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420chan is Getting Overhauled - Changelog/Bug Report/Request Thread (Updated June 12 [TaimaTV Update])
DRUG USERS DATING THREAD Ignore Report View Thread Reply
Polly Smallhall - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 07:55:47 EST ID:e3qhou0d No.101302
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Hey! Lets start international drug-users dating thread!
Also, great if you can recommend some place to date other gay and straight drug-users from around the globe inline.
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Simon Duckman - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 16:36:20 EST ID:/+CaG5Q6 No.101304 Ignore Report Reply
You mean discussion about drug dating or actual dating thread, as in looking for dates and shiet?
Cause that's pretty much off limits in regards to the rules. No hookups or personal / contact info allowed.


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Ian Morryman - Sat, 30 Mar 2019 09:55:10 EST ID:GutFSAb0 No.101086
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Hey guys, i dont want to use speed anymore but im wondering what else is out there, either drug or non drug, that makes you horny as fuck and able to edge for hours on end.
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Lydia Blickleworth - Wed, 05 Jun 2019 16:01:16 EST ID:XcpSwtJg No.101176 Ignore Report Reply
poppers [$]so long as you're sticking somethin in ur butt[/$]
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Simon Drenderbot - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 01:22:30 EST ID:4ycvK41t No.101193 Ignore Report Reply
Idk I like different drugs for different reasons when fapping/fucking. Dissos and opioids are good for lasting for hours on end while giving you a body high that complements arousal. The DPH thing is true but is worse than speed for your heart in the long run. Alcohol is a good one for looking at/doing more exotic stuff you might otherwise not do and also kind of has the dissos/opioids thing too but too much and you won't be able to get it up (which I think for some people or me at least isn't really a problem and is even ideal, which is why I really like stims too). Psychedelics are kind of hit or miss for sex for me. Sometimes it feels like the best thing in the universe and other times you don't even want to think about it, it depends how the trip goes. Benzos are really shitty for this imo, probably one of the worst drugs for this sort of thing. I don't really think I'm leaving anything out. Well, if you time it just right, huffing nos right before you cum and cumming on the peak of the nos is pretty fun, way better than AEA
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William Brookbanks - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 11:30:51 EST ID:YigK19wE No.101303 Ignore Report Reply
>>101086


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Phineas Darringshaw - Sun, 09 Jun 2019 22:28:13 EST ID:xi3M9fyQ No.101180
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So I've been dating this girl for a couple months and shes fucking amazing. Problem being she wont stop fucking ticking me. I never knew I was so ticklish until I met her. I'm a submissive little bitch so I can't really bring myself to give her a "hard no" and I don't really know how? I mean, its fine in the bedroom, but when were trying to cuddle and watch a movie damn come on.

What do?
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!scyTheNg3k - Mon, 10 Jun 2019 19:24:38 EST ID:PsICybwm No.101187 Ignore Report Reply
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>>101180
ok so my relationship is like this actually she won't stop tickling me

after six years i've learned that basically she'll usually stop if i move away the first few times. assuming she's reasonably good-natured she'll get the hint that you don't like it at the time. this helps if you don't want her to stop entirely because it is fun
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Cornelius Poffingridge - Tue, 11 Jun 2019 17:02:36 EST ID:xi3M9fyQ No.101191 Ignore Report Reply
UPDATE: We were texting and tickling came up and I said "Its gotten a little old can you keep it in the bedroom?" and I think she got the message. We will see, I wont be able to see her again for like a whole week cus of schedule conflicts.
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Ebenezer Tootbanks - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 11:21:04 EST ID:XFuIKiqh No.101301 Ignore Report Reply
>>101191
CommUniCaTioooonn, fixes most problems. Always try it FIIRSSSSTTT

assuming of course that she followed the advice.


