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Thinking about buying a videogame console to my 7yo son

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- Sat, 19 Oct 2019 19:19:43 EST jwpcxnVV No.744387
File: 1571527183219.png -(178138B / 173.96KB, 750x650) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Thinking about buying a videogame console to my 7yo son
But I'm worried that his grades are gonna go to hell. My grades certainly got assfucked when I got my NES as a kid. Should I wait more to buy him a console? Is he gonna be better off without a console?
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Lee Chaolan - Sat, 19 Oct 2019 19:26:01 EST RJ+z6ASz No.744388 Reply
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I don't think we're the right people to ask for parenting advice but if you do make sure he plays GOOD games and learns to be pro at them
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Mr. Resetti - Sat, 19 Oct 2019 19:46:37 EST IcB310ea No.744390 Reply
just let him be normal a little longer
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R.O.B. - Sat, 19 Oct 2019 20:53:47 EST SSYLoEdB No.744394 Reply
I am severely dyslexic and went to shit schools with a working single parent. My mom would read to me as a kid but I had a hard time with it. I couldn't read until about 3rd grade when Pokemon came out, I got into Final Fantasy a little bit after then was playing jrpgs all the time. The last aptitude test I took at school had me at college reading level and I just got a ged and started working at 16. Video games were my teacher.

I guess what I'm saying is buy him a gameboy and give it partial responsibility in raising him.
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Vic Viper - Sat, 19 Oct 2019 21:30:13 EST ad/EhG4w No.744395 Reply
>>744394
This. Get him started young with text heavy RPGs and stuff that encourages puzzle solving skills and strategy. Before you know it you'll be raising a hyper literate master tactician who will be orchestrating schoolyard warfare and manipulating his teachers because he's smarter than everyone.
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Funky Kong - Sat, 19 Oct 2019 23:56:22 EST j75OC4Vb No.744397 Reply
How about you just be his dad? He can play it, but restrict his play time. Make sure he does his homework. Don't be a bitch about it.
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Capt. Bannon - Sat, 19 Oct 2019 23:58:24 EST S876XIIq No.744399 Reply
>>744395
... Because learning to manipulate people is a grrrrate life skillz
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Four - Sun, 20 Oct 2019 00:37:33 EST z+8qOgkR No.744402 Reply
Get your dumbass Kid a Nintendo Switch with the Mariokart bundle so he'll have something to play with others. It's the most accessible device in the market today for kids.
Download the Nintendo Switch Parental control App and get to decide how much play time he gets everyday and what time he gets it without worrying about touching the device.
I reccomend no more than an hour, it's what my niece gets and it's more than enough for her.
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Altaïr Ibn La-Ahad - Sun, 20 Oct 2019 02:06:25 EST E1Mhx4Qr No.744405 Reply
>>744397
This. Use the games as a reward for completing homework and keeping grades up.
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Master-D - Sun, 20 Oct 2019 03:54:38 EST lSh8AEO4 No.744411 Reply
>>744406
This tbh

College is only going to get more expensive and there are esports scholarships now. It'll make him a terrible person, but you won't have the foot the bill for his higher education.
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Funky Kong - Sun, 20 Oct 2019 04:08:38 EST j75OC4Vb No.744413 Reply
>>744411
Make your child a piece of shit because bills is bad.

If he is in america maybe. Not all countries have a stallioned school system.
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Link - Sun, 20 Oct 2019 08:37:38 EST afJjYeFN No.744422 Reply
>>744387
Mine didn't get ruined by computer games. Being depressed and bored and having no expectations of happiness in life did me in.

If you really care and want to be a good parent you won't just leave him alone for hours at a time or use the games as a babysitter and ignore his school work (though a lot of parents do those things and blame everyone but themselves) so maybe give him a console. Give him a tight time limit per night and a bit more per week. If he spends a reasonable amount of time doing homework and obviously does it well, if his teacher praises his effort (not just his results) give him more time. Use it to reward him doing well? Make sure he knows it's because he's trying hard at school. Also make sure he isn't playing video games instead of hanging with friends. They aren't mutually exclusive (especially when he's a bit older and can handle competition/cooperation better and better) by any means but it's still a risk.

Also avoid stuff with microtransactions, stuff that's aimed at 18 year olds and full of 13 year olds and shit like that. Some games are better than others for things.

Maybe you just want to wait a few years and be sure he's developing well and then consider the above issues (and I'm sure I missed some) again.

