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- Sat, 02 Mar 2019 22:25:58 EST JFehjtKz No.101033
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I have teeny tiny question, is it possible to cure bisexuality?, not saying it's wrong people are bi or that it is a sin, just sayin i dont like being bi, feels im indecisive
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James Tillingshaw - Sun, 03 Mar 2019 16:52:48 EST vbzE4hmr No.101034 Reply
Sorry but no, your orientation is not a choice and conversion therapy just kills people.

It's natural to find your sexuality a little uncomfortable, though. I can assure you that the grass is always greener on the other side and everyone else is having issues regarding their being straight, gay, etc.
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David Mollerdit - Mon, 04 Mar 2019 00:29:19 EST 5ajl4U/z No.101036 Reply
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>>101034
A little uncomfortable is an understatement in my situation, im already growing discouraged about changing, it seems that orientation being unchangeable is pretty much accepted as a universal law, everywhere i have read says almost the same about therapies
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!scyTheNg3k - Mon, 04 Mar 2019 16:31:29 EST axC9E8J3 No.101040 Reply
>>101036
who cares
just because you're attracted to someone doesn't mean you have to act on it. your sexuality can't be indecisive because it's not a decision at all
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Fuck Fillerstotch - Tue, 05 Mar 2019 18:59:16 EST pNUK2M6B No.101043 Reply
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If your male - stop smoking weed.

If your female - just stop.
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Eugene Cunningfid - Wed, 06 Mar 2019 13:22:50 EST WghJte3+ No.101047 Reply
>>101041
You feel abnormal because you're a fucking loser. Your obsession with sex and partners and your sexuality are distractions from changing that you are a fucking loser. You just are attracted to the people you are like everyone else. What matters is that your life is a shitshow and you're angling to be the next ruralfag scheming to kill your bisexuality instead of the neighbours dog.
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!scyTheNg3k - Wed, 06 Mar 2019 15:15:04 EST axC9E8J3 No.101048 Reply
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>>101041
Oh, you feel abnormal. I'm so sorry. Forget all those years I spent doing every psychedelic in PiHKAL and a few that aren't trying to "cure" a vore fetish, no, you, sir, you, Mr. Bisexual, you feel abnormal. It must be so hard being so different from everybody else because you're attracted to two kinds of people that actually exist instead of one.
Someone call a waaaaaaaaaaaambulance, we've got a serious case of whinefluenza.
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Thomas Brookforth - Thu, 21 Mar 2019 23:51:10 EST sxNGuY4F No.101079 Reply
>>101033

I think you just have to commit to being one or the other if you really want to "cure" it.
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Henry Denkingold - Sat, 23 Mar 2019 23:36:56 EST 7G0Vd/gc No.101083 Reply
>>101033
No offence OP, but I fucking hate bi people for their indecisiveness.
They seems to be so full of excuses too, like- I like men e optionally and women sexually...no one likes being a fuckin option and no one likes you beyond using you for sex
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Emma Sobblelatch - Wed, 27 Mar 2019 19:34:45 EST DHe5arGM No.101084 Reply
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Hey, im a 30yo bi guy married to a 33 year old bi woman. neither of us are indecisive about what we want. but we were when we were younger! being indecisive is a youth think, not an orientation thing. im not going to say there is nothing wrong with you OP, but getting the tingles in your pants over both men and women isnt a thing thats wrong with you.

>>101048
lol 420chan is right where i left it, rofl
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Fuck Savinglock - Wed, 01 Apr 2020 07:20:54 EST abaf7Pjy No.102074 Reply
I mean it's technically possible electro therapy can get you results but it'll be like a twilight zone result you get what you want but you get screwed in other ways could literally kill yourself though

And bro bi too tbh wish I was gay sadly it's either you accept or you try some wack shit that backfires
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Cyril Tootdock - Thu, 02 Apr 2020 03:17:19 EST d6w9hmp5 No.102075 Reply
>>101084
I'm not bi but I'd have assumed this was how shit is.

That guy who's like
>I hate being an option
Because you're not just an option for whatever your preferred orientation to fuck with is? You're always just an option. Deal with it.

Most bi people I know end up in effectively hetero relationships because that's just how the numbers/odds go. Doesn't mean they don't try whatever.

Like who the fuck you like. I guess as a straight guy I can say yeah if I had a bi partner whatever, at the end of the day if they meet the expectations I have from a relationship and I feel theirs are reasonable of me then it doesn't matter exactly who they find physically attractive.
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Walter Bunford - Thu, 02 Apr 2020 19:58:43 EST Djf/VObw No.102079 Reply
>>101050
>>101048
>>101047
>>101043
Kill yourselves, you bigoted pieces of futurite shit.

