrong' with you.

People are great at internalizing things we're told or tell ourselves repeatedly. Thinking "I shouldn't tell people frivolously because they might get the wrong idea about me" is worlds apart from "I can't tell anyone because then they'll know I'm an irredeemable fuckup and total basket case"

BDP is a bitch. Its not an easy thing to live with and while you need to hold yourself accountable so you can be the best 'you' you can be and actually live, you also need to be understanding with yourself. You didn't choose this, you're trying to be a good person, and even though your illness might make you act like a total fag on occasion that isn't who you are. You can be the bad guy in a situation without being a bad guy as a person.

Get help, do your best to be better, and be patient with yourself. Recovery is a fucked up crooked ass road and sometimes you might find yourself lower than where you started but that doesn't mean you're not making progress.

You will become what you deserve, whether that's a good thing or not is up to you. Keep your stick on the ice, we all out here rooting for you. And remember; if the women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy.[\spoiler]

Barnaby Fallylire - Tue, 23 Apr 2019 13:31:27 EST Lny7/LNo No.528920 Reply

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>>528905

>You can be the bad guy in a situation without being a bad guy as a person.

Thanks, Zangief. But I get what you're talking about, no one can be patient & happy with others 24/7. And some people really are just scum who deserve a good chastising.

I tried to get help for it, actually. Therapist and all. Let's just say it wasn't really a success. The joke is, I think I'm doing better on a lot of parts of life than other people. Not to mention the years of fucked up shit made me more resistant to things I see other people struggle HARD with.

>>	David Gammerstere - Tue, 23 Apr 2019 21:42:25 EST jDv+ota+ No.528924 Reply 1556070145939.jpg -(88059B / 86.00KB, 640x640) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>528920 hey man when zangief is right, zangief is right

>>	Doris Drebbledut - Wed, 24 Apr 2019 06:15:37 EST J6yzX8WL No.528927 Reply >>518069

Samuel Packlenure - Wed, 01 May 2019 00:48:15 EST JCATCBbz No.529143 Reply

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>>518069
FUCKING FUCK IT'S ALL FUCKED AND I'M THE FUCKER FUCKING IT
For fuck's sake. Fuck it right in the bum. Precum substitution for poop offered at discount prices, just for the lucky fuckers. Orbiting planet fuckus in a fuckmarine fuckship, guzzling fucka-cola with fuckslaw at the barbefuck for a fucking side. Moments like these really make me feel like a fuckless fuckwit. OK I think it's out of my system I'm good now. Pardon the fuckery.

Nicholas Clettingfig - Sun, 05 May 2019 09:26:50 EST JCATCBbz No.529216 Reply

It can be tough, you know? When you're passed out on the living room floor I don't shout across the house or fucking stomp around; yet when you know I'm trying to sleep you default to yelling across the hallways and running around. What's up with that? I can't tell you or even suggest to you that you shut the fuck up because you're my caregiver. It's like we have toilet paper walls and I'm an hour more of this from buying some sanity ear plugs or a handgun .

Do I just say hey the walls are micrometer thin? Do I ask for basic reciprocity? Do I fucking explode in a few months when I finally can't take it and blow it way out of proportion? How do I move into a quiet place? I have the potential to make more than enough money. I need serenity. I think I need rural residence. Where's that Xanax driving probation fag? Wanna trade houses? Either way I'm too sober for this; where's that fucking cough syrup...

Doris Diggleluck - Sun, 12 May 2019 08:40:00 EST hA4L2t+D No.529328 Reply

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I’m early in sobriety. Like 65 days.

I’m bipolar and own several guns. I have no plans to give them up, I will buy several more probably.

I just lost the woman I love due to me being manipulative and acting crazy. She was and still is my everything.

At this point every day I don’t shoot myself in the head is a victory. Thank Odin for the 12 steps. Thank the pharmaceutical industrial complex that medication exists.

It hurts so bad. I am literally crying while on the toilet at work posting on a drug chan on mother’s day.

Hugh Gebberdidge - Sun, 12 May 2019 16:49:03 EST NAsLuOoG No.529342 Reply

>>529328
This is what's become of the American male. No offense, please don't shoot anybody, and I hope things get better, but I just had to say something to stamp this on my mind. A small island nation of Marcy D'arcy looking dykes could hand us our ass in a full scale war right now.

Doris Diggleluck - Sun, 12 May 2019 18:50:52 EST hA4L2t+D No.529343 Reply

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>>529342
I am glad my pain allows you to get on your soapbox.