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Beatrice Senningstore - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 17:02:46 EST ID:RtahuuGc No.101195
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if you imagine yourself wearing any of these clothes while blowing BBC in a nightclub you lose (and you're probably a sissy boi)
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Beatrice Senningstore - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 19:56:46 EST ID:RtahuuGc No.101298 Ignore Report Reply
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DICKS EVERYWHERE
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Beatrice Senningstore - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 19:57:50 EST ID:RtahuuGc No.101299 Ignore Report Reply
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DICKS EVERYWHERE
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Beatrice Senningstore - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 19:58:49 EST ID:RtahuuGc No.101300 Ignore Report Reply
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100 images and no one is playing, i better see some players tomorrow after i wake up and i might continue dumping


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Archie Cuckleforth - Sun, 12 May 2019 05:28:07 EST ID:OOULkAtY No.101140
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Do u think if a man like to be bottom from a girl or a shemale and likes to play with his ass from time to time but find attractive only girls is gay? Or just have some fetsish?
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Phoebe Turveystone - Mon, 10 Jun 2019 07:16:19 EST ID:m9G+5hIN No.101183 Ignore Report Reply
You are probably bisexual but should give no fucks about it, you're like somewhere on the kinsey scale that's still pretty straight
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Betsy Goodshaw - Tue, 11 Jun 2019 23:50:12 EST ID:4ycvK41t No.101192 Ignore Report Reply
No it objectively isn't. If you only find women attractive you're straight, but then again chances are if you really gave it a chance with an open mind you'd probably find out you're bi, most people are.

>>101141
>Nobody could find that out about you and look at you the same way afterwards, that's just the reality of it.

Sure, if you have really shitty friends.

You know how much time normal straight people think about their friends fucking themselves in the ass? Not one second. If you fixate on something like this it says more about you than anything else.
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!scyTheNg3k - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 16:36:27 EST ID:PsICybwm No.101194 Ignore Report Reply
>>101140
Definitions are stupid. What matters is that it is considered shameful in modern Western society. So you shut up about it.

As to how to "classify" your sexual "orientation", the truth is most people aren't scientists or sex therapists and nobody cares how sexuality works in the brain. The whole idea of classifications and orientations exists to stratify society. If you want to be in the in-group, you'll pretend to be normal.

Gf fucks me in the ass. It is fun. I would never describe myself as anything but straight. Not because of some sort of definition, but because of something more obvious: men are annoying. I do not want men to hit on me, and I would never be interested in doing anything with a guy. That is the only useful information that the word attached to my "sexuality" contains.


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Martha Doshson - Tue, 11 Jun 2019 00:37:20 EST ID:4ycvK41t No.101188
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Particularly my brother and sister-in-law, who I would say I'm closest to.

I really don't know how I feel about it. I was AMAB but now and then I've questioned whether or not I'm cisgendered. I'm openly gay/bi (I mean technically pan but that's hard to explain) around them, so I don't know if they're framing me in their mind as feminine because of that or if there's some innate quality I have that leads them to subconsciously do what they do, or if I've somehow accidentally hinted that sometimes I question my gender identity and they're just testing the waters/trying to be respectful

When they do it, it feels kind of weird but I have mixed emotions about it, in some respects it feels more natural and like I'm somehow being better represented by it but there's also a visceral negative reaction towards it that I can't begin to place. More often than not, this results in kind of a feeling of indifference with little bursts of joy and shame, sometimes at the same time.

I really can't tell where the different emotional reactions towards this are coming from. I think I might be deep in denial because I genuinely don't want to have to through transitioning, not because I'm transphobic I think transpeople are genuinely braver than the troops, but because I'd alienate myself from about half my family (I can hide the fact I'm queer from people who wouldn't like it, I couldn't really hide it if I showed up for Christmas diner presenting as female) and quite a few of my old friends, but I don't really give a fuck about the latter and the only reason I give a fuck about the former is because I'm still obligated to be around them.

