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Everyone thinks I'm a predator now

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- Mon, 23 Dec 2019 22:49:46 EST sMo3jsci No.532924
File: 1577159386822.jpg -(42179B / 41.19KB, 1280x720) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Everyone thinks I'm a predator now
Aight I'm going to keep this as short as possible:

A little over a month ago I was at a festival-thingy and I met a young lady. I'm 30, she's 20, and well, one thing led to another and we hooked up. We haven't spoken that much since then, we're FB friends now but that's it. We've like... shared some memes in each other's DMs but no long conversation.

Well about a week ago a buddy of mine who was there who saw us slink off together let it slip what happened while at a Christmas party. It was fucked up enough that he had to air my business to the public, but now everyone thinks I'm some kinda pedo because I hooked up with a woman 10 years younger than me. Now I have people posting stuff on social media to look out for me at any social gatherings because I'm supposedly a "predator" and a "PUA" and other such bullshit. I've lost 3 close friends to it, saying they can't trust me. Even had someone tell me to kill myself.

I know it probably wasn't the smartest thing to do, but she is a legal adult, I wasn't on the prowl for pussy while I was there, I didn't "seduce" her, we were both stone-cold sober (well, she was, I was actually quite ripped on an edible), she actually was the one that started holding my hand and asked to kiss me before we engaged in coitus... It was perfectly consensual and no emotional or physical manipulation occurred as far as I'm concerned.

What do I do now? Was I a nonce for banging someone under 21? Either way, how do I do damage control? I don't want to bring her into this drama cuz this is some bullshit, but I don't know if people will shut up unless they hear it from her herself.
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John Lightdock - Tue, 24 Dec 2019 02:58:10 EST 7lwaBvP4 No.532925 Reply
It's not good dude. Your friends arent really friends to be honest. They didn't even talk to you. I'd give these pricks a serve of truth and then move on. Just give them your side, call them out on their blatant sexism and immaturity, say in future that the right thing to do is talk to a person first before engaging in judgmental gossip and finally tell them that you dont want to be friends with them anymore because of their actions.

Maybe talk to the girl too and see if she will back you up.

This is kind of ridiculous though and seems like a troll.
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Esther Conkinnodge - Tue, 24 Dec 2019 05:57:16 EST sMo3jsci No.532926 Reply
>>532925

Brother/sister, I wish I was playin', but the people in this scene go hard about shit like this. They're super conscious about power imbalances and shit like that, which is fair but they won't even give me a chance to explain.

Like I said I don't want to bring her into this, but then again I guess you could argue she deserves to know if people are using her as a political tool against me behind my back.

I'm moving from this town in a month so it won't be a huge loss if I have to cut ties with 75% of my friends, but at the same time I really wanted to keep in touch with folks.
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Basil Fuckinghall - Tue, 24 Dec 2019 11:40:10 EST 1SSFeKJF No.532928 Reply
>>532926
No you're missing the point though.

This actually works out brilliantly. Your scene is shit and you would have wasted a lot of time on trying to keep touch with idiots. Give your side "we are still on good terms" should probably make non fuckwits think twice and at least hear your side. 20 is still a consenting adult and as long as you didn't mislead her as far as what you wanted you did no wrong. See who still wants to be your friend. Anyone you lose would have been wasted effort before. Now you'll only be in touch with the good ones.
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Hugh Wuttingkick - Tue, 24 Dec 2019 12:12:40 EST sIDHC82P No.532929 Reply
If this is true, you are leaving something out because this doesn't make sense
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Esther Conkinnodge - Tue, 24 Dec 2019 12:28:40 EST sMo3jsci No.532930 Reply
>>532928

You know what? You're right. Let them filter themselves out. If there had been any miscommunication between her and I, I think she'd had brought it up. It's a new year and I'm starting a new life, fuck anyone #canceling me, it's not like I'll still be part of the scene/community anyway so why am I investing any emotion into this?

Thanks for helping me see the obvious mate. Deuces.
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Esther Mashham - Tue, 24 Dec 2019 14:40:18 EST xHfIqSK0 No.532931 Reply
>>532924
Your "close friends" were fucking morons, consider yourself lucky.
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Beatrice Chiddlefore - Tue, 24 Dec 2019 17:59:59 EST oXo9Ddud No.532933 Reply
That is somewhat of a large age gap (when you were 20, she was 10).

