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- Fri, 30 Aug 2019 17:52:56 EST 4ib52sHp No.531426
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So I'm 25 and have no place to stay other than my grandmothers house but my mother lives there too and shes mentally ill, a meth addict and is extremely jealous of me for some reason... Like she's constantly competing with me in wicked weird ways like for example she'll scream and freak out on my gram if she has a problem with my mom bringing her dealers or junky friends over to rip foils in her room and will say things like "Joey and his friends hang out here and smoke pot and thats ok?!?!" She's very mentally abusive towards my gram and just doesn't care... I'm working on finding a job and my own place at the moment but I need some advice on how to deal with it in the meantime... The way I worded this may not sound that bad to you but I just didn't want to get too far into detail because its pretty fucked up.
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Hugh Clossleham - Fri, 30 Aug 2019 18:22:42 EST qTml9FbR No.531427 Reply
>>531426

>The way I worded this may not sound that bad to you

No, it sounds pretty bad. Honestly, I know it's a fucked situation, but do you really feel comfortable leaving your grandma alone with your mom like that? I know it sucks, but you should really consider sticking around for a while longer to help your grandma out.
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Ernest Siggleman - Fri, 30 Aug 2019 18:53:16 EST dSPy0yiU No.531428 Reply
>>531426
>The way I worded this may not sound that bad
I was literally sent into a panic while reading it, it sounds that bad.
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William Ponninghall - Fri, 30 Aug 2019 19:07:52 EST t1LmLTGr No.531429 Reply
Give us details if you want. This is an anonymous forum and you're describing the life situation of the families of many addicts.
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Thomas Giddlefuck - Fri, 30 Aug 2019 20:12:05 EST 4ib52sHp No.531430 Reply
Well its gotten to the point where my gram is too afraid to cough without being yelled at and bitched at (Shes 75 and has been smokin since she was like 12)
My mother is super delusional and thinks its her house (which it isn't she literally rents a bedroom... My old bedroom)... She freaks out about her bf hitting up other chicks or fucking/gettin head from other chicks and like screams about it for hours and if my gram gives any advice or says anything all of the rage is directed towards her.... Like a week ago my mom got mad at me and told my gram and everyone else not to help me or do anything for me cuz she was mad at me and my gram gave me some cigs before i left and as i walked out the door i could hear "you're the most retarded fucking cunt I've ever met!!!!!"
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Shit Fubblefutch - Sat, 31 Aug 2019 07:59:59 EST FkfSy9sN No.531434 Reply
>>531430
Just stop thinking of her as your mother. How would you treat a roommate who behaved this way? If she's got meth in her car wait until she leaves and call the cops saying she was nuts when she left and they'd better go get her. She can get clean while she's waiting for her PA lawyer.
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Fucking Blenkinbanks - Sat, 31 Aug 2019 09:49:40 EST mEbTcPlw No.531435 Reply
>>531430
consider calling the police man. your mom might be taken in and evaluated.
at any rate, that's awful, rough. i feel bad for you
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Walter Sollyhedging - Sat, 31 Aug 2019 10:05:33 EST V6inbDPQ No.531436 Reply
>>531435
This.

Or take her out in public and make sure shes intoxicated, call the police and try to rig the situation so she gets a few felony charges.

Or, you could deliver her out to another state one night and leave her at a gas station.
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Jarvis Nullerridge - Sun, 01 Sep 2019 02:07:24 EST hEhIvdDq No.531445 Reply
OP here....How so I go about setting her up to get arrested without me looking like a rat?
I want her out of my lifr
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Simon Trotwell - Sun, 01 Sep 2019 02:50:17 EST d8rig9Qm No.531452 Reply
>>531445
Drink a whole gallon of milk the day before, you will sweat all fucking night soak the bed and then wake up shitting bright red blood.

All these facts combined can be used as a distraction.
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Lydia Clacklefuck - Sun, 01 Sep 2019 22:51:58 EST yUhAjzvV No.531464 Reply
>>531445
Why do you care if you look like a rat? Who gives a fuck?
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Ernest Fanbanks - Mon, 02 Sep 2019 13:21:07 EST 4Avidcnb No.531477 Reply
>>531445
When she's clean she'll thank you. She will say, "I may be in jail but at least I'm free." Just wait until she leaves the house high driving and call the cops, describe the car and give them her license number and tell them where they can pick her up. Tell them it's your mom and she's a danger to others on the road in this state and you're tired of covering for her.
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Samuel Geshmuck - Tue, 03 Sep 2019 17:15:30 EST yUhAjzvV No.531494 Reply
>>531477
That's assuming she ever gets clean, she's a bit far along down this path as it is. The longer someone walks it, the less likely they are to ever go down another. I have three friends with junkie moms, and I don't ever see any of them ever changing... two of these friends are married and their two moms especially aren't ever going to get clean. There is zero chance.

Honestly OP is better off learning to deal with his mother being upset over his actions. Might seem wrong to be that cold toward a parent, but sometimes it's necessary. Her feelings aren't worth more than anybody else's. If she turns her life around and later on understands, great. That's some icing on the cake.
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Matilda Sagglelare - Wed, 04 Sep 2019 20:17:14 EST jnas4L6T No.531509 Reply
yeah you gotta find where she holds the goods then snitch on her OP. she's quite dramatically overstepping a number of boundaries of both yourself and your grandmother and she is abusive and manipulative. i am sure she plays the gaslighting game of false memories or convenient amnesia as well. snitch on this bitch get her out of your life and let your grandma cough in peace.
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Edwin Huckleshaw - Thu, 05 Sep 2019 02:33:53 EST dwRlUgko No.531519 Reply
>>531518
Don't kill anybody, OP.

Why hasn't anybody asked OP why they can't move?
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George Bluffingstock - Thu, 05 Sep 2019 10:02:00 EST D5FQumzU No.531521 Reply
>>531519
I wouldn't leave my grandmother in that situation. You have a pretty shitty view on family.
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Archie Chondersire - Thu, 05 Sep 2019 11:01:09 EST hEhIvdDq No.531525 Reply
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>>531519
My grandmother own the house and... We're like wicked poor so moving isn't really an option until I find a job.
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Milhouse - Sat, 14 Sep 2019 20:21:26 EST PL+v+6Bx No.531717 Reply
>>531426
Dont listen to these pussies, tellin you to get the cops to solve your problems for you. At the end of the day you are a healthy young male and she is a meth riddled middle aged woman. Beat her ass, wipe the floor with her face. Tell her to be out of the house by the end of the day or you'll break her neck. If she threatens to go to the police or retaliate in some way simply remind her she is weak and powerless and the police dont give a shit about meth whores
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Jack Trotforth - Sun, 15 Sep 2019 13:45:38 EST UqX/QM0x No.531728 Reply
>>531717
Sure, then go through life with a dv collar when the neighbors call the cops. Fuck off, redneck.

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