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- Tue, 23 Jun 2020 18:50:07 EST nTH2vNmE No.102338
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anyone else on there? also general kinky thread :3
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Cornelius Nicklefield - Sun, 05 Jul 2020 08:54:54 EST d6w9hmp5 No.102386 Reply
I have a few friends with fetlife accounts.

They don't go on there to find hookups and it's considered bad etiquette. Some people like kinky sex, some people like kinky lifestyle. The latter are on there in large numbers for the community.

Like when I fuck my girlfriend she likes it rough and we're pretty kinky but when we're not fucking we're roughly equal. But for some people it's a life. There's the black sub slave guy who posted here a few times. When he isn't fucking he's still a sub. It's a hobby or even a lifestyle to some people. It does more than make them cum. They're the ones who go to munches and the like. I mean even munches vary, sometimes it's so they can play and sometimes it's just the people who play together enjoying other hobbies like getting drunk and dancing or boardgames.
Beatrice Dommermark - Sun, 05 Jul 2020 18:34:21 EST IUVqWVC6 No.102387 Reply
It's been a few years since I had an account there. I was younger than most of the userbase then and now I'm probably average age. I felt too "vanilla" for people on fetlife but too out there for people I knew in person.

I'm naive and would want trust and friendship for anyone I would have sex with from there or anywhere else.

More generally, I like the idea of having friends who would be into things like spanking. I need to be punished or give a punishment every now and then and I don't have anyone to do it with. I'm the kind of person who would be into platonic cuddling and stuff but I'm in a cold environment that discourages that kind of thing. I don't know if having a fetlife profile could help or not.
Sidney Crumbleson - Mon, 06 Jul 2020 12:30:45 EST 4V9bZr9X No.102394 Reply
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I think you have it mostly right. I am on fetlife, as a regular face in the BDSM community in my town, we use fetlife very much in the same way as facebook or instagram. Half the profiles have "strangers fuck off" signs out. Although people do, personally, I rarely add someone who I have not met before in real life.

We share our pictures, talk about stuff, post information about events and things for sale, its just all pretty kinky. Just because someones just a friend, doesn't mean I wouldn't be interested in a photo of em tied up naked in a shipping container, or their collection of modified cattleprods.

Unfortunately, like most social media, I find most of it to be facile and a bit boring. Waify submissive girls talking about getting wet and huge bearded viking male dominants with their baseball bats getting mad likes across the board. Posts about the most basic feminist theories, and erotica that uses the phrase "good girl" pop up endlessly... Yea, its also hetero as fuck.
Sounds doable. But any cunt can get a fl profile. Get yourself in the scene, and get comfortable with other people. Ask not what your play partner can do for you, ask what you can do for your play partner!

Every time I do opi I feel like I would love to be a woman.

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- Mon, 06 Jul 2020 10:14:03 EST zn5AhsPv No.102393
File: 1594044843239.jpg -(75207B / 73.44KB, 640x802) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Every time I do opi I feel like I would love to be a woman.
Not that I'd wan't to become one or feel that I am, I mean, in a sexual way I feel like I'd love to be a woman just to masterbate. Is that somewhat normal? I assume it's just the intence feelings and horny feeling one gets from being high on opi?

Or is this something else? Again, it's not that I feel I should be a woman or that I was born one or something, it's that I'd love to BE one, just for a while.

Tight hogtied: full pack + video

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- Sun, 05 Jul 2020 21:50:30 EST UNie1Orn No.102388
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Cute Latin girl tied and gagged to the taste of her master, being a very obedient submissive.Full pack + video: mega.nz/folder/N5ZV2QbQ#yXoVcKUKxeXlcc2SCIdiBA
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Boyfriend loses boner a lot

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- Fri, 17 Apr 2020 03:35:32 EST XcW++eOj No.102142
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Hi /sd/

My boyfriend and i have been together for a very very very long time. Sometimes he loses his hard on during sex and recently this seems to be more of a thing. Lowkey feels bad man because it’s hard (no pun intended) not to take it personally, but I try to be chill about it and I dont usually say anything because I don’t want to make him feel self conscious and make him feel worried about it, and just make it worse. I’m fit and clean and good in bed and our relationship is pretty solid. I don’t understand. I can get him hard by blowing him but then when it’s sex time he kinda loses it.