>I have a vooree fetish, that means nobody else can have problems but me ;*(((( nobody else can be sad while I jerk off to weird deal! WAAAHHH BISCUM
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Sidney Bisslebidge - Sun, 12 Apr 2020 00:58:11 EST mx4hvxwi No.102109 Reply
This thread is a fucking bummer i’ll tell ya what
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Sidney Purrypit - Sun, 12 Apr 2020 10:44:20 EST gNAnYG0X No.102113 Reply
>>102075
Being bi is weird. For me, it's not so much that I find both men and women sexually attractive, though that is true to some extent, it's more like I'll go through phases of being either attracted to men or attracted to women.
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Frederick Demmlewit - Sun, 12 Apr 2020 18:36:37 EST hDhc1lxj No.102115 Reply
>>102079
if you want a hugbox, try tumblr.
but i doubt you're sincere. you aren't offering op any help, you just like starting shit.
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Nigel Bedgefield - Mon, 13 Apr 2020 04:14:51 EST gzISc1N1 No.102116 Reply
>>102115
fuck off lol, any take but "it is objectively impossible to do what you want to do and there is no sound reason to want to do it in the first place, it comes from internalized prejudice which, while more understandable, is still prejudice and still something you need to work on" doesn't belong here, on the sex and sexuality board. It's not called the "shame and sexual pathology" board
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Thomas Favingsadge - Mon, 13 Apr 2020 14:40:45 EST hDhc1lxj No.102120 Reply
>>102116
leftist insincerity doesn't actually make other people feel better, it makes you feel better. those other people you're complaining about were being genuine and not simply parroting something op could have googled. it might come as a shock to you but people actually like that, which is why anonymous imageboards still exist

it's not my fault you're incapable of acting like a human
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Phoebe Gundlehall - Tue, 14 Apr 2020 03:34:40 EST gzISc1N1 No.102124 Reply
>>102120
>leftist insincerity doesn't actually make other people feel better, it makes you feel better

what the fuck are you talking about?
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Reuben Blavinglock - Tue, 14 Apr 2020 15:04:54 EST jLxliBPQ No.102125 Reply
>>101033
You can kind of, I hear. I've heard multiple bi people say depending on what types of medicine they're on, their sexual preference shifts between genders. I think one said he takes prozac and anti-psychotics he prefers guys, otherwise preferring girls. Could be wrong about which medicine it was though. And not sure you can research this. Maybe just experiment till it works. If it works..
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Reuben Blavinglock - Tue, 14 Apr 2020 15:21:37 EST jLxliBPQ No.102126 Reply
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>>10212>>102124

I'm a leftist, but I think he means for example SJWs taking the native american lady off the Land of Lakes butter box because they're afraid of "MUH ITZ OFFENSIVE". All the natives I talked to thought it was retarded to remove her, and also thought that they did it because SJWs have an obsession with getting more offended than the victim compelling these mental midgets to point fingers and scream "Youre the bad guy!"

Another example is making all 77 Skyrim Marriage Candidates bisexual. Why not make a small number of well written gay characters then 77 fake-as-fuck ones? And why is homosexuality so accepted in the incredibly bigoted land Tamriel, when its been condemned by 99% of cultures in our history until now? Its a ridiculous attempt virtue signal. I spend a lot of time on the Elder Scrolls Lore forums, and every single gay/bi person I talked to finds this pretty insulting because they know its total over-the-top insincerity from batshit leftists addicted to proving how "woke" they are.
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Nicholas Billingford - Tue, 14 Apr 2020 20:22:02 EST gzISc1N1 No.102127 Reply
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>>102126
The first one IS dumb liberal bullshit because liberals as opposed to people on the left have no actual policies and just want more diversity in the status quo, but it's completely nonsensical to think you can do that while upholding the system that got us here in the first place.

The second one is dumb as shit though and I can't imagine anyone getting mad about having more options when it comes to open world sandbox games. Your spouse in vanilla Skyrim is a glorified follower you can pretend to fuck, it's one of the most inconsequential things in all of video games.

>its been condemned by 99% of cultures in our history until now

that is one of the single stupidest goddamn things I have ever heard in my entire goddamn life, Jesus fucking Christ, try reading books instead of burning them
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John Sirringban - Wed, 15 Apr 2020 13:07:54 EST d6w9hmp5 No.102134 Reply
>>102127
Yeah, bisexual/plot convenient sexuality in games isn't a big deal. People who get hung up on that are the problem in that case. It's probably less effort than making them have different sexualities. It includes people but doesn't hurt the experience of anyone else, because they get content that reflects their choices. Unless you want to comment on a given sexuality just making it "they fancy the PC" is the neutral stance surely? Games don't say "hey we made our characters bi, look" that's projection.