I feel pretty ambiguous/indifferent about the whole situation so I can't really get a read on what's true. I will say I feel kind of a sense of loss when I see women and gender non-conforming men doing things that I feel for some reason I'd like to do like dressing a certain way or doing hobbies that are traditionally considered female. I don't know if this is because I want to do these things and wish it was socially acceptable for me to do so or if I want to do these things because I'm legitimately not male.
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Ian Bleckleham - Tue, 11 Jun 2019 13:22:42 EST ID:Q6OmoF5z No.101189 Ignore Report Reply
>>101188
So most gender identity shit is just arbitrary. Everyone conforms to some extent and doesn't conform to some extent because otherwise they're a 2D joke.

Are you trans? I dunno. How do you feel about your body? Would you miss your dick and stuff? Also ask your family why they do it maybe their answers will give you insight.

I think that whatever labels you want to slap on, your genitals should not dictate what you do with your life and time. Society is slowly opening up to the idea so you have to be a bit softly softly about it around a lot of delicate snowflakes but maybe do the things and try them and see how you feel before deciding it makes you not a man.
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Martha Doshson - Tue, 11 Jun 2019 14:27:31 EST ID:4ycvK41t No.101190 Ignore Report Reply
>>101189
>How do you feel about your body

I hate it

>Would you miss your dick and stuff?

Not in the slightest

Ok, well, I'll take this into consideration BUT I think I'm just gonna keep my head in the sand and then some time down the road when I'm finally able to come to terms with it I'll have no hope of ever being anything other than a hun who's clocked every time by everybody


Hetero Male Dom Guilt? Ignore Report View Thread Reply
Ian Fuckinghall - Thu, 09 May 2019 22:44:07 EST ID:KzXQBbEY No.101137
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I am a hetero male who likes being dominate with women but even when I am with subs who enjoy it and like my fantasies I feel bad afterwards. I love women who want rough sex and do as I say but I feel very guilty about what we enjoy. Why do I feel so sad and think I am abusing my lovers?
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Phyllis Dartwell - Mon, 27 May 2019 21:58:41 EST ID:ZfHkgAeF No.101168 Ignore Report Reply
>>101146
>I'm taking a little piece of them, and when I leave that piece does not come back.
fapfapfap
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Isabella Grandgold - Tue, 28 May 2019 02:51:01 EST ID:E99Lg5MM No.101169 Ignore Report Reply
>>101146
>BDSM is only spiritually wholesome when you're in a long term relationship
You are so right about this
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Phoebe Turveystone - Mon, 10 Jun 2019 07:18:32 EST ID:m9G+5hIN No.101185 Ignore Report Reply
No, OP, dont listen to any of this. You are just a man beast and this is your primal instinct. All of this Christian bullshit and dogmatic sexuality is just nonsense, just make sure your partner also enjoys it.


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David Doshkog - Tue, 28 May 2019 18:49:35 EST ID:oxgpd0h3 No.101170
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What are the chances of catching an STD from receiving a BJ from a hooker? My shit has felt burning since immediately after. Did I get something? What could it be if I did? its been almost 24 hours now. im scared bros.
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Archie Sashville - Wed, 29 May 2019 02:07:38 EST ID:E99Lg5MM No.101171 Ignore Report Reply
Go to the doctor
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Oliver Chedgespear - Sat, 08 Jun 2019 15:57:51 EST ID:84hr/Z+d No.101179 Ignore Report Reply
>>101170
A burning sensation is probably something curable, like chlamydia or gonorrhea. Go see a doctor, these things are very treatable in the early stages. Better get tested for the rest as well, and stop visiting hookers.


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Hannah Blatherwell - Tue, 14 May 2019 19:51:13 EST ID:nMa+F1H5 No.101147
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I've struggled with women my entire life but have had sex with maybe 15. I turned 27 last week.

on a cocaine binge last weekend I think I realized my purpose in life. I talked to women on a dating site for an entire day while on cocaine and learned alot. Some peoples purpose is to be a lawyer or a doctor. Some is to have a big family, some is to go to war. Mine is to fuck high quality women.

