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Poor, old, fat

- Thu, 25 Jun 2020 02:26:21 EST 1hCzdlLz No.535063
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I hate myself and want to hit the reset switch on my life.
Rebecca Dreffingnod - Thu, 25 Jun 2020 02:31:42 EST Z8E/qob6 No.535064 Reply
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Don't do it, the world may need you yet son.
Phineas Pandertat - Thu, 25 Jun 2020 02:35:50 EST 1hCzdlLz No.535065 Reply

I appreciate it. I just can't fathom how I've fucked up so badly.
Rebecca Dreffingnod - Thu, 25 Jun 2020 02:38:49 EST Z8E/qob6 No.535067 Reply
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We've all (well most of us) fucked up badly in life brother, just remember that life isn't a race and as long as you've still got a single breath in your body theres still time to change and advance out of these dark chapters of our lives.
Lillian Burringhood - Thu, 25 Jun 2020 05:03:13 EST 1SSFeKJF No.535068 Reply
There's no quick easy way to just start over.

You can hit the reset switch but for the metaphor to work you have to spend some time building the mechamism for it to fire. If you're fat, lose weight, which takes times but is something most people can do if they're willing to stop taking decisions that are easier in the short run. if you're old well work out whether to shave your balding hair, dye your greying hair ect. Poor is the biggest issue, finding a career you can do that pays the bills is hard but if you're in a dead end job then you need to move sidewards, don't quit. If you aren't employed a dead end job for a few months makes you more employable, but don't get stuck there. Career is the one you have least control over.

I'm saying this because at 25 I was long term unemployed, almost morbidly obese, lost most of my friends, a virgin. etc I got new friends, lost weight, got a job, found a career and yes, even fuck good but each change took time, stubbornness and the second two took a bit of hanging in until I got a break.

As others have said, you don't have to hit arbitrary guideliness, letting go of the notion "it'll be too late" is what freed me to act. Ironically realising I was well past it made taking a few months to effect change less of a problem as it didn't matter. I'd fallen off the bell curve. I'm not where I'd want to be at this age looking forward when I was younger but I am enjoying my life now and the future looks good and that's what matters. You can't undo your mistakes, you can stop making new ones and then be happy that at least you started getting it right at some point.

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