Skyrim is a big dumb open sandbox, none of the characters are deep it has little to do with the sexuality and everything to do with how the game was made.

Reuben being a triggered as fuck fragile snowflake getting upset about stuff which doesn't hurt them.
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Angus Driffingfig - Wed, 15 Apr 2020 13:31:48 EST jLxliBPQ No.102135 Reply
>>102127
I'm sure 100% of people living in those cultures felt exactly that way, just like they do today.
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Clara Nollerman - Wed, 15 Apr 2020 15:53:33 EST S1OhJdiM No.102136 Reply
>>102135
>I'm sure 100% of people living in those cultures felt exactly that way, just like they do today.

Why? What makes you so sure? We don't put gay porn on plates
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Walter Subblebanks - Wed, 15 Apr 2020 20:36:42 EST NmfB5R9J No.102137 Reply
>>102136
his politics requires that everything up to the modern decadent liberal west needs to hate fags
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Charles Cannertine - Fri, 17 Apr 2020 14:53:21 EST +suP7qQ1 No.102144 Reply
>>101033
In my experience the more you try to fight it, the more it consumes you.
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Beatrice Wugglefuck - Sun, 19 Apr 2020 23:33:10 EST gzISc1N1 No.102153 Reply
>>102127
>I'm sure I was right then without any evidence just like I'm sure I'm right now without any evidence

how come you're here anyway? /lgbt/ caters much better to the "I'm still superior fags because I'm self-loathing" types
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Jenny Fanson - Sat, 02 May 2020 09:18:23 EST HMbfBTjZ No.102174 Reply
I've had bisexual thoughts since I was 14 (24 now) and they always come and go. I've been attracted to trans girls since I was 14 as well. Everything about women turns me on, I think everything they do is sexy. I've only had sex with girls.. I am not sexually submissive and what turns me on is affection mostly and satisfying someone else. For the past week I've been obsessing over thoughts about kissing boys and transgirls, cuddling, penetrating them and getting blown. I have like some personality issues or something because I just masturbated for the first time in like 2 weeks and as soon as I came these feelings all disappeared and I feel guilty and like I just want to be a normal straight man and be with a woman. I was about to come out to my mom today and now this curveball just made it's way into the field.


Does anyone else experience this and what advice could any of you offer to dealing with this type of mental fluctuation?

I've always felt like first and foremost I'd prioritize being with a woman longterm over a boy or a trans girl. Nonetheless I've had deep desires to exchange love with boys and trans girls.. it's not even all sexual, I just want to love and be loved, and be close to and make someone feel good.

Also for the past couple weeks I've felt more able to express myself and more in love with life and myself and people than ever before, while being open about having these thoughts. I've gotten close to a woman in her 30's and we've been flirting a lot and I've been making her very happy and feel like I already can commit to spending the rest of my life with her. With the bisexual feelings came a greater ability for me to self-express, connect, feel emotions and interact socially in a superior, more confident way. Yet now I've kind of suppressed them again in response to having an orgasm. I assume they'll trickle back in slowly..

I know this isn't my thread but whatever. Thanks.
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Fuck Sesslestit - Sat, 02 May 2020 18:44:52 EST IUVqWVC6 No.102179 Reply
>>102174
Replying from the /qq/ thread as requested.

I don't experience extreme fluctuation with attraction, but it goes back and forth. Don't feel guilty about your sexuality. It's normal to feel really in touch with your sexuality and then be non-sexual after masturbating.

As for the relationship, I have never mentioned my sexuality to any romantic partners. I told a couple people based on the fact that they weren't bigoted, but I don't know how they'd react if a romantic partner told them.

Bisexuality is complex to work through, both emotionally and practically. I'm not even passed the general processing stage.

>>101084
Agreed with this.
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Jenny Fanson - Sat, 02 May 2020 19:20:41 EST HMbfBTjZ No.102180 Reply
>>102179
Yeah I don't think I'd tell people. That's a very useful tip thank you. It can be there, and be what you are, but you don't need it to be spread around through speech from people to people. Just focus on your current objective with whoever you're with.

