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- Tue, 30 Oct 2018 10:12:03 EST WbzGHLMz No.100937
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My partner's libido is dead. I don't mean simply reduced or low, I mean actually fucking dead.

We've been together for eight years now. The first two or so were wild: loud, satisfying sex, multiple times per week (sometimes per day), often included ass play, rope, blindfolds, floggers, and other fun stuff. Now twice a month is frequent for us. In the rare event that it does happen it's because I initiated and it always ends up being dull vanilla shit and she's clearly not all that into it. I ask if she'd like to change things up to make things a little more interesting. "No, not right now."

I talked to her about it before a few months ago. I tried asking her what turns her on, what she fantasizes about, what kind of porn appeals to her, what she thinks about while masturbating (back then she still did this once in a while, not so much anymore), etc. What am I supposed to do when the literal only response I get to these questions are "I don't know" and "Nothing"? She finds sex kind of awkward to talk about.

I think I know what happened. First she got depressed. Medication actually helped that for a short while, but then her thyroid started acting up. Apparently hypothyroidism is a known libido murderer. Fuck.

It's especially frustrating because my libido has always been super high, and now that I've been working out for the past two months it's spun out of fucking control. I just want to fuck anything with some goddamn legs. I find myself looking at and thinking about other women. Constantly. Seriously it's become a distraction in my personal and professional life. Also, and this is not exactly my finest confession, on some days when she's not home I'm wasting hours on porn (sometimes I'm a little late for work because of it) resulting in a stiff shoulder and a dick that's beaten goddamn raw.

My friend tells me that low libido has never been a problem for her and that she's the one that has to initiate a bonedown with her fiance. I read articles and posts in support forums and shit and high libido women frustrated with their low libido partners is apparently super common. How the fuck did I get to be so unlucky?

Anyway I dunno where I want to go with this. I think I mostly wanted to rant at a place that isn't r/deadbedrooms because I don't really have an interest in getting a circlejerk account and also circlejerk sucks ass. Maybe get some advice even though I know it's going to be either "find a sex therapist" or "your sexually incompatible, get the fuck out now" or both. Has anyone else been in this situation?

Pic very unrelated (was a Pornhub image search for "horny girl")
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!scyTheNg3k - Mon, 26 Nov 2018 22:11:26 EST axC9E8J3 No.100984 Reply
>>100983
if you push someone too hard and hurt them you need to fix it. it's not any different than if you break somebody's window. it's your fault, you pay for it.

checking whether someone actually wants to do something is not a technicality, it's common fucking sense. i'm not playing some stupid college leftist everything-is-rape game, i'm describing how people interact when they give a shit about each other. "consensual" is not a synonym for "fun" or "good", and it was never intended to be. stop getting your panties in a twist about being judged and learn to be actually good instead of just not bad.
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Ian Nibblefield - Thu, 29 Nov 2018 21:21:25 EST tIFxx/AY No.100996 Reply
>>100937
Tricky situation.
First let me address the "How did I get so unlucky" part. Dude come on, be a little bit more understanding. Your girl just went through depression, medication and thyroid problems. I'm sure she is not living the dream either.

Is my understanding that thyroid controls hormones, so yea. That, plus medication, not a good combo.

I suggest really talking to her, and choose your words carefully, since she had or has depression. You will only make the situation worse if you hurt her. Try to understand where she is coming from.

Now, this is up to her imo. You can't obligate someone into doing something for you. Is not healthy.
You should read about nutrition. And talk to her about it, that you've read and if she would like to try it out.
It's ok if you need to tell her, that you feel frustrated as well not only because you want to pound her, but because you miss her. Like i said, choose the right words.

Other than exercising. Eating clean is good for depression and thyroid issue. Some of the stuff that has worked for me, for libido, are incorporating cayenne pepper to my food, ginger, yogi tea, and maca powder (Macca powder tastes like shit, but you can put it in a juice with other veggies or fruits)

Hope this helps. Good luck.
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William Dartway - Tue, 11 Dec 2018 02:04:04 EST fQ0y4M2z No.101013 Reply
Sounds like she's fucking someone else.

How can i be a better bottom?

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- Mon, 03 Dec 2018 22:03:08 EST RuwtCOY3 No.101002
File: 1543892588443.jpg -(68662B / 67.05KB, 926x439) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. How can i be a better bottom?
I´ve seen lots of post giving tips to become a better bottom, these talk about cleaning/diet/lube but i think they´re forgetting something important, that is the top...
What they want? what can i do to give him more pleasure? what they consider a good bottom?
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Shitting Sapperson - Sat, 08 Dec 2018 14:38:50 EST rh1s7TlP No.101007 Reply
what does that even mean?
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Shit Crollersedging - Mon, 10 Dec 2018 17:13:57 EST vbzE4hmr No.101011 Reply
Each guy is different, communication is key. There is no one approach to sex that will please everyone.

