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Sex/BSDM-related bruising

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- Sun, 28 Jul 2019 19:25:23 EST m9G+5hIN No.101362
File: 1564356323640.jpg -(75443B / 73.67KB, 670x598) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Sex/BSDM-related bruising
So, if you mark your girl with a bruise or really intense hickey consensually, and she wears clothing to cover it up, etc, but everybody is having a good time, what is the best way to communicate to the SCUM manifesto chicks in the community who start mouthwatering at an opportunity to hurt the dude having rough sex with the nun that these are consensual, sex-related marks and not domestic violence?
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Alice Derringfuck - Sun, 28 Jul 2019 19:29:46 EST m9G+5hIN No.101363 Reply
tbh I actually hate the whole master/slave dynamic and that aspect, just don't like it aesthetically, but I have a switch that turns me into some psycho chimp in a good way (to some girls?)

I feel so misunderstood :(
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Jarvis Charringspear - Fri, 02 Aug 2019 07:25:51 EST Ey8ExSL0 No.101375 Reply
>>101362
Just don't do it in areas that can't easily be covered..? Communication is again, key.

If shit's going to be a bit rough, SPECIFICALLY ASK if they're OK with visible marks or if there are areas you're free to mark and areas they would prefer you avoid. For instance, I'm fine with bite marks wherever, but no hickeys above the collarbone.

Man, for real so many people post here asking shit they really, really, really should be asking their partner. I get that sex is sometimes hard to talk about but you've already touched and seen their junk, there's nothing else to be embarrassed about.

ALSO you can google checklists for sex that are like 'will do' 'won't do' 'maybe' and you both fill one out and discuss them together so there are no surprises and you don't have to constantly check in with what's cool.
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Jarvis Charringspear - Fri, 02 Aug 2019 07:29:51 EST Ey8ExSL0 No.101376 Reply
>>101362
Uhhh just checking that you know you don't have to put on leathers and a gimp mask and buy fet equipment to have a master/slave or dom/sub relationship, right..? Unless you mean something else by aesthetic, but really dude.

Being too promiscuous/flirtatious with too many women

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- Wed, 24 Jul 2019 04:53:40 EST m9G+5hIN No.101349
File: 1563958420107.jpg -(64273B / 62.77KB, 500x484) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Being too promiscuous/flirtatious with too many women
I don't know if they trade notes, but is it dangerous? It's one of those things that kicks in, they look good and you start it. But maybe you shouldn't if they want focus. Or is it just the wrong place/women?
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Hannah Turveywill - Sun, 28 Jul 2019 09:19:55 EST Q189px0r No.101361 Reply
>>101358
I don't know. Slut shaming is still a thing for both sexes but I think it's more complex and a lot of people don't.

If a woman is up for a one night stand or casual sex she won't shame you because she's playing the same game and poisoning her own well. So as long as you're honest and avoid the vindictive or really dumb/hypocritcal/delusional ones you probably won't suffer too much.

If you lead her on or don't make it clear and she gets hurt or let down though. Well you did a bad thing, expect trouble.

However people often make snap judgements and they stick to them no matter how dumb. You may get regarded as a lightweight and not taken seriously when it comes to relationships later down the line. That applies to men and women. I knew a guy who slept around a bit, the ultimate quote would be him breaking off mid conversation "excuse I need to get with this girl" (he did naturally). It didn't cost him friends or social invites but it did mean no one was going to set him up with their friends and people were reluctant to date him.

People who are only after stable relationships might look down on you a bit. But they'd only know if they had friends who slept around a lot so again see my second paragraph. Again if they're not horrendous people they might regard you as a lightweight for want of a better term.

Hypocrites, bad people, vindictive ones are always bad news whatever situation and whatever you do or don't.
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Alice Derringfuck - Sun, 28 Jul 2019 19:30:47 EST m9G+5hIN No.101364 Reply
>>101361
I'm always honest with everybody even if it's not what they want. Compromise is a thing, if you know what I mean. Sad thing is I think some of them actually enjoy the dramatic aspect. I'm alright if it's part of the play but not if they try to paint me as the bad guy while I'm just playing along.
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Nathaniel Wimmledale - Mon, 29 Jul 2019 18:19:40 EST 2nBCYJFq No.101367 Reply
>>101364
That's what I mean about bad people though. People who thrive on drama. I think shitheads ruining things for decent people is just a human folly. I guess you'll learn to spot the signs with experience and avoid the worst of it in time if that's possible?