Did she look a shitload younger than you? Like you could be her dad? That's not a good look.
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Hedda Shakedock - Tue, 24 Dec 2019 19:23:05 EST qBuK22f7 No.532934 Reply
>>532933
Not particularly, she could pass for 23-25. And I have a baby face so I look much younger than I really am myself
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Martha Ceshstotch - Wed, 25 Dec 2019 03:12:13 EST MIY3Ry2U No.532935 Reply
Not saying anything that hasn't been said but if this is true then they are doing you a favor by showing their true colors. Banging 20 year olds is one of the ideal festival experiences. These seem like people willing to put you on a level they see as below them and equal to legitimate sexual predators to gain some kind of social clout. Do they know the girl and is she saying these things? It sounds like she's a willing participant here, that's kind of belittling to women to say that she can't make her own choices and a man can easily trick her into being used for sexual gratification. I would fire back asking why they hate women and beat them at their own game if I was you.
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Hamilton Pockdock - Wed, 25 Dec 2019 09:10:44 EST xsSrNPuS No.532937 Reply
Someone is callong you a predator for legal or undefined actions
As a result, you have demonstrably suffered.

Sounds like the legal definition of libel to me
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Archie Grandville - Wed, 25 Dec 2019 16:21:57 EST /S8dwJjz No.532940 Reply
>>532937
gtfo with your bad vibes, ops friends may be catty enouhg to engage such bullshit, but op is a fucking dude and hes not gonna descend to such petty shit.
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Hamilton Pockdock - Wed, 25 Dec 2019 18:50:57 EST xsSrNPuS No.532944 Reply
>>532940

Nigga is fighting for his reputation. If someone calls you a predator, that person isn't a catty friend. That person is an enemy who is trying to seriously hurt you. That's bad vibes
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Basil Banningham - Wed, 25 Dec 2019 20:28:12 EST /S8dwJjz No.532945 Reply
>>532944
there are more serious things going on. you are empowering that shit just by giving it attention and friends like that are even less worthy of spending any time whatsoever to care about your reputation from their perspective. Fuck em, don't waste any more of your time and especially any more of your energy, just move on, don't get tangled with such people lest you have to deal with anything more than you already had involving them.
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Cedric Werringshaw - Wed, 25 Dec 2019 23:15:59 EST A8m11hb5 No.532946 Reply
>>532944
Things like this will happen in your life. There will never be ultimate justice. The scales will never balance.
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Nicholas Fendertodge - Fri, 27 Dec 2019 12:15:37 EST l9B2G2wS No.532961 Reply
>>532946
It's true to some extent. However as long as good people don't keep sucking it up shitheads will eventually push non shitheads around. People find their own kind and idiots will continue to do things like this then say "I'm so fed up with drama". While sensible people eventually fine a sane group suddenly those regular social meltdowns don't happen.

But yeah there's also no point in trying to even things. It's better to just enjoy your own life and wasting energy on revenge is not how you do that.
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Under Intact - Sun, 12 Jan 2020 13:02:23 EST ZdO79o5x No.533202 Reply
>>532924
If she is over 18 I don't see the problem with it. If it was a problem than sugar daddys wouldn't exist. But I am sure if you had alot of money then no one would give a fuck and the chick would probably be praised for fucking a guy with money. But this all assumes you live in the US and consent laws are 18 where you are.
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Cyril Mibbleham - Tue, 14 Jan 2020 13:27:11 EST Dg8l4lWo No.533255 Reply
lol OP you poor retard. Now youre realizing that your gay festival burner friends were never really your friends. go find some substantial people now buddy not just people clamoring for social status by any means necessary
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Cyril Mibbleham - Tue, 14 Jan 2020 13:30:14 EST Dg8l4lWo No.533256 Reply
>>532935
>banging 20 year olds is the pinnacle of festival experience
lol hell ya dude
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John Greenshit - Tue, 14 Jan 2020 21:19:46 EST 8IGkt1iV No.533258 Reply
>>532929

Supplant "20" for the real number (16 or 17) and it's easy to figure out what OP's problem is.

