Cross dressing in relationship with a bi as a bi View Thread Reply Hide William Dartwell - Thu, 10 Oct 2019 14:07:35 EST QwcWpBl+ No.101591 File: 1570730855147.png -(572843B / 559.42KB, 602x598) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I'm a guy and thought all my life I'm a bi. Had real relationships a few women so far, and they were Ok. Real, as going as far as mutually falling in love and living together. Lately though, after a single phase after last breakup, I got into such real relationship with a guy (who is also bi like me.) I've now felt better than ever before. We can also talk together about anything, whereas with the women they often hated or avoided many kinds of subjects. We are really open and close, like best friends. I can also cross dress all way for fun or sex, and it's also much greater than ever before. I think and feel I've found what is right for me. Sex with him is also great and just simple cuddling makes me dizzy in the good way.But now I don't know anymore am I a guy who is bi, or a guy who is more towards trans than I thought. I'm going way into CD with him, like in certain clubs with money and planning into dressing. I would even have laser operation in future to reduce some facial and body hair more permanently, and real piercings. I don't feel like going for any cutting or meds though. I also like my testosterone levels as they are. But it's also possible I'm just a guy who is happy as a guy, but with intensified focus into cross dressing, which was just a cheap hobby before. Now that I've found someone to go all in with it, it's greater.It's also nice to have finally a partner who you can take drugs with without any judgement and enjoy and study life, the world and each other together in altered states. But then also when sober, to verify and enjoy the feelings that are real as they naturally are.(Picture is random from Internet) 4 posts and 2 images omitted. Click View Thread to read. >> Ernest Chunderlock - Sat, 12 Oct 2019 07:46:24 EST DiCU30tX No.101600 Reply I like how you guys managed to take a post which warranted no discussion and have an argument by misunderstanding it. >OP is a guy who couldn't pick the right woman but chooses men differently and is happy now he's gone for a guy>he is enjoying cross dressing>he doesn't want to do anything more surface level cosmetic shit to enable that>He's happy and everything is going well>no problems, no stupid decisions, nothing to discuss>nb >> !scyTheNg3k - Sat, 12 Oct 2019 14:58:21 EST /oTBuSqZ No.101601 Reply >>101591If there’s anything to clarify there, it’s the following: the only permanent things you’re considering are hair removal and piercings. Nothing else even requires a second thought. Piercings, which I don’t like on anyone, have nothing to do with gender. Don’t get any big holes or dangerous piercings IMO, but that’s irrelevant. And honestly, it’s not like hair removal is going to really affect your ability to present as masculine should you ever choose to. There are only a small fraction of women who would consider it a dealbreaker if you don’t have chest hair, although there are more who might be bothered by why you don’t have chest hair. Some people wish the world wasn’t that way, but that’s how it is. But the underlying truth is already there. You’re happy being like this at least for now. Do you really want to get in a relationship in the future where you have to cover up the past? And are you afraid of not having body hair or afraid of having a future girlfriend know you dated a guy once?After all, there are plenty of straight guys who shave their body hair. >> Lillian Shittingson - Sun, 13 Oct 2019 23:27:41 EST 0qw/GcU3 No.101602 Reply >>101600> I like how you guys managed to take a post which warranted no discussion and have an argument by misunderstanding it. LOL. Yeah. I read OP, and was like fuck that well-adjusted cunt in a healthy relationship.>>101591You sound like you're having a good time, OP. Good for you.>But now I don't know anymore am I a guy who is bi, or a guy who is more towards trans than I thought.Maybe you're nonbinary? Maybe it doesn't matter, at least for now? Maybe talk to your boyfriend about how you feel?
>> Ernest Chunderlock - Sat, 12 Oct 2019 07:46:24 EST DiCU30tX No.101600 Reply I like how you guys managed to take a post which warranted no discussion and have an argument by misunderstanding it. >OP is a guy who couldn't pick the right woman but chooses men differently and is happy now he's gone for a guy>he is enjoying cross dressing>he doesn't want to do anything more surface level cosmetic shit to enable that>He's happy and everything is going well>no problems, no stupid decisions, nothing to discuss>nb
>> !scyTheNg3k - Sat, 12 Oct 2019 14:58:21 EST /oTBuSqZ No.101601 Reply >>101591If there’s anything to clarify there, it’s the following: the only permanent things you’re considering are hair removal and piercings. Nothing else even requires a second thought. Piercings, which I don’t like on anyone, have nothing to do with gender. Don’t get any big holes or dangerous piercings IMO, but that’s irrelevant. And honestly, it’s not like hair removal is going to really affect your ability to present as masculine should you ever choose to. There are only a small fraction of women who would consider it a dealbreaker if you don’t have chest hair, although there are more who might be bothered by why you don’t have chest hair. Some people wish the world wasn’t that way, but that’s how it is. But the underlying truth is already there. You’re happy being like this at least for now. Do you really want to get in a relationship in the future where you have to cover up the past? And are you afraid of not having body hair or afraid of having a future girlfriend know you dated a guy once?After all, there are plenty of straight guys who shave their body hair.