>please don’t shoot anyone

Why would I ever shoot anyone? Fuck your “mentally ill people shoot people” MSNBC meme. I’m not a the futurener.

People only give a shit about mental health when guns are involved.

>>	DrWorm !Jq.HCcHctg - Mon, 13 May 2019 01:41:16 EST tnOHGU5j No.529348 Reply >>529343 >I’m not a the futurener I dunno, the pic from your previous post would say otherwise

>>	Fuck Chinkinmudge - Mon, 13 May 2019 11:28:31 EST JCATCBbz No.529350 Reply >>529343 Perhaps not but you are a giant faggot

>>	Samuel Sennerridge - Mon, 13 May 2019 17:30:07 EST hA4L2t+D No.529355 Reply >>529348 it is a pic that makes fun of /pol/ you dense modtard.

>>	Samuel Sennerridge - Mon, 13 May 2019 17:31:10 EST hA4L2t+D No.529356 Reply >>529350 >goes on /qq/ to call people faggots Stay classy.

Reuben Pagglebury - Wed, 22 May 2019 12:48:14 EST JCATCBbz No.529490 Reply

>>518069
Hmm. I'm trying to rest. You're literally yelling at someone three feet away from you. Please shut the fuck up. Please be considerate of me. No? Ugh. I don't understand why you're so unnecessarily loud! He can hear you, you guys can have your conversation without disturbing me. Oh well I guess.

>Fuck loud

>>	Reuben Blythewater - Wed, 22 May 2019 14:26:07 EST 138dZzdZ No.529493 Reply why didn't you text me back i was worried

Edwin Blatherforth - Fri, 24 May 2019 13:29:51 EST Lny7/LNo No.529521 Reply

>>529493
Some people are just lazy or forgetful, not intentionally spiteful. It's easy to assume the worst, that's the tricky part.

On an unrelated note, I've gotten uncomfortably comfortable with how often I get cuts and bruises with my shit job. Self-harmers would be envious. I think I might be developing a masochistic streak as well.

David Hushman - Sun, 26 May 2019 03:52:15 EST JCATCBbz No.529561 Reply

>>518069
There was no hope for sleep. That is, no prayer of rest. Not with these Charmin walls and the hang around Saturday night crowd coming back to the hub at 1 in the morning. Is my mistake having to work tomorrow morning? Not drinking enough to pass out before the cacophony arrived? Maybe it's my fault for thinking my need for tranquility to fall asleep comes before your need to express your obnoxious ass. Hey maybe I'm just a considerate person. I'm respectful. If it's after midnight and I'm in your house I'm not going to be a loud drunken fuckwit. The real question is what do I do now? It's clear that I'm going to feel like shit tomorrow morning so what I do now I suppose is irrelevant. I could be a giant asshole and proclaim my truth to those around me. Hah. That would never happen. I feel too guilty about being a burden to ever assert my needs. So yeah I'm a doormat. That's not even the worst part though. The most painful part about it is how you yourself are complicit in harming me in this way. Indeed; you. The one who's supposed to be watching out for me. But it's the youngest fella vs 4 inebriated homeowners; the odds aren't hard to pick. Is being a good sport giving me that much self esteem? Nah, not really. This is just another dash of salt in the big vat of emotional stew I've been brewing... So I resign to bitch about it here instead of addressing it head on. Craven? Maybe. Considerate? I sure hope so. What a world! There are kids starving, walking miles and marathons just to have potable drinking water, dodging tigers and human trafficking drug lords desperately trying to keep their doomed family alive. Nope my problem is not being respected. Or is it? Maybe my problem is not loving myself. At least not truly. I've been trying to kill myself ever since I was 19. If I loved myself I suppose I wouldn't be constantly poisoning myself. If I truly loved myself I wouldn't lie to everyone. If I really gave a fuck about me anymore I wouldn't be here. Geeze, what a bummer. I really got myself down thinking about this to be honest. There's still a pilot light on though; I can taste the redemption at the end of these trials. The day when I'm completely alone and happy - the way I want to be. Good wiggles y'all.

Doris Nullysork - Wed, 29 May 2019 14:58:45 EST +s+a5IEh No.529643 Reply

>>529561

>Charmin walls

You've got some wit at least.

You should start thinking about a medium term plan to change your living situation. You have enough brapimpls to rub together that you shouldn't be doomed to this existence forever.

>>	Hugh Blythewell - Fri, 07 Jun 2019 01:25:46 EST Lny7/LNo No.529753 Reply 1559885146484.jpg -(33017B / 32.24KB, 680x301) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. It's not about the lack of a destination, but the things we lose on the way there. I want things back, damn it.