I told my mom today

Thanks
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Reuben Wengernedge - Sun, 03 May 2020 19:14:51 EST gzISc1N1 No.102184 Reply
>>102174
>I've always felt like first and foremost I'd prioritize being with a woman longterm over a boy or a trans girl

i'd imagine this is a hang up one could get over if they wanted to but i don't think you necessarily have to, i dunno i'm the opposite, i went from finding women attractive to very quickly (like a few months after puberty) realizing i liked both men and women to realizing shortly after i vastly prefer guys to the point where i'm not disgusted by the idea of being with a woman, but in terms of like a long-term relationship, as shitty as guys can be, i can more easily imagine myself being with one than a girl, i think because there is some truth to the idea that ignoring sex and gender, relationships work better with people who compliment each other, and i'm not saying a woman couldn't fill the role of the more level-headed, less emotionally labile, physically bigger and stronger, functional dick having partner, but just that i'm vastly more attracted to men and i can more easily envision being with one, because i feel like if i was with a girl we'd just get on each others nerves, i feel like a guy would more easily balance me out, or act as kind of a foil to my tendency to immediately take things to 11, someone that without condescending or invalidating my feelings would maybe be able to bring me down to earth, and in term i would act as a sort of muse, and break him out of his rigid thought patterns, i guess someone to be the yin to my yang

am i indulging deeply sexists prejudices here or simply observing some sort of "natural" order?
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Walter Shakedale - Tue, 05 May 2020 03:51:40 EST mx4hvxwi No.102190 Reply
>>102184
this post implies you have never been in a long term relationship with neither a man or a woman.
so based on your zero experience in long term relationship, i would say that literally everything you just said is complete conjecture, and also, i am willing to bet that you have had very few meaningful friendships or relationships with women, period, and that you're mostly imagining what they're like.

so you're not observing shit
you're literally just using your imagination.
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William Snodford - Tue, 05 May 2020 07:23:23 EST MrGOMQvv No.102194 Reply
>>101033
you are being indecisive. you like the way being a degenerate feels but you know its wrong. however youve poisoned yourself, gotten too much of a taste for easy and pointless pleasures. If your relarionship is not capable of bearing fruit, then it is defenarative. it ceases to create anew. This is where your problems lie faggot
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Wesley Marryfoot - Tue, 05 May 2020 11:19:27 EST gzISc1N1 No.102198 Reply
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>>102190
>i am willing to bet that you have had very few meaningful friendships or relationships with women, period, and that you're mostly imagining what they're like

based off of what? more of my friends are girls than guys
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Wesley Marryfoot - Tue, 05 May 2020 15:56:04 EST gzISc1N1 No.102201 Reply
and several of my friends have expressed similar opinions, it's not that weird to just not really be romantically attracted to a gender you don't find physically unattractive, i feel you guys are gaslighting me
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Hannah Hottingstidging - Tue, 05 May 2020 18:55:29 EST d6w9hmp5 No.102202 Reply
>>102201
I think that you've failed to address your experience at all was their point. I mean I hope so or maybe they were gaslighting you.

Yeah it's not that weird but it's a dead end. Unless both parties are asexual, sex is part of that sort of love. It's a key part of intimacy for most people and something special to share. Either it leads to frustation or you take it in the bromance direction and instead just become really good friends. It's also possible to be friends with someone you're attracted to if you can see that despite their qualities a relationship with them would be a disaster and it's obvious.

I guess to me, someone with a fully functioning sex drive I look for 3 broad things in a partner, respect/admiration for their values and goals, enjoying their company and attraction (from harder to easiest to know). If there's no attraction they're just friends. I want to like looking at my partner. I want to be compelled at least a little to look in their direction and be close to them, that's attraction. I cannot imagine how romance works without that, though I accept that it must for some people. However for most people if you take that tack it's going to be disappointing at best.
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Shit Murdstock - Wed, 06 May 2020 10:14:34 EST HMbfBTjZ No.102203 Reply
>>102184
Wow, thanks for your response. I like the thought of being intimate with anyone that attracts me. I was severely neglected and abused as a child so I'm very sensitive to affection. I don't think there's anything wrong with the way you feel and honestly life is short and most of us are afraid to make major decisions in life so as long as you're making choices I don't think you can go wrong. We all get to carve our own unique path out and I hope that you remain open minded enough to be able to make good choices and never have to feel major regrets about decisions you made. I never met my had or had a father figure in my life and my mother neglected and even honestly abused me as much as I hate to admit it. I think maybe that's why I have a soft spot for girls because my earliest memories are of palling around with her to her job and doing everything together, just her and I. Watching her get ready for work in the morning and things like that.. I always clingy feelings towards my female teachers growing up too. As much as I'd like to be affectionate with a guy, there seems to be this other feeling that comes on that makes me feel sick, and it's a deep longing for the company and attention and affection of a woman. I've dated before and never found it though. I was just kind of an asshole boyfriend who just got high, acted like a dick and just liked to bang the shit out of his girlfriends. I never got to connect with anyone and then I ended up getting incarcerated and this really changed my views on life and so Ive been single now for over a year and I kind of want to be close to someone. I think it has to do with neglect as a child.. I don't know if I can get over it, I literally grew up without family or parents and without anyone loving me. I did drugs by myself and that was how I felt good.