>> Lillian Shittingson - Sun, 13 Oct 2019 23:27:41 EST 0qw/GcU3 No.101602 Reply >>101600> I like how you guys managed to take a post which warranted no discussion and have an argument by misunderstanding it. LOL. Yeah. I read OP, and was like fuck that well-adjusted cunt in a healthy relationship.>>101591You sound like you're having a good time, OP. Good for you.>But now I don't know anymore am I a guy who is bi, or a guy who is more towards trans than I thought.Maybe you're nonbinary? Maybe it doesn't matter, at least for now? Maybe talk to your boyfriend about how you feel?
Hetero Male Dom Guilt? View Thread Reply Hide Ian Fuckinghall - Thu, 09 May 2019 22:44:07 EST KzXQBbEY No.101137 File: 1557456247583.gif -(7741615B / 7.38MB, 1002x564) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I am a hetero male who likes being dominate with women but even when I am with subs who enjoy it and like my fantasies I feel bad afterwards. I love women who want rough sex and do as I say but I feel very guilty about what we enjoy. Why do I feel so sad and think I am abusing my lovers? 4 posts omitted. Click View Thread to read. >> Isabella Turveyforth - Tue, 18 Jun 2019 06:08:07 EST dipWPM+4 No.101306 Reply >>101168>>101185Thank you, my consenting patterners and I now feel happy and free. >> Archie Gittingford - Thu, 29 Aug 2019 08:34:21 EST EfIJ6H28 No.101496 Reply >>101137okay, here is something to keep in mind. Ask yourself, "Do I feel guilty DURING the act or AFTER?"If it's during, then you have guilt over the actions you are doing. If it's after, and you feel guilt when thinking back on what you did, that is not necessarily because you regret what you did, but that you regret you are not still doing it. It's okay to feel, but ask yourself in the context of here and now as with thoughts and feelings. Often what we feel happens in the absence of action, and the thought we mistakely associate it with is actually what we desire to do. We are guilty because we do not do what we know we should. That's straight out of the bible, my friend. >> Archie Cipperford - Fri, 11 Oct 2019 19:13:53 EST yeKEsXK3 No.101597 Reply 1570835633634.jpg -(157295B / 153.61KB, 640x508) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I'm in a dom sub relationship for the first time in my life. We've been dating for a month, and I've realized it really helps with her sexual anxiety(and mine too). I can tell she needs the structure and likes to hear my constant feedback. It helps my confidence because she is comfortable asking for things before we get started. It also doesn't hurt that I can see her pussy get super wet when I choke her. I'm still kind of worried she is trying to relive some past trauma, but I would never do anything against her will. I told her the rough stuff is just a fun bonus for me, and I think she appreciated that. Chapter 9 of The Catcher in the Rye also touches on this feeling. American adults are hypocrites.
>> Isabella Turveyforth - Tue, 18 Jun 2019 06:08:07 EST dipWPM+4 No.101306 Reply >>101168>>101185Thank you, my consenting patterners and I now feel happy and free.
>> Archie Gittingford - Thu, 29 Aug 2019 08:34:21 EST EfIJ6H28 No.101496 Reply >>101137okay, here is something to keep in mind. Ask yourself, "Do I feel guilty DURING the act or AFTER?"If it's during, then you have guilt over the actions you are doing. If it's after, and you feel guilt when thinking back on what you did, that is not necessarily because you regret what you did, but that you regret you are not still doing it. It's okay to feel, but ask yourself in the context of here and now as with thoughts and feelings. Often what we feel happens in the absence of action, and the thought we mistakely associate it with is actually what we desire to do. We are guilty because we do not do what we know we should. That's straight out of the bible, my friend.
>> Archie Cipperford - Fri, 11 Oct 2019 19:13:53 EST yeKEsXK3 No.101597 Reply 1570835633634.jpg -(157295B / 153.61KB, 640x508) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I'm in a dom sub relationship for the first time in my life. We've been dating for a month, and I've realized it really helps with her sexual anxiety(and mine too). I can tell she needs the structure and likes to hear my constant feedback. It helps my confidence because she is comfortable asking for things before we get started. It also doesn't hurt that I can see her pussy get super wet when I choke her. I'm still kind of worried she is trying to relive some past trauma, but I would never do anything against her will. I told her the rough stuff is just a fun bonus for me, and I think she appreciated that. Chapter 9 of The Catcher in the Rye also touches on this feeling. American adults are hypocrites.
How much before I pop the boys? View Thread Reply Hide Shit Doddleforth - Fri, 16 Aug 2019 04:50:40 EST bFqd6r6s No.101445 File: 1565945440846.png -(148742B / 145.26KB, 584x584) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I've been into hardcore ballbusting, ball stomping, squeezing etc for couple of months now, usually doing it half a dozen times a week (with my gf). How much time do I have left? I dont want to castrate myself but I also dont want to stop doing this, so I'll just accept the conseqnuences, but I want to know how much time will I have before my balls pop. 2 posts omitted. Click View Thread to read. >> Lydia Divingben - Sun, 06 Oct 2019 22:40:02 EST eNEuCiPt No.101584 Reply >>101583*slowly >> Henry Brushdale - Tue, 08 Oct 2019 20:12:05 EST qpydaAYH No.101588 Reply >>101445are you the dude on /b/ that had the dick box? How'd that work out? >> Hannah Bannerwill - Thu, 10 Oct 2019 02:07:31 EST lMGcZOeH No.101590 Reply go freeze your sperm
>> Henry Brushdale - Tue, 08 Oct 2019 20:12:05 EST qpydaAYH No.101588 Reply >>101445are you the dude on /b/ that had the dick box? How'd that work out?