He’s bisexual and sometimes I wonder if he’s actually gay but doesn’t realize it yet. But this might just be my insecurities talking. How common is it for guys to lose their boners during sex?? He can always cum but just like, half-soft recently. Is it stress? Is this normal?
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William Drarringkere - Fri, 03 Jul 2020 10:16:18 EST Nz8J4Piz No.102378 Reply
is this what relationships are? that's unhealthy.
Sidney Debblewick - Sat, 04 Jul 2020 18:28:42 EST +/2JTuES No.102382 Reply
OP here. Being a whore is the best 🤷‍♀️ tbh not even an insult

# of sexual partners

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- Sun, 29 Mar 2015 18:03:30 EST l8c3DqOO No.93090
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Mine is 4 whats yours? Male

Also tell me your gender
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Wesley Drenningson - Thu, 02 Jul 2020 18:52:09 EST wie9414i No.102370 Reply
22 M. I never had sex but I've fooled with 1 older women last year. It's pretty much over for me. i wish i could slay and never have to deal with a relationship :c
Jenny Blogglekodge - Thu, 02 Jul 2020 22:24:54 EST wie9414i No.102372 Reply
btw just realized i replied to this random person from 5 years ago
Eugene Gurryham - Fri, 03 Jul 2020 10:32:43 EST yrqARhCL No.102379 Reply
23, F, 2.
I’m a serial monogamist, but I’m also really horny. Ugh. I wish I could have no-strings-attatched hookups like everyone else seems capable of.

thesis on bdsm in generally unsubmissive (yet asocial) people

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- Fri, 03 Jul 2020 10:07:07 EST S13Wwzt7 No.102373
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>In sexual submission there are two types when it comes to men: true submission and passive submission.
>True submission, of course, refers to traditional notions of sexual submission: enjoyment in humiliation, pain, in being dominated and belittled.
>Passive submission is not a sexual submission per se, and while its end result may not differ from true submission, passive submission is a result of asocial or socially passive personality
>It occurs firstly in sexual fantasy, a fictional encounter with the sexual. Obviously, harbouring itself in a socially uncomfortable person, it cannot, or it can, but not for long, result in fantasy of active sexual participation. Dreading interpersonal intimacy, the passive-submissive type cannot actively pursue satisfaction, but needs satisfaction to be brought to it. The first sexual fantasies of these type put great focus on the desired, usually a woman, and the role of the fantasy-maker is rather insignificant. This is where artifical submission arises.
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Emma Semmerbadging - Fri, 03 Jul 2020 10:09:42 EST S13Wwzt7 No.102376 Reply
>With that, the passive type gains aversion to genitals and puts focus on secondary sexual characteristics, such as outer look, legs, breasts, clothing etc. According to what one has natively tendency to like, that is, has more predisposition to sexually enjoy, he may develop his submissive fetish. General trend of these fetishes becomes ones genitals, usually by "narrowing down" of possible acceptable sexual positions to oral sex. From there, many fetishes, spanning from orgasm control to various forms of CBT, usually developed under previous psychological influence, or through internet pornography, or both.
Emma Semmerbadging - Fri, 03 Jul 2020 10:10:28 EST S13Wwzt7 No.102377 Reply
>At this point, the passive type may feel trapped. He very likely came to a position he may not like, but has no option but to enjoy. Though socially passive, he may have a dominant personality, or an un-submissive personality, or even have an avid aversion to submission, he is cornered sexually into submission. This may cause psychological confusion and existential dread because he cannot explain his overtly submissive sexuality and his distate for such submission generally. Especially with males, this can be a problem. I do not know how this may be solved, yet, but I hope that with this small paper I showed how submission in asocial type can be explained by their social aversion.
Cornelius Nicklefield - Sat, 04 Jul 2020 20:22:07 EST d6w9hmp5 No.102384 Reply
You're probably describing a small number of people but I don't think it's that simple. The idea that some people are submissive for different things and dynamics is true. And I'm sure that you have described 2 valid types. I am not sure if there might be more.

Where you lose me is where you describe this long specific set of circumstances leading to one after saying the other is "true".

