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- Mon, 30 Oct 2017 21:47:47 EST 4GMnAhEM No.100151
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(I hope there are no threads of this already, I couldn't find any)

Anyone into sadism or masochism at all?

So this year I've started to develop some kind of kink for pain and really as a teen and young adult I thought it was so bizarre and stupid. I am still kind of a beginner and haven't done anything that pushes is very far, mostly just punches on my legs/back/arm as severely as my bf is willing to do it. What's nice is that my threshold and what he is comfortable with both keep expanding.

It started out as a purely sexual thing years ago with slapping and spanking, sometimes I could get him to choke but he hated it. We've always kind of wrestled and had play fights until one day I suggested he just punched my body and it felt so incredible. And lately it seems to provide a thrill of its own almost as a non sexual hobby but it's still kind of kinky.

I was thinking about finding some forum for this kind of thing. I'm not sure where it will go but some kind of bamboo weapon sounds cool.

If you're into this either giving or receiving how did it grow over the years?
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Simon Hugglenot - Fri, 05 Jan 2018 10:49:47 EST mBIWE0F7 No.100273 Reply
>>100151
Hey anon. First you should probably go on Fetlife because they'll likely be best equipped to help you in better detail. However, punches to the body are probably not the healthiest or safest thing in the world in that your boyfriend could hit you wrong and that could mean you'd have to go to hospital, or worse.

You probably already know this but AVOID MAJOR VEINS/ARTERIES. AVOID PRESSURE POINTS. AVOID THE SPINE ENTIRELY. AVOID BLOWS TO THE NECK.

Re: a bamboo weapon, you probably want something like a rattan cane.

I've been doing bdsm like things since I was seventeen. It's been about five years now, and I've mostly mellowed out, w/r/t sadomaschism, but spanking and flogging have always been fun.

Fetlife is good because not only can you find other kinky ppl in your area, you can find events, good advice, etc.
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Beatrice Hurrywater - Sat, 13 Jan 2018 17:06:50 EST ciKmdRkc No.100296 Reply
I've recently got into this after trying some electric play, tried flogging at at club last night, a lot more painful and intense I expected, was on such an endorphin high I was actually trembling afterwards.

Fetlife is great, you can get a lot of advise there, maybe find a few local munches to attend.
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Angus Piffingham - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 17:52:35 EST E7VRC9sJ No.100351 Reply
Are there any other sites I should be checking out other than fetlife? Trying to find a mistress that wants to degrade me.

I got a chastity cage woo

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- Sat, 02 Dec 2017 17:46:42 EST c0qDA2+T No.100221
File: 1512254802270.jpg -(574143B / 560.69KB, 1280x720) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I got a chastity cage woo
I don't know what else to do so I am posting here. Look at mah dick.

>woo
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Phyllis Sirringmatch - Sat, 09 Dec 2017 01:46:51 EST yxj63MQD No.100233 Reply
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>>100227
Buddy a mine tried that for a bit. Never got a follow-up, but it sounded like it lost its pizzazz pretty quick.

Wouldn't work for me 'cause picking locks is about as fun as masturbating, but I think combining them would ruin them both.
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Priscilla Chemmersore - Sat, 09 Dec 2017 23:31:34 EST Cl2oGbA0 No.100236 Reply
>>100233
yeah to be honest i wore it for a bit and it's more hassle than it's worth simply because it makes moving around and exercise harder, it can also be dangerous so there's that

if there was no inconvenience or risk of damage, i would probably wear it for the erotic denial

I'm a little disappointed but meh, it was only like 30 dollars and now i have a weird sex toy so that's fun
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lildove - Mon, 29 Jan 2018 22:47:38 EST SLpP+JK3 No.100335 Reply
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Hey wooalt, please never use the Kpop guy again. He blows.

What's wrong with me?

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- Wed, 17 Jan 2018 15:30:58 EST ely5cIvg No.100305
File: 1516221058927.jpg -(700336B / 683.92KB, 2048x1536) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. What's wrong with me?
Lovemaking with a significant other is nice and all but for some reason I find a) sex with platonic friends and b) hate sex so much more satisfying and passionate than with a committed partner. I'm not the only one right?
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scumfuc - Sun, 28 Jan 2018 21:07:16 EST WqhsDK1g No.100334 Reply
Sounds normal enough. As long as you're not fucking up your life with the hate sex and fwbs, I wouldn't worry about it.