I've basically had this revelation about human sexuality that attraction isn't something that can be compromised and many women are in controlling relationships with basic dudes they aren't attracted to. Thats where I step in. These women can come in and fuck a high quality man thats in decent shape and has a big dick that he knows how to use and go back to their basic life.

I believe this makes me a good person. The women are happier and nicer people after meeting me, it allows them to live out fantasies they wouldn't normally get to live out. Not all of them are in relationships either, many of them just meet dudes that are basic constantly and rarely meet guys who can tune into their desires. Thats where I step in. They can come be a total slut with me (not using the word slut as an offensive thing here, personally I like sluts) and actually get their rocks off from a man who understands that many women are horny af and just wanna get their brains fucked out primally sometimes by some random hardcore dominant alpha bro.

Anyone else feel this?
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Phoebe Dellydock - Thu, 16 May 2019 14:27:35 EST ID:7EbovjzY No.101148 Ignore Report Reply
your sex drive will begin to settle down and you will be left with nothing but a legacy from a hobby which feels pretty meaningless as soon as the hormones driving it fade, as they will naturally with age
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Nigel Sevingkot - Fri, 07 Jun 2019 17:57:42 EST ID:4fu/05E/ No.101178 Ignore Report Reply
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>>101148
lmao shut down


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George Nadgeford - Wed, 05 Jun 2019 11:58:35 EST ID:snMG6qik No.101175
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Horny chiks photos from aliexpress feedback - http://alipic.net/?param=woman-cat
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Samuel Tillingspear - Wed, 05 Jun 2019 23:03:56 EST ID:xXFUhtA4 No.101177 Ignore Report Reply
hello but why is your lovely vagina on product review page?


Why orgasms felt so different from when I first discovered them? Ignore Report View Thread Reply
Human - Sat, 25 May 2019 03:15:00 EST ID:aiv2CnGa No.101162
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Hello,

I'm curious as to why orgasms felt so different from when I first discovered them via masturbation, (with a shower-head, and various vibrating household items.) It seems like when I was 14, or younger, my orgasms could be felt throughout my body in waves. They were an emotional, even spiritual experience; although I didn't have that vocabulary to describe them this way at the time. It was just an unbelievably warm, fuzzy, pulsating and ecstatic feeling, permeating throughout my body.

They were all hands-free (I knew no other way besides vibration, or shower-head,) and it seems like once I discovered you could use your hand, the special feeling slowly disappeared, and soon became a "meh," feeling. Now, at 31, it's almost like an excretion: Do it, get it over with, and get on with whatever you were doing.

Anyone else have the same kind of experience, or even know what I'm talking about?

Note: The shower head--I would detach it, kneel as if crouched, and aim the water at my frenulum--the underside of my penis--and just wait... slowly, a warm elation would build; from my toes to me head, until this strong and overwhelming fuzziness would take over the nervous system--and my brain perceived a profound and mysterious pleasure that was almost unbelievable.
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Eugene Broblingbanks - Sun, 26 May 2019 12:20:41 EST ID:ERjWH6Ou No.101165 Ignore Report Reply
>>101164
Kids.
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Phyllis Dartwell - Mon, 27 May 2019 21:56:51 EST ID:ZfHkgAeF No.101167 Ignore Report Reply
probably the biological drive for reproduction replaces the warm fuzzy feeling with "I must jizz in vagoo"
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Nicholas Bendledale - Wed, 29 May 2019 08:37:16 EST ID:oxgpd0h3 No.101172 Ignore Report Reply
>>101162
you were basically doing tantra before. also have actual sex


much older women Ignore Report View Thread Reply
Hugh Wubberdock - Sun, 19 May 2019 22:03:15 EST ID:m9G+5hIN No.101154
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what is your opinion of having sex with a very attractive older woman in her 50s, if she is also connected to your artistic pursuit, but you are basically a scumbag gangster who isn't loyal to women who are good to you?