Edward Blytheway - Fri, 07 Jun 2019 02:16:39 EST lcs0FVJ4 No.529754 Reply

>>518069
anyone here? I tried and failed to kill myself today, so now i'm sitting here next to my sleeping husband wishing I had planned for a backup but I'm too big of a pussy to do it again. Back to planning. I am selfish and dramatic and sucker of all love, life, and attention.
I still let my childhood bullshit tear me down and break me into manic fits when I feel like this. I'll build up the courage to do something about it but I chicken out or like the last time I was found out. I fucking hate myself because i can't motivate to do one or the other just perpetual pain and fuck up. Everyone i know just keeps telling me to go to a shrink but no one understands how fucking hard it is to find one under the insurance or that isn't empty/ shallow where i live. See I'm full of excuses and bullshit ... i'm pretty good at hiding this stuff until something big happens like someone dying.

>>	Edward Blytheway - Fri, 07 Jun 2019 02:19:35 EST lcs0FVJ4 No.529755 Reply >>529754 who cares

>>	Edward Blytheway - Fri, 07 Jun 2019 02:31:51 EST lcs0FVJ4 No.529756 Reply I'll be okay...

Matilda Grimhood - Fri, 07 Jun 2019 12:17:14 EST +s+a5IEh No.529757 Reply

>>529756
You're a ticking timebomb. You might have to talk to your husband about saving some money for a decent shrink. He'd rather scrimp and save a little bit than let you suffer. Your happiness brings him happiness and your misery or avoidable death will do the opposite. You know it he knows it.

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Hugh Blythewell - Fri, 07 Jun 2019 13:47:44 EST Lny7/LNo No.529760 Reply

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>>529754
Not sure where you live, but last time I went to my house doctor, told him about my shit and he both prescribed me freaking anti-depressants (which I didn't take, glad too in retrospect) but also recommended me to a therapist which made it count for insurance purposes.

Ironically that house doctor died from lung cancer late last year, I stopped seeing the therapist after one session and the thing keeping me going positively through life are decriminalized soft drugs. Funny world, this. Still, check if your house doctor can help you. Weed and shrooms are not for everyone.

Alice Fullerfield - Sun, 23 Jun 2019 23:09:13 EST dSPy0yiU No.529967 Reply

>>529760
You're sort of a jerk when you prey on other fragile people's uncertainty about medication. Yeah, I'm probably accusing you of more than you're actually guilty of, but what good does it do to add fear of medications to someone you know nothing about? I'm pretty sensitive about this having known people who really should be on medication, but aren't and they are ruining their lives and the lives of everyone around them.

Thomas Chirrylock - Mon, 24 Jun 2019 05:08:29 EST 8DXKLi1o No.529976 Reply

>>529967
there is no universal truth. what might be true for you (anti-depressants are good for me) might not be for him (anti-depressants are bad for me).
don't be so quick to accuse someone of evil intentions. you don't know what he's been through, and visa versa. he might have had a bad experience with prescription drugs himself, or know someone who has.

One of my family members is right now suffering from severe delayed physical side effects because in her youth doctors forced her into a "treatment" by carelessly and liberally applying heavy medication for a minor ailment. I've seen another family member go through a personality change from anti-epileptic drugs.
These experiences have made me very, very wary of medication and drugs. Especially those that concern something as invaluable and complex as the human brain. I'll still take medication, but only when it's absolutely necessary.

Alice Trotforth - Wed, 26 Jun 2019 15:29:34 EST Lny7/LNo No.530026 Reply

>>529967
Please do note I spoilered it on purpose and also said

>Still, check if your house doctor can help you. Weed and shrooms are not for everyone.

My house doctor was a fucking quack, that's the joke. Dude's career was nothing but prescribing pharmaceutical crap to elderly people, he nearly got ME fucking killed when I was 12 by misdiagnosing a burst appendix for god's sake. I'm GLAD the dude's fucking dead from cancer, it's pure karma at this point. So fuck him, fuck you and fuck every pharma-monkey pretending to be a legit doctor.

