>>99893
Honestly man, I agree with >>99890. Just because a dude likes butt-stuff doesn't make him gay. My ex-girlfriend would peg the shit out of me on occasion and it was the hottest shit ever. She loved it, I loved it, and it was fantastic. I've been with a man before, but never got to the point of him fucking me. I just didn't feel the same connection or attraction.

OP, if you have a loving girlfriend who understands you, enjoys you, and is willing to pleasure you (and you her) in the ways you both enjoy, then you have something special. Worrying about whether or not it is gay, or normal, is just detracting from your enjoyment. However you are is fine. If you like getting fucked and are not gay, that is totally fine. People aren't one thing or the other. They are multifaceted.

Don't worry about it. I'm glad you're enjoying yourself and hope you and your girlfriend continue to do so. Don't let anyone tell you different- others label, only you yourself knows how you truly are.

>I'm a dude and and for the most part straight
>I enjoy getting fucked/any kind of butt stuff more than actually using my dick and fucking.
>I'm a fairly effeminate guy
>I would quite reliably choose it over normal sex every time.

To answer your question OP. Your off the normal chart and are full blown gay mang. If you like getting fucked by another dude per say, you are full blow gay.

>>99968
Goddamn the people in this thread. Never read so much about faggots in denial in such a short thread.

U gay

>>99889
Only been peggerd by some 9" strapon, my cousin mentioned hat gy ho mastubated on webcam. Started a talk with him and my gf just said "wow, he gonnadominate you so hard", Sadly all we did was was doing handjobs, sucking, sharingg(gf if alot more "fuck him you got the bigger cock". I kinda hope I find a new one soon

This is a big fetish for me also, if you can help the girl feel confident about her ass it can be a turn on for them too if you are sweet with them, letting them know you appreciate and admire their entire body. Start off by just complementing their butt, see if they will shake it for you or twerk. If you like eating pussy girls love that. If they like that ask if they are comfortable with sitting on your face, while you lick them. Tell them the pussy tastes and smell good that everything about them is nice and sweet. They may ask if you want to smell their ass too. Just communicate with your partner(s). If they are understanding express to them why you want to smell their ass.

Guy who loves sniffing girl's asses here. Definitely what
>>99764 said, start off slow. Don't just pitch sniffing a girl's ass right off the bat, it's a hard sell especially if they aren't very kinky. Face sitting is ultimately pretty degrading for whoever is getting sat on and a lot of women don't typically take the dominant role very often in my experience. I wouldn't even say, "Hey can I sniff your butthole?", just get them comfortable enough with you to sit on your face and then sniff away.

>>99768
Its interesting, I don't really think of a girl face sitting me as being demeaning or her dominating, Women are generally mean to me in daily life so when I find one that likes me I prefer her to be sweet and accommodating, roleplay letting me command her to spread her cheeks for me
Is it rare for guys who like sub women to enjoy face sitting? I love ordering a girl to squat on me while we 69.

You may be gay or trans?

>someone told me it could be caused by hormonal disbalance

Naw nigga YOU GAY!

You are gay.

People like you worrying about such "gay" stuff should just take it up their ass, finally make sure they're gay and call it a day.

>on a scale of 0 to 10 how gay it is to watch men eating sandwiches while driving to work?

This is how you sound.
Just fucking do whatever makes you nice you poser scum.

>>100018
Fair point.

I don't think it's weird at all, I love asses too. The only time when I don't like them is when it gets dirty, unless I'm super horny which I don't mind then.
Nothing strange about it at all, there are far weirder fetishes out there than the old fashioned anal.

Just date a cute trans girl
Nb

I think I am Gulaanosexual, I like oral sex but I love asses, I love eating a woman's pussy and smelling their asses, if she doesn't want to try anal, I am happy if she lets me fuck her ass crack and ejaculate on her asshole. I like pussy but my last gf was really self conscious about her labia being asymmetrical and she always had problems with lubrication and arousal. I dated a trans boy for a few months but he was like a masculine girl, I don't know if I am bi I don't like male genitals, but he loved it when I played with his ass. I have really bad depression and I never want to have kids even when I have vaginal sex with a condom and birth control I get really anxious. I was abused by my first girlfriend in high school, she forced me to have sex with her and tried to extort money out of me because she new I fantasized about anal with her. I sometimes worry that I like the idea of anal so much because I know I have bad DNA and shouldn't have children. I also feel like it is something someone would do just to please me. I love eating pussy and ass but I feel like women I have been with don't really care about my pleasure and I try my best to fulfil their fantasies. I think its kind of hypocritical for women to cheer gay men at pride parades for having anal sex but then condemning men for wanting anal with women.

>>99960
I want to violently buttfuck Tamara

Did not try it
because I don't trust them
although they've been recommended over a Forum.
https://shop72521577.world.taobao.com/?spm=a312a.7728556.2015080705.4.566a9095UNZTqr

https://www.melonbooks.co.jp/detail/detail.php?product_id=225127&adult_view=1

Would rather buy over Amazon!

>>99967
There's nothing wrong with being "complacent". Women bring a lot of bs with them, and even the process of getting one can often involve unnecessary bs. I know you're going to tell me to stop making excuses for being a forever-alone dweeb, but what if OP can't do any better? You do realize that the average person, statistically, has a better chance getting cancer than find the love of their life?

Also, some people prefer to supplement their sexual activities with toys(in between having a gf or while focusing on more important matters).

https://www.vice.com/en_us/topic/sex-robots

>>99967
tbh
I do both.

I had a long time between my last failed relationshit that I used to fuck around and used toys.
Never looked back to one-night-stands.
Its all so fakey
and I could see through all these cringey facades of power-and money-struggles.