I ripped my ass View Thread Reply Hide AsapWOJACK - Tue, 08 Oct 2019 04:23:35 EST fJ4ZBX+C No.101586 File: 1570523015689.jpg -(1705538B / 1.63MB, 1600x1200) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I ripped my ass somehowcan any people who take it up the butt suggest what I can apply to a skin cut near the entrance to my fundament? >> Henry Brushdale - Tue, 08 Oct 2019 20:10:23 EST qpydaAYH No.101587 Reply >>101586>somehowHow?Anyway, you probably shouldn't put anything on it. Just try to eat food that will give you good bowel movements. Moist wipes are good, or at least wet TP. Just don't rub it raw with dry TP. >> Caroline Girringman - Thu, 10 Oct 2019 23:42:55 EST 4ycvK41t No.101595 Reply >>101587>How?there's only one very probable way that it happened
>> Henry Brushdale - Tue, 08 Oct 2019 20:10:23 EST qpydaAYH No.101587 Reply >>101586>somehowHow?Anyway, you probably shouldn't put anything on it. Just try to eat food that will give you good bowel movements. Moist wipes are good, or at least wet TP. Just don't rub it raw with dry TP.
>> Caroline Girringman - Thu, 10 Oct 2019 23:42:55 EST 4ycvK41t No.101595 Reply >>101587>How?there's only one very probable way that it happened
Meh. Porn binges. View Thread Reply Hide James Semmerchot - Tue, 26 Jun 2018 19:43:52 EST fVv1VkZq No.100699 File: 1530056632165.jpg -(232805B / 227.35KB, 1100x587) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I'm dating a self-described "sexual deviant" who has a history of traumatic brain injuries and cocaine abuse. Whew. He was having issues with Chrome, so he has been using his other browser which is apparently his porn browser. You can probably guess what I found: pretty much everything shy of children. That wasn't quite what surprised me the most. I think it was the frequency with which he watches it. Multiple times that day while I was over and in a different room. For twelve consecutive hours the day before. Etc.Does anyone here do this? Sex addicts/porn addicts? Compulsive stuff like this?I'm not mad or totally devastated, but I'm definitely not comfortable with it either. I want to better understand and figure out what to do. It makes me sad because I sometimes feel neglected when I'm with him. The content isn't my favorite either, but that's beside the point. I don't really like any porn. We haven't talked about it yet, so I thought this could maybe help me prepare for a conversation. Before anyone accuses me of snooping too hard, I wanna explain that he left his computer up like he always does, and search queries for rape, etc. were all across the bookmark bar. That prompted me to check the history. I got a sense and I closed it. I've always known he's into things that would upset me but I respect boundaries and he's always been very open. I'm sure he'll willingly talk to me about it when I broach the subject. Thoughts? 1 posts omitted. Click View Thread to read. >> Henry Granddock - Tue, 26 Jun 2018 23:06:11 EST R9K2iZj9 No.100701 Reply So you want him to scale it back and focus more on you, right?From what I've seen, porn addiction and kinkiness go hand in hand, it's not so much that he wants to do this shit to you so much as he's got a dragon to chase and getting sick is how he's doing it.https://wikihow.com/Help-Someone-End-a-Pornography-AddictionGood news is, there are resources for you to use and the halfass duckduckgo search I just did turned up all kinds of semi-useful shit, such as this wikihow article. >> Jenny Lightshaw - Sun, 06 Oct 2019 23:07:15 EST hPvu+WNK No.101585 Reply What you described is so identical to myself and my own partner it's eery.Right down to the head trauma (think I have CTE) and coke usage.As well as my partners openness but not full understanding of my porn habits and flavors. >> Hugh Siblingnan - Wed, 09 Oct 2019 03:14:08 EST A4m+iuyg No.101589 Reply Nothing wrong with that.
>> Henry Granddock - Tue, 26 Jun 2018 23:06:11 EST R9K2iZj9 No.100701 Reply So you want him to scale it back and focus more on you, right?From what I've seen, porn addiction and kinkiness go hand in hand, it's not so much that he wants to do this shit to you so much as he's got a dragon to chase and getting sick is how he's doing it.https://wikihow.com/Help-Someone-End-a-Pornography-AddictionGood news is, there are resources for you to use and the halfass duckduckgo search I just did turned up all kinds of semi-useful shit, such as this wikihow article.
>> Jenny Lightshaw - Sun, 06 Oct 2019 23:07:15 EST hPvu+WNK No.101585 Reply What you described is so identical to myself and my own partner it's eery.Right down to the head trauma (think I have CTE) and coke usage.As well as my partners openness but not full understanding of my porn habits and flavors.