That all said, I've been thinking that next time I get laid I'll try to wrap my legs around his torso in missionary. I loved it when girls would do that to me, so it's an idea to try I guess.

Crazy fantasy I want to live out.

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- Tue, 27 Nov 2018 03:55:35 EST mtawLJ23 No.100986
File: 1543308935632.gif -(1347851B / 1.29MB, 312x176) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Crazy fantasy I want to live out.
But probably won't, and that's to fashion a gloryhole and get a large group of STD free men who are willing to pay me small sums for blowjobs and slightly larger sums for anal ( because there would be a hole for my butt ) and to just live in a small, seedy apartment in a city doing this while cross-dressing all the time and smoking weed. THAT SOUNDS ABSOLUTELY FANTASTIC.
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Doris Pellyman - Tue, 27 Nov 2018 04:00:06 EST mtawLJ23 No.100988 Reply
On second thought this sounds absolutely retarded and I'm just gonna continue doing what I'm doing.
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Nug - Mon, 10 Dec 2018 10:41:44 EST QTVFImGA No.101010 Reply
>>100988

no, you do you, apartment fuckbox is a completely kosher way to express your inner release

Dance floor sex thread

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- Sat, 08 Dec 2018 16:53:22 EST FQktMbXS No.101009
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whom here likes to get down and tear it up on the dance floor?

vibrators destroying sensitivity?

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- Sat, 06 Oct 2018 05:35:02 EST Glsah3kV No.100909
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Is it true that vabrators will make the clit unsensitive and unresponsive?
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Ian Nibblefield - Thu, 29 Nov 2018 21:05:39 EST tIFxx/AY No.100995 Reply
>>100909
uh...depends.
Since 10 years ago, I stopped using sex toys for masturbation. Like someone said here. Dicks don't move in circle in your pussy, dicks don't vibrate while they penetrate and dicks don't have little metalic balls that move in circles for stimulation.
So yea you are setting yourself up to not enjoy a real dick, imo. And there's nothing more frustrating then having a real dick and not have an orgasm.
Took me a bit to learn to masturbate with my hands. I started masturbating with water hose, bathtubs faucets, jacuzzi jets; as well as massagers. And yea I lost sensitivity for sure, that has never come back. Of course, I think these were much stronger than a vibrator. Some sensitivity did come back, (not the same tho) but took a while.

Anyways, I leave the toys for my partner to use on me, if he wants. I would recommend, just using your hands. But hey, everyone is different.
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Charles Mezzlematch - Sun, 02 Dec 2018 15:49:46 EST 2ex+azH2 No.100999 Reply
One of my girlfriends said that whenever she would use her vibrator regularly it would make her clit less sensitive to ordinary finger stimulation, but that the sensitivity would come back after a few days or so since stopping heavy use. It only sounds natural that this could happen considering how much more intense of a sensation a vibrator provides compared to a finger.

I'm sure it depends on the girl too.
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Esther Dollyson - Wed, 05 Dec 2018 21:23:04 EST 8z06sFUB No.101003 Reply
This thread makes me happy that most girls don't know how to satisfy themselves and they don't use vibrators. I used to think that's a lack of imagination but eh.

Hookup Sites

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- Sat, 20 Oct 2018 21:07:56 EST V6qqHZxN No.100923
File: 1540084076302.jpg -(243379B / 237.67KB, 906x1280) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Hookup Sites
What is a good hookup site? The only legit one I have found so far is Saucy Dates.I ran out of luck on that site.
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Barnaby Dartfield - Sun, 28 Oct 2018 08:27:02 EST hp5C7FB6 No.100935 Reply
>>100926
Lol depends on your target audience. My dad got so much ass at his ballroom classes.
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David Pottinggold - Sun, 02 Dec 2018 03:59:21 EST g8oFM4Un No.100997 Reply
I'm looking for it too.

stallionolding

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- Thu, 29 Nov 2018 20:27:19 EST UV60dmfZ No.100994
File: 1543541239502.jpg -(105715B / 103.24KB, 1000x750) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. stallionolding
I'm currently partnered with one heck of a sexually free woman. She has indulged me in a ton of my kinks (footjobs, chastity, pegging), and I'm sure would indulge me in many more should I ask...

