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Going aromantic asexual

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- Mon, 19 Aug 2019 15:18:19 EST bFqd6r6s No.101464
File: 1566242299135.jpg -(54732B / 53.45KB, 1600x900) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Going aromantic asexual
For whole of my life I havent been particularly attracted to any sex nor did I wish a girlfriend or marriage. Yes, I am a kissless virgin, and I want to stay that way. I dont want to sacrifice my liberty or waste my time for petty social credit and some bimbo. Relationships are imo a huge waste of time, girls are always so obnoxious and act like crazy, demand everything. I dont have first hand experience but I have a friend who was stallioned by this girl for over a year, and she is such a bitch.
I am also heavily repulsed by the very idea of having to have sex in any form. I hate the sight of genitalia, I hate nude bodies, I hate physical contact with other people. That is not to say that I am cannot be turned on by a hot chick, I can, but no matter how hot the chick is, I wouldn't have sex in any form. The highest bar for me is blowjob, and that is only in porn, I can't imagine wasting my time trying to get a chick to suck me off, I dont care how great some people make it out to be, I would just hate awkwardness of it all, plus the forced exhibitionism, ugh.
In case yiu may think I am a homosexual, I am even more repulsed by a naked or even clothed male than I am of a female, regardless of her looks. I just hate the focus of our society on sex and compulsion to sex propagated by literally everything.
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Rebecca Crassleman - Mon, 19 Aug 2019 20:43:39 EST 9VODpsbn No.101468 Reply
>>101464
You do you, man.
Just try not to be so bitter about it, you know?

It's like gay men who hate women, or childless couples who hate people with kids.
You can be your own thing and not hate on people who are different.
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Wesley Wubblespear - Tue, 20 Aug 2019 18:37:52 EST zMPnC++0 No.101480 Reply
>>101468
Yeah the hate makes it hard to tell if OP is genuinely asexual or just consumed by bitterness. The "hate" rather than "indifference" makes it sound like there are some issues, resentment or trauma behind this. I am straight and I don't "hate" naked men. Slightly uncomfortable or whatever is normal if poorly adjusted but "hate" is such a strong term. If someone says "I'm asexual" I'll take it at face value but this came with a lot of bitterness and well... hate.

Our society does over emphasise sex but it's how most complex species continue their existence. And having that shoved at you and people judge you (and if you're not on the other side of the fence you over estimate how much people judge you as well) for that is hard. But this isn't just "I'm asexual, cut me some slack" this is "My name is John and I hate everyone of you".

OP what is really going on in your head?

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