PC/BC muscles View Thread Reply Hide Hugh Parryforth - Wed, 02 Oct 2019 10:46:02 EST w0zEM1mL No.101573 File: 1570027562179.png -(548898B / 536.03KB, 559x620) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. What do you wanna do with the BC/PC muscles during sexual activity to cure premature ejaculation. do you want both of them completely relaxed at all times?Also I think I got the bc and pc mixed up, it feels like the same muscle... I feel i can clench the BC muscle as well when I do the "stop piss from coming out" technique, but only slightly before I make that clench fully, feels like its the same muscle as PC. How to calm down over active / twitchy pc-bc muscles? its never fully relaxed either its twitching all the time but i dunno if its the pc or the bc muscle thats so twitchy. >> Samuel Sublingsat - Sun, 06 Oct 2019 17:18:53 EST tPHf++fp No.101582 Reply >>101573 I needs musky menz to protect me and my boys. Call me, ball me.419-999-6455
>> Samuel Sublingsat - Sun, 06 Oct 2019 17:18:53 EST tPHf++fp No.101582 Reply >>101573 I needs musky menz to protect me and my boys. Call me, ball me.419-999-6455
Sex addiction View Thread Reply Hide Eugene Cissletatch - Mon, 30 Sep 2019 20:45:58 EST P+B68Uf1 No.101569 File: 1569890758841.jpg -(73571B / 71.85KB, 550x811) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. When does having a LOT of sex become too much? I mean it doesnt not feel good and its very fulfilling. My girlfriend and I have extremely high sex drives and we probably have 4-5 sessions a day dispersed of great passionate sex but sometimes I wonder if maybe I'm doing something to my psyche. What have ypu got to say about this? 1 posts omitted. Click View Thread to read. >> Phyllis Brarrysare - Tue, 01 Oct 2019 05:43:36 EST sGc/SSpd No.101571 Reply >>101570If it's bad and doing damage to your psyche then you'd have other signs or reasons to be concerned surely? Like is anything else off or is your life different?I think it's only a problem if it stops you doing things you need to do or neglecting things other than sex or you have issues when you're apart. I think just having lots of sex in itself isn't going to be bad "for your psyche" but there's a lot of hazards that are very easy to identify that you're ignoring. If your lives don't have things to balance with all day fuck a thons then your psyche is already fucked. >> Fanny Snodstock - Thu, 03 Oct 2019 11:35:56 EST hfyoXEgZ No.101575 Reply >>101571Nope, everything is good in the mental regard, I just wanted to hear anyone elses perspective on sex addictionIts on our minds and we keep each other horny pretty much 24/7I sprained my wrist at work a few weeks ago and the roughness/frequency has led to it not healinh at all really >> Rebecca Tillingwill - Thu, 03 Oct 2019 16:53:25 EST c9aDQGr0 No.101576 Reply >>101575don't hurt yourself!
>> Phyllis Brarrysare - Tue, 01 Oct 2019 05:43:36 EST sGc/SSpd No.101571 Reply >>101570If it's bad and doing damage to your psyche then you'd have other signs or reasons to be concerned surely? Like is anything else off or is your life different?I think it's only a problem if it stops you doing things you need to do or neglecting things other than sex or you have issues when you're apart. I think just having lots of sex in itself isn't going to be bad "for your psyche" but there's a lot of hazards that are very easy to identify that you're ignoring. If your lives don't have things to balance with all day fuck a thons then your psyche is already fucked.
>> Fanny Snodstock - Thu, 03 Oct 2019 11:35:56 EST hfyoXEgZ No.101575 Reply >>101571Nope, everything is good in the mental regard, I just wanted to hear anyone elses perspective on sex addictionIts on our minds and we keep each other horny pretty much 24/7I sprained my wrist at work a few weeks ago and the roughness/frequency has led to it not healinh at all really
>> Rebecca Tillingwill - Thu, 03 Oct 2019 16:53:25 EST c9aDQGr0 No.101576 Reply >>101575don't hurt yourself!
Rough sex and feels View Thread Reply Hide Augustus Pupperfield - Sat, 28 Sep 2019 21:25:24 EST 5iwJm7yG No.101564 File: 1569720324722.gif -(1968214B / 1.88MB, 500x580) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. So, suppose you have toxic relationships with women. And they're centered around a lot of really fucked up rough sex. And you love them, respect them, and want to cook them nice omelettes for breakfast. But you have this weird dynamic with them, where they want you to be this monster to them sometimes but hate you for being a monster. How do I deal with it? Do you just embrace being the monster and tell them to deal with it or make up their mind? How do you achieve understanding between them and you so you're not hurting their feelings, just supporting their lives, giving them pleasure, and what they want? It gets pretty messed up sometimes, especially women can get emotional and I understand it and enjoy it being the supportive beast when it is welcome. I'm just not sure what to make of it. They drive me nuts, but at the same time, I feel like we're always two people trying to help each other while not being honest about what we really need from each other, and I get blamed for being something natural. Does anybody else understand? >> DrWorm !Jq.HCcHctg - Mon, 30 Sep 2019 02:52:11 EST 39HxT7fE No.101568 Reply >>101564take your meds, bro>Does anybody else understand? No, none of that shit made sense >> John Trotshit - Tue, 01 Oct 2019 06:04:50 EST KzXQBbEY No.101572 Reply >>101564I understand completely, don't waste your time with women who are too weak and cowardly to tell you what they want. >> Walter Sucklemodge - Wed, 02 Oct 2019 18:29:25 EST sGc/SSpd No.101574 Reply >>101568I sort of follow.If people are able to give informed consent and it's okay then it's usually okay. Having rough sex doesn't make you a monster if that's what your partner asks for. OP's partner is the mental case. Asking for something then getting annoyed. I think there are a few women who like that shit but have trouble accepting it. They need to live with the consequences of their choices and not blame people like OP.Some people live whole BDSM relationships some just have kinky sex. OP sounds like the latter. You communicate, you discuss exactly what is and isn't okay and what they like and you do it and if they say "no wait I don't like that" fine, but if they get angry later they're just being a shithead. You're not a monster if you're getting off on them enjoying it and they're totally okay with it. If they then get annoyed it's on them. Yeah as the other guy said this isn't about women or you. It's about you with someone too weak to accept who she is. Give her a chance but if she won't take it, don't waste your time on her.
