/sd/ Sexuality Discussion
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I'm involuntary celibate. I experience sexual urges and desires but I am sexually unattractive in many different ways. Aside from committing suicide I'm open to advice on how to get the most out of my life while dealing with these unrequitted, throbbing biological urges.
>>100991>>looks like a serial killer >>incelPeople probably think or know op is a school shooter type waiting to happen. Personally most incels are because they're people who deal with being dominated biologically constantly...in the days of natural selection and jungle rules (or just in the hood) you would have to quickly shed this mentality and submissive loser nature or be killed and not able to breed. Really the less civilized shit is, the more things tend to sort themselves out. Non virgins should duel incels on the spot and constantly let stallions and incels know that they are being dominated and if they try to breed they will be mocked and shunned like a lone male lion who has been chased out and dominated by the males in his clan who won't allow him to m8.
>>looks like a serial killer >>incel
>>100992I agree. I'd rather have the opportunity to get in a battle to the death with the sexually successful types who are annoyed by me. If they win, I'm dead. If I win, I got to work through all my aggression until the next battle. It's win-win.
>>100992>>100998This is what people meant when they said OP seemed like a serial killer. Ruminating on how much easier it would be to get laid if you could just kill and rape people will 100% prevent you from getting laid. Women always steer clear of a man if they get even the most remote whiff that you're like these incels. It's not really a feminism thing either. If you espouse pro-rape views then any woman will avoid you for their own protection.The irony of these idiots is they're all big champions of "natural selection" and "survival of the fittest" but they've proven themselves incapable of adapting to their environment and are being breed out.
>>101000Who said anything about rape? I was talking about suicide or murder. I assumed I still wouldn't get laid after the death battle.
>>100992PSA to incels and people like you: There is no grand conspiracy to make sure that you don't get laid. I want people around me to be happy and succesful in life. I have no desire to keep people down just to perpetuate the half-baked idea that the way to progress is to imitate primitive and comparatively retarded pack animals.
I haven't fucked a girl in years because my dick is too small and it makes me ashamed.A girl has to really throw herself at me and not mind.Its not even like microdick status just 4.5 hard which is somehow more depressing
>>100883Yeah what he said.I'm not experienced, but I give my girl oral first until she cums, then I stick my tiny pp in her for about 50 seconds until I do.Such is life. But yeah it's not all about the penis; there are other ways to pleasure.
>>100884The former.I'm alright with my hands and mouth I guess, but it's not the same.
>>100887dis nigga fucks like a pandahe eats shoots and leaves
>>100878Bro I FEEL YOU, i am 5" at BEST, and god DAMN am i self conscious! Bitches never turn it down though, if youre already that far in.
22 F Cali>InterestsAnime and video games>looking forCute boys who need cuddles and love. Boys who need a mommy and will cling onto me as I change their diapers. Boys who are willing to send cute pics to me. Open with a pic and I will give you a big hug. >not looking forthots, dominant guys>discord tagnuketheworld#0868
>not looking for
>>101012...what if I dont have a discord? 26 M. you have an email?
My partner's libido is dead. I don't mean simply reduced or low, I mean actually fucking dead.We've been together for eight years now. The first two or so were wild: loud, satisfying sex, multiple times per week (sometimes per day), often included ass play, rope, blindfolds, floggers, and other fun stuff. Now twice a month is frequent for us. In the rare event that it does happen it's because I initiated and it always ends up being dull vanilla shit and she's clearly not all that into it. I ask if she'd like to change things up to make things a little more interesting. "No, not right now."I talked to her about it before a few months ago. I tried asking her what turns her on, what she fantasizes about, what kind of porn appeals to her, what she thinks about while masturbating (back then she still did this once in a while, not so much anymore), etc. What am I supposed to do when the literal only response I get to these questions are "I don't know" and "Nothing"? She finds sex kind of awkward to talk about.I think I know what happened. First she got depressed. Medication actually helped that for a short while, but then her thyroid started acting up. Apparently hypothyroidism is a known libido murderer. Fuck.It's especially frustrating because my libido has always been super high, and now that I've been working out for the past two months it's spun out of fucking control. I just want to fuck anything with some goddamn legs. I find myself looking at and thinking about other women. Constantly. Seriously it's become a distraction in my personal and professional life. Also, and this is not exactly my finest confession, on some days when she's not home I'm wasting hours on porn (sometimes I'm a little late for work because of it) resulting in a stiff shoulder and a dick that's beaten goddamn raw.My friend tells me that low libido has never been a problem for her and that she's the one that has to initiate a bonedown with her fiance. I read articles and posts in support forums and shit and high libido women frustrated with their low libido partners is apparently super common. How the fuck did I get to be so u… Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>100951>honestly, it sounds like you might have made her a little insecure, which could impair her ability to enjoy sex, and that turns back on itself and makes her more insecure.This happened in my last relationship, and was basically just the last nail in the coffin for us. It's so hard because you either let it go, and it won't come up because your partner is fine with it, or you bring it up and sound/feel needy which also sucks a lot, and your partner feels pressured which is (for most people) not the sexiest of feelings. I hope it works out for you OP, but in my opinion don't listen to people who say to just get used to it, or that it's plenty or good enough. If it isn't working for you, then there's some kind of mismatch. There is no magic number for the amount of sex people should have in a relationship, but they must match somewhat and it sucks for everyone when it's a mismatch.