Enjoying drama isn't even a teenage thing, though some people do grow out of it.

People in my family keep accidentally using female pronouns towards me

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- Tue, 11 Jun 2019 00:37:20 EST 4ycvK41t No.101188
File: 1560227840667.jpg -(233741B / 228.26KB, 725x960) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. People in my family keep accidentally using female pronouns towards me
Particularly my brother and sister-in-law, who I would say I'm closest to.

I really don't know how I feel about it. I was AMAB but now and then I've questioned whether or not I'm cisgendered. I'm openly gay/bi (I mean technically pan but that's hard to explain) around them, so I don't know if they're framing me in their mind as feminine because of that or if there's some innate quality I have that leads them to subconsciously do what they do, or if I've somehow accidentally hinted that sometimes I question my gender identity and they're just testing the waters/trying to be respectful

When they do it, it feels kind of weird but I have mixed emotions about it, in some respects it feels more natural and like I'm somehow being better represented by it but there's also a visceral negative reaction towards it that I can't begin to place. More often than not, this results in kind of a feeling of indifference with little bursts of joy and shame, sometimes at the same time.

I really can't tell where the different emotional reactions towards this are coming from. I think I might be deep in denial because I genuinely don't want to have to through transitioning, not because I'm transphobic I think transpeople are genuinely braver than the troops, but because I'd alienate myself from about half my family (I can hide the fact I'm queer from people who wouldn't like it, I couldn't really hide it if I showed up for Christmas diner presenting as female) and quite a few of my old friends, but I don't really give a fuck about the latter and the only reason I give a fuck about the former is because I'm still obligated to be around them.

I feel pretty ambiguous/indifferent about the whole situation so I can't really get a read on what's true. I will say I feel kind of a sense of loss when I see women and gender non-conforming men doing things that I feel for some reason I'd like to do like dressing a certain way or doing hobbies that are traditionally considered female. I don't know if this is because I want to do these things and wish it was socially acceptable for me to do so or if I want to do these things because I'm legitimately not male.
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Nigel Bunkinford - Wed, 03 Jul 2019 05:18:57 EST NmfB5R9J No.101323 Reply
People fuck up gender pronouns on a constant basis. You don't notice unless your mind is tuned to hyperfocus on irregularities like that. Guess why? Your OP came off as ambiguous but by >>101190 it's pretty clear you're repressed.
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David Pockwater - Tue, 16 Jul 2019 21:09:29 EST 4ycvK41t No.101340 Reply
ok well idk if my id will be the same i don't remember where i made this post but i've decided to transition and actually be who I really am, thanks for your help everyone

I need ur opinion

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- Sun, 12 May 2019 05:28:07 EST OOULkAtY No.101140
File: 1557653287909.jpg -(2387B / 2.33KB, 93x144) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I need ur opinion
Do u think if a man like to be bottom from a girl or a shemale and likes to play with his ass from time to time but find attractive only girls is gay? Or just have some fetsish?
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Betsy Goodshaw - Tue, 11 Jun 2019 23:50:12 EST 4ycvK41t No.101192 Reply
No it objectively isn't. If you only find women attractive you're straight, but then again chances are if you really gave it a chance with an open mind you'd probably find out you're bi, most people are.

>>101141
>Nobody could find that out about you and look at you the same way afterwards, that's just the reality of it.

Sure, if you have really shitty friends.

You know how much time normal straight people think about their friends fucking themselves in the ass? Not one second. If you fixate on something like this it says more about you than anything else.
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!scyTheNg3k - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 16:36:27 EST PsICybwm No.101194 Reply
>>101140
Definitions are stupid. What matters is that it is considered shameful in modern Western society. So you shut up about it.

As to how to "classify" your sexual "orientation", the truth is most people aren't scientists or sex therapists and nobody cares how sexuality works in the brain. The whole idea of classifications and orientations exists to stratify society. If you want to be in the in-group, you'll pretend to be normal.

Gf fucks me in the ass. It is fun. I would never describe myself as anything but straight. Not because of some sort of definition, but because of something more obvious: men are annoying. I do not want men to hit on me, and I would never be interested in doing anything with a guy. That is the only useful information that the word attached to my "sexuality" contains.
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Cedric Gimblechotch - Fri, 12 Jul 2019 01:34:51 EST BCdRCRDf No.101332 Reply
>>101140
I think it should obviously not be considered gay to have sex with a woman.