Sounds to me like you've got some experiences you're trying to justify and explain and are trying to find a plausible explanation rather than you're being pointed at it by data. I think if you are talking about a subset of people who are into "Passive submission" but unhappy and a mechanism by which they end up there you might have a point. I dunno. But I think that people reach that sort of submission in other ways. I don't think labeling the other sort as "true" is helpful though because every sub has to willingly give it up. The dom has to be trusted and earn and regularly proove themselves worth of that true and take it seriously.

I can think of a couple of examples. I also have a friend who's "true submissive" but a closer fit with that journey you described. Maybe he just likes that? Or do you have a good body of case studies?


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- Thu, 25 Jul 2019 08:01:51 EST 40go6b16 No.101354
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My wife and I will be trying out fishing for the first time in less than 24 hours. To be specific, she's gonna be fisting my ass.

We do a lot of toy play with strap-ons and all, nothing this wild. The craziest we've gotten so far is her suffocating me/choking me out while jerking me off, which I mean, best wife ever. So I'm excited but also nervous, there are some freaky 'gone wrong' stories out there. We've read up on how to prepare, but reading only goes so far. But we have followed all tips and tricks religiously, bought special non-numbing lube, etc.

Any comments or suggestions welcome, and uhhh I guess AMA in a day or so if I live.
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Esther Gagglebit - Sat, 14 Sep 2019 13:27:30 EST q71sVuvx No.101536 Reply
I'm very much into pain, and I've (unfortunately?) reached a point where I can't get off without it, half of the time I can't even get hard without it.

However I find there is a very fine line between "hurts enough to cum" and "hurts too much to cum" it's obviously a very flexible line, though, and it's certainly trending in one direction. I think I'll have to give this a shot if (when lul) I need a stronger fix.

Small penis vs big penis

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- Fri, 07 Feb 2020 04:38:15 EST GLiuk+hI No.101911
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A large penis in the presence of a female is a sperm competition cue for smaller dick'd males. It literally makes smaller dick'd males blow a bigger load in order to "outdo" the alpha male's penis. I love having a small penis. It serves to foster competition amongst males.
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William Snodford - Tue, 05 May 2020 07:20:02 EST MrGOMQvv No.102193 Reply

"Large penis presence causes small penis to try harder"
"I love inspiring guys with my small penis"

you should kill yourself retard nb
Mr_Shawmeen - Wed, 03 Jun 2020 04:54:19 EST eIZT0xF3 No.102310 Reply
Don't be so fucking mean and you all need to quit fucking trying so hard. I'm proportionate and it gets in the way and is almost bad for my marriage but it also attracts many women to me. I'm 6ft 375ish btw maybe 380 after a meal 370 with fasting and many poops.
Wesley Drenningson - Thu, 02 Jul 2020 18:32:59 EST wie9414i No.102367 Reply
nah it's over for me. i have a small dick. women want big! It's over over!!!

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- Sat, 20 Oct 2018 21:07:56 EST V6qqHZxN No.100923
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What is a good hookup site? The only legit one I have found so far is Saucy Dates.I ran out of luck on that site.
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Wesley Drenningson - Thu, 02 Jul 2020 18:30:43 EST wie9414i No.102366 Reply
i feel like any app meant for hookup is gonna have 70%+ male userbase. how am i supposed to compete with that?

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- Thu, 02 Jul 2020 10:05:50 EST ubX2zFv/ No.102360
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ok, everyone loves masturbating in the shower.
Why aren't there any vibrators / pocketpussies that use the energy of water-pressure for joy?

I mean, everyone knows masturbating with the showerhead is fine and all, but it can be a littlebit too much and not really a fine mechanical masterpiece.

Vibrators that are water-powered. When and where?
Molly Faffingnock - Thu, 02 Jul 2020 14:45:53 EST ubX2zFv/ No.102362 Reply
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are whirlpools a waste of water too for you?

Or the massage-jets in public spa-pools?

or showering in general?

Is drinking a waste of water too, now?
Hamilton Cangershaw - Thu, 02 Jul 2020 18:26:09 EST tOgFN1r7 No.102364 Reply
>there’s no difference between drinking water and using water to power your sex toys

Is this really your argument?


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- Sat, 20 Jun 2020 02:45:08 EST 3dV1EJWE No.102332
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