I guess it will make settling down a bitch though. Maybe that's not something you want, not everyone is the family type.

financial domination

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- Mon, 01 Jan 2018 21:10:52 EST UTtQta0m No.100268
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Fuck I was this close to spending over 300 bucks buying shit off this girls Amazon wishlist. Cancelled the order but man what the fuck is wrong with me? Why do I get turned on throwing away my hard earned money to some brat across the country that I'll never meet. I mean if it was a domme that I saw on a regular basis at least I'd be able to enjoy licking the heels I bought her.
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Barnaby Sinnerfield - Tue, 23 Jan 2018 15:22:48 EST E7VRC9sJ No.100316 Reply
>>100311
Yeah I should probably do some videos of me degrading myself, I really enjoy that sort of thing and thankfully the mistress I'm buying things for is actually into the femdom scene instead of a fraud who only does it to make a few bucks. I did relapse a little bit over the weekend and went on a spending spree but it wasn't as bad as the last time thankfully. Blowing my load definitely helps(probably why orgasm denial is such a big thing in the findom scene), but even after I still like the idea of getting her gifts. I'll probably just try to do the video thing and slow down on buying(Every two weeks give myself a limit). I doubt I'll ever get to the point of draining my bank account completely but even just the fact that it turns me on scares me.
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Caroline Dummerwell - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 11:55:29 EST Ytg34r7n No.100317 Reply
>>100316

Well although you are being exploited, I'm glad you both seem to have an understanding of the vocation. They're so many shitty ten dollar dommes thinking they can just issue these inane demands, using a dummies guide delivery that is either complete rage or motherese. One can suspend disbelief for good theatre, and my pockets run deep for the imaginative sort, but what kind of moron patronizes some of this crap, christ! Some mouths are best left for dick!
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Wesley Pollysad - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 18:36:15 EST E7VRC9sJ No.100320 Reply
>>100317
Yeah I mean me being exploited and taken advantage of is part of the turn on. The worst Fin Dommes are the ones who show their desperation for money like saying their rent is due and they need the money, that's just a straight up turn off, I want a queen that gets luxurious heels, not some whore desperate that needs money.

Relationship dilemma.

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- Wed, 02 Aug 2017 22:27:41 EST C2uTGsQS No.99870
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Hey /qq/, really need advice on this one. Decided this would be more appropriate for this board than the sexuality one so here goes.

I am a guy in my 30s. I've been speaking to a woman online of similar age in my city and we've really hit it off the past few days. She is curvy and sexy and good looking and we've been exchanging pics of each other including sexy pics. We have been talking about some kinky stuff we'd like to do sexually. I know she's a legit real person. And I will be talking with her on the phone before we meet. For me this seems like having hit the jackpot sexually. She is dirty as fuck and kinkier than me. What more could you want?

But I've told her one massive lie - that I'm single.

I've been in a relationship for about a year with my current girlfriend who is fat and unattractive, but we get on great as we share many common interests in life in terms of what we are into, but there is no sexual chemistry in the relationship at least on my part. I have no desire to fuck her. She is a total turn off. And I am deeply unhappy being with her.

I am going away with my girlfriend this weekend. I cannot get out of this.

My plan was to do the whole going away at the weekend thing then dump my girlfriend on Monday, then resume chatting with my new sexual interest around the same time.

What would you do in this situation? I need the best advice you can give. Even analyse the outcomes in terms of game theory if you can.

Also, I've sent her pics of my cock and stuff. Shes asking for a face pic. I don't generally share face pics if I'm sharing cock pics - would you consider this safe to do or could it be used to blackmail me in the future? I guess as long as the face pic and the cock pic were separate no real way to prove it's the same person. For the record, she has given me plenty face pics and highly explicit sexual pics.

And yes I do know my new sexual interest is a genuine person because I know who she is and she doesnt even know that.

Really need help here thanks. As always pic unrelated.
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Basil Billerspear - Tue, 07 Nov 2017 00:47:49 EST Xh7uBwYr No.100157 Reply
I'm not one for trusting online advice, especially from a chan site, but you're getting some decent pointers from honest human beings here, OP.

>>99900
>>100137
>>100155
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Hugh Sablinghall - Tue, 07 Nov 2017 11:19:56 EST 5T5O6ei1 No.100158 Reply
>>99870
I can do game theory but this isn't about achieving the best (or least bad) outcome. This is about you growing up and having a backbone and being honest with your partners.

If you want to dump your current gf because you're unhappy with her, do it. Don't do it because you've met someone else, because that shows that you've been living a lie and just using them for convenience. Don't wait until after some event, because going with dumping plans in mind means you'll be pretending the whole weekend. Call your gf, or better yet, go see her face-to-face, and just do it. Right now.

You say your new interest is a genuine person. Unfortunately, it sounds like you're not. I don't think you deserve either one of these girls.
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John Simmerhut - Mon, 22 Jan 2018 18:49:50 EST P3EwwHB8 No.100313 Reply
That lie about being single will come back to bite you in the ass, regardless of how she finds out.
You're not interested in telling the truth, you're interested in fucking her. That's the takeaway she'll make, and there goes any hope for a balanced relationship.

How to decrease your sexdrive?

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- Sun, 26 Nov 2017 13:30:27 EST fmpV0PdY No.100210
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I'm in a 3 year relationship now. When we first started, we had sex a lot. Morning and evening at least.

Then this turned into daily sex, then once every 2 days, now sometimes we skip 2 days, even 3..

Not because of me though, if it were up to me we'd wake up by fucking & fuck before sleeping. But her sexdrive just went down a lot over the years ... Apparently this is pretty normal in relationships, but mine is just as high as ever.