>> DrWorm !Jq.HCcHctg - Mon, 30 Sep 2019 02:52:11 EST 39HxT7fE No.101568 Reply >>101564take your meds, bro>Does anybody else understand? No, none of that shit made sense
>> John Trotshit - Tue, 01 Oct 2019 06:04:50 EST KzXQBbEY No.101572 Reply >>101564I understand completely, don't waste your time with women who are too weak and cowardly to tell you what they want.
>> Walter Sucklemodge - Wed, 02 Oct 2019 18:29:25 EST sGc/SSpd No.101574 Reply >>101568I sort of follow.If people are able to give informed consent and it's okay then it's usually okay. Having rough sex doesn't make you a monster if that's what your partner asks for. OP's partner is the mental case. Asking for something then getting annoyed. I think there are a few women who like that shit but have trouble accepting it. They need to live with the consequences of their choices and not blame people like OP.Some people live whole BDSM relationships some just have kinky sex. OP sounds like the latter. You communicate, you discuss exactly what is and isn't okay and what they like and you do it and if they say "no wait I don't like that" fine, but if they get angry later they're just being a shithead. You're not a monster if you're getting off on them enjoying it and they're totally okay with it. If they then get annoyed it's on them. Yeah as the other guy said this isn't about women or you. It's about you with someone too weak to accept who she is. Give her a chance but if she won't take it, don't waste your time on her.
Chauvinist polygamist angst View Thread Reply Hide Simon Nickledale - Tue, 17 Sep 2019 06:56:39 EST tV3f5XFg No.101544 File: 1568717799653.jpg -(86679B / 84.65KB, 500x625) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. So, I'm sure I'll get a lot of crap for thinking this. But is it really so bad to have multiple girls? I feel like they'd all get a long if they didn't get crap from their family about it, and some might even be okay with it. Suppose you've got a decent brain and body and a means of supporting all of them in some way as well, and take care of any children that come from it. I know it's a bit arrogant, and that the converse would probably have to be respected for other reasons. And then there's the slippery slope argument (first gays, then sister wives, then pedophiles). I would shoot pedophiles if it was legal.But, aside from the cultural aspects, is it really that bad? I feel like biologically it's actually more natural. 3 posts omitted. Click View Thread to read. >> !scyTheNg3k - Tue, 24 Sep 2019 11:01:19 EST kgfYEhuW No.101553 Reply 1569337279615.gif -(124228B / 121.32KB, 935x941) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>101544Yeah lol it’s unstable. Any romantic grouping falls apart if two people start to dislike each other. So with two people there’s only one way to fail. With three people you have three instabilities: A dislikes B, B dislikes C or C dislikes A. With four people you have six points of failure: A vs B, A vs C, A vs D, B vs C, B vs D, C vs D. With five people, 10 points of failure, and the eight gay dads from Bojack Horseman enjoy 28 possible pairings that can go wrong. Now, you can, of course, inhibit this by creating some sort of authority that resolves disputes. However, most people would agree, when you do this it ceases to be a romantic grouping. And remaining in a “relationship” where you dislike one of your “partners” is guaranteed misery. The math says you can do three if you’re lucky and any more than that is nuts. So the question is: are these women side characters in your autobiography? Or are they humans with preferences and desires of their own? >> Augustus Pupperfield - Sat, 28 Sep 2019 22:32:37 EST 5iwJm7yG No.101566 Reply >>101553I mean it's just a sex cult at some point. Maybe that's just what I should call it and stop trying to rationalize it. >> Hedda Fecklehood - Sun, 29 Sep 2019 01:54:31 EST ncAcbRbk No.101567 Reply >>101566If you're having to tell yourself to "cool it" every week, maybe you need some kind of outlet. Like seriously. I mean, it's not healthy. I know it's not right. But an outlet is better than running around like a chicken without your head. I mean, if you naturally occurringly, just had the capacity to ejaculate eight times a day sometimes, and felt incredibly uncomfortable if you could not when you felt you "neeed" to, wouldn't you want a healthy outlet for release, even if it weren't acceptable?I forgot I made this thread so sorry about the double post, didn't eralize it was that slow lately.Basically all the same shit. I think it's healhier for me to release my sexual degeneracy rather than try to blend in with normal people.