>honestly, it sounds like you might have made her a little insecure, which could impair her ability to enjoy sex, and that turns back on itself and makes her more insecure.
>>100951What the fuck classifies as atonement? 10 minutes of praying to her effigy each morning? I hate this new wave where every nuance of a sexual relationship has to be dotted is and crossed ts to be consensual or enjoyable. maybe I want to just eat out my wife until she yells into the pillow then fuck her like a dog in heat.Anyway I havent had real sex with mine in hakf a year and it was when she was having her libido fueled by some black guy she was voice chat cybering on the side.Maybe I'll kill her and myself, we'll see.Good luck with your twice in a month. What a misery.
>>100983if you push someone too hard and hurt them you need to fix it. it's not any different than if you break somebody's window. it's your fault, you pay for it.checking whether someone actually wants to do something is not a technicality, it's common fucking sense. i'm not playing some stupid college leftist everything-is-rape game, i'm describing how people interact when they give a shit about each other. "consensual" is not a synonym for "fun" or "good", and it was never intended to be. stop getting your panties in a twist about being judged and learn to be actually good instead of just not bad.
>>100937Tricky situation.First let me address the "How did I get so unlucky" part. Dude come on, be a little bit more understanding. Your girl just went through depression, medication and thyroid problems. I'm sure she is not living the dream either. Is my understanding that thyroid controls hormones, so yea. That, plus medication, not a good combo.I suggest really talking to her, and choose your words carefully, since she had or has depression. You will only make the situation worse if you hurt her. Try to understand where she is coming from.Now, this is up to her imo. You can't obligate someone into doing something for you. Is not healthy. You should read about nutrition. And talk to her about it, that you've read and if she would like to try it out.It's ok if you need to tell her, that you feel frustrated as well not only because you want to pound her, but because you miss her. Like i said, choose the right words.Other than exercising. Eating clean is good for depression and thyroid issue. Some of the stuff that has worked for me, for libido, are incorporating cayenne pepper to my food, ginger, yogi tea, and maca powder (Macca powder tastes like shit, but you can put it in a juice with other veggies or fruits)Hope this helps. Good luck.
Sounds like she's fucking someone else.
I´ve seen lots of post giving tips to become a better bottom, these talk about cleaning/diet/lube but i think they´re forgetting something important, that is the top...What they want? what can i do to give him more pleasure? what they consider a good bottom?
what does that even mean?
Each guy is different, communication is key. There is no one approach to sex that will please everyone.That all said, I've been thinking that next time I get laid I'll try to wrap my legs around his torso in missionary. I loved it when girls would do that to me, so it's an idea to try I guess.
But probably won't, and that's to fashion a gloryhole and get a large group of STD free men who are willing to pay me small sums for blowjobs and slightly larger sums for anal ( because there would be a hole for my butt ) and to just live in a small, seedy apartment in a city doing this while cross-dressing all the time and smoking weed. THAT SOUNDS ABSOLUTELY FANTASTIC.
On second thought this sounds absolutely retarded and I'm just gonna continue doing what I'm doing.
>>100988but I will just say I really want to do it
>>100988no, you do you, apartment fuckbox is a completely kosher way to express your inner release
whom here likes to get down and tear it up on the dance floor?
Is it true that vabrators will make the clit unsensitive and unresponsive?
>>100918Nah, but they do change your level of pleasure and you'll never have a vibrating dick so, it kind of sets you up for failure.