But I don't want to force her to be more sexual than she feels like being. so I'm basically looking for way to kill my own libido. Does anyone have any tips?

So far all I can find is that eating tofu instead of meat helps and that exercising either increases, or decreases sexual urges. It seems like there are 100's of way to increase libido, but when you want to decrease it nobody seems to have answers..
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Charlotte Baddlestock - Fri, 12 Jan 2018 17:21:40 EST ySxAYmro No.100293 Reply
>>100210

Opiates or spironolactone, might wanna alternate being on/off spiro when your nipples get sensitive. if your natural Testosterone level is pretty low its possible your natural estrogen level would be high enough to make you grow tits. You'll still have a libido but its one that needs to be entertained, it isn't intrusive.

thats a really desperate measure through.
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Sophie Fungerhall - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 15:17:47 EST xXFUhtA4 No.100303 Reply
>>100293
yeah, I've totally used heroin to help with nofap
opis will kill your sexdrive and paradoxically make the sex itself better

Toys

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- Thu, 31 Aug 2017 17:24:57 EST Wv+xXARs No.99956
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Lets talk toys.

Where can I get the one from this webm?
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James Grandshaw - Wed, 25 Oct 2017 06:22:50 EST phA2qzdI No.100135 Reply
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>>99956
is this a dakimakura?

Do they come fuckable out of the box
or do you have to modify them?
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George Conkinlock - Fri, 19 Jan 2018 03:30:51 EST 5fwA1psP No.100309 Reply
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>>100008
>>100135

Zippers? Really? That's the most cost efficient solution they could find? God fucking damn it Japan, I already had to unzip once to get my dick out, now I gotta zip up 2-3 times to put it away?! And let's not forget that scene from There's Something About Mary...

Diapers and Strap-ons - unfullfilled.

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- Mon, 01 May 2017 17:09:25 EST m5IDHTN2 No.99605
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I've been through too many relationships that won't fullfill my (perverted) desires.

Getting fucked in the ass by a woman who wears a diaper is my holy grail of fetishes!
I had this fantasy even before the Internet told me I am not the only one!

Since I hit puberty I can't stop thinking about that!
I experimented with a guy, but its not the same.
Need breasts and a female voice while getting stuffed.

What do?

Anyone else into this?

Do you think there are girls who are into this, that aren't hookers of fakey actresses?
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Graham Backlestock - Sun, 31 Dec 2017 16:14:39 EST rl5Z8AAH No.100267 Reply
I'm just posting in this thread since this board is slow, I'VE REALIZED SOMETHING THOUGH

I can't in good conscience feed the egos of these cute little pornstars without feeling like I'm failing them, like there's a bigger picture here I'm refusing to see. Oh the confliction of this fetish! I can't stand mature women, how would I go about maintaining a satisfying relationship with one of these selectively retarded girls?

So why dick, why do you keep coming back like a junkie with no home but a hand, like a dog drooling over the sound of his master's tingling keys? Is there no end to this rabbit hole?

Sexual Dysfunction problems..

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- Fri, 05 Jan 2018 11:16:07 EST mBIWE0F7 No.100275
File: 1515168967147.png -(216275B / 211.21KB, 634x374) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Sexual Dysfunction problems..
My partner has trouble with their genitalia: while they can touch their clit and it feels good, they lose all feeling if they trigger vaginal stimulation. Vag stimulation feels good too, it just ruins everything for some unknown reason. Evidently this makes both sex and jerking off harder.
My questions are
>Would you know of any substances that would help that wouldn't require a trip to onionland?
>Do you have any idea what's going on?
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Fanny Fanhall - Sun, 07 Jan 2018 08:26:08 EST CP7WQxPq No.100279 Reply
>>100278
The way OP has worded it this is a problem their partner has alone while masturbating so this probably isn't right.

If that's not the case then it's psychological/sex practice whatever.

One thing I'm not clear about, OP
>lose all feeling
but then
>vag stimulation feels good
So they lose feeling but it feels good? Do you just mean in their clit?

It could still be psychological but it might be physiological and it may just be how they work. If it is in their head then they need to be honest with you and themselves, is there a thought process going on that's a possible culprit, are they anxious or do they just expect it to go wrong now?
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Nigel Bardshit - Sun, 07 Jan 2018 15:17:47 EST neo9vEjw No.100280 Reply
>>100279

You pretty much went where i wanted OP to. Clearly OP wants some, but his partner has issues. Some sense needs to be made of his post. If it isn't purely physical then it isn't as simple as he wants it to be.
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Cyril Hirringbure - Sun, 07 Jan 2018 17:00:38 EST mBIWE0F7 No.100282 Reply
>>100279
To clarify, if starting from clit, then it feels good up until vag stimulation. equally, vag stim feels good, but clit stim will not work in conjunction. They've been like this for a while, and are typically a very chill and open person, so were it a problem with the relationship or me, they'd tell me. I suspect its a physiological/chemical problem, which is why I asked for suggestions for substances.
>>100278
We have good sex I just want to help them have better sex.

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