>> !scyTheNg3k - Tue, 24 Sep 2019 11:01:19 EST kgfYEhuW No.101553 Reply 1569337279615.gif -(124228B / 121.32KB, 935x941) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. >>101544Yeah lol it’s unstable. Any romantic grouping falls apart if two people start to dislike each other. So with two people there’s only one way to fail. With three people you have three instabilities: A dislikes B, B dislikes C or C dislikes A. With four people you have six points of failure: A vs B, A vs C, A vs D, B vs C, B vs D, C vs D. With five people, 10 points of failure, and the eight gay dads from Bojack Horseman enjoy 28 possible pairings that can go wrong. Now, you can, of course, inhibit this by creating some sort of authority that resolves disputes. However, most people would agree, when you do this it ceases to be a romantic grouping. And remaining in a “relationship” where you dislike one of your “partners” is guaranteed misery. The math says you can do three if you’re lucky and any more than that is nuts. So the question is: are these women side characters in your autobiography? Or are they humans with preferences and desires of their own?
>> Augustus Pupperfield - Sat, 28 Sep 2019 22:32:37 EST 5iwJm7yG No.101566 Reply >>101553I mean it's just a sex cult at some point. Maybe that's just what I should call it and stop trying to rationalize it.
>> Hedda Fecklehood - Sun, 29 Sep 2019 01:54:31 EST ncAcbRbk No.101567 Reply >>101566If you're having to tell yourself to "cool it" every week, maybe you need some kind of outlet. Like seriously. I mean, it's not healthy. I know it's not right. But an outlet is better than running around like a chicken without your head. I mean, if you naturally occurringly, just had the capacity to ejaculate eight times a day sometimes, and felt incredibly uncomfortable if you could not when you felt you "neeed" to, wouldn't you want a healthy outlet for release, even if it weren't acceptable?I forgot I made this thread so sorry about the double post, didn't eralize it was that slow lately.Basically all the same shit. I think it's healhier for me to release my sexual degeneracy rather than try to blend in with normal people.
Sex toy vs Pornography View Thread Reply Hide BossMcFloyd - Sat, 13 Jul 2019 09:47:58 EST DYjYEN+2 No.101334 File: 1563025678065.jpg -(25807B / 25.20KB, 600x600) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Pornography is pretty unhealthy in many ways... But would getting a sex toy be the same caliber of unhealthiness as watching pornography? Or is it not even comparable. I wouldn't even ever jack off without watching porn but I havent done it in 3 years because it rapes the mind and I feel its not healthy. Basically can't even get excited by not watching porn and its not even worth it... Therefore the next best thing I can think of is a good quality sex toy like a blowjob machine or something... But can you really compare this to the unhealthiness of porn+jacking off or would this be crystal clear case of -Healthy-- rather than jacking off vs porn? 9 posts and 3 images omitted. Click View Thread to read. >> Esther Gagglebit - Sat, 14 Sep 2019 13:30:15 EST q71sVuvx No.101537 Reply >>101334Yo if you say shit like porn rapes the mind, you have other issues. >> Cyril Borrystone - Sat, 14 Sep 2019 19:53:49 EST /+CaG5Q6 No.101540 Reply >>101537Yeah, if you invite someone over and tell them to fuck you as hard as they can it'd be kinda shitty to call it rape afterwards.The porn didn't force itself onto OP, one has to seek out porn.Exception would be porn ads ofc, they're kinda intrusive, but that's more like catcalling. >> BolshoiBooze - Tue, 24 Sep 2019 13:24:18 EST YOiz0A+X No.101554 Reply 1569345858829.jpg -(203653B / 198.88KB, 1000x1777) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. What about using a doll like this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pYw39_kC8tEIs it CON-sidered as porn? also How many females r Whores ready to Get Shot To The Moon By BoyToyCuntWhore . Once they Experience a mega Pleasure dont They get addicted to it like Anyone else, or do they Value Other UseLess shit than Mega full Body Orgasm ??
>> Esther Gagglebit - Sat, 14 Sep 2019 13:30:15 EST q71sVuvx No.101537 Reply >>101334Yo if you say shit like porn rapes the mind, you have other issues.
>> Cyril Borrystone - Sat, 14 Sep 2019 19:53:49 EST /+CaG5Q6 No.101540 Reply >>101537Yeah, if you invite someone over and tell them to fuck you as hard as they can it'd be kinda shitty to call it rape afterwards.The porn didn't force itself onto OP, one has to seek out porn.Exception would be porn ads ofc, they're kinda intrusive, but that's more like catcalling.
>> BolshoiBooze - Tue, 24 Sep 2019 13:24:18 EST YOiz0A+X No.101554 Reply 1569345858829.jpg -(203653B / 198.88KB, 1000x1777) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. What about using a doll like this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pYw39_kC8tEIs it CON-sidered as porn? also How many females r Whores ready to Get Shot To The Moon By BoyToyCuntWhore . Once they Experience a mega Pleasure dont They get addicted to it like Anyone else, or do they Value Other UseLess shit than Mega full Body Orgasm ??
