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Does liking shemales and traps affect your relationship?

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- Wed, 16 Oct 2019 19:17:13 EST Je176exK No.101603
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I've always been attached to trans porn from when I was young (it was the first thing is was exposed to) and now there's a girl that I'm dating and want to make it work (I do love her) but recently when viewing porn I can't seem to get off to any thing but shemales and traps....

Is this because I've just become desensitized to regular porn in general? Is it just cause I'm a virgin and this is the first girl I might fuck?
Am I not sexually attracted to female parts anymore?

I'm not sure what to think but I wanted to get some advice from anyone really
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Simon Seffingwug - Thu, 17 Oct 2019 07:32:56 EST Uv5i7HTb No.101604 Reply
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My advice to you is to stop using the word "trap". Its harmful and disrespectful, and if you actually end up connecting with the person behind the fetish, you might regret it.

Unfortunately the rest you have to work out for yourself, probably through experience...
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DrWorm !Jq.HCcHctg - Thu, 17 Oct 2019 09:41:49 EST /t1ngeho No.101605 Reply
>>101603
Traps aren't trans. The term originated from this site.

If that's all this thread was supposed to be, consider it already locked.
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Nathaniel Debbersare - Thu, 17 Oct 2019 18:27:44 EST DiCU30tX No.101606 Reply
>>101603
Half the fun in sex is the chemistry between you. It's hard to put it into words that aren't either incomplete "her attraction for you and how she acts on that" or just vague like "Interpersonal dynamic".

But it's not just their body. It's not even their demeanor though that's closer. It's how the two of you react to each other and how things escalate. What shit turns you on beyond crossing gender lines? Being dominated? being in control? Being wanted? Making her go wild? Find that, find what she likes, find a way to feed those things into each other. Enjoy the runaway train feeling.
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William Pockson - Sun, 27 Oct 2019 07:34:04 EST hgEtH62S No.101619 Reply
>>101604
>>101605

Yeah you're right, I've got I to the mindset of calling most people that aren't cis traps. It's a bad habit
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William Pockson - Sun, 27 Oct 2019 07:35:22 EST hgEtH62S No.101620 Reply
>>101606

Thanks, I haven't thought about it like that. I was just mostly thinking of my reaction to porn and not my gf. Thank you for the advice!
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William Pockson - Sun, 27 Oct 2019 07:36:44 EST hgEtH62S No.101621 Reply
>>101619

But I also do mean traps as well, that probably is something to think about as well
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Nicholas Sedgekig - Wed, 06 Nov 2019 07:39:22 EST E/zym4yC No.101641 Reply
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>>101603
I have a similar problem, in that I'm primarily attracted to feminine men/imagining myself as one, and my gf quickly found out that she doesn't go for any kinky shit at all. This ends up not being as big a problem for my performance as I thought. Nature is strong enough, and your dick will know what to do. Just enjoy the ride, and think about feminine peanus if you need to hurry it up.
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Albert Fenderman - Wed, 06 Nov 2019 23:18:11 EST Hmsx4aXI No.101643 Reply
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>>101603
Personally in my youth I spent a fair deal of time looking at, shall we say intense, pornography from japan. This included traps w/e and did hold my interest over vanilla porn. In the end having a few relationships with women (and a few men), having just 'normal' sex blew my mind and ended any seriousness I had about realizing any of the weird shit I've beat off to irl.
Fast forward a couple of years I did hookup with a transexual man, who had titties and a dick, and it was pretty splendid.
Anyhow, since you are a virgin, I seriously recommend you just focus on building chemistry with people around them. Men, and women can provide you a level of pleasure (and companionship) that is 420 lit. Don't worry too much, just go with the flooooow.
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Betsy Merringline - Sun, 10 Nov 2019 16:56:11 EST 30v+83g1 No.101660 Reply
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>>101643
That response helped me to think about it clearly, thanks I will try and just not focus on it and focus on building a relationship
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Jenny Brollydut - Mon, 14 Dec 2020 10:11:20 EST kjfhPPCd No.102890 Reply
>>101643
How old were you when technology became a thing. I end up seeing so much trendy shit and can’t filter it out other than find the best in that sphere.
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Martin Didgeham - Sun, 07 Feb 2021 22:09:21 EST Al3eW4H4 No.103129 Reply
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>>101603
I wrote you a really long this but I didnt send it.
I'm personally very sorry that you got one of your developmental milestones kinked on you. It's not right, someone should have protected you, and society at large share all these failing for everyone it happens to.
People do get desensitized to content, and it quickly finds way to increase the dopamine hit by adding extra layers to it, creating a feedback loop where you need more to function that is provided in real life.
I suspect if you go somehwere and dont look at adult content, like dont bring a phone go do a work retreat somewhere, you'll probably be naturally into girls .
People definitely can steer their neural network towards various stimuli, esp if theyre smart, so if you want it give it a solid go, youhave to establish a new web of interacting emotional responses to normal Just be honest with your girl friend if it comes up. This isn't your fault dude not really.
Look man, sounds like she had no shot probably against what you found. that is a powerful form of content. And jsut remember, dont let em tease you either. People have other health things going on, in real life it's not like porn, everyone needs a healthy mind and body together with a relationship that makes it worth risking these sorts of incidents.
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