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accidentally came out to my homophobic dad cause i left my room unlocked

- Sat, 05 Oct 2019 14:43:37 EST Je9nm5wp No.531974
File: 1570301017286.jpg -(3621223B / 3.45MB, 4032x3024) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. accidentally came out to my homophobic dad cause i left my room unlocked
And he saw this poster, i normally lock the door but he apparently saw it bringing me some laundry i left in the basement

Is it even that homoerotic? I cant tell for obvious reasons

He was like "damn you fancy men?!?!?" And i just kinda said yes, i mean every single person but you knows

Then he just walked out

Things are strained and awkward now

What can i do
Hamilton Grimlock - Sat, 05 Oct 2019 17:03:26 EST TTO+qi10 No.531977 Reply
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If your dad saw a poster of Morrissey and said "damn you fancy men?" he probably already knew.

But, yea, Morrissey is really, really gay. Makes decent music, but holy shit is he gay.
Rebecca Pickdale - Sat, 05 Oct 2019 17:14:38 EST 2dpbGRKS No.531978 Reply
so you have a giant poster of two gay 80s men hugging in your room and your dad never bothered to enter?
Hannah Febbleshit - Sun, 06 Oct 2019 02:05:56 EST MlVNrTEL No.531989 Reply
>Is it even that homoerotic

Its clearly intended to be lmao
Shit Fendlepetch - Sun, 06 Oct 2019 23:51:22 EST Je9nm5wp No.532014 Reply
>he probably already knew.

most people do which is why i was surprised he made such a big deal out of it, i just figured he knew implicitly

He lives in another house most days and just rents me the one I live in, and my part of it is separated by a door I usually lock
Phoebe Grandfoot - Mon, 07 Oct 2019 00:00:23 EST TTO+qi10 No.532015 Reply

Are things strained? Did he make a big deal about it in any other way than walking out of the room? Honestly, you don't ever say how things are strange or are weird.

He walked out of the apartment (that he rents you but doesn't normally stay at, wtf is that?) or just your room? You just haven't spoken since or he won't talk to you or what? If it is bothering you, why haven't you brought it up to him?
Sidney Shakebury - Mon, 07 Oct 2019 00:58:01 EST UUGD6oYU No.532016 Reply
About 90% of people I know think I'm gay but of course suspension of disbelief is powerful when you don't have any evidence.

Being a late 20's permavirgin who doesn't really acknowledge women but also isn't an pimp about anything tends to throw people off a bit.
Shit Fendlepetch - Mon, 07 Oct 2019 03:37:38 EST Je9nm5wp No.532018 Reply
We haven't spoken since, also it's a house, sometimes he stays there, most of the time he stays at another house
Eliza Clindlepock - Mon, 07 Oct 2019 03:52:41 EST 1VcUBcZx No.532020 Reply
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You shouldn't be bothered if he hates you now. The most important thing, is what would make you happy? If he chooses to disown you then that's his prerogative, and you shouldn't allow his opinion to effect your happiness on life.
Hamilton Blackstock - Mon, 07 Oct 2019 09:15:22 EST LOrl8mlC No.532025 Reply
This is interesting to me, as the poster is not gay... But anyway, this was going to happen some day. I know you and your dad will be ok eventually, just from his reaction. He just needs time and space to process. Of course, there should be nothing to process, it should be no big deal, but unfortunately we all (especially those older) grew up in a shitty culture so he does have some stuff to process.

Lots of things might happen, no sense trying to read the future.

In the mean time, take care of yourself.
James Bubblewidge - Mon, 07 Oct 2019 18:44:36 EST usOLm3en No.532029 Reply
Make no mistake my friend, that poster is indeed really gay. Like the only way it could possibly be gayer was if those dudes were maybe fucking each other, missionary style. Then it would still be only marginally gayer.
Basil Pigglestone - Tue, 08 Oct 2019 15:41:22 EST Ii08on6m No.532058 Reply
Good luck OP, I hope your father accepts you for who you are.

I think the only way that poster could be any gayer is if one of them had an umbrella sticking out of his ass while giving a thumps up sign and there was a text balloon next to his head that says "For when it's raining men.. And it's always raining men!"

But even then, it would only be a percentile more homosexual.
NormieAF - Tue, 08 Oct 2019 16:10:10 EST U5HeAx3l No.532059 Reply
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ya live your own life and be happy and show your happiness to him with respect and not with holier than thou attitude. he might need a push eventually but let him sit with it for a week or two. then ask him, 'you alright?' randomly and if he says yes then he's ok with it. just don't expect 'men' to talk about feelings. cuz life aint perfect
George Chissleforth - Wed, 09 Oct 2019 07:11:49 EST yU2gM7RL No.532061 Reply
Can you even have gay sex missionary style? Wouldn't the guy taking it have to bend to take it?
Eliza Porringwater - Thu, 10 Oct 2019 18:32:59 EST Je9nm5wp No.532078 Reply
>just don't expect emotionally stunted and cripplingly insecure 'men' which are in no sense the majority to talk about feelings


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