>>100909uh...depends.Since 10 years ago, I stopped using sex toys for masturbation. Like someone said here. Dicks don't move in circle in your pussy, dicks don't vibrate while they penetrate and dicks don't have little metalic balls that move in circles for stimulation.So yea you are setting yourself up to not enjoy a real dick, imo. And there's nothing more frustrating then having a real dick and not have an orgasm.Took me a bit to learn to masturbate with my hands. I started masturbating with water hose, bathtubs faucets, jacuzzi jets; as well as massagers. And yea I lost sensitivity for sure, that has never come back. Of course, I think these were much stronger than a vibrator. Some sensitivity did come back, (not the same tho) but took a while.Anyways, I leave the toys for my partner to use on me, if he wants. I would recommend, just using your hands. But hey, everyone is different.
One of my girlfriends said that whenever she would use her vibrator regularly it would make her clit less sensitive to ordinary finger stimulation, but that the sensitivity would come back after a few days or so since stopping heavy use. It only sounds natural that this could happen considering how much more intense of a sensation a vibrator provides compared to a finger.I'm sure it depends on the girl too.
This thread makes me happy that most girls don't know how to satisfy themselves and they don't use vibrators. I used to think that's a lack of imagination but eh.
What is a good hookup site? The only legit one I have found so far is Saucy Dates.I ran out of luck on that site.
>>100923Try an amateur ballroom dance class. You're welcome.
>>100925 How will I get pussy there?
>>100926Lol depends on your target audience. My dad got so much ass at his ballroom classes.
I'm looking for it too.
I'm currently partnered with one heck of a sexually free woman. She has indulged me in a ton of my kinks (footjobs, chastity, pegging), and I'm sure would indulge me in many more should I ask...The thing is, I'm kind embarrassed about stallionolding in particular. I don't know why I have a hang up about it but I do. I also doubt I'm the only dude who likes the idea of stallionolding but is kind fucked up around it. By ton fo definitions, I'm already stallionolded - she plays (kink play) with another couple, and they have recently started having sex as well.I'd like to see this with my own eyes, and maybe engage with it. This other couple has zero interest in playing with me, so they are out of the question. And, like I said, I have a weird hangup about admitting to this kink.Is it acceptable to set up a MMF threesome with a Bi-Dom, and live it that way? Has anyone use that to scratch the itch until they can really discuss it?
>me and my GF didn't have sex for months nowbecause her pill stopped working due to medication>we could have sex maybe in a month>then she got a sore puss from driving with wrong pants on a bike>condoms make my dick limb>no handjobs or blowjobs because it would be "unfair">blueballing hard, getting frustrated>no time to jerk off because too much work and GF allways around>no liabilities today>preparing my fleshlight and some porn>GF comes home early>talks about household-stuff and shit>sits in my room and wants to watch me play videogames Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>me and my GF didn't have sex for months now
>we could have sex maybe in a month>then she got a sore puss from driving with wrong pants on a bike>condoms make my dick limb>no handjobs or blowjobs because it would be "unfair"
>blueballing hard, getting frustrated>no time to jerk off because too much work and GF allways around
>no liabilities today>preparing my fleshlight and some porn>GF comes home early>talks about household-stuff and shit>sits in my room and wants to watch me play videogames
and get better condoms that fit right and lube
>>100906condoms suck.Learn to fuck girls without STD's.
I can confirm this. I need sex 1 - 2 time per day, I think it almost all the time and fantasize trying different things in bed and fucking in different places etc. (yes, I`m perv :S) but I get sex maybe 1 - 2 time week. It`s me who is always doing the "move" for sex, so it feels always like she doesn`t even care about sex. Sex is also always the same routine, last time I had anal sex was so many years ago that I can`t even remember it.It really hurts in my heart to live like this, it doesn`t even feel like sex anymore and I almost start to cry when I see how other people are _freely_ enjoying their sexuality. I really feel unwanted and my lifelong buddy mr. depression is starting to get really pissed off which I decided not to let happen ever again. Next thing in my life is going to be really messy breakup in every possible way or suicide.Ladies, keep blowing your man.
>>100981I haven't had sex in over 10 years. No kissing, no hugging, no holding hands-- nothing. I don't think I've had a conversation with a woman other than my mother in like at least 6 years. I only talk to my mom maybe once every other week, on the phone. I haven't gone through with it yet, because I've given it a lot of thought, and I know how I want it to go, and I don't want my last moments to have to be a compromise; but the drugs I want to use for it are not easy for me to attain, and I worry about where my dog will end up when I'm gone. My greatest fear is growing old or messing up an attempt and ending up living a fraction of a life as a result, due to injury. Also, I feel the need to make some kind of grandiose statement on the life experience and society while I'm still here, but it's hard to stay motivated to put the time into anything like that.Over time, the "weirdness" slowly drains away, and all that's left is Hungry Man dinners and internet radio. The radio has been getting pretty annoying these past couple years, but it's better than listening to just the noise from the box fans all day.
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