The thing is, I'm kind embarrassed about stallionolding in particular. I don't know why I have a hang up about it but I do. I also doubt I'm the only dude who likes the idea of stallionolding but is kind fucked up around it. By ton fo definitions, I'm already stallionolded - she plays (kink play) with another couple, and they have recently started having sex as well.

I'd like to see this with my own eyes, and maybe engage with it. This other couple has zero interest in playing with me, so they are out of the question. And, like I said, I have a weird hangup about admitting to this kink.

Is it acceptable to set up a MMF threesome with a Bi-Dom, and live it that way? Has anyone use that to scratch the itch until they can really discuss it?

bondage gear

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- Wed, 14 Nov 2018 01:20:09 EST THEBCXAA No.100963
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>post your devices here
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Lillian Blathercocke - Sat, 17 Nov 2018 05:54:38 EST YikO/JxT No.100964 Reply
I don't get this.

What is it supposed to do?

is this modern art?
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Angus Debbercocke - Fri, 23 Nov 2018 09:16:28 EST THEBCXAA No.100977 Reply
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DICKS EVERYWHERE

sex doll

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- Tue, 14 Aug 2018 00:26:36 EST xbjVOATq No.100808
File: 1534220796089.jpg -(947298B / 925.10KB, 1550x2868) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. sex doll
I owned a sex doll for 2 days. I was in a bad place mentally and sold it the 2nd day to someone on craigslist (lmfao) because the shame of owning one made me consider suicide. Now that I'm in a better mental place, I plan on getting one again sometime in the future because slamming that ass was awesome. If you've ever had questions about dolls, feel free to ask. I'm the anon who wanted one at age 14 and finally had one, lived the dream for 2 days.
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James Cruffingshit - Sat, 03 Nov 2018 03:23:27 EST UhbN9J3V No.100953 Reply
God I want a gf who will get stoned with me and play weird kink games with a sex doll.
Denial, only letting me use the doll. Denying her and some like stallionquean stuff.
Sounds so fun. Who cares about stigmas anyhow, took a long time for vibrators to become acceptable now most people don't even blink at it.
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Fanny Gobberfet - Sun, 18 Nov 2018 17:33:45 EST Iy9IV0ju No.100969 Reply
>>100928
Only if you don't buy. Think Thailand, think strippar.

plush-toy fetish?

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- Sun, 11 Nov 2018 16:14:18 EST BC0LwZA0 No.100958
File: 1541970858284.jpg -(23751B / 23.19KB, 540x360) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. plush-toy fetish?
Anyone else has a teddy-bear / plush-toy fetish?


>since puberty I like to fuck plushed toys.

>Got a GF
>still fucking my plush-toy occasionally

FYI:
>Don't like furries, furries make me cringe,
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Priscilla Drinnertan - Wed, 14 Nov 2018 01:18:37 EST THEBCXAA No.100962 Reply
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kind of, my gf made me a plushie as a present for playing with while we do kinky stuff

id love to see more pics for inspiration

Losing virginity thru adult friend finder...or just try something else

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- Sat, 06 Oct 2018 02:49:24 EST ARnmTHOU No.100908
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I'm 27 and I've never had a gf or been laid, I don't really feel as bad about it as I used to, I just don't see much of a point to do regular people interactions outside of work, like bars and what not, just not my scene and not sure of what to do to meet girls inside my own interests, online dating hasn't helped and I'm just thinking maybe trying to get a random hook up with help with my confidence and blue,balls, I'm pretty open to things just need advice, and if AFF could work or not, jacking off is cool but I have seriously wanted to try actual fucking, maybe indulge in my tame foot fetish, idk, just bored and lonely, any tips?

Btw, image has nothing to do with sexuality, I'm pretty confident I'm straight, just love Peep Show lol
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Archie Sazzlewill - Sat, 20 Oct 2018 23:24:09 EST OEZC93ob No.100924 Reply
Don't be Johnson's queen.
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Cyril Clupperburk - Sat, 27 Oct 2018 00:37:50 EST R9K2iZj9 No.100932 Reply
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>>100915
Aw don't get avoidant about shit, I'm sure the stallionolds I ran into would love to watch their wives deflower you. Wouldn't it be nice to have someone cheer you on and give you pointers?