I just don't give a fuck.

Now in a steady relationship and still using toys when GF is out of town or during the week when we both are tired because of work.

Take a hard dick pill

>>100009
Just focus on the pussy...

>>100009
"public fuckers" don't feel pressure or anxiety. they actually like that sort of attention.

>>99997
Never thought about one before. That one in your pic must be pretty expensive but god damn I'd fuck it tbh.

lmao her face

"the things.. i've... seen..."

>>99899
For your FYI information, mental illness has most of the times got nothing to do with rape. It was very common in Europe's past, if it weren't for rape, Arabic people would still live in Ireland and Romans in Britain.

>>99993
Because people have biological needs and desires that aren't getting met otherwise.

Rhode Island accidentally legalized paid sex from 2003-2009, and saw a one-third drop in incidences of rape during that time (and 40% drop in gonorrhea infection rates). The numbers started climbing again after they "fixed" the "problem".

>>99995
Their is this unilateral ideology from SJWs that rape has nothing to do with sexual arousal but psychiatric reswarch evidine does not support the theory that it always solely about control. There is more psychological diversity in predators than misandrists would like to admit. I am not defending sexual assault, I am trying to say that every suspect should be examined as individuals and not profiled by a singular motive, it allows social controllers to generalize and vilify the entire male population. Censorship of entertainment and pornography is a chicken before the egg argument a sociopath does not need erotic media to make them want to hurt people. I think the demonization of sexuality, prostitution and porn are very detrimental to healthy sexual development.

>>99993
why are their computer programmers? why are their netflix employees? why are there bank robbers? Our ancestors didn't have computers or netflix or banks.. it's almost as if we.. can.. make.. choices... o.O

>>100001
SJWs don't want to even entertain the notion that rape could be motivated by other factors because it would contradict other ideals.

Cute dick. Why make fun of him?

Looks like it'd be fun to play with

Looks like has a non functioning testicle to be honest. Don't make fun of the guy, I've had insecurity issues with just having people see my small flaccid penis.

>>99963
I want to try, but you need prescription as far as I know. Was thinking of visiting a doctor but I don't know.

Was hoping for input from people who might have had similiar issues in the past.

>>99961
Listen man. The first few times I had sex? My dick was done for. Was barely past flaccid every time and it wouldn't get much past that. I couldn't cum the first 10 times or so.

As I had sex with the same lovely lady multiple times, though, it got better. Death grip from masturbation is *totally* a thing. She was very understanding, as she wasn't a virgin and I was. Over time it got better and before I know it I has harder than diamonds and cumming so hard I felt like I might rupture her organs.

Virgin sex, starting sex, is awkward, weird, and kind of a mind fuck. Just keep at it, get comfortable, and let yourself go. Over time it will get better. Try not to focus on it too much- just go down on her till she is writhing in ecstasy if your dick isn't arriving proper.

With the right, understanding partner, you'll be fine. I really feel like this is just first-sex experience jitters. Your dick isn't broke, and the more that you think it is the worse it'll get. ENJOY yourself- that is what true, loving sex is all about. Two people enjoying each other's bodies and giving pleasure to someone they care about.

Honestly, if you masturbate a lot (like I did) I would try to stop entirely for awhile. Eventually your insta-cum will subside with her. Lots of foreplay, go slow at first, no power pounding. And if you do cum super quick, get her off and recomp, then go at it again.

You're fine OP. I had the exact same feelings as you did my first 10 - 20 times. The more you do it the better you get, the more comfortable you get- like anything! Have fun man.

>>99945
srsly erections are the only thing in the entire history of human activity where people seriously believe you can get better at something by *not* doing it

porn can be bad for you because it's addictive, it gives you unrealistic expectations for what sex is like (both positive and negative expectations), it conditions you to expect sex to be connected to the computer, and it can make you feel bad about yourself - BUT - masturbation, itself, is *not* bad for you, and in my experience jerking off regularly but not excessively can actually heighten your sex drive a little. i've gone weeks without coming due to depression and that stuff doesn't raise my libido one little bit, but when I -forced- myself to jerk off I woke up with a hardon the next day. your mileage may vary, but stop making sex about "relaxing" and focus on having -fun- for fuck's sake. if you have the presence of mind to -enjoy- what's going on you'll feel a whole lot more. if at all possible, ask her to stimulate you, a little, but what's critical here is: you have to be happy about it, you can't be viewing the things she does to you as a means to getting an erection or whatever, eyes *off* the prize, the prize will take care of itself.

>>99964
The off-brand from India is much cheaper and works well enough. They'll send it w/o a prescription. IMO cialis > viagra, though you'd probably only need a small fragment of a tablet for it to work.

The doses seem to be geared towards someone whose dick doesn't work at all in any situation, so scale down accordingly if you only need a little bit of a helping hand. There can be side effects like headache and stuffy nose with higher amounts. Bear in mind that with some drugs (i.e. stims) it can be surprisingly easy to maintain a boner for longer than would be healthy.

If it helps you out the first couple times maybe you won't need it after due to reduced nerves about the situation. Try not to depend on it if possible.

>>99966

"and the more that you think it is the worse it'll get"
So fuckin true. 29 here, love to meta game, theory whatever, but if I start thinking of life meta it's fuckin GG for the PP

966 is good guy. Keep at it, forget about the awkwards. Try new activities together. Physical activities, jogging, sports, sparring, can all lead to proper fun together. Now that as a couple you're into sexual stuff, enjoy and allow those urges to carry on when you notice them during other moments together. Don't let your bed be a prison.