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Shy Gf

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- Mon, 09 Dec 2019 15:28:27 EST DZ6lSHGW No.101742
File: 1575923307194.jpg -(48248B / 47.12KB, 438x339) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Shy Gf
GF is 6' and Im 5'7" and I like sub/dom culture.
Shes a victim of some stuff that makes her unable to be dominated, and Ill leave it at that.
As for her dominating me, shes helplessly shy and blushes whenever she tries to dominate.

Any tips on helping her find her dominate side?
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William Serrybet - Tue, 10 Dec 2019 09:06:08 EST 3xSCwkFj No.101743 Reply
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>>101742
Presuming you're just asking about rustling up ideas for what to do/what kind of Domme to be at all, I suggest The New Topping Book for a lot of representation of Dom/me personas and D/s scenes.
https://www.amazon.com/New-Topping-Book-Dossie-Easton/dp/1890159360

Kink Academy has a lot of good free videos that might give her some ideas, as well.
https://www.kinkacademy.com/category/access/free/

Yes/no/maybe lists can generate good discussion, too.
http://www.bextalkssex.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/BexCaputoYesNoMaybe.pdf

A good, cheap place to start is just setting up a little scene with some spanking and maybe some verbal bondage and then aftercare.
http://spirituallysubmissive.blogspot.com/2014/12/spanking-tips-and-techniques.html

But she probably should look for herself at some point if she's really interested in Domming. I've found it rarely goes well if the person isn't eventually motivated enough on their own.

Camwhore safety?

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- Sun, 08 Dec 2019 21:36:35 EST DuudsqXu No.101741
File: 1575858995637.jpg -(121273B / 118.43KB, 1080x571) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Camwhore safety?
Tgirl here. I recently set up shop on Pornhub [like yesterday] & uploaded some vids. Already a guy [I assume chaser, but in a porn context does it really matter?] has reached out to me asking to buy my pics & vids. Is this a sketchy move? Is this the ends goal I'm looking for if I wanna monetize?

I thought I'd have more time to research this, but how do I stay safe while being a camwhore?

Being a better Daddy Dom

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- Sun, 06 May 2018 01:59:50 EST sDl4wkNW No.100559
File: 1525586390611.jpg -(20073B / 19.60KB, 512x384) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Being a better Daddy Dom
Sup goys.

Me and an ex or not ex not sure have naturally developed into a dom sub relationship where I am the dom and she is my sub. It started off as anal play but developed into a full on power dynamic in the relationship where she is only satisfied when she has fulfilled my sexual needs, and I am only satisfied when I've expressed that she belongs to me.

When I say natural what I mean is she is sensitive, emotional, and acts out when she wants my attention. I am logical, emotionally inexpressive, and possessive. Recently she asked if she could call me daddy and I said yes. I read into it and found out about the Daddy/Little relationship dynamic and adopted a shitload of it immediately. It's hot as fuck.

Recently she misbehaved, actually committed a serious breach of my privacy which pissed me off like crazy, but somehow made me want to sexually dominate her again. It basically just fits. She's my brattly little girl acting out for attention and I'm her dominant daddy trying to rein her in and establish control. I just did a snapchat session with her where I referred to myself as daddy and told her what she needed to do to be a good girl and earn her reward. And holy fuck this is my thing.

So I dunno if this sounds weird as fuck or anything but if any of you have experience with this, I want to be better at it.

>tl;dr

Need tips for punishing/rewarding a bratty girl for her behavior.
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sorry for text wall lol - Fri, 01 Jun 2018 09:28:14 EST NH5j1vtW No.100629 Reply
>>100628
I have been involved with a couple of these relationships with serious gfs in my young life. The exploration of limits as well as the intimacy
of possession fits me like a glove. Really the key things to making it work are the same things required from any relationship only some
aspects can be more up front.


By this i mean the general feeling of being there for someone, being their protector, caring and being
served/made to feel like a king. These are all found in traditional sexual and romantic relationships
but the dom/sub concept brings them to a brighter light.

I would reccomend a collar, nipple clamps, paddle and deffinetly something to vibrate her clit
while you dole out punishment and reward. Tying her up and blindfolding can also be used to enhance
the experience for your sub wayyyy more than you probably realize at this time.
Toys are fun and all but adornments such as collars, jewlery or other markings are a more personal
heartfelt and quite frankly required element of my possession.



I desire a collar around my little girl's neck and really enjoy the message it projects. She is my pet,
my beloved little plaything living only to serve here big strong daddy. I would also reccomend a loving
or maybe degrading name for her judging by the bratty discipline element you describe.

