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feeling sexually stifled by my partner

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- Thu, 16 Jan 2020 22:37:02 EST 2t9+xzhR No.533283
File: 1579232222894.jpg -(87849B / 85.79KB, 500x640) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. feeling sexually stifled by my partner
I'll break this down in point form to make it easy for both you and me

  • partner and I have been together for 11 years
  • my libido is higher, i'm kinkier, i initiate sex 99% of the time
  • recently got tired of initiating sex so i just stopped.
  • have sex maybe once a month now, or once every other month.
  • i suggest things like toys, threesomes, etc, partner expresses some interest but is ultimately not interested enough to actually do it.
  • we own a house and a dog together.
  • could very easily find other people to have kinky sex and threesome with, but I can't because we're monogamous and they aren't open to non-monogamy
  • sexually stifled. feeling resentful. have talked about it 50,000,000 times already...
  • what now??? couples counseling?? ugh
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Walter Blunnerfidge - Thu, 16 Jan 2020 23:29:36 EST n3M4YBVD No.533284 Reply
>>533283
Since you've talked to death about it already, I'll just skip to offering suggestions:

*Leave
*Cheat and don't tell your partner
*Cheat and do tell your partner (after or before... or during?)
*Use hypnosis to make your partner addicted to your genitals
*Try MDMA together

Of course this list is not exhaustive and you or others may add to it in the future.
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Wesley Blattingfire - Fri, 17 Jan 2020 06:36:43 EST NmYXrgWM No.533285 Reply
Have you explained to your partner that your sexual needs aren't being met in the relationship? That's certainly a step before you nuke it.
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Jenny Blackgold - Fri, 17 Jan 2020 19:35:31 EST oEeh8XSK No.533292 Reply
sure i'll be your bitch
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Henry Sashpot - Sat, 18 Jan 2020 01:13:37 EST Z71VEMm6 No.533299 Reply
>>533283

Kill your partner and go to town on the corpse. It's kinky AND you can satisfy yourself as much as you want. A bonus is that you can eat the corpse once you've finished.

win/win/win
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Lydia Tootspear - Sun, 19 Jan 2020 02:18:36 EST QvqpXi0j No.533314 Reply
ditto. trying rebuilding intimacy and changing our roles within the relationship.

seems to be working okay, but it is slow.

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