>>	Eliza Honeyridge - Thu, 27 Jun 2019 13:55:37 EST 3rsqXzWo No.530040 Reply 1561658137283.jpg -(506107B / 494.25KB, 1212x848) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>530026 >So fuck him, fuck you and fuck every pharma-monkey pretending to be a legit doctor. amen

>>	Hannah Pittspear - Thu, 27 Jun 2019 17:53:43 EST 8DXKLi1o No.530043 Reply >>530040 what the fuck is going on with her eyes? I'm no animé expert, but even I can tell there's something wrong with her anatomy

>>	Wesley Sopperson - Thu, 27 Jun 2019 22:56:12 EST jnas4L6T No.530045 Reply >>530043 pupils at the same height as nostrils lol

>>	Sophie Shittingwater - Fri, 28 Jun 2019 00:37:47 EST FaJOj9XV No.530048 Reply >>530043 down syndrome

>>	Sophie Sirringfet - Sun, 30 Jun 2019 23:19:28 EST g/wdAkBE No.530116 Reply >>530026 Don't say fuck you to me. Fucking asshole

Polly Winnerson - Sun, 30 Jun 2019 23:30:23 EST dSPy0yiU No.530117 Reply

Fuck you for what? Being upset that i know people and my gf knows people in her own family that refuse to even try medication? Oh so it's just some fluke that she was bipolar and horribly depressed and so are her sisters and yet when she got on meds she enrolled in university, has a 4.0 gpa, and has a job for the first time in her life. I pity people like you. I fucking pity her sister's and their kids. She suggested meds because they have the same mental illness as her but go untreated. Tell me to go fuck myself, but i thank God that i met someone as strong as her and who deals with these similar bullshit attitudes. I'm sorry your meds didn't work for you and I'm sorry that you didn't work for your meds. Her sisters say fuck you, but it's usually to the cops as they're getting arrested for a manic episode.

Sophie Pennerkuck - Mon, 01 Jul 2019 13:40:33 EST Lny7/LNo No.530129 Reply

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>>530116
>>530117
Don't come crying to me when your gf's meds stop working and she tosses herself off a bridge or just wrecks your entire relationship by cheating on you in an attempt to find that little bit of joy again, she had to get it through pharmaceuticals because she obviously couldn't ever get it from you. You're in love with a ticking time bomb, and when she explodes in your face it's going to be a glorious disaster.

Can't wait to see your thread pop up in /qq/!

>>	Sophie Sirringfet - Mon, 01 Jul 2019 14:01:18 EST g/wdAkBE No.530130 Reply >>530129 I won't because you'll probably be locked in a padded cell after succumbing to one too many crisis events

>>	Sophie Pennerkuck - Mon, 01 Jul 2019 14:54:55 EST Lny7/LNo No.530135 Reply >>530130 I see yours is slowly setting in already.

>>	Lydia Blinningshit - Mon, 01 Jul 2019 19:51:31 EST 3A/9rSkO No.530143 Reply >>530129 Fun to see the mentally ill shitting on the mentally ill because they've got nothing better to do in their miserable lot in life. Grow up and take your pills.

Jack Snodwell - Mon, 01 Jul 2019 20:11:28 EST uZExeyVJ No.530146 Reply

>>530143

>Fun to see the mentally ill shitting on the mentally ill because they've got nothing better to do in their miserable lot in life.

this is literally the norm for imageboards and the people use them, why are you surprised at this? NB

>>	Augustus Bardfield - Mon, 01 Jul 2019 21:52:44 EST 3A/9rSkO No.530150 Reply >>530146 >"imageboard" culture Go back to the future Marty.

>>	Simon Drishworth - Mon, 01 Jul 2019 23:51:18 EST +cDBckoC No.530156 Reply 1562039478423.jpg -(33882B / 33.09KB, 720x463) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>530146 >NB >in a sticky

>>	Albert Pockfoot - Tue, 02 Jul 2019 14:00:22 EST Lny7/LNo No.530175 Reply >>530143 >Projecting this hard The only one who needs a pill is you, a cyanide one to be sure.

>>	Jarvis Brindernere - Tue, 02 Jul 2019 20:22:54 EST qTml9FbR No.530179 Reply 1562113374795.png -(62528B / 61.06KB, 276x213) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>530175 >telling people to kill themselves

>>	Thomas Biffingpun - Thu, 04 Jul 2019 09:23:52 EST l1NmIjLu No.530196 Reply 1562246632944.jpg -(447705B / 437.21KB, 1920x1200) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>530179 Is this your cat-person?

>>	Isabella Pollywick - Fri, 05 Jul 2019 07:58:10 EST qTml9FbR No.530213 Reply 1562327890134.jpg -(122883B / 120.00KB, 980x657) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>530196 No, this is patrick

>>	Emma Drubberworth - Fri, 05 Jul 2019 15:26:39 EST loFqoohq No.530216 Reply >>530213thats some good I I m a g I n a a t I o o n!