Balance is always critical. Give and guide as much as you take and punish.
Dont punish arbitrarily else you will lose the respect and allure of the honored position. Some women are vivacious
vixens others timid little girls. Find out who your girl is and who you are. Be honest and direct, it is your job to
be the protective mature man with the plan. Demend things from her, make her work for your affection and rewards.
A great question to ask any new sub? "is a spanking a punishment or reward?"
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Betsy Murdforth - Sun, 10 Jun 2018 23:28:21 EST MQtVT7qm No.100665 Reply
>>100628

thanks brah. I'll keep these in mind moving forwards.

I totally agree though, that's how it works. She wants a lover, protector, nurturer, disciplinarian, a man who will take care of her. And in return you get the counterpart, which is something I cherish. I agree, you can't abuse the position, and I have no idea why you'd want to given the intimate dynamic between the two. Just like any relationship, there's trust, and I would argue an extremely strong trust in comparison to traditional relationships. That kind of bond is difficult to break. And it's something I had to do recently.

More than anything I love the trust and intimacy that goes hand in hand with these relationships, so being a toxic dom is something that never occurred to me. I like the tips though, the collar is a very nice touch.

LETS PLAY A GAME

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- Thu, 13 Jun 2019 17:02:46 EST RtahuuGc No.101195
File: 1560459766877.jpg -(1111402B / 1.06MB, 2624x3936) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. LETS PLAY A GAME
if you imagine yourself wearing any of these clothes while blowing BBC in a nightclub you lose (and you're probably a sissy boi)
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Charles Huttingstone - Fri, 26 Jul 2019 07:29:52 EST 1kYvshUC No.101356 Reply
>>101195
Those are terrible outfits, out of all of them, there's like 3 I would wear whilst gobbling cock in a nightclub, BBC or otherwise.

Also, probably shmobably. ain't no doubt about it nigga/
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Martin Wannerstone - Sat, 27 Jul 2019 06:05:56 EST Q189px0r No.101360 Reply
>>101350
Nah. Have a couple of drinks before it's practically a high five moment. I mean you need a shower afterwards which is does have in common with a shitty nightclub though.

>>101356
And yet, OP is still the fag.

poppers

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- Sat, 07 Dec 2019 18:02:24 EST ib/G082b No.101737
File: 1575759744525.jpg -(88258B / 86.19KB, 960x960) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. poppers
Is there anything better than poppers and something rubbing against your prostate? I don't think so
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Priscilla Seblingwater - Sat, 07 Dec 2019 23:35:40 EST YnCSUlP3 No.101738 Reply
>>101737
going out and chopping down a tree
getting high
meditating until you can't feel fear
the feeling of your third eye being open

not being a fag

sorry to burst your bubble

The Asexual Spectrum

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- Sun, 23 Jun 2019 19:01:02 EST BJfRfHMF No.101313
File: 1561330862845.png -(54017B / 52.75KB, 1024x615) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. The Asexual Spectrum
Are there any asexuals here and if so, how did you first learn that you were asexual?

I always felt weird because when it comes to sex or sexy things I never seem as interested as your average man or woman. I like kinky things like bondage and damsel in distress situations, but never sex unless it is forced on me and I don't want it.

I assumed this wouldn't make me asexual, but according to some people I've met who identify as asexual you could be that and still have some fetishistic or sexual things appealing so I don't think I know shit about the asexual spectrum.

I want to hear about other experiences with being asexual or aromatic. Maybe this might answer some of my questions.
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Rebecca Crogglekadge - Sat, 07 Dec 2019 01:22:26 EST SgVdwH5G No.101733 Reply
>>101730
yeah, systemically, 100% of people who post about asexuality on 420chan are stupid trolls
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Rebecca Crogglekadge - Sat, 07 Dec 2019 01:24:38 EST SgVdwH5G No.101734 Reply
>>101703
op asked us to analyze him, get the stick out of your ass
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Rebecca Wettingford - Sat, 07 Dec 2019 01:37:19 EST NmfB5R9J No.101735 Reply
>>101734
No, OP asked if there were any other asexuals on here and you responded by denying him his existence/calling him a troll like a typical -phobe. Circlejerk and the future raised your ilk, and I suggest you go back home. This site bans your type fast.

Cross dressing in relationship with a bi as a bi

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- Thu, 10 Oct 2019 14:07:35 EST QwcWpBl+ No.101591
File: 1570730855147.png -(572843B / 559.42KB, 602x598) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Cross dressing in relationship with a bi as a bi
I'm a guy and thought all my life I'm a bi. Had real relationships a few women so far, and they were Ok. Real, as going as far as mutually falling in love and living together. Lately though, after a single phase after last breakup, I got into such real relationship with a guy (who is also bi like me.) I've now felt better than ever before. We can also talk together about anything, whereas with the women they often hated or avoided many kinds of subjects. We are really open and close, like best friends. I can also cross dress all way for fun or sex, and it's also much greater than ever before. I think and feel I've found what is right for me. Sex with him is also great and just simple cuddling makes me dizzy in the good way.

