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Zero communication skills?

- Wed, 03 Nov 2021 22:08:32 EST IjfmEGnN No.541045
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Been a while since I posted

I never was the social type, only time I socialize is when I'm at work or with family, you'll never see me out and about socializing not even on social media, I'm not a big fan of posting my everyday life online.

Lately though I've been trying to change things up, been feeling like I gotta get out there so ya I'm trying to get out there but me doing so, I'm starting to remember why I don't bother trying to make friends or try hollar at chicks or something, everytime I try say what's up to anyone I always get a stale reply like "nothing" or "Lol", makes it super hard to keep a conversation going.

The only way I could be outgoing is when I have drinks and now a days I ain't even trying to drink anymore, I'm officially on that sober path thankfully but man it's so hard to talk to anyone, making me think is there something about me ? Maybe I suck at initiating conversation ?, But ya I really want to start socializing without and alcohol influences.

Anybody ever feel like this?

Thanks for reading :)
Betsy Hirringkat - Wed, 03 Nov 2021 22:24:03 EST WmWcDpYP No.541046 Reply
Just stop being sober you gigantic pussy, if getting altered helps you out then you'd be a fucking dumbass to give it up. Alcohol is your friend, don't intentionally hobble yourself to pursue some weird ideal of sobriety.
Jack Chellerworth - Thu, 04 Nov 2021 06:10:19 EST vkOoyveO No.541048 Reply
People use activities as a vehicle for socialization. You're right in thinking that drinking makes conversation happen more smoothly outside that context, but you can also accomplish what you want to accomplish inside that context at well. Try activities.
Ian Lightham - Thu, 04 Nov 2021 17:50:47 EST xB7ONHhS No.541054 Reply
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I feel the same way... I'm having troubles finding a job because of that.

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