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- Wed, 29 Sep 2021 23:12:31 EST +5XfUsO+ No.540729
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idk anymore man. the last ten years of my life have been a trainwreck. im financially fucked after a LONG and BAD relationship with my probably soon-to-be ex-wife. we have a kid together whose a little over a year old and I love him, but my life with this woman is complete trash. she wants a divorce and is unhappy, but is too afraid to commit to it and keeps trying to keep things going. i just wish I could be eighteen again and getting stoned and posting to this board and have my whole life ahead of me. my marriage destroyed all my friendships, she's a narccisist and sabotaged every friendship and most family relationships I had. i have nothing. absolutely nothing other than my son. I put on eighty pounds in the last five years, have a 580 credit score, am about $35,000 in debt plus a mortgage, own a failing business, and am just completely unhappy and fucked. i kind of just want to move to new hampshire and start over, but I can't (and wont). idk. things are really shitty right now and im not looking forward to the next few months of being flat ass broke and celebrating christmas, her birthday, and our anniversary. i love this girl, but i cant make her happy and shes really mentally ill.
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Clara Funkincocke - Thu, 30 Sep 2021 07:02:34 EST cxGiOC+O No.540746 Reply
>>540729
>i just wish I could be eighteen again and getting stoned and posting to this board and have my whole life ahead of me.
But you don't. Now you have a kid who is the most important thing in the world for you to be focusing on right now.
>I put on eighty pounds in the last five years,
You need to fix yourself and potentially recommit to your partner. Throwing away this relationship isn't going to do what you think it's going to do. You can't go back, and the longer you spend digging in your heels and trying to stop yourself from moving forward, the further you get from having a son who is happy who can be your buddy throughout your life.

I'm sorry if this comes off as harsh. Neither of my parents wanted kids and it affected me. You have a responsibility here, like my dad who never really accepted his. We're both here on the same imageboard. Dig deep and accept the challenges of life, stop fighting your responsibilities.
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Phyllis Sallycocke - Thu, 30 Sep 2021 14:54:27 EST N/uJd9MT No.540750 Reply
Go out for a pack of smokes and don’t look back.
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Walter Senningpock - Thu, 30 Sep 2021 16:14:49 EST kW/lOCL5 No.540754 Reply
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>>540729
go out for a pack of smokes, invest your net worth in crypto and dont look back
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Frederick Dicklechudging - Sun, 03 Oct 2021 12:23:33 EST 5V5rPYC3 No.540778 Reply
It might be difficult considering everything going on, but exercising a few times a week could potentially be a big help. One of the reasons I exercise is because it helps me cope with the stress and anxiety I've been going through the last few years. The actual physical exertion, when it's happening, puts me in a place where I focus solely on that moment, and my worries melt away.

I was also dealing with a bad relationship ending in a painful way, mortgage, financial issues, and depression. Regular exercise was a thread helping hold me together. Apologies if it's cliche. Good luck getting things worked out.
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William Chiggletid - Sun, 03 Oct 2021 15:25:07 EST mw6WRBTb No.540779 Reply
>>540754
99% of people are going to ignore this and call you an idiot and talk about how you'll lose everything soon. give up on the normans
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Angus Blackville - Sun, 03 Oct 2021 15:34:36 EST 5TDo0LEv No.540780 Reply
>>540779
How would investing all your money into one coin be a smart move in any way? I'm not against crypto but if you think anyone who is hesitant to put ALL their money into one investment and hope for the best is a "low iq normie" you need to take a shower and go outside
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Jack Mucklestock - Wed, 06 Oct 2021 22:16:46 EST fzwn7Vqz No.540818 Reply
>>540729
try to win custody of the child in court by making an awful case about your wife. hopefully if it's good enough the court will side with you.
divorce is bad, and not a very fun thing to go through with kids.

either that or just abandon it all and restart. declare bankruptcy.
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Matilda Turveystone - Fri, 08 Oct 2021 21:20:50 EST +5XfUsO+ No.540845 Reply
>>540778
I exercise continuously throughout the day. I am an extremely active person, the weight gain is literally from stress.
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Samuel Craddleditch - Sat, 09 Oct 2021 10:03:43 EST LQ4VvGPH No.540848 Reply
>>540845
From your post I can tell you're one of those retards who doesn't actually exercise and thinks that their job which involves walking around qualifies as exercise. Protip: it doesn't.
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Fanny Semmlestock - Tue, 12 Oct 2021 10:33:00 EST 58T3H39Y No.540888 Reply
>>540887
That's great, bud.

Totally misses the point, but at least you can argue you posted an unimpeachable fact.
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Ebenezer Claystock - Tue, 12 Oct 2021 13:43:23 EST O+Mfyrt3 No.540903 Reply
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listen, i've been reading this thread and it seems like some illiterate donkeys and rubbing their asses on their keyboards at each other. all i'm saying is that if you, just this once, ferment your own feces in a large bottle and huff the gases, you're going to find that life takes on a different tone for you
join your friendly bros over at /jenk/
https://boards.420chan.org/jenk/
i'll see u there man
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Eugene Cingertedge - Tue, 19 Oct 2021 11:21:40 EST K6sWG489 No.540958 Reply
Smack her until she submits or she leaves
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Ernest Lightman - Tue, 19 Oct 2021 11:38:34 EST HmXpnyVs No.540959 Reply
>>540958
Someone hurt you, but it can stop there if you don't pass it on. Can you try not to pass on your pain?
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Walter Songerhall - Fri, 22 Oct 2021 04:18:19 EST XSZZrjOH No.540962 Reply
>>540959
I uswd to think this about myself but then I met my little cumdumpster slut and she helped me discover that I'm actually really good at BDSM. I dont likr to be hurt, but I can dish it out and submissive women really like that.
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Esther Sicklewell - Fri, 22 Oct 2021 08:17:22 EST E53J8OST No.540963 Reply
>>540962
And she did this without teaching you anything at all about consent and that B&D relationships involve a constant conversation about consent? So you think that it's ok to beat the shit out of a woman?

She taught you wrong. You're dangerous.
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Albert Sullysedge - Fri, 22 Oct 2021 11:00:40 EST o+LUR25X No.540964 Reply
>>540729
Draw deep from your ancestral energies
you're a man and got a son, how fucking cool is that dude

we won't have the answers to all the specifics you're experiencing, but just know that you're able to regroup and do some manshit and turn this around

if you're super broke and willing to work long hours, you could get into something like driving a truck for a few years, this way you can make good money, get some distance & time away from your wife and it will give you time to think about shit

they're so desperate for truckers, that a lot of companies will pay for training and give you a good signing bonus.
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