>>102201
I don't know if it's wrong or right. I don't really think anyone knows for sure. It has to do with the experiences you had when you were growing up - they shaped you. Do what feels good.
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Shit Murdstock - Wed, 06 May 2020 10:16:03 EST HMbfBTjZ No.102204 Reply
>>102203
Also just to clarify when I was 13 I went into foster care so I had a mom until then. I was actually neglected in foster care as well so I pretty much just say I don't really have parents and that I grew up without them. My family disowned me for some reason because my mom broke off with my dad.
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Archie Fobberfot - Thu, 07 May 2020 04:01:19 EST V6mpjXB9 No.102206 Reply
>>102203
>there seems to be this other feeling that comes on that makes me feel sick, and it's a deep longing for the company and attention and affection of a woman

yep, i'm the exact opposite, i think it's called "heteroflexible" or something

>>102202
yeah i dunno what i said that triggered that dude, but to your point there is no romantic attraction, and no real physical attraction outside of not being disgusted by the idea of it, i think i'm just straight tbh, if it came down to it i don't think i'd say i was bi, i think it's misguided to think of sexuality solely in terms of what you'd be "ok with" and not what you actually have an inclination towards, i think i got into that weird, vaguely misogynist, territory in my first post because i was thinking about it too hard
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George Nickledale - Sat, 09 May 2020 01:53:28 EST vJiKsPlO No.102211 Reply
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>>101034
Orientation can still be a matter of choice, but that choice can only come naturally to you. You can stop being homosexual if you choose. The idea that one can not stop being something and will inevitably succumb to desire is foolish.
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Frederick Wambleway - Mon, 11 May 2020 22:59:14 EST NmfB5R9J No.102218 Reply
>>102211
>anime poster preaches abstinence it never willingly reaches in practice
what a shocker
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Cedric Chimmerfoot - Mon, 11 May 2020 23:04:31 EST gzISc1N1 No.102219 Reply
>>102211
Eat nothing but day-old baguettes and drink nothing but water for the rest of your life. Do it. It's completely up to you. There is nothing in the laws of physics which says you CAN'T do this, there for, not to do it is a purely a choice.
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Barnaby Grandcocke - Wed, 13 May 2020 09:46:46 EST d6w9hmp5 No.102223 Reply
>>102211
Who you fuck is a choice. Who you want to fuck is not.

I cannot stop being heterosexual just by fucking men. I'd be a pervert then, going against my own nature. A straight guy closing his eyes and thinking of tits. Willingly having a penis in my butt wouldn't make me gay in this situation, just stupid.
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Samuel Hennernodge - Fri, 15 May 2020 01:38:23 EST gzISc1N1 No.102224 Reply
>>102223
what if you were a gay guy who thought he had erectile dysfunction but it turned out you just weren't gay
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Augustus Diffingson - Sun, 17 May 2020 19:05:08 EST HMbfBTjZ No.102229 Reply
I have another girlfriend now so I wont be exploring bisexuality any time soon. I'm attracted to intimacy with guys like cuddling and kissing, and at times the thought of penetrating them. However I'm not at all attracted to male ass or asshole or cock. Yet I am attracted to female ass, asshole, vagina, the smell and taste of them, the smell of their skin and their hair and their sweat, even their breath.

Life is complicated and at times confusing. Hope you guys figure yourselves out and ultimately can be happy.
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Lillian Ferringlane - Thu, 21 May 2020 02:31:04 EST gzISc1N1 No.102245 Reply
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>>102229
The big problem I feel is that people overthink it. Like there has to be some sort of deep, hidden meaning to everything. The reality is that sex and gender are so massively complex and so much of it is just unintelligible to reason that we'll never "know" what "causes" sexual and gender nonconformity.

Just fuck who you want to fuck, wear what you want to wear, and be on the hormones you want to be on. It is not that fucking hard.

People assume when they have a visceral gut reaction to something that it must somehow be universal, or indicative of something beyond personal experience alone, but 99% of the time it isn't, and when it is, that's social conditioning not somehow innate. Very little is "innate" about human beings, sure we have instincts but to compare ourselves to other animals in terms of the etiology of our behavior is doing us a disservice, and locking us into hierarchies that don't need to exist.

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