That's the omission.
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Jenny Hicklehall - Wed, 15 Jan 2020 00:36:48 EST QvqpXi0j No.533263 Reply
I think OP is bragging
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Esther Crammlehog - Wed, 15 Jan 2020 17:08:31 EST ehhnNOgT No.533267 Reply
How are you this much of a bitch like really OP?
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Nell Weblingbanks - Wed, 15 Jan 2020 17:49:24 EST 0J+DB4fX No.533268 Reply
>>533259

>no way OP can EVER clear his name

Unless a court looks into it and fines his accusers, a la a libel suit
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Ian Worthingbanks - Thu, 16 Jan 2020 07:37:52 EST Y53PoKN+ No.533271 Reply
>>533268
Nice, OPs real name now comes up in a lawsuit about rape allegations when you google him
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Eugene Brucklestug - Thu, 16 Jan 2020 16:32:57 EST E508VR5x No.533274 Reply
Not directed at OP but:

WHY DO PEOPLE CARE SO FUCKING MUCH ABOUT AGE DIFFERENCES AFTER 18? THEY ARE ADULTS. THEY CAN FUCK. THEY'VE WANTED TO FUCK.

sorry.
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Angus Dungerbury - Thu, 16 Jan 2020 16:36:32 EST oXo9Ddud No.533275 Reply
>>533274
Because your brain isn't completely developed until 25.

Older men can and DO take advantage of younger girls and can completely fuck up their life.

Maybe you'll have a daughter one day and realize why it's rarely okay for a 50 year old man to date an 18 year old.
User is currently banned from all boards
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Polly Divingdare - Thu, 16 Jan 2020 16:40:57 EST eGS6zz6/ No.533276 Reply
>>533274
Reptilian elites conspire to make statutory rape taboo, so that they can keep all the little baby boy's souls to themselves.
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Simon Pennerchud - Fri, 17 Jan 2020 12:12:01 EST YY1EfUf0 No.533288 Reply
>>533258
I wouldn’t wanna stir shit up, but this is the only way this story makes sense. I mean I roll with some incredibly woke people , and have cut a dude out a friends group for sleeping with a 16 year old (he was 25 and her teacher, scumbag) but I don’t think even they would think what OP described being worth posting shit on social media and “cancelling” him. If OPs telling the truth then it just so happens that every single one of his friends is overly sensitive and on a hair trigger for this kind of stuff. If he’s lying and she’s younger than 20 then...yeah maybe you deserve that reputation.
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Charles Gumblewock - Fri, 17 Jan 2020 13:27:21 EST eGS6zz6/ No.533289 Reply
>>533288
OP should just repair his shitty old Hoover MaxExtract PressurePro model 60 vaccum cleaner. OP, I have a number you can call. Tell him that you need a new dust filter for your Hoover MaxExtract PressurePro model 60 - hell help you with that. Cost of parts and labor should come out to $250,000, cash only. Good luck!
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Jenny Blackgold - Fri, 17 Jan 2020 19:38:52 EST oEeh8XSK No.533293 Reply
look L. i never said you were a predator... i thought it was the weirdo who posted cheesepizza..
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Henry Sashpot - Sat, 18 Jan 2020 01:23:11 EST Z71VEMm6 No.533301 Reply
Wtf kind of people do you hang around that they talk shit about you for having legal sex with a girl that is just younger than you. I don't see a problem with that at all.
What the fuck is wrong with people.

It sounds like they all did you a favour by showing their true colours over something that real friends would have been happy for you.
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Nell Dupperdidging - Sat, 18 Jan 2020 15:33:30 EST oJ/8Z3Lh No.533308 Reply
wut? there has to be more to this story or your friends are some real liberal sjw losers. don't think anyone i know would care about a 30 year old banging a 20 year old consentually, even the most college town liberal sjws i know
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Fanny Fapperham - Sat, 08 Feb 2020 07:57:00 EST FPcdQvW/ No.533522 Reply
Imagine calling people who accuse you of pedophilia for sleeping with a legally defined adult "friends". OP if you are telling the truth and you aren't bullshitting, you need to tell these people to fuck off and never talk to you ever again. This type of toxic exposé of their character is definitely something you needed to awaken you to their two-faced bullshit. Nobody should have a second of their time wasted with people like this.