Circumcision

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- Thu, 18 May 2017 00:50:14 EST Xk1DWjDe No.99675
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So I wanted to know how this works.
Pros and cons of it, does it hurt, and all the stuff you can tell me about it.
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Hannah Perrypirk - Mon, 08 Jul 2019 03:04:24 EST 4ycvK41t No.101327 Reply
>>99891
>before I met my wife said that uncut guys can some times smell bad

Sperglords can say this is jewish brainwashing or w/e but most uncut guys are so fucking disgusting because of this, it's not even that much effort to properly wash your dick they're just too lazy to and it doesn't affect them so why should they care?
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Junf Glerb - Mon, 08 Jul 2019 03:34:11 EST 9z9HoJXA No.101328 Reply
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>>99675
surely nothing wrong with the christian, jewish and islamic hard-on for baby-dicks
to the point of cutting away the pleasure-organs of screaming babies who can't consent.

PS: why did you remove the .webm?
Afraid of the truth?
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Hannah Perrypirk - Mon, 08 Jul 2019 03:36:00 EST 4ycvK41t No.101329 Reply
>>101328
yeah i mean if i'm being honest i can't in good conscience support genital mutilation just because some guys can't figure out personal hygiene, i was being a bit much

DRUG USERS DATING THREAD

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- Sun, 16 Jun 2019 07:55:47 EST e3qhou0d No.101302
File: 1560686147015.jpg -(156710B / 153.04KB, 1024x1280) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. DRUG USERS DATING THREAD
Hey! Lets start international drug-users dating thread!
Also, great if you can recommend some place to date other gay and straight drug-users from around the globe inline.
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Simon Duckman - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 16:36:20 EST /+CaG5Q6 No.101304 Reply
You mean discussion about drug dating or actual dating thread, as in looking for dates and shiet?
Cause that's pretty much off limits in regards to the rules. No hookups or personal / contact info allowed.
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Caroline Worthingville - Sun, 07 Jul 2019 00:42:07 EST 4ycvK41t No.101325 Reply
>>101324
This is a website centered around drugs, it'd be asking for trouble with the law to allow hook-up threads

penis talk

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- Thu, 20 Jun 2019 05:00:39 EST rfFKN+w4 No.101307
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oh god /sd/ im worried i might be at risk of infertility because when i ejaculate i only shoot to the left (my dick hangs that way, and im right handed) and sometimes my piss shoots in more than one stream.. it doesnt hurt and ive never been cool enough to get an STI, but with a sexual partner i drench her with manspunk and its not unilateral... god do i go to a doctor and if i do what do i tell the fucker!?
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George Durrygold - Fri, 21 Jun 2019 12:16:30 EST NBtj6Po4 No.101310 Reply
>>101307
Some people just aren't straight shooters. I gained quite a few of these "symptoms" when my phimosis was cured so nothing you're describing sounds alarming to me. Your dick is a tube for firing semen not a precision engineer spunk sniper rifle.
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Barnaby Fonnerhall - Mon, 24 Jun 2019 02:16:26 EST fJ4ZBX+C No.101314 Reply
>>101307

If the inside of your dick isnt lubed by precum sometimes itll get stuck and shoot a way. Try rubbing directly behind balls untill you sticky (or gently massage balls directly)

Fucking Machines

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- Mon, 17 Jun 2019 06:15:12 EST /KFOJffK No.101305
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Anyone have any experiences with them?
I want to buy one, but it's a huge investment..

I'm extremely curious about doing various drugs and tripping right balls while I get fucked for hours by a fucking machine. I will likely die from my orgasm but I mean what a way to go.
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Matilda Snodforth - Sat, 22 Jun 2019 05:21:13 EST CNSalF+Z No.101312 Reply
>>101305
I own a 'Venus for Men' milking machine. On a lark last night when I was laying back for an all night stroke session with it I decided to dose some 4-aco-dmt (psychedelic very similar to magic mushrooms) after reading a forum post about sex on psychedelics.

In short: it was the single most amazing sexual expirience in my life. It was also the single most amazing psychedelic experience of my life.

Anything like speed for fapping?