Bump When Laid

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- Fri, 29 Nov 2013 06:21:52 EST 3r1CEYwH No.83810
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Bump when you're in that post-sex Fuck Yeah.
You could share a detail or ten
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Lillian Worthingham - Sun, 01 Sep 2019 12:00:49 EST zMPnC++0 No.101514 Reply
Bumping because I recently broke a 2 year dry spell which really was a 5 year one punctuated by a one night stand. She's really kind and sweet and caring but in bed she starts biting my face and pulling my hair I give as good as I get and she loves it. She's not just a good great the best fuck I've had, I think I need to hang on to this one.

We spent some time talking about what we wanted in sex last week and I spent some time thinking about how I would do those things in my own way. Apparently working on my bench press over the last couple of years was worth it because when she felt how effortlessly I could hold her arms down she lost her shit.

I feel the force of this bump (5 pages) is about proportional to my glee. Couldn't spew this level of detail to my friends without feeling indiscreet but I had to get this off my chest.
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Lillian Worthingham - Sun, 01 Sep 2019 12:05:46 EST zMPnC++0 No.101515 Reply
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>>101514
lol did I check no bump? Hahaha what a fucking idiot.
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Phoebe Chabberwater - Sun, 01 Sep 2019 12:18:26 EST 767K0hTl No.101516 Reply
>>84771
Did this guy post back a year later complaining his gf no longer wants to have sex? The pill is great until it smothers all sexual desire. It's basically as if you're pregnant all the time. Women also lose their good smell on the pill. Give me a natural ovulating lady any day. Anyone else smell ovulation?

Girls who cum nonstop

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- Sat, 01 Sep 2018 19:45:34 EST POqcevmS No.100844
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Pretend this isn't a humblebrag post (it isn't I haven't been laid for over a year please execute my life) and explain how some girls can chain orgasms like the creepy x-files man chains cigarettes and other girls cum like dudes and get tuckered out
Abdominal muscles? Spine genetics? I want to unlock the secrets. To make this a literal just bragging post I've chained 2-3 cumshots together but that seems to be my limit, and I am not satisfied. If I flex my kegels it still feels pleasurable, it feels like the only thing holding me back is my blood pressure (stupid herbed and fried lung tissue)

TLR - HOW WOMAN MAKE LIKE WOMAN? HOW ME MAKE LIKE WOMAN?
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Simon Sundleway - Sun, 23 Sep 2018 23:02:33 EST 5fLUCQp3 No.100872 Reply
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Well I'll humblebrag reply. I started seeing a girl about two months ago and she's the first multiple I've encountered. I've gotten her to cum about 4-5 times in a 5-6 minute span. The only way I know there's nothing left in her is if she squirts, which is also a new thing for me. Neither of us are what I'd call in-shape, and if I get off two times in an evening, it's a small miracle. I think that in her case, it's because she doesn't get off from clitoral stimulation nearly as much as from penetration, totally different from any other girl I've been with. Clits get sensitive to the point that over stimulation can hurt. I don't know if that's a thing with G-spot stimulation. She'd probably pass out before she'd get overstimulated.
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Emma Hiffingstock - Fri, 28 Sep 2018 17:23:58 EST Dn1B3QET No.100880 Reply
>>100844
I saw a documentary once that said that women who have multiple ones regularly get more aroused and aroused more frequently, and their brain waves are a bit "calmer" so to speak.

I reckon part of it is how you're wired. But also, from my field research it seems that orgasms due to primarily clitoral stimulation are more likely to be the "one and done" ones dudes get, as the above poster said. I suggest we all do more research on this front.

being ok with being submissive

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- Sat, 08 Sep 2018 23:46:34 EST LrMP8kk2 No.100854
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so i've recently come to terms with the fact i'm gay, and i'm fine with it but the thing that gets me now is i dont know how to deal with being a bottom

like the thing that turns me on taking cock plain and simple but I've had 20 years of programming that tells me thats not what im supposed to do as a man and i just want to know how to deal with that

i feel at a basic biological level that i just want to find a man who loves me but thats the opposite of what i've been told society wants me to do and i just can't shake that. I'm definitely not a transsexual as far as i can tell, i'm just a guy who likes cock but i feel like that's a bad thing even though i've come to terms with the fact i was born this way and theres nothing i can do to change it, ive spent the past 7 years of my life trying to to no avail
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Barnaby Bingerfoot - Mon, 24 Sep 2018 01:10:23 EST R9K2iZj9 No.100874 Reply
>>100873
You like your boys to have just a little bit of girl in them, yeah? You've got good taste, I like that.
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Caroline Cribberbotch - Mon, 24 Sep 2018 14:05:50 EST /XaKquCD No.100875 Reply
>>100874
I like girls to have little bit of boys in them.

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