If you are bullshitting and there is something you aren't telling us, and you ended up sleeping with someone much younger than 20 years old then you deserve all of the shit you're getting and then some.
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Augustus Pecklegold - Sat, 08 Feb 2020 20:07:48 EST FPcdQvW/ No.533531 Reply
>>533523
It's called the benefit of the doubt, which everyone should at least get once. I also noted an alternative view, what you just happened to conveniently ignore. GG.
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Eliza Briddleway - Sun, 09 Feb 2020 13:49:26 EST /IKIxdmn No.533540 Reply
>>533531
Nah dude fuck what could potentially be a true account of an unfortunate story, all men are LITERALLY evil rapists and only an impulse away from being child molesters so it's perfectly acceptable to perform modern excommunication on them for having a personal life.
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Simon Sedgedale - Mon, 10 Feb 2020 21:16:35 EST 4A9iIlCN No.533553 Reply
30 to 20 isn’t predator behavior lmao my 17 year old ex fucked her way around a new seasons after we broke up, age range 29 to 48.

If someone gave me shit for scoring a college girl I would invite them right back out of my life.
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Samuel Gandletore - Mon, 10 Feb 2020 23:49:13 EST J6KyYR1G No.533561 Reply
>>533258
That most likely isn't illegal either. and since OP said nonce I'm assuming he's from the UK where that is completely legal. If he's from the UK that would explain why they're prudes about him sleeping with someone 2 years younger than him


>>533275
but OP isn't 50, he's 30. And if it's consensual how is it automatically predatory? if OP is a teacher or someone with power over here then sure, but just being older/wealthier isn't it
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Samuel Gandletore - Mon, 10 Feb 2020 23:52:08 EST J6KyYR1G No.533562 Reply
>>533522
>you ended up sleeping with someone much younger than 20 years old then you deserve all of the shit you're getting and then some.

18/19 is under 20, why would he deserve shit for doing that?
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David Sickleridge - Thu, 13 Feb 2020 03:11:15 EST VMzmKgcf No.533605 Reply
imo 10 years is a bit weird but if it was consensual then it's fine, you're not a monster or anything. i think this is an opportunity to realize that the people in your life and on facebook are fucking shit and low quality. you didn't even do anything and they throw you under the bus and spread it around? fuck those people, i wouldn't even feel bad because you just found out that they were pieces of shit all along. "damage control" is the wrong way to go about it. merely continue to live your life, keep around the ones that are okay, and find better people
it sounds like you hang out with brainwashed communists
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Wesley Cublingwitch - Thu, 13 Feb 2020 04:26:33 EST mPTxyHmX No.533606 Reply
If she's 20 and you're 30 than nobody even have a right to judge you, you probably could even had a sex with her and that's fine, she is'n adult after all.
And besides those close friends that you mentioned, they're piece of shit and you should stop calling them close friends.
By knowing you for what you really are, a close friend would never turn his back on you.
There are so many shit going on in this world right now, and instead of judging the things that should be judged, people are just closing their eyes and instead are judging the things that used to be a social standart norm in the past.
I feel like the degradation is getting increased.
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David Brommlebadge - Thu, 13 Feb 2020 06:48:41 EST NUPLxYIu No.533607 Reply
>>532924
you're a predator and the girl gets no blame for being promiscuous? That's a crock of shit OP Youve done nothing wrong, a 10 year age gap in a relationship isn't that uncommon & I hope you overcome your troubles
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Molly Bammlenen - Thu, 13 Feb 2020 09:33:55 EST c9Ir204E No.533608 Reply
sounds like your friends are retards she was 20 you did nothing wrong
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Eliza Clayfoot - Thu, 13 Feb 2020 12:10:37 EST HLM4ONBa No.533609 Reply
The girl is of legal age, an adult. You didnt do anything wrong. Your friends are jealous because you fucked a hot younger girl when they cant get any pussy themselves. Pure healousy.

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