>>	Eliza Fommerfuck - Tue, 16 Jul 2019 22:55:18 EST JCATCBbz No.530459 Reply >>530216 Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma ma maa ma maa....Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma ma maa ma maa! Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma ma maa ma maa.. MAN RAY

>>	Wesley Smallwater - Wed, 17 Jul 2019 01:37:35 EST mEnDUHX1 No.530463 Reply >>518069 This is a really good idea

>>	Isabella Blackville - Thu, 01 Aug 2019 18:15:31 EST d9sPFq3k No.530731 Reply 1564697731330.jpg -(76097B / 74.31KB, 620x914) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>530459 Chick'a boom! chocolate mama get that broom and make a wroom! Sound

Albert Grandwell - Fri, 09 Aug 2019 03:17:49 EST rvbW/7x/ No.530902 Reply

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>Be close to my grandfather
>mourn his death for years
>find out he used to burn my uncle with an iron rod
>family didn't tell me cause they were worried they were gonna hurt my feelings

My whole life has been a lie.

>>	Ernest Hoddlekere - Sat, 10 Aug 2019 06:18:13 EST USUZpST+ No.530928 Reply >>530902 Burn your uncle with an iron rod in his memory.

Clara Clirringput - Sat, 10 Aug 2019 06:46:44 EST qTml9FbR No.530929 Reply

>>530902

Isn't it funny the things your family hides from you? Like the things I learned about my family like I never knew I would have had an uncle but my dad's brother got murdered by his friends when they were teenagers, and my dad's real dad who I never met is a complete bastard who won't physically acknowledge his own children's existence, and my aunt used to get beat by her ex husband, and my parents met in a heroin den when they were in their early twenties.

Never knew any of that shit for the first 25 years of my life, and never would have guess any of it based on how my family acts, but it all makes sense looking back.

>>	Ernest Fanfoot - Sun, 11 Aug 2019 07:55:12 EST USUZpST+ No.530951 Reply >>530929 I don't see why any of that's an odd thing to hide from your young children

>>	Beatrice Brookhall - Mon, 12 Aug 2019 10:15:46 EST hiKxQg3e No.530987 Reply >>530951 People like to hide this kind of bullshit but in fact, hiding it is really harmful. You just have to introduce them to it at the appropriate age and not lie to them before that, just defer.

Nathaniel Gemmlecocke - Mon, 12 Aug 2019 14:55:23 EST FfKOgUEy No.530990 Reply

>>530987
I sort of agree with both of you. I mean it is harmful but people say Santa is real. Which isn't the same. Santa's non existence isn't near as fucked up.

But yeah you can gradually introduce that fact or something. The hard part is knowing the appropriate age though isn't it? There's no ideal age for anything. Most of the time it's better to defer a little bit too long than jump the gun.

>>	Nathaniel Fudgewater - Wed, 14 Aug 2019 16:19:42 EST 8nEEdvzV No.531021 Reply >>530990 My dad was old as fuck so I wondered once in a while but I honestly have seen uglier people get laid than even my fatass parents so he's probably it.

Nathaniel Fudgewater - Wed, 14 Aug 2019 16:51:18 EST 8nEEdvzV No.531022 Reply

>>530990
Not sure maybe I misunderstood so here's this..

I'd never pretend to a child that God existed because I think that's cruel, same with the afterlife, and the same with the death of family members or others. I think lying to kids about death just creates some kind of cruel, slow torture. They don't understand it immediately anyway.

Fanny Choffingstat - Sun, 18 Aug 2019 05:24:28 EST qTml9FbR No.531093 Reply

>>530951

>Young child

They hid that shit from me until I was almost thirty. I'm the youngest child of three, and as far as I know my older brother and sister still don't know any of what my parents have told me about their tumultuous past.

They could have told me this stuff when I was a teenager. It's a mistake rying to hide people from the bad parts of life instead of informing them properly. I would have likely avoided making several bad choices when I was younger if I had known my dad wasn't just talking out of his ass. I might have respected his opinion more if I knew he had actually experienced certain things and knew what he was talking about. There was no reference with which to respect his opinion.

>>	Polly Trotstone - Tue, 20 Aug 2019 04:37:42 EST hiKxQg3e No.531149 Reply >>531093 That's some Shakespearean-drama tier shit man. Maybe you could fictionalize it and novelize it to get it out, it's unusual enough that people might want to read it.

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