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my current bf is the same way, which is ironic because we met on grindr, but he was on there because he specifically didn't want a relationship he just wanted casual sex but we ended up talking and hitting it off, so much so that we even waited until like the third date before we did anything like normal people
i think it's important to differentiate between sexual and romantic attraction, i think a lot of people can still enjoy sex with people they aren't romantically attracted to, as like a bonding thing or just because it feels good, and they can be sexual partners and friends for a while but will distinctly never fall in love, never get to the point where you see or at least talk to each other every single day, or go on dates, my bf identifies as bi but isn't out to most people, and has said a lot that he just like dick and having sex and knows it's much easier for a guy to pull another guy but has never caught feelings for a man, and he's said many times he legitimately wouldn't be with me if I read as anything close to a guy, which i liked because at least on some level there was a small insecurity about him being bi, but there was even a time where he just jabbed his hand into my dick as we were starting to have sex and he was like i'm sorry i genuinely forgot, and i believe him i don't think he would hurt me on purpose just to make me feel better about myself lol, which in addition to being a huge ego boost kind of makes me think all things considered he'd prefer i didn't have one, even though he said it's a huge turn on for him and best of both worlds and everything, he categorically doesn't bottom and I can think of almost nothing i'd want to do less than top him, plus he said he didn't mind blowing me but i don't care for it that much anyway and he said he doesn't really get that much out it, maybe the novelty wore off cause he used to for sure lol, so if anything it kind of just gets in the way and makes it less convenient to have sex, it doesn't work that well and wouldn't be nearly big enough to feel good even if he was into it, and like i said topping feels really wrong to me, I would not feel comfortable at all seeing either of us in that position, nttawwt obviously i just am the opposite of into it
so i think kind of two different things going on, one is you're turned on by dicks and have a proclivity for submission regardless of gender and that's its own thing and the other is that you're heteroflexible so to speak and can have fun with your bros jacking each other off while you play videogames, but that'll never turn into love the way it would for a girl or someone who ticks that box at least
>>104611
>erectile tgirls have to walk a thin line in taking enough hormones to develop boobs without losing the ability to get hard, and looking for that in a partner puts you on the unfavorable side of the market.
it's really next to impossible to find if you don't live in a huge metropolitan area, the odds are really stacked against you whether it will be functional, big enough to be satisfying, and on a woman who has an interest in using it at all let alone on you, and is far enough along their transition and convincing enough to distinctly hit that wild side sweet spot where you genuinely see a woman with a penis not a feminine man or something in between. User is currently banned from all boards |