If you want to be a good *anything* then there's no simple answer. This is not a yes/no question.
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Capt. Bannon - Sun, 20 Oct 2019 08:40:31 EST S876XIIq No.744423 Reply
>>744410
That's one approach to life. If you go that route, not everyone knows you're a scummer, but those who are smart enough to figure you out will have nothing to do with you. Being guileless also opens doors.
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Sora - Sun, 20 Oct 2019 15:09:55 EST KStlqbSK No.744434 Reply
Buy him a Wii or PSP or something easy to hack and hack it with him, put some emulators there, start him off with older stuff so he wont have to deal with modern gaming and maybe maintain his innocence a bit longer
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Serah Farron - Sun, 20 Oct 2019 23:49:16 EST j75OC4Vb No.744450 Reply
>>744434
I agree with this one. Had an SNES emulator on my PSP and played tons of games on it. Had a hscked Wii too.
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Raphael Sorel - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 00:01:19 EST +Qfog5pX No.744451 Reply
i have 2 hacked psps with isos and emulators on 'em. fuck random retro portable consoles that can't run games for shit
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Vectorman - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 01:40:42 EST 2Fb9kySD No.744455 Reply
>>744387
Get him oblivion. Its rated t/m, but if you didnt raise your kid to be a bitch he'll be fine. Either that or get him a pc and emulate banjo kazooie/tooie, legend of zelda, mario 64 etc. Pretty much nintendo games or like spyro/crash and shit.
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Four - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 01:55:41 EST z+8qOgkR No.744456 Reply
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>>744450
I would recommend the 3DS if it wasnt so heavy compared to the PSP. Its difficult to get your 7 year old kid hooked on retro gaming so I still suggest he gets him a switch.

Kinda difficult to find a PSP in good Condition but the Vita is everywhere and more powerful so hacking that thing and jamming games in it better. The OLED screen looks fantastic with Nintendo games for some reason especially Pokemon so I reccomend it. Also getting him into Japanese Role play games in the end game so install Persona 4 in there and see if he likes it.
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James Randi - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 02:56:29 EST Z0O5TmzL No.744457 Reply
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OP ive thought alot about this since im thinking of having kids soon too. Weird i don't feel like an adult despite being solidly in my 30s

>>744422
I think this guys is on the money.
My grade started to slip not because of video games but because of puberty and being a teenager.
I got my first console in 6th grade but was a fine student and kid until highschool.
I think gaming and being a weirdo aren't mutually exclusive.

Don't let games replace parenting and time spent together.
Play with your son.
Put the console in the living room and limit time spent on it.
I was only allowed game time if all my homework was done.

I would even recomend getting him a retro console like the snes and big stack of games so he can't be slowly brainwashed by social media and share culture.
It may give him a deeper appreciation of those things latter in life when he gets them.

Pic related, my favorite game as a kid even tho every one every where thinks its an unbalanced pile of shit.
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James Randi - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 03:05:48 EST Z0O5TmzL No.744458 Reply
>>744457
I was a child of the 90's and my parents let me be raised by TV then games then the internet.
Then when they realized this I was in my 20's and I was already my own person, a person they didn't know or relate to at all.
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Serah Farron - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 03:51:10 EST j75OC4Vb No.744460 Reply
>>744456
I never had a Vita, but, I did hack PSPs for money in my town. Made over a hundred bucks off it.
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Joanna Dark - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 04:18:32 EST zVWb7L54 No.744462 Reply
Introduce him to high skill floor arcade games before his shithead friends introduce him to Fortnite.
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Four - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 04:40:23 EST z+8qOgkR No.744464 Reply
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>>744460
The Vita is powerful little device and you can do a lot with it. Still kinda expensive if you buy it locally but I got pch-1001 with the OLED screen from Osaka for dirt cheap and it's been great.
A little warning though, the battery for the Japanese model has a slight different battery than all the others and they are difficult to find but it's worth it for the price difference.
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Pyramid Head - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 22:04:09 EST GgQA1+tD No.744498 Reply
Lol at buying your child a video game

My mother...she did the best she could
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Sgt. Cortez - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 22:33:00 EST ds13wuku No.744501 Reply
>>744498
Might as well buy him some oxy and do a couple of fat lines with him amirite
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Four - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 22:41:09 EST qM9XlB9v No.744502 Reply
>>744501
Well not exactly but I still think some video games are bad for children. Games that fuck up their attention span or try and create habits but those are mainly found in the Phone and iPad stores. Those games are made specifically to create addicts and gamblers out of children
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Johnny Cage - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 22:47:11 EST VGyy4orQ No.744503 Reply
>>744422
Definitely this. OP you're a good dad for asking this. I'd recommend trying to help him with his homework if he really needs help, just be there to help him problem solve. Also, yes try to incentivize doing homework/chores with videogames as a reward.

