I've developed a small crush on a girl who works at a grocery store that I shop at. I see her there about once a week, and I've noticed her looking at me a lot, and she also bursts into a huge smile (like, way more than an ordinary friendly smile) whenever we make eye contact or I say hello. Anyways, I'm not a complete and total idiot when it comes to flirtatious behavior or signs of attraction. So, she was there earlier today when I was buying lunch, and when I walked past I said hello and wished her a nice day, and her face turned red, then she smiled at me (seemingly uncontrollably) and winked. I can tell she's a pretty shy person, and I honestly don't believe she consciously meant to wink at me. Next time I see her (hopefully nobody else will be in the immediate vicinity) I'm going to ask if she wants to get a cup of coffee or something together. The only problem is that she looks to be in about her early to mid twenties, and I'm just over thirty (I don't look near my age at all, so I doubt she has a clue how old I am). Does anybody here have any opinions about the situation? If she agrees to meet up with me and seems romantically interested, I'm of course going to make sure the first thing she knows is my age. I'm really picky about potential relationships, too. In the last five years she's only the second girl I've met that I'd ever consider talking to romantically, and the other girl was only interested in sex, so I was really disappointed about that. I'll be back to check for any responses and to give an update if I talk to her. I'm comfortable being alone, so I won't be upset if this doesn't work out, but I have to be honest I am kind of anxious/excited about possibly going on a date with her. Wish me luck!