Sex with someone who has never watched porn and is also a virgin View Thread Reply Hide Basil Backlehitch - Sat, 17 Nov 2018 08:36:08 EST u0FOaSld No.100965 File: 1542461768132.png -(1020333B / 996.42KB, 1375x1008) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I had sex with her after dating her for a few months and her first time I was unaware, she had told me after.I've come to realize I've been trained to want certain things from porn that are fake - the moaning etc. It's interesting to see how a human has sex with no previous impressions of it. She tried to watch it and she said it felt like voyeurism. Other than her being shy at first, the sex is really good. How does porn affect your sexual expectations and experience? 7 posts omitted. Click View Thread to read. >> Martin Crebblenatch - Sun, 15 Sep 2019 07:46:07 EST q71sVuvx No.101543 Reply >>101531I don't agree. For millenials, it's become WAY more acceptable for women to embrace their sexual desires. That includes fulfilling their own needs if their partners don't, and not being shy about doing so, and in many instances, dumping people who don't meet their needs. Sometimes I'm too tired from my labour job to have sex. My fiancée watches way more porn than I do, and has no problem taking care of things herself, although she will rib me about it. If I couldn't fuck because I jerked it to porn instead, she would (rightly) flip shit on me, and if it became a regular problem, I'm 100% sure I'd be shown the door, engagement off. She goes insane for those videos where drunk girls get into a cab and the driver rapes them. Not my thing but if you think I'm complaining about a porn-watching wife, you're high >> Hugh Marryway - Tue, 17 Sep 2019 20:23:37 EST dmG+qRa5 No.101546 Reply >>101543>tfw your fiancee starts driving for uber >> Simon Wosslefoot - Wed, 18 Sep 2019 02:49:03 EST ly5NS4Vc No.101547 Reply >>101546>mfw Uber is banned in my city
>> Martin Crebblenatch - Sun, 15 Sep 2019 07:46:07 EST q71sVuvx No.101543 Reply >>101531I don't agree. For millenials, it's become WAY more acceptable for women to embrace their sexual desires. That includes fulfilling their own needs if their partners don't, and not being shy about doing so, and in many instances, dumping people who don't meet their needs. Sometimes I'm too tired from my labour job to have sex. My fiancée watches way more porn than I do, and has no problem taking care of things herself, although she will rib me about it. If I couldn't fuck because I jerked it to porn instead, she would (rightly) flip shit on me, and if it became a regular problem, I'm 100% sure I'd be shown the door, engagement off. She goes insane for those videos where drunk girls get into a cab and the driver rapes them. Not my thing but if you think I'm complaining about a porn-watching wife, you're high
>> Hugh Marryway - Tue, 17 Sep 2019 20:23:37 EST dmG+qRa5 No.101546 Reply >>101543>tfw your fiancee starts driving for uber
>> Simon Wosslefoot - Wed, 18 Sep 2019 02:49:03 EST ly5NS4Vc No.101547 Reply >>101546>mfw Uber is banned in my city
Post your "O" face View Thread Reply Hide Shit Billingson - Sat, 07 Sep 2019 05:39:12 EST fkDxKOsb No.101525 File: 1567849152347.jpg -(23723B / 23.17KB, 406x327) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. DICKS EVERYWHERE >> Cedric Femmersitch - Sun, 15 Sep 2019 00:42:00 EST NKUsRPaZ No.101541 Reply 1568522520009.gif -(1102792B / 1.05MB, 320x180) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. DICKS EVERYWHERE >> Eliza Creblingham - Sun, 15 Sep 2019 02:42:26 EST /+CaG5Q6 No.101542 Reply 1568529746347.jpg -(37932B / 37.04KB, 225x263) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. DICKS EVERYWHERE >> Nathaniel Chunkinsed - Wed, 18 Sep 2019 22:54:39 EST q3ILkSYU No.101548 Reply 1568861679392.jpg -(110038B / 107.46KB, 640x446) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. DICKS EVERYWHERE
>> Cedric Femmersitch - Sun, 15 Sep 2019 00:42:00 EST NKUsRPaZ No.101541 Reply 1568522520009.gif -(1102792B / 1.05MB, 320x180) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. DICKS EVERYWHERE
>> Eliza Creblingham - Sun, 15 Sep 2019 02:42:26 EST /+CaG5Q6 No.101542 Reply 1568529746347.jpg -(37932B / 37.04KB, 225x263) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. DICKS EVERYWHERE
>> Nathaniel Chunkinsed - Wed, 18 Sep 2019 22:54:39 EST q3ILkSYU No.101548 Reply 1568861679392.jpg -(110038B / 107.46KB, 640x446) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. DICKS EVERYWHERE
Why orgasms felt so different from when I first discovered them? View Thread Reply Hide Human - Sat, 25 May 2019 03:15:00 EST aiv2CnGa No.101162 File: 1558768500914.jpg -(19078B / 18.63KB, 331x245) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Hello,I'm curious as to why orgasms felt so different from when I first discovered them via masturbation, (with a shower-head, and various vibrating household items.) It seems like when I was 14, or younger, my orgasms could be felt throughout my body in waves. They were an emotional, even spiritual experience; although I didn't have that vocabulary to describe them this way at the time. It was just an unbelievably warm, fuzzy, pulsating and ecstatic feeling, permeating throughout my body.They were all hands-free (I knew no other way besides vibration, or shower-head,) and it seems like once I discovered you could use your hand, the special feeling slowly disappeared, and soon became a "meh," feeling. Now, at 31, it's almost like an excretion: Do it, get it over with, and get on with whatever you were doing.Anyone else have the same kind of experience, or even know what I'm talking about?Note: The shower head--I would detach it, kneel as if crouched, and aim the water at my frenulum--the underside of my penis--and just wait... slowly, a warm elation would build; from my toes to me head, until this strong and overwhelming fuzziness would take over the nervous system--and my brain perceived a profound and mysterious pleasure that was almost unbelievable. 9 posts omitted. Click View Thread to read. >> Jarvis Dondlehick - Wed, 11 Sep 2019 23:52:04 EST NERjToie No.101532 Reply One tip that has helped me, is to really relish the orgasm. Let yourself feel it, let yourself bask in it for a little bit. Instead of immediately heading to clean-up and thinking about what you're moving on to next, stop and just relax, enjoy and love yourself for a little bit. Even during orgasm, try to just slow that down and allow yourself to just sit in how really good you feel. I think over time as it becomes more commonplace, we naturally tend to move on from it too quickly, so it can help to stop treating it like a chore or a quick snack, and allow yourself to spend some time with the joy of it, I bet it will be 10x better for you if you do. >> Matilda Buttingforth - Thu, 12 Sep 2019 15:31:42 EST 7bJwU3Ag No.101533 Reply >>101532Mindfulness while cumming. Can't hurt to try though. >> Esther Gagglebit - Sat, 14 Sep 2019 13:37:19 EST q71sVuvx No.101539 Reply >>101162Yeah you need to mix it up a bit. Discover something new about getting off. Edge, use toys, abstain for three months, try going back to hands free, freeze the hand you don't normally use, etc. I'd recommend autoerotic asphyxiation but maybe have a sitter if you go that route. Jerking off has never felt like a chore to me and every orgasm is amazing and different because I don't fall Iinto routines and I constantly push my limits, boundaries, and tolerances.