But now I don't know anymore am I a guy who is bi, or a guy who is more towards trans than I thought. I'm going way into CD with him, like in certain clubs with money and planning into dressing. I would even have laser operation in future to reduce some facial and body hair more permanently, and real piercings. I don't feel like going for any cutting or meds though. I also like my testosterone levels as they are. But it's also possible I'm just a guy who is happy as a guy, but with intensified focus into cross dressing, which was just a cheap hobby before. Now that I've found someone to go all in with it, it's greater.

It's also nice to have finally a partner who you can take drugs with without any judgement and enjoy and study life, the world and each other together in altered states. But then also when sober, to verify and enjoy the feelings that are real as they naturally are.

(Picture is random from Internet)
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Ebenezer Sudgegold - Fri, 29 Nov 2019 23:12:26 EST BDxM7VUU No.101715 Reply
That sounds nice and fulfilling op. going to clubs as a lady sounds thrilling
I think we're entering into an era where it seems possible for gender fluidity to be the norm... pop stars have been eroding what it means to be masculine for like 50 years and feminine for even longer.
I don't know why anyone identifies solidly as one gender. it seems to me a world full of constant pitfalls having to categorize everything you do as fitting or not fitting, and then repressing accordingly.
to be in flux is to be free and to get the full spectrum of the human experience.
anyway i'm just happy you feel right at the moment because in my experience it can often be rather dysphoric to feel this way and I think you're onto something... peas

Is the "grass greener" ?

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- Sat, 30 Nov 2019 18:19:16 EST 2FtqPo40 No.101718
File: 1575155956517.jpg -(177606B / 173.44KB, 751x1064) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Is the "grass greener" ?
I got a girlfriend and lost my virginity after 29 years on this miserable planet. I still want a boyfriend though, I just always think about wanting to suck cock, frot, get fucked from behind. I mean I like her a lot, but I still think about what I'm missing out on.

I always thought of myself as being a lot more gay leaning but still bisexual. I don't wanna brake up with her just because I think I'm more gay but should I? I mean even if I do I'm not guaranteed a good boyfriend ever.
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Phyllis Wozzlenork - Mon, 02 Dec 2019 03:48:20 EST NmfB5R9J No.101723 Reply
>>101719
if he's gay then the relationship is already doomed and prolonging it would only lead to more suffering in the long-run.
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Nell Parrycheck - Thu, 05 Dec 2019 16:24:33 EST VLfnoKh+ No.101728 Reply
>>101719
as a guy who gets pegged and loves it, i have never once wanted to suck a dick. a strap on isn't going to satisfy someone who fantasizes about being with men.

Sex with someone who has never watched porn and is also a virgin

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- Sat, 17 Nov 2018 08:36:08 EST u0FOaSld No.100965
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I had sex with her after dating her for a few months and her first time I was unaware, she had told me after.

I've come to realize I've been trained to want certain things from porn that are fake - the moaning etc.

It's interesting to see how a human has sex with no previous impressions of it.

She tried to watch it and she said it felt like voyeurism.

Other than her being shy at first, the sex is really good.

How does porn affect your sexual expectations and experience?
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Hamilton Boblingmatch - Fri, 06 Dec 2019 04:13:04 EST NmfB5R9J No.101729 Reply
>>101727
>it's a the future poster who cares about "winning" "arguments" "online"
you have a time machine to get back to, McFly
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Rebecca Crogglekadge - Sat, 07 Dec 2019 01:21:36 EST SgVdwH5G No.101732 Reply
>>101729
um i'm pretty sure the one who cares too much is the one who keeps bringing it up in unrelated threads
nb
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Rebecca Wettingford - Sat, 07 Dec 2019 01:38:34 EST NmfB5R9J No.101736 Reply
>>101732
>typical future-poster response
Time to go back home, McFly. /pol/ is waiting for you.

Meh. Porn binges.

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- Tue, 26 Jun 2018 19:43:52 EST fVv1VkZq No.100699
File: 1530056632165.jpg -(232805B / 227.35KB, 1100x587) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Meh. Porn binges.
I'm dating a self-described "sexual deviant" who has a history of traumatic brain injuries and cocaine abuse. Whew. He was having issues with Chrome, so he has been using his other browser which is apparently his porn browser. You can probably guess what I found: pretty much everything shy of children.

That wasn't quite what surprised me the most. I think it was the frequency with which he watches it. Multiple times that day while I was over and in a different room. For twelve consecutive hours the day before. Etc.

Does anyone here do this? Sex addicts/porn addicts? Compulsive stuff like this?

I'm not mad or totally devastated, but I'm definitely not comfortable with it either. I want to better understand and figure out what to do. It makes me sad because I sometimes feel neglected when I'm with him. The content isn't my favorite either, but that's beside the point. I don't really like any porn.

