So I had to not ejaculate all weekend for medical reasons and I got so desperate to feel SOMETHING I decided to stick a finger up my ass while I edge myself. This went surprisingly well. I'd like to let my girlfriend finger my ass next time she blows me but I don't want to fuck up the power dynamic we have right now. How do I let her finger my ass while still making sure she knows the whole time I'm the boss and she's my bitch?