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- Sat, 30 Mar 2019 09:55:10 EST GutFSAb0 No.101086
File: 1553954110356.jpg -(100353B / 98.00KB, 612x612) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Anything like speed for fapping?
Hey guys, i dont want to use speed anymore but im wondering what else is out there, either drug or non drug, that makes you horny as fuck and able to edge for hours on end.
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Lydia Blickleworth - Wed, 05 Jun 2019 16:01:16 EST XcpSwtJg No.101176 Reply
poppers [$]so long as you're sticking somethin in ur butt[/$]
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Simon Drenderbot - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 01:22:30 EST 4ycvK41t No.101193 Reply
Idk I like different drugs for different reasons when fapping/fucking. Dissos and opioids are good for lasting for hours on end while giving you a body high that complements arousal. The DPH thing is true but is worse than speed for your heart in the long run. Alcohol is a good one for looking at/doing more exotic stuff you might otherwise not do and also kind of has the dissos/opioids thing too but too much and you won't be able to get it up (which I think for some people or me at least isn't really a problem and is even ideal, which is why I really like stims too). Psychedelics are kind of hit or miss for sex for me. Sometimes it feels like the best thing in the universe and other times you don't even want to think about it, it depends how the trip goes. Benzos are really shitty for this imo, probably one of the worst drugs for this sort of thing. I don't really think I'm leaving anything out. Well, if you time it just right, huffing nos right before you cum and cumming on the peak of the nos is pretty fun, way better than AEA

GF always wants to tickle me

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- Sun, 09 Jun 2019 22:28:13 EST xi3M9fyQ No.101180
File: 1560133693651.jpg -(44136B / 43.10KB, 405x600) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. GF always wants to tickle me
So I've been dating this girl for a couple months and shes fucking amazing. Problem being she wont stop fucking ticking me. I never knew I was so ticklish until I met her. I'm a submissive little bitch so I can't really bring myself to give her a "hard no" and I don't really know how? I mean, its fine in the bedroom, but when were trying to cuddle and watch a movie damn come on.

What do?
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!scyTheNg3k - Mon, 10 Jun 2019 19:24:38 EST PsICybwm No.101187 Reply
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>>101180
ok so my relationship is like this actually she won't stop tickling me

after six years i've learned that basically she'll usually stop if i move away the first few times. assuming she's reasonably good-natured she'll get the hint that you don't like it at the time. this helps if you don't want her to stop entirely because it is fun
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Cornelius Poffingridge - Tue, 11 Jun 2019 17:02:36 EST xi3M9fyQ No.101191 Reply
UPDATE: We were texting and tickling came up and I said "Its gotten a little old can you keep it in the bedroom?" and I think she got the message. We will see, I wont be able to see her again for like a whole week cus of schedule conflicts.
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Ebenezer Tootbanks - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 11:21:04 EST XFuIKiqh No.101301 Reply
>>101191
CommUniCaTioooonn, fixes most problems. Always try it FIIRSSSSTTT

assuming of course that she followed the advice.

Catching STD from BJ?

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- Tue, 28 May 2019 18:49:35 EST oxgpd0h3 No.101170
File: 1559083775757.jpg -(62130B / 60.67KB, 638x479) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Catching STD from BJ?
What are the chances of catching an STD from receiving a BJ from a hooker? My shit has felt burning since immediately after. Did I get something? What could it be if I did? its been almost 24 hours now. im scared bros.
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Oliver Chedgespear - Sat, 08 Jun 2019 15:57:51 EST 84hr/Z+d No.101179 Reply
>>101170
A burning sensation is probably something curable, like chlamydia or gonorrhea. Go see a doctor, these things are very treatable in the early stages. Better get tested for the rest as well, and stop visiting hookers.

purpose

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- Tue, 14 May 2019 19:51:13 EST nMa+F1H5 No.101147
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I've struggled with women my entire life but have had sex with maybe 15. I turned 27 last week.

on a cocaine binge last weekend I think I realized my purpose in life. I talked to women on a dating site for an entire day while on cocaine and learned alot. Some peoples purpose is to be a lawyer or a doctor. Some is to have a big family, some is to go to war. Mine is to fuck high quality women.

I've basically had this revelation about human sexuality that attraction isn't something that can be compromised and many women are in controlling relationships with basic dudes they aren't attracted to. Thats where I step in. These women can come in and fuck a high quality man thats in decent shape and has a big dick that he knows how to use and go back to their basic life.

I believe this makes me a good person. The women are happier and nicer people after meeting me, it allows them to live out fantasies they wouldn't normally get to live out. Not all of them are in relationships either, many of them just meet dudes that are basic constantly and rarely meet guys who can tune into their desires. Thats where I step in. They can come be a total slut with me (not using the word slut as an offensive thing here, personally I like sluts) and actually get their rocks off from a man who understands that many women are horny af and just wanna get their brains fucked out primally sometimes by some random hardcore dominant alpha bro.