We haven't talked about it yet, so I thought this could maybe help me prepare for a conversation. Before anyone accuses me of snooping too hard, I wanna explain that he left his computer up like he always does, and search queries for rape, etc. were all across the bookmark bar. That prompted me to check the history. I got a sense and I closed it. I've always known he's into things that would upset me but I respect boundaries and he's always been very open. I'm sure he'll willingly talk to me about it when I broach the subject. Thoughts?
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Martin Blabbleridge - Wed, 23 Oct 2019 02:29:21 EST E1K+T1bH No.101615 Reply
Quickest way to a pornograph's heart is be their girlfriend, then let them watch you and another guy.
All pornograph's are stallions. Let them rub one out to you and another guy, or let him watch you masturbate.
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Lillian Greenbanks - Sun, 17 Nov 2019 12:33:29 EST iEY5vS1U No.101681 Reply
Think porn has fucked me up. I was with a girl and fucking couldn't get hard at the right time.
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David Pabbledetch - Sat, 30 Nov 2019 13:40:51 EST UXvzWkXv No.101717 Reply
>>100699
i'm very pro porn but 12 hours a day seems like a bit much. Figure out how he feels about his usage, if he's ok with it, you have to decide if you are. Think about how it impacts him and how it impacts you. If you are not ok with it, then you have to decide is this something you can live with or not. If you can't. leave. He won't change if he doesn't really want to. Don't ever ask someone to change jsut for you, because they can't.

If he does feel he does it too much he might want to seek help. A sex therapist, an addiction specialist, or a CBT therapist would all be able to help.

Sex tips(for one or several)

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- Mon, 06 May 2019 22:04:08 EST pUpiPeQH No.101127
File: 1557194648306.jpg -(13430B / 13.12KB, 375x750) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Sex tips(for one or several)
You can stick a dildo on a boom cymbal stand and it's really adjustable. I like to put mine at the foot of my bed and ride it there.

What are your sex tips?

I ripped my ass

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- Tue, 08 Oct 2019 04:23:35 EST fJ4ZBX+C No.101586
File: 1570523015689.jpg -(1705538B / 1.63MB, 1600x1200) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I ripped my ass
I ripped my ass somehow

can any people who take it up the butt suggest what I can apply to a skin cut near the entrance to my fundament?
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Esther Worthinggold - Thu, 07 Nov 2019 18:24:07 EST d6w9hmp5 No.101646 Reply
>>101644
OP was a month ago, either OP's healed or got blood poisoning by now. Or both.
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Ebenezer Mivingluck - Sat, 30 Nov 2019 05:20:14 EST d6w9hmp5 No.101716 Reply
>>101713
Cool, glad to hear you and your butthole are fine. It was just silly when people were replying a month later saying
>hit up your urgent care facility

Hopefully if you know how you did it you'll figure how to not repeat and if you don't know, you won't get unlucky again. Not Buminfected. I mean no bump because this has all happened now.

How to handsfree-cum?

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- Thu, 21 Mar 2019 19:38:03 EST nch64Dk1 No.101077
File: 1553211483173.webm [mp4] -(3026914B / 2.89MB, 374x300) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. How to handsfree-cum?
how do I achieve this handsfree-cum?

I already tried not to wank for weeks, big dildos, vibrators... its always so close but I never actually shoot any cum!
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Angus Gondlehood - Sun, 24 Nov 2019 06:02:47 EST 8qFhh/6t No.101701 Reply
>>101077
Try some Maca (if you're chicken), Shatavari (if you've got balls) or Pueraria Mirifica (if you're fucking nuts). Phytoestrogens will make you both horny as hell and sensitive to stimulation, and if you're lucky you may find out why girls get so vocal during sex.
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Fucking Claydale - Thu, 28 Nov 2019 10:23:56 EST 1IvDKni9 No.101711 Reply
>>101701
>Pueraria Mirifica

well i know what the fuck i'm doing until i get on hrt in a couple months
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Fucking Claydale - Thu, 28 Nov 2019 10:24:46 EST 1IvDKni9 No.101712 Reply
also

>(if you've got balls)

will that help with that?

Hetero Male Dom Guilt?

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- Thu, 09 May 2019 22:44:07 EST KzXQBbEY No.101137
File: 1557456247583.gif -(7741615B / 7.38MB, 1002x564) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Hetero Male Dom Guilt?
I am a hetero male who likes being dominate with women but even when I am with subs who enjoy it and like my fantasies I feel bad afterwards. I love women who want rough sex and do as I say but I feel very guilty about what we enjoy. Why do I feel so sad and think I am abusing my lovers?
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Shitting Farrybet - Wed, 27 Nov 2019 19:29:32 EST SGhDRdaV No.101708 Reply
>>101707
yes, you displayed total ignorance of the kink community with your blathering. way to go.

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