I grew up on a little bit of everything, with way too much free videogame time but I turned out pretty OK. Pretty intelligent, not socially awkward necessarily (I've fostered a somewhat misanthropic view as a result of my own personal drug choices), physically in good health, my main problem is drugs. Anyway, best of luck OP!
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Gutsman - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 23:05:54 EST 2Fb9kySD No.744505 Reply
Lol I dont know if this is the right way to raise a kid, but my friend knows his son loves video games/anime and from a young age, like hes loved that shit since he was like 5. As the kid got older and wanted to buy games and shit my friend came up with a rule, on top of giving him like 10 bucks a week for chores, hed also give him a penny per push up/sit up. And a dollar for every mile he ran. The kid just started highschool and hes in shape, plays sports and is quite popular, even though hes a huge weeb. Loves Sword Art and the Persona series. Its a strategy I would suggest to most parents of weeaboos. My friend also loves videogames and anime so that might be why he came up with it. Hes also Mexican, so from a cultural standpoint, liking videogames and anime isnt that weird. And he lets his kid play and watch basically whatever he wants, as long as its not porn. He spends alot of time with him too, and I think thats the main thing, like going hiking and fishing and shit.
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Gutsman - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 23:09:49 EST 2Fb9kySD No.744506 Reply
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>>744504
Four weren't you raised by vegetarians who wouldnt let you play rated M games?
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Cyan - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 23:32:35 EST 7uex4QDh No.744507 Reply
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You're asking how to raise your kid on 420chan.

Throw him an xbox and Morrowind and watch as he retreats further into isolation while other kids are talking about whatever got the heaviest marketing each winter.

He'll get suspended for calling the transfer student N'wah.

You ground him from games and he goes to the nearly abandoned library. Looking through books, he finds Angelic Layer in the Manga section. Harmless enough. Let these seeds grow within him naturally.

Give him the life he deserves.
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Four - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 23:49:21 EST z+8qOgkR No.744508 Reply
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>>744507
>Throw him an XboX
>Kid dies of blunt trauma

Also we're posting in a Brazil thread
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Gutsman - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 23:51:38 EST 2Fb9kySD No.744509 Reply
>>744507
I remember watching angelic layer on Adelphias on demand when I was like 7. God back then if you liked anime, youd watch anything you could get your hands on.
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Gutsman - Mon, 21 Oct 2019 23:52:42 EST 2Fb9kySD No.744510 Reply
>>744508
I dont think its a brazilfag thread. No ones been typing like a kid with enthusiasm
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Four - Tue, 22 Oct 2019 01:18:05 EST z+8qOgkR No.744515 Reply
>>744514
Sometimes when im driving and someone cuts me off I'm like "You N'wah"
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Smithy - Tue, 22 Oct 2019 04:15:07 EST j75OC4Vb No.744521 Reply
>>744519
That's beautiful. I have so much to learn about this board still.
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Four - Tue, 22 Oct 2019 09:10:59 EST z+8qOgkR No.744527 Reply
>>744526
Where I'm from, we dont use the word "Black" to refer to our African friends.
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James Earl Cash - Tue, 22 Oct 2019 09:15:55 EST b2qvrH0F No.744528 Reply
>>744387
I don't see an issue with adding variety to his choices of what he can do at home. If you teach him to not be excessively on the video game console I don't see issues emerging. There's no chance he'd fall on the path of video game addiction. lol I don't know that I fully get video game addiction. What's the point of it? All the various physical drugs are available and take so much less effort to take. lol
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Sophitia Alexandra - Tue, 22 Oct 2019 12:11:52 EST CWMtUB1F No.744530 Reply
>>744527
Ah I see, im from the US, and some blacks dont like being called African Americans because none of their immediate relatives are from Africa and their families have been in the US for generations. A side note in some southern states or in like Virginia, everyone openly uses the word jolly african-american not nigga. They'll even be like lets go to the good Wal-Mart, not the jolly african-american walmart
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Dregs - Tue, 22 Oct 2019 12:22:32 EST BmETl52y No.744531 Reply
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>>744387
Your grades went to shit because your parents didn't pay enough attention to you, not because of the NES. If you don't have the time to sit with your kid and go over their school work, you're failing as a parent. The NES doesn't have much to do with that.
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Dregs - Tue, 22 Oct 2019 12:24:57 EST BmETl52y No.744532 Reply
>>744530
Exactly. I'm not an american european. I'm Canadian. And black people who were born in north america are not american africans. That's actually some low key racist shit, judging people based on their ancestors.
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please buy me a videogame - Tue, 22 Oct 2019 14:49:14 EST N3FvNNPm No.744540 Reply
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>>744531
OP here. I don't even have a son! Y'all got BAMBOOZLED 😂
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Cyan - Tue, 22 Oct 2019 20:42:08 EST 7uex4QDh No.744557 Reply
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>>744508
Ah dammit if so he got me this time

>>744509
You couldn't be picky for sure. I remember my library didn't have book 3 and 5 so I never got the full story.
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please buy me a videogame - Tue, 22 Oct 2019 21:16:26 EST N3FvNNPm No.744558 Reply
OP here again. why is no one mad that I lied that I have a son
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Gikorda - Tue, 22 Oct 2019 21:20:20 EST 4WKVAouL No.744559 Reply
>>74438
Don't this inst the ps2 era bruh.
If you determined just tell him recite pemdas every day to you.

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