>> Jarvis Dondlehick - Wed, 11 Sep 2019 23:52:04 EST NERjToie No.101532 Reply One tip that has helped me, is to really relish the orgasm. Let yourself feel it, let yourself bask in it for a little bit. Instead of immediately heading to clean-up and thinking about what you're moving on to next, stop and just relax, enjoy and love yourself for a little bit. Even during orgasm, try to just slow that down and allow yourself to just sit in how really good you feel. I think over time as it becomes more commonplace, we naturally tend to move on from it too quickly, so it can help to stop treating it like a chore or a quick snack, and allow yourself to spend some time with the joy of it, I bet it will be 10x better for you if you do.
>> Matilda Buttingforth - Thu, 12 Sep 2019 15:31:42 EST 7bJwU3Ag No.101533 Reply >>101532Mindfulness while cumming. Can't hurt to try though.
>> Esther Gagglebit - Sat, 14 Sep 2019 13:37:19 EST q71sVuvx No.101539 Reply >>101162Yeah you need to mix it up a bit. Discover something new about getting off. Edge, use toys, abstain for three months, try going back to hands free, freeze the hand you don't normally use, etc. I'd recommend autoerotic asphyxiation but maybe have a sitter if you go that route. Jerking off has never felt like a chore to me and every orgasm is amazing and different because I don't fall Iinto routines and I constantly push my limits, boundaries, and tolerances.
Fisting View Thread Reply Hide Barnaby Clanderspear - Thu, 25 Jul 2019 08:01:51 EST 40go6b16 No.101354 File: 1564056111687.png -(12371B / 12.08KB, 248x203) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. My wife and I will be trying out fishing for the first time in less than 24 hours. To be specific, she's gonna be fisting my ass.We do a lot of toy play with strap-ons and all, nothing this wild. The craziest we've gotten so far is her suffocating me/choking me out while jerking me off, which I mean, best wife ever. So I'm excited but also nervous, there are some freaky 'gone wrong' stories out there. We've read up on how to prepare, but reading only goes so far. But we have followed all tips and tricks religiously, bought special non-numbing lube, etc. Any comments or suggestions welcome, and uhhh I guess AMA in a day or so if I live. 9 posts and 1 images omitted. Click View Thread to read. >> Sidney Chobbledock - Fri, 16 Aug 2019 04:18:57 EST 0ftKudFq No.101444 Reply >>101443I means bear and grunt, which means it probably HURTS LIKE HELL >> Esther Gagglebit - Sat, 14 Sep 2019 13:27:30 EST q71sVuvx No.101536 Reply >>101354Interesting. I'm very much into pain, and I've (unfortunately?) reached a point where I can't get off without it, half of the time I can't even get hard without it. However I find there is a very fine line between "hurts enough to cum" and "hurts too much to cum" it's obviously a very flexible line, though, and it's certainly trending in one direction. I think I'll have to give this a shot if (when lul) I need a stronger fix. >> Esther Gagglebit - Sat, 14 Sep 2019 13:33:39 EST q71sVuvx No.101538 Reply >>101400Ha my guess is the point is definitely pain.
>> Sidney Chobbledock - Fri, 16 Aug 2019 04:18:57 EST 0ftKudFq No.101444 Reply >>101443I means bear and grunt, which means it probably HURTS LIKE HELL
>> Esther Gagglebit - Sat, 14 Sep 2019 13:27:30 EST q71sVuvx No.101536 Reply >>101354Interesting. I'm very much into pain, and I've (unfortunately?) reached a point where I can't get off without it, half of the time I can't even get hard without it. However I find there is a very fine line between "hurts enough to cum" and "hurts too much to cum" it's obviously a very flexible line, though, and it's certainly trending in one direction. I think I'll have to give this a shot if (when lul) I need a stronger fix.
>> Esther Gagglebit - Sat, 14 Sep 2019 13:33:39 EST q71sVuvx No.101538 Reply >>101400Ha my guess is the point is definitely pain.
