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Hetero Male Dom Guilt?

- Thu, 09 May 2019 22:44:07 EST KzXQBbEY No.101137
File: 1557456247583.gif -(7741615B / 7.38MB, 1002x564) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Hetero Male Dom Guilt?
I am a hetero male who likes being dominate with women but even when I am with subs who enjoy it and like my fantasies I feel bad afterwards. I love women who want rough sex and do as I say but I feel very guilty about what we enjoy. Why do I feel so sad and think I am abusing my lovers?
Fuck Sittingsire - Tue, 14 May 2019 19:45:05 EST mtawLJ23 No.101146 Reply
Because you are consensually abusing them. BDSM is not a simple thing. You are getting deeply into someone's mind. It is sort of worrisome in a way. I used to dominate the fuck out of all kinds of sluts until I realized that I'm taking a little piece of them, and when I leave that piece does not come back. BDSM is only spiritually wholesome when you're in a long term relationship. If you have that, you won't feel guilt.
Phyllis Dartwell - Mon, 27 May 2019 21:58:41 EST ZfHkgAeF No.101168 Reply
>I'm taking a little piece of them, and when I leave that piece does not come back.
Isabella Grandgold - Tue, 28 May 2019 02:51:01 EST E99Lg5MM No.101169 Reply
>BDSM is only spiritually wholesome when you're in a long term relationship
You are so right about this
Phoebe Turveystone - Mon, 10 Jun 2019 07:18:32 EST m9G+5hIN No.101185 Reply
No, OP, dont listen to any of this. You are just a man beast and this is your primal instinct. All of this Christian bullshit and dogmatic sexuality is just nonsense, just make sure your partner also enjoys it.
Archie Gittingford - Thu, 29 Aug 2019 08:34:21 EST EfIJ6H28 No.101496 Reply
okay, here is something to keep in mind.

Ask yourself, "Do I feel guilty DURING the act or AFTER?"

If it's during, then you have guilt over the actions you are doing.

If it's after, and you feel guilt when thinking back on what you did, that is not necessarily because you regret what you did, but that you regret you are not still doing it.

It's okay to feel, but ask yourself in the context of here and now as with thoughts and feelings.

Often what we feel happens in the absence of action, and the thought we mistakely associate it with is actually what we desire to do.

We are guilty because we do not do what we know we should.

That's straight out of the bible, my friend.
Archie Cipperford - Fri, 11 Oct 2019 19:13:53 EST yeKEsXK3 No.101597 Reply
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I'm in a dom sub relationship for the first time in my life. We've been dating for a month, and I've realized it really helps with her sexual anxiety(and mine too). I can tell she needs the structure and likes to hear my constant feedback. It helps my confidence because she is comfortable asking for things before we get started. It also doesn't hurt that I can see her pussy get super wet when I choke her. I'm still kind of worried she is trying to relive some past trauma, but I would never do anything against her will. I told her the rough stuff is just a fun bonus for me, and I think she appreciated that.

Chapter 9 of The Catcher in the Rye also touches on this feeling. American adults are hypocrites.
Ebenezer Segglefug - Sun, 17 Nov 2019 13:52:15 EST YnCSUlP3 No.101682 Reply
It's because you subconsciously are aware that there is something wrong with women that want to be dominated and treated like whores, and you are made depressed by this. It's spiritually unhealthy for both sides.
Reuben Soblingtod - Tue, 19 Nov 2019 17:29:32 EST l7p5v3/a No.101689 Reply
For a sexuality board on a drugs website, this place sure is filled with prejudiced Christian morality cockbags who love to lecture you on where the sexuality train ends and what fetishes are state proscribed or not.
Thomas Pallyfoot - Fri, 22 Nov 2019 00:47:12 EST +P5gWhx2 No.101698 Reply
because you can't talk about it with them because they're only in videos?
Alice Bingerchere - Wed, 27 Nov 2019 00:17:44 EST YnCSUlP3 No.101704 Reply
Suck my dick you faggot. Take your stupid layman's logic and give it to me so I can fist it up your mom's cunt. I hate jesus and nobody's giving a lecture here. You can do whatever the fuck you want - there was never a question about that. Masochistic self degradation and sacrifice for the pleasure of one's self and others is a venom to pride. It's not healthy unless you're some lost soul without any sense of actual self worth or self awareness.
William Mimbledale - Wed, 27 Nov 2019 02:25:48 EST 1IvDKni9 No.101705 Reply
idk, i do find it pretty hot but i don't know with my personal issues if i can really separate sex and real life that well, i think it would lower my already rock bottom self-esteem and i feel like in a long-term relationship that power dynamic would carry on outside of the bedroom because lets face it it does, and i'm not for that at all, i think you just have to find the right person
Martin Shittingford - Wed, 27 Nov 2019 07:37:51 EST NmfB5R9J No.101706 Reply
>durr durr i'ma SPIRITUALLLISt not a CHRistN FUCK YOU

You managed to be the one thing more annoying than your typical religious douchebag - a religious douchebag who thinks not being part of the establishment gets you a free pass to act like a douchebag. Take your moralizing to the future where it belongs.
Shitting Farrybet - Wed, 27 Nov 2019 19:29:32 EST SGhDRdaV No.101708 Reply
yes, you displayed total ignorance of the kink community with your blathering. way to go.

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