Anyone else feel this?
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Phoebe Dellydock - Thu, 16 May 2019 14:27:35 EST 7EbovjzY No.101148 Reply
your sex drive will begin to settle down and you will be left with nothing but a legacy from a hobby which feels pretty meaningless as soon as the hormones driving it fade, as they will naturally with age

Loss of libido

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- Sun, 19 May 2019 09:46:39 EST 7ouNGdLM No.101153
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So I don't really know if this should go here, in /qq/, in a physician or in a psychologist's office, but I'm gonna start here.

I've sort of struggled with my relationship with women my whole life. I've always had premature ejaculation (sometimes more, sometimes less, usually when a relationship is going fine I do just fine, and when it starts getting worse my PE also gets really bad). I've gone through rough patches where I wouldn't had sex in months (I spent 2 years without any sex from 19 to 21). Lately I've also had some impotence issues. So like, I'm stuck between being PE and impotence. Don't get me wrong, I've also had some really amazing experiences and have had some girls told me she'd never (or at least not in a long time) enjoyed sex so much, but it's really a hit and miss, and I have no way of knowing beforehand how it's gonna go down. So like, I've never been neither a stallion nor a wizard virgin.


Since last year, and specially this year, I've felt a huge decrease in my libido. At first I was like 'Well, im not 19 anymore, it's normal'. But now it's like... I'm fucking dead inside, I don't even have any kind of phantasies. I'm actually travelling around the world, and meeting ton of cute girls who are into me and I don't feel like having sex with them. I though I might be gay or bi or something, I do find some guys cute, but I think that's just an easy way out of the problem. I don't really feel like fucking guys, and the times some guy hit on me I don't really felt attracted to them. I also thought it might be some prostate issue or something, but when I look at porn I can get hard just fine. I'm really lost here honestly.

Has anyone had this happen to them? Is it my age? Is it depression? Should I try new stuff? Should I try old stuff? Last two times I got laid were disastrous (that was like a month ago or something), I think I may be sort of traumatized because of it, but I dunno, how long do I have to wait to get my libido back.
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!scyTheNg3k - Wed, 22 May 2019 15:28:44 EST PsICybwm No.101158 Reply
>>101153
It sounds like you're just overthinking it. You've had good experiences and bad experiences, which makes you normal.

"Stuck between PE and impotence" is what happens when the sympathetic nervous system, which controls the fight-or-flight/adrenaline response, is too active:

  • the parasympathetic nervous system controls arousal

  • the sympathetic nervous system controls orgasm (in psych the mnemonic is "point and shoot")

  • the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems are weakly opposed to each other (but not entirely).

being too excited/worried/nervous naturally leads to both early orgasm and erection failure. the SNS is generally "fast" and the PNS is "gradual". the way this is supposed to work is that the PNS gets more and more active and then the SNS kicks in, which results in a "storm" of nervous activity aka "tingling" and other side-effects of a strong orgasm. but if the SNS kicks in too early, the PNS never really gets to do its thing.

i guess my point is, there is no contradiction between PE and ED. they can in fact have the same cause: anxiety. there are various strategies but they all boil down to the same thing which is you needing to take a chill pill.

however, one important strategy that can't be overlooked on 420chan is smoking weed, which everyone knows makes you last longer. well, i thought everyone knew that. does anyone not know that?

Unprotected sex, how fucked am I?

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- Tue, 21 May 2019 21:39:03 EST xi3M9fyQ No.101156
File: 1558489143781.jpg -(111375B / 108.76KB, 750x461) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Unprotected sex, how fucked am I?
So I started seeing a girl, we pair up really well, and after a month things got heated and we fucked. I'm a submissive fuck and shes an aggressive girl and my shy ass couldn't resist her if I had tried. In the moment I neglected to use protection (didn't even have any with me cus I wasn't expecting anything).
Now shes on the pill so that isn't an issue but how fucked am I STD wise? She isn't a slut but has been with other guys. I mean, worst case and she has AIDS is it like a 100% chance you will get it from having sex with someone with it or what?

I mean shit most people don't have an STD so chances are I'm fine, right?
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Betsy Guvingnod - Wed, 22 May 2019 08:03:05 EST NYi5Cmck No.101157 Reply
>>101156
Yes, you're probably just fine. You could get checked if you're that unsure. Do you trust this girl? Do you trust her judgement? If so, I wouldnt worry much about it.

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