Suppose from the artistic viewpoint she is super relevant, offers consensually, and if there weren't other women who would object, you would be fine with it. Can you clear it with these women if you argue it right and respect their feelings? They can be involved if it seems right.
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Martin Tillingbury - Fri, 24 May 2019 21:04:37 EST ID:/+CaG5Q6 No.101160 Ignore Report Reply
Why would the other women object though? And why do you owe them rein over your sexual life? Or hell why would you even tell them who you're sleeping with to begin with? Sure if you were in an agreed upon relationship, but since you're talking about women in the plural I'd doubt it.

I guess kinda, what does it matter if you're boning some older lady who wants your D if you're already boning several women at once? Loyalty is only really needed if it's asked for and returned. If some girl sleeps with you without making clear she expects you to be loyal, you have no commitment to honor.
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Charlotte Blatherway - Fri, 24 May 2019 21:25:16 EST ID:xXFUhtA4 No.101161 Ignore Report Reply
Just let her buy your drinks and spend some time in her bedroom. I don't mind.
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John Trotcocke - Mon, 27 May 2019 09:34:50 EST ID:m9G+5hIN No.101166 Ignore Report Reply
>>101161
God damn gangster woman put my dick on probation but she is also demanding it every 5 minutes lol so it's off for now. It's cool, maybe I'll just ask the older lady for artistic pointers instead.


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John Peblingham - Thu, 09 May 2019 20:28:27 EST ID:VXKwPyLD No.101136
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So I'm a relatively kinky guy. I have a collection of toys, I'm learning more ties everyday, I'm pretty rough in the bedroom. I'm not a dungeon master but I'm far from vanilla. However I've realized that I'm more of a top not a dom. I take control during sex and I'm the one doing most of the work so to speak. But when it comes to more of the "play elements" I'm pretty lacking. For example, I don't know how to properly give orders and punishment, I'm not very vocally assertive and typically don't act like a dom.


I've pinpointed a few reasons for why I believe I'm like this.

I don't have to be very aggressive in my life or work. I don't have children or pets so I don't dole out punishments or give orders. I work in medicine so everyone I see at work is pretty obedient and complacent when I give orders, I mean what are you gonna do? Not take medicine and die of super aids?

I don't take kink as a lifestyle. For me kink is some extra fun in the bedroom. I'm not into 24/7 M/s relationships and find it to be a bit overkill. I don't want my sexuality to be my identity. I also find that some parts of the BDSM lifestyle takes itself WAY too seriously for my liking. Like one time on a discussion for things to keep in your toy chest, one guy listed "chocolate, to help your sub recover in aftercare". I found this so ludicrous my stomach hurt from laughing, like just what type of fucking psychological damage are you doing to a person? It's sex, you're not fighting fucking dementors.

But you see, maybe it's because I just don't get it that I'm like this.



TL;DR

How do I be more of a dom?
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Fuck Sittingsire - Tue, 14 May 2019 19:40:10 EST ID:mtawLJ23 No.101144 Ignore Report Reply
Honestly, I didn't read your post because being a dom is more of an innate thing. You either have it or you don't. And if you don't have it, yea you can get it but it will take a while.

If you dominate your own life, you know how to dominate others. Ten years ago, I was the bitchiest little dude you would ever meet. I still am, but I can dom now because I put myself through hell so I could think of myself as a man. I got into multiple fights, did a lot of hard drugs, worked grueling jobs, fucked many many women, became completely honest with my father, and stopped taking shit from people. Now I'm still a sub, but if I need to dom I can.
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William Gommleworth - Thu, 23 May 2019 19:14:24 EST ID:IP2uT1mD No.101159 Ignore Report Reply
>>101144
>"I put myself through hell so I could think of myself as a man. I got into multiple fights, did a lot of hard drugs, worked grueling jobs, fucked many many women, became completely honest with my father, and stopped taking shit from people. Now I'm still a sub, but if I need to dom I can"

I was gonna type a whole thing too, but literally this. Doms are either really neurotic and posessive, or just total sociopaths, so if you're only a little bit dom honestly that's ideal. Sounds like you're worrying a lot about the specifics, for me it helps to visualise and fantasise how I'm gonna dominate ahead of time. But I don't stick to a script or anything, generally talking dirty like a pornstar will end in laughs and loss of arousal. If your sub thinks anything is funny, remind them of their place with a hard spanking.

Some people want to do things like spend hours spanking and punishing their sub and won't get their dick out at all, others see it as foreplay before a rough fuck. Some like handing out consistent and strict punishments, others decide things on the spur of the moment. There's no one way to do it, you just have to want it enough to not be obsessing about the ethical implications; your sub sure won't be if you're doing it right. Do make sure this is what you want though, not all sexual relationships are as clear-cut as pornographic or even anecdotal depictions of D/s.

Good luck, have fun!


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Barnaby Bogglepen - Sun, 19 May 2019 09:46:39 EST ID:7ouNGdLM No.101153
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So I don't really know if this should go here, in /qq/, in a physician or in a psychologist's office, but I'm gonna start here.

I've sort of struggled with my relationship with women my whole life. I've always had premature ejaculation (sometimes more, sometimes less, usually when a relationship is going fine I do just fine, and when it starts getting worse my PE also gets really bad). I've gone through rough patches where I wouldn't had sex in months (I spent 2 years without any sex from 19 to 21). Lately I've also had some impotence issues. So like, I'm stuck between being PE and impotence. Don't get me wrong, I've also had some really amazing experiences and have had some girls told me she'd never (or at least not in a long time) enjoyed sex so much, but it's really a hit and miss, and I have no way of knowing beforehand how it's gonna go down. So like, I've never been neither a stallion nor a wizard virgin.


Since last year, and specially this year, I've felt a huge decrease in my libido. At first I was like 'Well, im not 19 anymore, it's normal'. But now it's like... I'm fucking dead inside, I don't even have any kind of phantasies. I'm actually travelling around the world, and meeting ton of cute girls who are into me and I don't feel like having sex with them. I though I might be gay or bi or something, I do find some guys cute, but I think that's just an easy way out of the problem. I don't really feel like fucking guys, and the times some guy hit on me I don't really felt attracted to them. I also thought it might be some prostate issue or something, but when I look at porn I can get hard just fine. I'm really lost here honestly.

Has anyone had this happen to them? Is it my age? Is it depression? Should I try new stuff? Should I try old stuff? Last two times I got laid were disastrous (that was like a month ago or something), I think I may be sort of traumatized because of it, but I dunno, how long do I have to wait to get my libido back.
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Alice Nenderford - Tue, 21 May 2019 00:53:01 EST ID:Ye2AuGEN No.101155 Ignore Report Reply
>>101153
Let a girl like me peg your ass.
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!scyTheNg3k - Wed, 22 May 2019 15:28:44 EST ID:PsICybwm No.101158 Ignore Report Reply
>>101153
It sounds like you're just overthinking it. You've had good experiences and bad experiences, which makes you normal.

"Stuck between PE and impotence" is what happens when the sympathetic nervous system, which controls the fight-or-flight/adrenaline response, is too active:

  • the parasympathetic nervous system controls arousal

  • the sympathetic nervous system controls orgasm (in psych the mnemonic is "point and shoot")

  • the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems are weakly opposed to each other (but not entirely).

being too excited/worried/nervous naturally leads to both early orgasm and erection failure. the SNS is generally "fast" and the PNS is "gradual". the way this is supposed to work is that the PNS gets more and more active and then the SNS kicks in, which results in a "storm" of nervous activity aka "tingling" and other side-effects of a strong orgasm. but if the SNS kicks in too early, the PNS never really gets to do its thing.

i guess my point is, there is no contradiction between PE and ED. they can in fact have the same cause: anxiety. there are various strategies but they all boil down to the same thing which is you needing to take a chill pill.

however, one important strategy that can't be overlooked on 420chan is smoking weed, which everyone knows makes you last longer. well, i thought everyone knew that. does anyone not know that?


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